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It seems like things are VERY hot and cold with this situation... i go from liking him a lot to not liking him at all lol... clearly he is NOT the one for me, but thank God i wasnt looking for the one..
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Tasha must have gotten blocked... I dont see any of her posts anymore.. :-/ ... but yes, is it a characteristic for Aquarius to be somewhat confrontational? He has a habit of debating and making every little thing more than it is... Like he kinda has a feminine quality about him in the sense that he will ALWAYS voice how he feels about things, and doesnt back down until the other person does (most men i know drop things just to make the woman shut up.. he just continues and goes on and on and on)... and he always seems to want his way and appears to be very controlling... i dont know about this dude..lol, thank God im not seeking anything more than a good time right now because i dont really see this going any further..
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Wait, who was playing the mind games and lying Tasha?
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twice a day = roughly 10-11 times a week.. i could have it 5 times a day and it still wouldnt be enough 
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Its ok Lady! I wasnt offended in even the slightest way
I hope that your Scorpio gives you the ride of your life 
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Tasha: Things have actually been SO AMAZING!!!!!! lol, I dont know what it is but even though I make sure the people I love know when something is wrong and/or needs to be fixed, I sometimes have a hard time communicating or piecing together the exact words that I need.. He is learning this little by little and a couple of days ago, we got into a discussion about what we were "title wise". He wants a relationship and I am just not ready.. but the way he treats me is as if I am already in one. He is so sweet! We talk several times a day and things are just going very smoothly (of course! its always that way in the beginning lol). I have known him for about a yr and a half but dating him for almost 2 months has been so unexpectedly great! I have seen the mind games.. but I'm a scorpio.. lol, so they dont faze me because I know I could do MUCH worse lol..
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and ironically enough, he called and everything is better now
there was miscommunication through the texts which messed things up. i jumped to a conclusion instead of just asking him what happened and yea.... its kinda weird i know lol... i honestly think we complement each other well, especially when it comes to misunderstandings. we both were allowing each other time to speak and it was very nice 
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aquarius men = unpredictability at its fineness!
so.. he texts me saying that i should come over and just relax after i study and he goes out. i say, "cool just let me know" and leave it at that.. then i dont get any response or anything. i'm not upset, but more so disappointed because i dont like liars. if things happened and he couldnt meet up, he could have easily said something. im not too pressed over it though because he isnt the only person i have my eye on lol, so it's more like an "on to the next on until you act right" kinda thing 
do aquarius' break plans that they make like this?... Signed Up:
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and you seem really angry tasha... you should prob get that out bc it doesnt seem healthy.. not even a little bit..
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whooaaa lol, this topic went so far to the left.. i kinda like it though 
i def must defend scorpios though! i hate how we are always described as malicious individuals who basically just live for ourselves and say F the world bc we run it! lol, i just dont like that as soon as i say "im a scorpio" some ppl think they know all about me.. i have yet to encounter a sign that gets as much backlash as scorpios.
random person: hey, whats your sign?
me: im a scorpio
random person: ohh.. you're a scorpio huh? i have heard about you scorpios... "freaks and crazy".. why?
but chea, its crazy bc the aqua had another minor jealousy spill yesterday, but then (of course) covered it up as if he was cool from the jump..
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Is there a such thing? lol, I have been with Leos, Scorpios, Taurus, Virgo.. even Aries (wowers on that one) but NEVER an Aquarius.. I'm curious to know what it's like!... Here are the natals for this specific combo..
Me:
Rising Sign is in 10 Degrees Sagittarius
Sun is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
Moon is in 00 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 28 Degrees Libra.
Venus is in 28 Degrees Scorpio.
Mars is in 15 Degrees Libra.
Jupiter is in 22 Degrees Aries.
Saturn is in 18 Degrees Sagittarius.
Uranus is in 24 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 05 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 01 Degrees Aries.
Him:
Rising Sign is in 24 Degrees Taurus
Sun is in 06 Degrees Aquarius.
Moon is in 05 Degrees Aquarius.
Mercury is in 12 Degrees Capricorn.
Venus is in 24 Degrees Capricorn.
Mars is in 27 Degrees Sagittarius.
Jupiter is in 02 Degrees Cancer.
