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Thank you for replies everyone.
Never met Scorpioman before and I've read scorpions are good at manipulating so just wanted to be sure he's not up to something as such. All the replies above are helpful.
Udylaw1 - No - definitely don't intend to date my boss and make a mess with my career
Never met Scorpioman before and I've read scorpions are good at manipulating so just wanted to be sure he's not up to something as such. All the replies above are helpful.
Udylaw1 - No - definitely don't intend to date my boss and make a mess with my career
need help understanding my new scorpioboss (25th oct). I am going to write down instances which make me think about his behaviour and want to know what others think.
He joined our team in Aug this year and just before he started I was promoted as lead of the team. I am a aqua moon and pisces sun. I did read about scorpio's strong personality and charisma so I was aware of him using this every now and than. We are team of 3 ladies and one more man apart from him. So far I've seen some extreme sides of his nature with other colleagues i.e. giving verbal warning to one of my colleague for just a complain about her and asking another person to resign on the day! But with me so far I see he has different attitude.
I used to think this is mainly because he needs my help every now and than so he is being mindful about his attitude but since last few weeks am a bit unsure of his behaviour.
The first I noticed his different attitude towards me was when one day whole team was taking about leaving early and we were teasing him that we all need to leave early on Friday......I joined in with the team just for fun and at point where he said no not everyone can leave early - I just said I give up and put a pretend sad face and went back to my desk.....next thing I know was he came over to my desk and in serious way said to me that if most of my work is done - I can leave! I was a bit surprised and no wonder rest team did complained why he just told me and not rest.....he just laughed and left - this was first time I kind of felt a bit weird.
another instance was when we all girls decided to go on long lunch and I suggested we inform him we'll be late. next thing is he makes fun that we are all girls going but than asks where and with whom...I stopped girls there before they answer and told him that we don't really need to tell him who we go with...he laughed and than came back to me and said sorry he wasn't being nosy.
Friday before his birthday on 25th oct -I decided to trick him before giving him the birthday card signed by team. So, I went to him with serious look and card in normal envelope...basically made him feel as if I was about to declare I am resigning.....it was fun to see him nervous and scared -he went all red and nearly biting his fingers as if he was hoping I am not gonna give him bad news!! when he knew it was a trick - he laughed and said he's too emotional.....that's when he mentioned to me about an instance where he was very impressed of how in stressful situation I did something and did not show my tears but carried on as normal - to him it was impressive which I still don't und why.
soon after that i was off for week's holiday - but I remember on last day before holiday during a conversation he looked straight into my eyes and for a minute I don't know what happened - I almost forgot what we were talking about....and he commented 'you almost fell asleep there didn't you?'....I remember feeling strange with that stare an
He joined our team in Aug this year and just before he started I was promoted as lead of the team. I am a aqua moon and pisces sun. I did read about scorpio's strong personality and charisma so I was aware of him using this every now and than. We are team of 3 ladies and one more man apart from him. So far I've seen some extreme sides of his nature with other colleagues i.e. giving verbal warning to one of my colleague for just a complain about her and asking another person to resign on the day! But with me so far I see he has different attitude.
I used to think this is mainly because he needs my help every now and than so he is being mindful about his attitude but since last few weeks am a bit unsure of his behaviour.
The first I noticed his different attitude towards me was when one day whole team was taking about leaving early and we were teasing him that we all need to leave early on Friday......I joined in with the team just for fun and at point where he said no not everyone can leave early - I just said I give up and put a pretend sad face and went back to my desk.....next thing I know was he came over to my desk and in serious way said to me that if most of my work is done - I can leave! I was a bit surprised and no wonder rest team did complained why he just told me and not rest.....he just laughed and left - this was first time I kind of felt a bit weird.
another instance was when we all girls decided to go on long lunch and I suggested we inform him we'll be late. next thing is he makes fun that we are all girls going but than asks where and with whom...I stopped girls there before they answer and told him that we don't really need to tell him who we go with...he laughed and than came back to me and said sorry he wasn't being nosy.
