Message Posts by Classicdust9
Posted by TimoneSo I don't think he is a creep. He doesn't look at other women/girls atleast when Im around. I think he wasn't expecting me to ask him out so soon because then the ball is in his court and men don't like confrontation. Anyways, he is not coming to office since 3 days.Posted by WarAngel79Posted by Timone
Maybe wasn't the best way to show someone interest by asking why they're looking at you. It could come across as you think he's a creep that's staring at you. And he's denying it because he doesn't want to be that creep. 😅
Too late, he's already the creep to the OP and other women at work. That's his fault for not knowing how they come across to other people.
How she responded could have been more gentle but she's not wrong for asking.
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I don't think OP thinks he's a creep? Or maybe I missed where she said that. I think she's brave for making the first move but I also think maybe the staring comment didn't serve her agenda.
He could also be in a relationship already. Not sure if OP mentioned if she knew if he was or not.
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Posted by xyzabcDamn. I think you described my future 😂
Something similar happened to me years ago at a job. Thought the guy had a crush on me as he would always walk in, look at me, smile and greet me. He would even make it a point to have small talk with me. I was definitely crushing on him and my coworkers were sure he liked me. They begged me daily to allow them to talk to him, tell him I liked him and to find out if he would be interested in going on a date with me….getting to know each other better. I know it’s a bit high schoolish, but I was too afraid to make a move myself so one day I finally agreed. After they talked to him they came back and told me he said he wasn’t interested.🤦♀️ Ohhhh the embarrassment I felt. It was hard facing him after that. I will never again take part in a potential workplace romance. It’s just too complicated….especially if things don’t work out. Luckily I got another job not too long after so I didn’t have to face him with embarrassment anymore. lol
Posted by WarAngel79His body language is confusing tbh. He waits for me to give him attention and then he opens up. If im not reactive or looking at him then he won't act too. I guess he is quite young.Posted by Classicdust9
Love all your responses. I agree to all of it. I am also Libra Sun btw. Aries moon and Sag ascending. Maybe thats why I was bold enough to do this.
Btw update, today he smiled at me again hahahaha. Such a weirdo. But funnily his friend is trying to talk and infact trying to be friends with me. We went for a smoke break together.
Tbh, it feels free after rejection. No expectations and I can walk around free and probably checkout other men.
I am taking this positively though. Whatever happens, happens for a reason.
Pay attention to what he does, not what he says. His body language will tell you exactly what he's feeling.
These younger generations don't know how to talk or act properly to people in general.click to expand
Love all your responses. I agree to all of it. I am also Libra Sun btw. Aries moon and Sag ascending. Maybe thats why I was bold enough to do this.
Btw update, today he smiled at me again hahahaha. Such a weirdo. But funnily his friend is trying to talk and infact trying to be friends with me. We went for a smoke break together.
Tbh, it feels free after rejection. No expectations and I can walk around free and probably checkout other men.
I am taking this positively though. Whatever happens, happens for a reason.
Btw update, today he smiled at me again hahahaha. Such a weirdo. But funnily his friend is trying to talk and infact trying to be friends with me. We went for a smoke break together.
Tbh, it feels free after rejection. No expectations and I can walk around free and probably checkout other men.
I am taking this positively though. Whatever happens, happens for a reason.
Posted by slugOhhh yeaahhh!!! Im definitely in this mode right now.
Oh I'd be so pissed. Come in hot as fuck from now on and completely fuckin blank him. If he ever attempts to speak to you again say "Sorry who are you?"... Like how dare you 😂😂
Hi everyone. Hope u r all fine.
So in my co-working office space we have multiple companies and work around each other in open space. Recently, while I was working my friend told me that there is this guy who keeps looking at me. Initially i never noticed but after my friend told me i started observing. He is quite charming and good looking. And yes he keeps staring at me. In the last 1.5 months we have looked at each other more than anything else. Gradually, I think i developed a crush on him. We kept sharing intense looks and maybe smiled once or twice. I was 100% that we both might have a crush on each other.
I somehow had to go on a work tour for long time and internally i was thinking that i would miss his presence around and all that jazz. So i gathered some guts and left a little note at his desk with my email id.
It was nothing crazy, i just wrote that one of the days he was looking great in that outfit and mentioned that he has been looking at me so it caught my attention and i am curious to know the reason behind it.
His reply was - who is this. And so i replied - i think u know who it is. And to that he replied - not sure, plz let me know who is this. So i shared my picture. To that he replied -- oohh its you, now i know
So i again politely asked him that im curious to know the reason behind him looking at me etc etc.
And he replied -- naah, you think i was looking.
Like i don't understand men
for almost 5-6 weeks he kept looking at me, while working eyeing me and roaming around me. And when I asked him he blatantly denied and that i was delusional. (
Its just so difficult to work around him anymore and so awkward. Its not that im not attractive, infact i am but i was only interested in that man and idk wtf(
Sorry for venting out but im hurt and feeling stupid and embarrassed. Im not sad that he rejected or whatever but because he lied that he wasn't looking.
So in my co-working office space we have multiple companies and work around each other in open space. Recently, while I was working my friend told me that there is this guy who keeps looking at me. Initially i never noticed but after my friend told me i started observing. He is quite charming and good looking. And yes he keeps staring at me. In the last 1.5 months we have looked at each other more than anything else. Gradually, I think i developed a crush on him. We kept sharing intense looks and maybe smiled once or twice. I was 100% that we both might have a crush on each other.
I somehow had to go on a work tour for long time and internally i was thinking that i would miss his presence around and all that jazz. So i gathered some guts and left a little note at his desk with my email id.
It was nothing crazy, i just wrote that one of the days he was looking great in that outfit and mentioned that he has been looking at me so it caught my attention and i am curious to know the reason behind it.
His reply was - who is this. And so i replied - i think u know who it is. And to that he replied - not sure, plz let me know who is this. So i shared my picture. To that he replied -- oohh its you, now i know
So i again politely asked him that im curious to know the reason behind him looking at me etc etc.
And he replied -- naah, you think i was looking.
Like i don't understand men
for almost 5-6 weeks he kept looking at me, while working eyeing me and roaming around me. And when I asked him he blatantly denied and that i was delusional. ( Its just so difficult to work around him anymore and so awkward. Its not that im not attractive, infact i am but i was only interested in that man and idk wtf
( Sorry for venting out but im hurt and feeling stupid and embarrassed. Im not sad that he rejected or whatever but because he lied that he wasn't looking.