Saturn is in 18 Degrees Capricorn
Uranus is in 07 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 12 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 17 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 16 Degrees Aquarius.
Well, right now, I have lowkey been seeing some "jealousy" remarks from this Aqua, which seems contradictory to what I have read about them. He has asked me "So you're not talking to anyone else right?" or "yea right.. you know you have men calling you left and right" and it's kinda like... well actually I'm single lol, so i am dating around (only sleeping with Aqua tho) but nothing as "serious" as with him and I... It's a slightly cute characteristic (personality trait) since I have a little jealousy and possession too, but everytime I read about Aqua's, its depicted as if they are just free spirits who don't get jealous.. He also is more affectionate than I thought he would be. Always touching me (not necess sexual, just in general) and kissing me.. I wonder..
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Awww good!
Well, right now, I have lowkey been seeing some "jealousy" remarks from this Aqua, which seems contradictory to what I have read about them. He has asked me "So you're not talking to anyone else right?" or "yea right.. you know you have men calling you left and right" and it's kinda like... well actually I'm single lol, so i am dating around (only sleeping with Aqua tho) but nothing as "serious" as with him and I... It's a slightly cute characteristic (personality trait) since I have a little jealousy and possession too, but everytime I read about Aqua's, its depicted as if they are just free spirits who don't get jealous.. He also is more affectionate than I thought he would be. Always touching me (not necess sexual, just in general) and kissing me.. I wonder..
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hmmm.. see i guess it's possible...
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It's just SO weird though! Like even right now, he texts and calls saying how he cant wait to see me again, and how beautiful and amazing I am. He even mentions often how much he is really digging me (sorry for my slang lol) and things of that nature.. I have known him for a little over a year, and he has always shown his interest, but I was in a relationship up until.. a little over a month ago. Right now, I'm just enjoying all of the time we spend and taking it slow. It just seems as if he is more emotionally outspoken than I am.. Isn't this stereotypically the opposite? lol
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It's just SO weird though! Like even right now, he texts and calls saying how he cant wait to see me again, and how beautiful and amazing I am. He even mentions often how much he is really digging me (sorry for my slang lol) and things of that nature.. I have known him for a little over a year, and he has always shown his interest, but I was in a relationship up until.. a little over a month ago. Right now, I'm just enjoying all of the time we spend and taking it slow. It just seems as if he is more emotionally outspoken than I am.. Isn't this stereotypically the opposite? lol
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Yea, I have read a lot of sites that say it's a BIG no no, but one of my best friends for almost 10 yrs is an aquarius. Plus, there is this intensity between this new guy and I.. it's so.. unexplainable... I love that he keeps steady contact and begs to see me
Hmm.. who knows..
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tie between scorpio, leo, and aquarius 
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I wonder what it is that makes things so "just not there"... With us right now, it's def full of passion and just amazing
Plus he is such a sweetie.. Can anyone understand exactly what the different planets say about the combo above though? For the most part, the signs under the planets seem to match pretty well... Signed Up:
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Is there a such thing? lol, I have been with Leos, Scorpios, Taurus, Virgo.. even Aries (wowers on that one) but NEVER an Aquarius.. I'm curious to know what it's like!... Here are the natals for this specific combo..
Me:
Rising Sign is in 10 Degrees Sagittarius
Sun is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
Moon is in 00 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 28 Degrees Libra.
Venus is in 28 Degrees Scorpio.
Mars is in 15 Degrees Libra.
Jupiter is in 22 Degrees Aries.
Saturn is in 18 Degrees Sagittarius.
Uranus is in 24 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 05 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 01 Degrees Aries.
Him:
Rising Sign is in 24 Degrees Taurus
Sun is in 06 Degrees Aquarius.
Moon is in 05 Degrees Aquarius.
Mercury is in 12 Degrees Capricorn.
Venus is in 24 Degrees Capricorn.
Mars is in 27 Degrees Sagittarius.
Jupiter is in 02 Degrees Cancer.
Saturn is in 18 Degrees Capricorn
Uranus is in 07 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 12 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 17 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 16 Degrees Aquarius.
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Is there a such thing? lol, I have been with Leos, Scorpios, Taurus, Virgo.. even Aries (wowers on that one) but NEVER an Aquarius.. I'm curious to know what it's like!... Here are the natals for this specific combo..