Friday before his birthday on 25th oct -I decided to trick him before giving him the birthday card signed by team. So, I went to him with serious look and card in normal envelope...basically made him feel as if I was about to declare I am resigning.....it was fun to see him nervous and scared -he went all red and nearly biting his fingers as if he was hoping I am not gonna give him bad news!! when he knew it was a trick - he laughed and said he's too emotional.....that's when he mentioned to me about an instance where he was very impressed of how in stressful situation I did something and did not show my tears but carried on as normal - to him it was impressive which I still don't und why.
soon after that i was off for week's holiday - but I remember on last day before holiday during a conversation he looked straight into my eyes and for a minute I don't know what happened - I almost forgot what we were talking about....and he commented 'you almost fell asleep there didn't you?'....I remember feeling strange with that stare an
We got on if we had other things to concentrate on. If we spent too much time together that's when it got bad.
I so agree to this!!! that's the most diffcult part - its like even though we hardly get much time together - when we do - i end up feeling annoyed or frustrated with him! happened this weekend but i reminded myself to talk to him about it...as pisces i find it hard to put my emotions in words but am learning to do this...
Thanks so much for your feedback MadMarchRam - indeed same with our relation - love is there but not shown. I am going to work on patience and communication - like tomorrow is my birthday - he hasnt planned anything but i told him I want to go restaurant (even that is sometimes difficult to just sit and enjoy a meal together!) let's see. Fingers crossed!
We got on if we had other things to concentrate on. If we spent too much time together that's when it got bad.
I so agree to this!!! that's the most diffcult part - its like even though we hardly get much time together - when we do - i end up feeling annoyed or frustrated with him! happened this weekend but i reminded myself to talk to him about it...as pisces i find it hard to put my emotions in words but am learning to do this...
Thanks so much for your feedback MadMarchRam - indeed same with our relation - love is there but not shown. I am going to work on patience and communication - like tomorrow is my birthday - he hasnt planned anything but i told him I want to go restaurant (even that is sometimes difficult to just sit and enjoy a meal together!) let's see. Fingers crossed!
Hi Starlover,
sorry to know about your friend - its kind of true many people take Pisces advantage and we dont even realize that's where it gets messy.
so far money has not been an issue (fingers crossed) but yes i do know Aries do have impulsive buying habits and with my hubby this usually is when he is sure he has enough to spend and not ask others for it.....weird enough my cancerian ex used to ask others for money and has asked me to buy him things
sorry to know about your friend - its kind of true many people take Pisces advantage and we dont even realize that's where it gets messy.
so far money has not been an issue (fingers crossed) but yes i do know Aries do have impulsive buying habits and with my hubby this usually is when he is sure he has enough to spend and not ask others for it.....weird enough my cancerian ex used to ask others for money and has asked me to buy him things
Thanks for your reply MadmarchRam,
may be you can help me here - as you know its difficult relation and i have now started to appreciate him a lot more than before and i try to understand all differences between us but what i would be interested in knowing is what you found difficult about your ex? did you notice differences? when i ask my hubby - he says we dont have differences but i always feel as if we are so different.
i know i have need to feel a bond which i used to feel with my ex but no matter how much i try i dont feel same with my aries man.
if you are happy to share - do let me know your views on what your ex could have done differently? or where you think pisces dont match with aries and need to work in different way?
may be you can help me here - as you know its difficult relation and i have now started to appreciate him a lot more than before and i try to understand all differences between us but what i would be interested in knowing is what you found difficult about your ex? did you notice differences? when i ask my hubby - he says we dont have differences but i always feel as if we are so different.
i know i have need to feel a bond which i used to feel with my ex but no matter how much i try i dont feel same with my aries man.
if you are happy to share - do let me know your views on what your ex could have done differently? or where you think pisces dont match with aries and need to work in different way?
Hi Littlearies,
my answer might not excatly what you want to know but i am pisces(sun) and aquarius (moon). i've have read aquarius moon is cold and person with aquarius moon is not generally in touch with their emotions which is kind of true for me.
Its hard for me to show my emotions and sometimes i dont even know how i am feeling. it might be true that aquarius are hard to pin down and that's due to lot many other things taking our interest and occupying our minds
my answer might not excatly what you want to know but i am pisces(sun) and aquarius (moon). i've have read aquarius moon is cold and person with aquarius moon is not generally in touch with their emotions which is kind of true for me.
Its hard for me to show my emotions and sometimes i dont even know how i am feeling. it might be true that aquarius are hard to pin down and that's due to lot many other things taking our interest and occupying our minds
So this post is for any Pisceans involved with Aries who might be finding their relation a challenge.
