Hilarious! Some cheaters, some feign innocence but all dig the Mafioso... Why so many friends, you guys?
I live with two Cancers with venus in Gemini and Mars in Leo. One is my man and the other is my landlord's son. They both have been caught with their pants down, ahem. They both also have tons of loyal goons. I'm not talking about buddies that come by - I'm talking about people who leave their homes, board public transportation if they must to come over and just be there like they are homeless!!! Why?
Cap with MOON IN ARIES!!! Then I say take the b-word to the liquor store and give her a $ 20. She'll show you what a good time is really like.
Seriously. I'm a Cap with Moon In Aries and we hate show and pretense and being in trendy places with trendy people slash un-trendy who are there trying to have some coolness rub off on them so I think you should skip the bar and the Starbucks and the Circus (animals should be free and so much horrible stuff happens to them behind the scenes that that might backfire and get her all pissed).
What made you think she had moon in Aries by the way?
If she does - your best bet is to take her someplace free but nice: the promenade, along a pier, somewhere where she can see the skyline. That way, if you guys don't click, she won't feel obligated and its an easy out and because all she'll want to do is find out about you without any distractions or reasons to put on a show anyway. If the two of you click already, take her to a pottery/soapmaking/jewelrymaking/photography class and she will have your baby! She will be happy to be learning something new, you will both leave with a keepsake of the night which will make Cappy think it therefore must be Fate.
You can't see what discipline is because behind your false sense of "right is might" you don't know how to watch someone control their unruly child. You thought this Virgo FRENEMY was somehow not worthy like you o-the-great-flake so you considered it abuse. Want me to prove it? 1. You didn't report this, did you flake? 2. You KNOW it was discipline, don't you flake? 3. Righteousness is a virtue. I know what discipline is and what abuse is....you obviously don't. And if you did, you were too much of a coward to step up.
-All the reasons why: Virgos are losers...I am not talking about discipline, I'm talking about psychological abuse for the THIRD time. I am the parent whose house all the kids hang out at so I'm straight as far as childrearing goes. My kids are gifts from God and I feel so blessed that God allowed me to be the vessel that borne them. I respect them as people, period and I watch my mouth when I speak to them. I think that's the least ALL parents can do. Its only cowardice that makes people do things to kids that they wouldn't dare try to do to adults (like beat them) so sit down and shut up.
Second: I'm so not a snitch. I don't believe in the child protective system and I would not have them taken out of their home, put in foster care so they could end up on Ritalin, molested and being passed from house to house. Kids who go into foster care have horrible rates of success in life and I don't consider it helping to do that to a child. If anything I would and often do, invite the kid to spend a week or two with me to give their parents time to cool off and let them have some peace for a minute while I talk to people in their family.
Third: The Virgo frenemy was the topic of conversation this weekend because she advised one of our friends to break up with her husband and then tried to set him up using a girl the Virgo works with as a decoy. He didn't fall for it, our Aquarius friend told him what's up and the husband has banned this b-word from coming anywhere around them!!! I love it. My favorite part was he was so mad, he was calling all her friends (us) b-words and h-words and saying he doesn't want us calling or coming over but I talked to him. he realized that I'm supercool, I never encourage a gilr to leave her man and I'm not a b-word, a c-word, an h-word or anything else and he gave me a big hug and listened to my advice. Its too bad that I can't see her face when the Aquarius tells her what he said and that he's not mad at ME!
I notice that Venus in Gemini totally invalidates like half of what cancer is supposed to be about. Cancers with Venus in Gemini are not neccessairily family types, they cheat and they always have a bunch of henchmen, like mafiosos.
Does anyone have any experience with this?
Have you looked at his Venus? If its in Gemini, that's the problem. Cancer men with Venus in Gemini are the worst cheaters and liars. As far as the drinking, I notice that most water sign men do drink too much...
25thDecan, that was awesome! And you've proved that Cap women are hyocrites of the highest degree.
-Shut up. He proved that Virgoes are Haters to the dmned 25th Decan that's what he proved.
All cardinals signs tend to be very pretentious, and thate goes double for Caps.
-Check this out. I'm a Cap, with moon in Aries and Libra Rising. All three cardinal signs. Maybe that's why you two are so far beneath me.
Maybe. I like that too, Capgirl.
I love that book: Sextrology? It's the best. No, I think what they mean by "sleeper" is like "the sleeper hit of the summer" or the "Sleeper bestseller", like something that everyone overlooked that suddenly comes to be recognized as the best...
Seriously Brahn, you need to meet more Caps. I don't know any like you have described. First of all, I don't believe a cap woman would ride anyone to teh top for the main reason that we don't believe ourselves to be beautiful and sexy and able to keep a man long if that's all we have to offer.
Second, we are givers, not takers. I hate when I can't help someone. I hate to be a burden and I hate to stop and wait on anyone else to do something. When you use someone you are at the mercy of their luck, their intelligence and their kindness.
Third, most Caps have had to be responsible since they were little. You don't just stop being dutyful.
Fourth, I have never met a Capricorn that was comfortable with making a scene, male or female. I could get the worst service and I will deal with it rather than get the waiter or waitress in trouble or start screaming and making a fit.
Fifth, I have been with the same Cancer with everything in Leo, so I guess he's really a Leo, since 1992. When I finally stopped worshipping him and stood up to him for the first time like six hours ago, he was so stunned he couldn't believe it. All he did was ask me to work full time, take care of the house, the kids and most of all him and be perky and pretty doing it, so what horrible friend filled my head with lies and made me say those horrible things he's STILL wondering...
So, I think you know one horrible Cap with probably everything in Sag and everytime you see her traits even a little in another Cap, you believe we are all like that. Wrong.
I think the problem is that you are a Virgo- YUCK!!!
I absolutely hate Virgoes. I hate them. They are mean, they have forked tongues, they love to gossip and put people down, they are uber-suspicious and they are sneaky. Anytime a virgo is in the mix, they are causing discord. I had an ex-friend with a Moon-in-virgo and she used to abuse her kids pyschologically to the point where I would cry because I felt so sorry for them. I had another Virgo frenemy who joined our group and brought out the worst in everyone. Soon, our friends were all mad each other, we were all talking about each other behind each other's backs in retaliation and who was there to instigate and then carry back everything that was said- Ms. Virgo of course.
Virgo men are such petty losers. I hate them!!! I have Libra Rising and Virgo men always like me but when they ask me out there are always so many strings because they are afraid of getting used. Its like relax already.
Moon In Virgo
I want to talk to anyone who was raised by people with Moon-in-Virgo for a book. I am definitely curious about that moon sign because so far EVERY person whom I've tried to interview that has a moon in virgo and has children has a really weird relationship with their children. Of all my friends who have moms with m-o-v they say they grew up with really low self-esteem sometimes physical abuse and a feeling of worthlessness...Can anyone clarify this?