Me:
Rising Sign is in 10 Degrees Sagittarius
Sun is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
Moon is in 00 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 28 Degrees Libra.
Venus is in 28 Degrees Scorpio.
Mars is in 15 Degrees Libra.
Jupiter is in 22 Degrees Aries.
Saturn is in 18 Degrees Sagittarius.
Uranus is in 24 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 05 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 01 Degrees Aries.
Him:
Rising Sign is in 24 Degrees Taurus
Sun is in 06 Degrees Aquarius.
Moon is in 05 Degrees Aquarius.
Mercury is in 12 Degrees Capricorn.
Venus is in 24 Degrees Capricorn.
Mars is in 27 Degrees Sagittarius.
Jupiter is in 02 Degrees Cancer.
Saturn is in 18 Degrees Capricorn
Uranus is in 07 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 12 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 17 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 16 Degrees Aquarius.
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Oh yes, I have been giving him space... It just gets hard sometimes, esp. because he wishes he wasn't going through what he is going through. He continues to call and wants to still see me when possible. It isn't a cut buddy situation either; I was in those for 3 years.. so yup, I'm sure of it!! Space is just so hard when you are attracted to someone so much. I went to the Venus Files site and it was AMAZING in terms of compatibility...
But yes... I don't believe in "waiting"... I just believe in chilling and enjoying the moment. Whats the rush?
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This site is amazing!!
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His natal chart
Rising Sign is in 22 Degrees Cancer
Sun is in 10 Degrees Aries
Moon is in 10 Degrees Virgo
Mercury is in 21 Degrees Pisces
Venus is in 26 Degrees Taurus
Mars is in 25 Degrees Capricorn
Jupiter is in 04 Degrees Taurus
Saturn is in 02 Degrees Capricorn
Uranus is in 01 Degrees Capricorn
Neptune is in 10 Degrees Capricorn
Pluto is in 12 Degrees Scorpio
N. Node is in 23 Degrees Pisces.
Mine:
Rising Sign is in 14 Degrees Capricorn
Sun is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
Moon is in 01 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 28 Degrees Libra.
Venus is in 28 Degrees Scorpio.
Mars is in 16 Degrees Libra.
Jupiter is in 22 Degrees Aries.
Saturn is in 18 Degrees Sagittarius.
Uranus is in 24 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 05 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 01 Degrees Aries
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Well... I have been dating this Aries for 7 months now. I met him through an associate of mine a little over a year ago. At first, I was not interested in him. Well, overtime, him and I start to converse more. We start dating in January, and everything seems amazing... Dinners, outings, playoff games.. you name it! However, one night when we were talking, he mentioned that he and his ex (Leo) broke up the actual day him and I met, and how they were together for three years. Then he would begin telling me how she would contact him, yet he would ignore the calls... He would say that he was "indifferent" to her, yet always seem to have this anger against her. On top of this, he was finding it difficult to find a job, and he was going through a lot financially and socially with his surrounding friends...
But then things began to move too fast and we ended up getting caught up in our infatuations. I ended up meeting his parents 4 months into our relationship, and then I would begin seeing him everyday!!
Eventually after 5 months, he put the breaks on the out of control train, saying that "we should take it slower so we can really enjoy what it happening instead of rushing everything"... Then he mentioned "although I'm over my ex, I still need to make sure I can place the feelings correctly before moving on with you..." and ultimately said, "although i don't want to be with her, i cant be with you either until i know i can be that man 110% that i can be for you.. and right now i'm not there"... He has his moments but for the most part.. but I can still feel the emotional strain and because of this, it causes emotional disconnect within me as well..It sucks because he is such a good man...
So now this leaves me in an awkward position...It's been 7 months, and I am dating an emotionally unavailable man... We still go out, hang with mutual friends, his mother still calls to check on me... My parents are still there for him... but yet... he is emotionally unavailable because of financial issues, his horrible job, and romantic emotional disconnect ...What to do?
What I think it is is a combo of him not being ready and me dealing with new found family issues that are affecting my perceptions on relationships. The break is now teaching me how to be patient. I guess I just feel that even if two ppl are going through things, that they can go through things together...