I am pisces (sun) and Aquarius (moon) and my hubby is Aries (sun & moon)
Our marriage was arranged marriage and just before my marriage I walked away from a short relation with cancerman.
Since my marriage ??? I had hard time living with my hubby and understanding his personality ??? (if you are in astrology ??? you??ll know aries and cancerien are 2 very different personalities. Aries comes across as strong whilst cancer is much gentle). Lots of challenges and differences which always made me think about my cancerian bf.
5 years of my marriage and I have been still thinking about my ex. We didn??t keep in contact during this time but beginning of last year he came into my life. We met and I realized i still had feelings for him.
One full year of push and pull dance between us ??? he wanted to go beyond friendship and have an affair but I didn??t wanted to mess anything so nothing really has happened between us. It??s been 4 weeks my ex has gone silent on me but looking back to everything that has happened between us ??? I have finally realized that I was with wrong person.
I??ve read somewhere pisceans don??t usually know what they want but finally I??ve just wrote down what I want from the man in my life and below is what I want.
?? A man with self-esteem ??? one who would only afford luxury if he can and not ask others
?? A man with honesty ??? one who won??t use me for his needs
?? A man for whom I am the only one and he won??t even think about another women
?? A man who respects me ??? doesn??t leave me hanging or confused
?? A man who has real love for me ??? I don??t need to be always attractive and glamorous and there is no need for me to please him every now and then
When I read above points ??? I realized this is all what my hubby (Aries man) has and cancerman doesn??t have. All the points which mentioned I don??t want is what cancerman showed me he has.
I am not saying all cancerians are bad??_.neither am I saying all cancerman would have negative points I am talking about but the one I know has??_..
I feel as if I have finally awakened from my own illusion about love and the person I loved. So to those pisceans who find understanding aries a bit difficult ??? he is a strong man but that doesn??t necessarily mean he isn??t gentle. Don??t let differences between you ruin this relation ??? maybe he isn??
I am pisces (sun) and Aquarius (moon) and my hubby is Aries (sun & moon)
Our marriage was arranged marriage and just before my marriage I walked away from a short relation with cancerman.
Since my marriage ??? I had hard time living with my hubby and understanding his personality ??? (if you are in astrology ??? you??ll know aries and cancerien are 2 very different personalities. Aries comes across as strong whilst cancer is much gentle). Lots of challenges and differences which always made me think about my cancerian bf.
5 years of my marriage and I have been still thinking about my ex. We didn??t keep in contact during this time but beginning of last year he came into my life. We met and I realized i still had feelings for him.
One full year of push and pull dance between us ??? he wanted to go beyond friendship and have an affair but I didn??t wanted to mess anything so nothing really has happened between us. It??s been 4 weeks my ex has gone silent on me but looking back to everything that has happened between us ??? I have finally realized that I was with wrong person.
I??ve read somewhere pisceans don??t usually know what they want but finally I??ve just wrote down what I want from the man in my life and below is what I want.
?? A man with self-esteem ??? one who would only afford luxury if he can and not ask others
?? A man with honesty ??? one who won??t use me for his needs
?? A man for whom I am the only one and he won??t even think about another women
?? A man who respects me ??? doesn??t leave me hanging or confused
?? A man who has real love for me ??? I don??t need to be always attractive and glamorous and there is no need for me to please him every now and then
When I read above points ??? I realized this is all what my hubby (Aries man) has and cancerman doesn??t have. All the points which mentioned I don??t want is what cancerman showed me he has.
I am not saying all cancerians are bad??_.neither am I saying all cancerman would have negative points I am talking about but the one I know has??_..
I feel as if I have finally awakened from my own illusion about love and the person I loved. So to those pisceans who find understanding aries a bit difficult ??? he is a strong man but that doesn??t necessarily mean he isn??t gentle. Don??t let differences between you ruin this relation ??? maybe he isn??
Thank you for all your replies.
Supermissman: I get your point and after year of rocky and clashy relation ??? I??ve honestly lost any energy to give more attention to him and weird enough he doesn??t really realize. Only some days he??ll come around and question ???you don??t love me ???do you??? and I feel frustrated that again this selfish attitude comes up. no ??? let me correct it- I think its not him being selfish ???its him being too positive at times about everything. He makes all decisions and when I question ???its like I know you??ll like the decision I make. You wont go against me ??? but I feel like no! its been hard explaining him that I can have different opinion and when I question him he??ll get angry and upset and throw things etc??_I had hard time explaining to him that he needs to explain things to me and involve me in decision making. I am going to try asking him about watching stars as you said and will see what happens.
