Message Posts by Coral1234
Posted by MilkySoftPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
You are in a really tough spot. I feel for you. And I am amazed that you've been able to remain as calm as you have, given his continued contact with her. .
Ha, you're amazed too. I was going to say, she's clearly not a Taurus. lol
I'm sorry OP. All of what happened between you happened very quickly, I'm sure he's very conflicted inside. Honestly, in this situation I think you're lucky that the guy even wants to be there for the kid. But as far as your relationship, I would let him go to sort out his issues because I can't share a person. I mean, he's already pursuing her while with you.click to expand
I know and theres nothing I can do to stop him.
Posted by DMVPosted by VirgoChyld
Well I will take sag89 route, just keep it moving. Don't stick around for somebody who doesn't want you! Which is the thing that puzzles me with women today?
Men can also be stuck on stupidclick to expand
Yes they can be lol
Posted by Scenic
Well, even if he still has feelings for her, he can stay loyal to you. Of course, he may not be completely happy....also, with his texting and stuff, if he has the chance to cheat with her then I think he would. Therefore, maybe loyal until a chance appears with her? If his behavior is making you unhappy and staying with you is making him unhappy, then maybe you should reconsider having a relationship with him. If he cares for his kid, he'll remain in his/her life. From the info you gace, I just feel like he'll never truly be yours and he's mainly staying for the kid, anyway, and the fact that he can't get back with his ex. So, how much does he actually like you, anyway? I wouldn't be able to trust him to not cheat when he acts like that. Kids are a touchy subject but as I've said, if he loves the kid, he'll do his best for him/her and still be able to be a good parent even if he's not with you. This would give both of you a chance to find someone who cares deeply and that you can trust.
He is loyal to me and his kid. This is why I am leaning more towards letting him go. I don't want our kid growing up seeing us both like this or his father still thinking what it would have been like if he was still with her. Our child doesn't deserve that at all. I don't know her reasons on why she wont let him come see her, I think shes respecting my relationship with him but honestly what scares me is that if the two of them are together alone something is bound to happen. Emotionally or physically or both. I know what I need to do. Its so hard. I love him too.
Posted by xcake
Does he love her or was it just the ending and your beginning with him that makes him feel that way, him feeling lost. I mean, considering the timing and all. Sometimes people can be stuck in the past and what could have been, especially if you're the person who were in the wrong. Im guessing they didn't have closure, unresolved emotions.
No I know he really loves her. I know he loves me but I think hes in love with her. I don't know if they had closure though. I know they have talked and hes apologized so I would say yes but even after his apology he still looks for her. I was told from his friend that the closer they got with one another the more insecure he got of losing her. She was everything to him. I guess thats why they first broke up. His insecurity got in the way and they got in a fight.
He's not like that with me. Weve had our fights and I love you so much moments but I know he could live without me. Her... I don't know, even if they didn't ever get back together I feel he would still need her in his life someway. Its been 6 years with the two of them....The truth hurts so much. Especially when you right it out.
Posted by CluelessCancer
For curiosity sake what is your sign, what is her sign?
I don't really know her sign at all. But I am a gemini.
First things first I would never get an abortion. I understand what I did and I really tried to make it work with him. Its just hard to make it work with someone who is still in love with another person. But I don't regret my kid with him and its hard to think what if I had just had an abortion. No thats the easy way out. I am a lady regardless of when I choose to have sex with him. Thats not why im on here. To ask if im a lady or not.
Will he ever let her go or should I just let him go? Try to raise our kid as mutual as can be. I love him and our child so much but it's unbearable at times when she's still on his mind or when he talks to her. He doesn't regret his kid of course but sometimes I wonder if it's her he wishes he had the kid with.
I need help please. It's been over 2 years since they were together. I have no one to talk too, my friends and family don't know about her at all.
I need help please. It's been over 2 years since they were together. I have no one to talk too, my friends and family don't know about her at all.
I'm freaking out and need advice. I think my scorpio bf who is the father to our 1 year old kid is still in love with his ex. Either that or he's still obsessed with her. When we met we hooked up right away and I got pregnant. I didn't know till after our kid was born that he had been in a relationship with his ex and they had a big fight and I guess the night they broke up he met me and we hooked up. From my understanding they had a huge fall out after that. She left him and changed all contact info with him.
But I could tell he still thought of her all the time. Like daily sometimes. He was trying to do what's right with me and our kid but it's like she never fully leaves his mind or heart. Last year this time he contacted her again. He was acting weird so I looked at his phone and saw all the times he called her and a text convo. It seems like he was trying to make good with her on their past. She actually seemed very nonchalant about it. I can tell she doesn't trust him anymore. I let that one go. Then a few months later we ran into her at a party. The two of them had this energy going on. They were magnetic to one another. I mean seriously everyone could feel it. It was the way he looked at her the way he reached out to her. He eyes will tell you everything you need to know. They way he stared at her across the room told me something was there, he was always positioned towards her too or near her. When other guys talked to her he would just stare and watch what was going on. I never seen him like that. I mean he's protective of me but it was different with her. She wasn't doing anything to make him jealous either. She really did her own thing and she was nice. (She's a tough person to read) He pulled away from me that night too. He was avoiding sex from me later that night.
So I just found out he still talks to her. Friendly talks but I know he loves her still. He's been trying to go up and see her.. Which may I add she lives 2 hours away from us! He's been persistent on going to see her (again I found out by checking up on him).
I love him and it's hard for me. I thought being his family he would leave his past for good. One night when we were out I brought her up and I asked what it was about her. He said he just knew the first time he ever saw her she belonged to him. Like he knew she was the one. He then realized what he just told me and then he tried to cover it up like it was nothing. Is this normal for a scorpio? Will he ever let he
But I could tell he still thought of her all the time. Like daily sometimes. He was trying to do what's right with me and our kid but it's like she never fully leaves his mind or heart. Last year this time he contacted her again. He was acting weird so I looked at his phone and saw all the times he called her and a text convo. It seems like he was trying to make good with her on their past. She actually seemed very nonchalant about it. I can tell she doesn't trust him anymore. I let that one go. Then a few months later we ran into her at a party. The two of them had this energy going on. They were magnetic to one another. I mean seriously everyone could feel it. It was the way he looked at her the way he reached out to her. He eyes will tell you everything you need to know. They way he stared at her across the room told me something was there, he was always positioned towards her too or near her. When other guys talked to her he would just stare and watch what was going on. I never seen him like that. I mean he's protective of me but it was different with her. She wasn't doing anything to make him jealous either. She really did her own thing and she was nice. (She's a tough person to read) He pulled away from me that night too. He was avoiding sex from me later that night.
So I just found out he still talks to her. Friendly talks but I know he loves her still. He's been trying to go up and see her.. Which may I add she lives 2 hours away from us! He's been persistent on going to see her (again I found out by checking up on him).
I love him and it's hard for me. I thought being his family he would leave his past for good. One night when we were out I brought her up and I asked what it was about her. He said he just knew the first time he ever saw her she belonged to him. Like he knew she was the one. He then realized what he just told me and then he tried to cover it up like it was nothing. Is this normal for a scorpio? Will he ever let he