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i've def been feeling blah... blahblahblahhh
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An his ex is a Leo...
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His natal chart
Rising Sign is in 22 Degrees Cancer
Sun is in 10 Degrees Aries
Moon is in 10 Degrees Virgo
Mercury is in 21 Degrees Pisces
Venus is in 26 Degrees Taurus
Mars is in 25 Degrees Capricorn
Jupiter is in 04 Degrees Taurus
Saturn is in 02 Degrees Capricorn
Uranus is in 01 Degrees Capricorn
Neptune is in 10 Degrees Capricorn
Pluto is in 12 Degrees Scorpio
N. Node is in 23 Degrees Pisces.
Mine:
Rising Sign is in 14 Degrees Capricorn
Sun is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
Moon is in 01 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 28 Degrees Libra.
Venus is in 28 Degrees Scorpio.
Mars is in 16 Degrees Libra.
Jupiter is in 22 Degrees Aries.
Saturn is in 18 Degrees Sagittarius.
Uranus is in 24 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 05 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 01 Degrees Aries
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RRRRRRRRAAWWWWWWWWWWWRRRRRRRRR come to momma! ahaha
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lol@ Fallstar.. Of course, I'm a sctrong young woman, so even when things upset me, I hide it well 
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Yay choco
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Leos love me =]
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OMG Nara, are you me? haha like a mirror of me or something, bc your post just now sounded EXACTLY like my thoughts when overlooking this situation... It's like I date around to see if anyone will make me as happy or if someone will make me feel as comfortable, but so far no one has hit those points. Am I saying that no one will? Hell no lol, however I do believe that as of right now, that is one of the reasons behind both of us acting the way we act. Other ppl can be cool and great ppl overall, but if the person doesn't top the "one" person, then its like ohhhkkk.. back to u =]
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Apologies FallStar, it's simply the Scorpio in me... Water sign or not, I am a fiesty firey young woman haha. Thanks for ya wishes though =]
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Leo men loooooovvvvvvveeeeeeeee to chase...lol, just wanted to add that in... which also perpecuates the situation 
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Thats a question that I ask myself constantly.. well not constantly because I have other things to think about aha, but it's something I think about often... I think I'm really just scared to fall for someone like that because the strength of the connection is already like "whoa" you know? So it's out of fear on my part. He has mentioned it, and so has our mutual friends, but I'm just scared... I mean, who knows what will happen by the end of 2008?
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But mind you, tiki, the connection started 1 yr before I ended it and started seeing someone else...so the foundation isn't built on the hiding, sneaking or sex that you assumed it was built on. Questions def. should be asked before individuals assume... Him and I had been dating for a year before I ended it because I realized it was too emotionally congested, so I ended it with him and began seeing someene else, which he eventually began to do as well. But in the course of the next two years, we have not been able to let go of each other. So the foundation was based on friendship in H.S (prior to us dating), then another year of dating...
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Fall star, if possible, try to use your personal experience for predicting your future, but not others. So many times I see ppl saying "HELL NO IT WON'T LAST" or some other negative thing to say simply because it didn't work with THEM. Mind you, I'm sure you are not my friend who I speak of, so before you go on with your "precise statistical methods" on how 95% of Leo/Scorpio relations never last, take a look at why your experience didn't work for you and use that as something that simply didn't work for you.
The point of my post was to see if anyone else has this crazy connection, not to put on a genie turban and form a prediction through a crystal ball as to how one BELIEVES the friendship will go 
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Yay for Nara!!! lol, about time someone says they too feel the strong bond between Leos/Scorpios and not the INITIAL spark, because trust me, it's much different when its three years as opposed to 2 months or whatever it was in the other instance.
About you thinking it's 'silly' (if you will) for me to use college as an excuse to be free, I agree to a certain extent. In my opinion, societal views of "true adults" (aka those past 23 years of age) feel as if women should not be free to go enjoy and date around, but instead stay in relationships. With that, I feel by using the "excuse" of my certain state, it appeases any thoughts of immaturity or childishness simply because I am comfortable with where I am and what I'm doing. I do understand what you are saying though because even ppl out of college have a similar mindset to my own.
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Another Scorpio/Leo combo
Gotta love it Signed Up:
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lol, wow...