Celticlioness: I think you??ve pointed out a truth that I find hard to accept but am willing to work on this marriage and that??s why am trying to see all possible ways to understand him. you see his family background includes all earth and fire signs and my family background has water signs. Never thought this will make huge difference but I kind of realized it during first year as to how many differences exist
Aine: agree to you! we are good friends and yes I learn a lot from him but you mentioned about your ex. Pisces bf. I??d like to know (if you are willing to share) what aspects of your relation with pisces you liked and what you thought could have been improved by pisces? I know about secretive nature and its hard at times to be absolute honest as I don??t know when his fiery anger comes out and that scares me from telling things honestly to him. my ex bf was a cancer and to him I was an open book and talked about anything and everything. I think am trying to get that level of closeness with ariesman but find it difficult
Supermissman: I get your point and after year of rocky and clashy relation ??? I??ve honestly lost any energy to give more attention to him and weird enough he doesn??t really realize. Only some days he??ll come around and question ???you don??t love me ???do you??? and I feel frustrated that again this selfish attitude comes up. no ??? let me correct it- I think its not him being selfish ???its him being too positive at times about everything. He makes all decisions and when I question ???its like I know you??ll like the decision I make. You wont go against me ??? but I feel like no! its been hard explaining him that I can have different opinion and when I question him he??ll get angry and upset and throw things etc??_I had hard time explaining to him that he needs to explain things to me and involve me in decision making. I am going to try asking him about watching stars as you said and will see what happens.
Celticlioness: I think you??ve pointed out a truth that I find hard to accept but am willing to work on this marriage and that??s why am trying to see all possible ways to understand him. you see his family background includes all earth and fire signs and my family background has water signs. Never thought this will make huge difference but I kind of realized it during first year as to how many differences exist
Aine: agree to you! we are good friends and yes I learn a lot from him but you mentioned about your ex. Pisces bf. I??d like to know (if you are willing to share) what aspects of your relation with pisces you liked and what you thought could have been improved by pisces? I know about secretive nature and its hard at times to be absolute honest as I don??t know when his fiery anger comes out and that scares me from telling things honestly to him. my ex bf was a cancer and to him I was an open book and talked about anything and everything. I think am trying to get that level of closeness with ariesman but find it difficult
Hi,
I am pisces married to Aries. We had arranged marriage and first few years had been quiet difficult for me to understand my Aries man. I have now started to accept the differences we have and how he thinks but what I really miss in our relation is the emotional connection. He seems to be always occupied with things and very independent. We never have deep emotional talks and as pisces I think that??s a big need I have. I complain about spending time together and he will be with me for short while explaining me politics and how rest of world works but when it comes to romance ??? I feel as if he isn??t romantic at all.
Anyone here with aries-pisces relation help me? I??ve read aries man are romantic but I am yet to see this. How do aries man define romance and do you believe in having emotional connection?
I am pisces married to Aries. We had arranged marriage and first few years had been quiet difficult for me to understand my Aries man. I have now started to accept the differences we have and how he thinks but what I really miss in our relation is the emotional connection. He seems to be always occupied with things and very independent. We never have deep emotional talks and as pisces I think that??s a big need I have. I complain about spending time together and he will be with me for short while explaining me politics and how rest of world works but when it comes to romance ??? I feel as if he isn??t romantic at all.
Anyone here with aries-pisces relation help me? I??ve read aries man are romantic but I am yet to see this. How do aries man define romance and do you believe in having emotional connection?
Marrissa ??? thanks for your sympathetic reply and I understand what you trying to say. Indeed, I??ve decided to not contact him anymore coz I don??t want him to mess up his marriage or plant a seed as such. That??s clearly not my intention.
Xtina ??? I did try to keep him away. When I made decision to walk away ??? he wanted to continue as friends but I didn??t but in this 6 years gap I realized that he is the man I feel strongly for and I??ve never felt like that for anyone. It was hard for me to realize as we were together for very short period and when I actually did realize this ??? it was too late but still didn??t contact him. Although I know what I feel ??? am not trying to continue a relation here. I want to be just friends and am concerned for him as friend as I think I??ve hurt him by being so harsh with my reply. Don??t friends share their worries with each other? Don??t you try and help friends out if you know they are suffering? That??s how I see it and even though I wanted to help him as a friend ???I couldn??t.
I don??t think its to do with self respect or self control ??? I do have both coz if I wanted I could have easily allowed us both to enter into a relationship in the past 4 months we??ve been talking to each other.
Aquavina ??? Thanks for understanding my concern. By the way - I liked Rumi and treetunk love too but I don??t think I??ll send it to him. I??ve already hurt him and I don??t want to trigger anymore emotions as you might know how sensitive cancerians are. Indeed love sucks and friendship even more??_
Anyways, you all have helped me to understand that there is no point in feeling guilty and I should just end this here rather than complicating anything. Thank you everyone
Xtina ??? I did try to keep him away. When I made decision to walk away ??? he wanted to continue as friends but I didn??t but in this 6 years gap I realized that he is the man I feel strongly for and I??ve never felt like that for anyone. It was hard for me to realize as we were together for very short period and when I actually did realize this ??? it was too late but still didn??t contact him. Although I know what I feel ??? am not trying to continue a relation here. I want to be just friends and am concerned for him as friend as I think I??ve hurt him by being so harsh with my reply. Don??t friends share their worries with each other? Don??t you try and help friends out if you know they are suffering? That??s how I see it and even though I wanted to help him as a friend ???I couldn??t.
I don??t think its to do with self respect or self control ??? I do have both coz if I wanted I could have easily allowed us both to enter into a relationship in the past 4 months we??ve been talking to each other.
Aquavina ??? Thanks for understanding my concern. By the way - I liked Rumi and treetunk love too but I don??t think I??ll send it to him. I??ve already hurt him and I don??t want to trigger anymore emotions as you might know how sensitive cancerians are. Indeed love sucks and friendship even more??_
Anyways, you all have helped me to understand that there is no point in feeling guilty and I should just end this here rather than complicating anything. Thank you everyone
thanks Aquavita - i havent. I'll check this out now
OMG! Cannt believe so many replies already.
Impulsive ??? thank you for your honest opinion. I am trying not to be his gf and as I said ??? I??ve left him alone when he previously has been silent like this but this time I have this guilt feeling that is bugging me. Am aware of that fine line and that??s why I asked him not to discuss anything about his issues with wife to me
Thanks Aquavita ??? ???but might be a big love here... not to be missed????_that made me think. Well to be honest I have missed him in 6 years but knowing he was married??_thought he was happily married and I never contacted him. he contacted me last year and he was the one who insisted in meeting up. I don??t want to complicate anything here but looks like this is not going to anywhere and if anything goes wrong blame would be on me. but I wish there was like a closure. We never had that before and seems like he won??t allow it yet again!
Impulsive ??? thank you for your honest opinion. I am trying not to be his gf and as I said ??? I??ve left him alone when he previously has been silent like this but this time I have this guilt feeling that is bugging me. Am aware of that fine line and that??s why I asked him not to discuss anything about his issues with wife to me
Thanks Aquavita ??? ???but might be a big love here... not to be missed????_that made me think. Well to be honest I have missed him in 6 years but knowing he was married??_thought he was happily married and I never contacted him. he contacted me last year and he was the one who insisted in meeting up. I don??t want to complicate anything here but looks like this is not going to anywhere and if anything goes wrong blame would be on me. but I wish there was like a closure. We never had that before and seems like he won??t allow it yet again!
I am getting this silent treatment for a week now and he hasn??t responded to any of my messages.
Bit of our background ??? this cancerman is my ex and our relation was very short around 4-5 months when I decided to walk away due to family reasons. However after 6 years - we met last September and agreed we??ll be just friends. End of January he has been indicating he has issues with his wife and hence he had been silent for a week but then came back saying he missed me but the communication with him wasn??t same as before. I saw his wife responding to his FB posts so kind of wondered whether he really has issues with his wife. Next day was Friday and I asked him about a book??s name and he never replied ??? Saturday he message me ???why the fuck do women do my head in, I want to be alone??. I took it personally and was a bit hurt by that message ??? so I didn??t respond. 2 hours later he messaged saying ???he likes to talk to me as he feels less stressed?? but I was angry and responded to him that I don??t like being spoken like that and he could have worded the message differently also stressed that I know he has problems with his wife but he shouldn??t be discussing such issues with me as there is a fine line between us. the reason I did this coz recently he messaged me saying he was regretting why we didn??t get married. After my message - He went quiet and 2 days later got a long message saying he thinks he has failed in life and that he feels depressed and doesn??t want anyone around him and asked me not to contact him. He also said he doesn??t want me to be included in his depressing times so wants to keep me away from all this. When he does this to me ??? I usually leave him alone but this time I felt he needed me plus I didn??t want him to go in depression so I did send few messages but no response. His posts of FB suggests he is out of his shell now but he hasn??t contacted me .Reviewing our recent chats ??? I have a fear he had some strong feelings for me but he didn??t say that and knowing that am not at the same level in terms of emotion has hurt him more. I dropped him a line again yesterday but no response. I care for him and I didn??t really want to hurt him in anyway and now am feeling guilty. He hasn??t yet unfriend me on FB or blocked me. Note -He has done this before so I was expecting that would happen. Does this mean I??ve hurt him at a level that he wont ever talk to me or is it just that he needs more time?
Bit of our background ??? this cancerman is my ex and our relation was very short around 4-5 months when I decided to walk away due to family reasons. However after 6 years - we met last September and agreed we??ll be just friends. End of January he has been indicating he has issues with his wife and hence he had been silent for a week but then came back saying he missed me but the communication with him wasn??t same as before. I saw his wife responding to his FB posts so kind of wondered whether he really has issues with his wife. Next day was Friday and I asked him about a book??s name and he never replied ??? Saturday he message me ???why the fuck do women do my head in, I want to be alone??. I took it personally and was a bit hurt by that message ??? so I didn??t respond. 2 hours later he messaged saying ???he likes to talk to me as he feels less stressed?? but I was angry and responded to him that I don??t like being spoken like that and he could have worded the message differently also stressed that I know he has problems with his wife but he shouldn??t be discussing such issues with me as there is a fine line between us. the reason I did this coz recently he messaged me saying he was regretting why we didn??t get married. After my message - He went quiet and 2 days later got a long message saying he thinks he has failed in life and that he feels depressed and doesn??t want anyone around him and asked me not to contact him. He also said he doesn??t want me to be included in his depressing times so wants to keep me away from all this. When he does this to me ??? I usually leave him alone but this time I felt he needed me plus I didn??t want him to go in depression so I did send few messages but no response. His posts of FB suggests he is out of his shell now but he hasn??t contacted me .Reviewing our recent chats ??? I have a fear he had some strong feelings for me but he didn??t say that and knowing that am not at the same level in terms of emotion has hurt him more. I dropped him a line again yesterday but no response. I care for him and I didn??t really want to hurt him in anyway and now am feeling guilty. He hasn??t yet unfriend me on FB or blocked me. Note -He has done this before so I was expecting that would happen. Does this mean I??ve hurt him at a level that he wont ever talk to me or is it just that he needs more time?
i am married to aries for 7 years and relation has been okay but we dont have much emotional connection. we hardly see each other for half an hour in a day and that some times bug me. as an aqua i love freedom but sometimes i feel as he should give time to me. not yet counting it's failed.....
sorry my message came across wrong - he has been busy recently. we do catch up but haven't been able to make any plans to go out recently and so i want to take the intiative to surprise him and spend some time.
one thing i know aquas like is to analyse. they don't make up their minds until they've analysed thoroughly and decided what to do. he is analyzing what he is feeling and whether it is worth taking this further. once he makes up his mind and knows he wants to push this further he will be pushy coz you'll be like a goal for him to achieve. another problem with aquas is agreeing to something. if they do - they feel the need to follow it which applies to agreeing meet up as well and that's why he is not agreeing to time yet it is like something ties them up and that's against their love for freedom. at the moment - he is taking you as his friend so keep no expectations.
Hi,
I am planning to visit my Aries man on valentines day at his work and was wondering whether he would like it? currently he is very busy with a project so hardly has time for me and i wanted to bring in some excitement but dont want to make him feel like am not giving him space...also i know he loves to plan things and lead so if i plan this surprise -would he appreciate?
I am planning to visit my Aries man on valentines day at his work and was wondering whether he would like it? currently he is very busy with a project so hardly has time for me and i wanted to bring in some excitement but dont want to make him feel like am not giving him space...also i know he loves to plan things and lead so if i plan this surprise -would he appreciate?