Message Posts by CrabbyAJ
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeMy Aries guy's Venus is also in Aries while my Venus is in Leo. Do you think this makes a difference?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesOh absolutely. The other signs ARE what matter. Truly the sun sign is very....inaccurate. It just isn't correct, it's like telling someone that because they threw up one time, they have cancer. It's blown past what it really is.
@AprilFoolsUHoe I cant seem to quote you.
Do you think other placements matter?
The sun sign is the sign that play effect on responding to the ACTUAL signs. So for me, I have aries sun which intensifies my aries venus, mercury, and scorpio mars. But if someone had an aries sun and a pisces venus, lets say, it would work together to make something else, so because aries are stubbon in love, and already picky, and because they lose their attention quickly, adding pisces would make it harder because in that case, pisces would be in an imaginary place, fatasizing about their relationship, and therefore being disappointed with the fact that no one truly for long fits that fantasy, and the arian part would make them say a big hell no to settling and therefor they'd never be able to find exactly the right person until they allow themselves to understand that no one is perfect.
Sun is just a response to what we TRULY compose of.
At least that's my hypothesis.
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Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesQueen-don't sell yourself short and be the 'other' person. Let him end it with his GF and make you his primary focus. You deserve more than being a side distraction. You'll never trust him if he cheats on his GF to be with you.Posted by CrabbyAJI have a Aries friend who is in a relationship and his persistence is something to be admired. Always wanting to see me and spend time with me. The problem is I really do feel a connection with this guy and its becoming VERY hard to resist him.
Agreed, Queen. I think I am in the friend zone. I'm not sure why the constant texting and innuendo.....but if he were interested in me as more....more would have happened by now.click to expand
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeI don't think he is testing me. We are both older and established in our careers. Kids are grown. He is pretty open with what he shares as far as his every day-to-day life and what he wants. Just not very open emotionally when it comes to me, other than the constant contact and wanting to spend time with me.
They do open up eventually. BUT if anything either he is serious, and likes you and is waiting out all the sexy stuff and taking you seriously and is she----OR he's playing you and taking it for what you'll give to test how much he can get. Like leading you on. I do it, my two aries best friends do it, a lot of aries i know do it, the aries i love my virginity to (i took his too) we did it to each other----it's kind of a thing. Like to test boundries, see how long we can lead you on, like a game. It's awful, but someones gotta admit it right? LOL I'm 19 so papa don't preach
Thank you for another perspective?-I will definitely be aware to watch for signs of being played.
Agreed, Queen. I think I am in the friend zone. I'm not sure why the constant texting and innuendo.....but if he were interested in me as more....more would have happened by now.
I'm not sure I understand.....you and your friend see each other frequently and are hysically intimate. Which part of this makes it a slow burner? Did I misunderstand the question?
I would say I am pretty patient, by nature. I have no problem taking our time.....IF, indeed, he is interested in me as more than friends. Actions speak louder than words and while my Aries guy shows me in many ways he likes me-texts, taking me places, spending his free time with me.....the physical side is almost non existent, other than some pretty racy texts.
Thank you for the input.
He owns a car dealership and only has off on Sunday. I have seen him every Sunday with the exception of one.
We rarely see each other during the week because he works later hours than I do and we live a bit apart.
I did talk to him yesterday and told him that he was confusing to me. He did say he likes me and likes being with me. He definitely throws out a lot of sexual innuendo and joking around when we text.....but that just makes it more confusing to me.
Thank you again for your input
He owns a car dealership and only has off on Sunday. I have seen him every Sunday with the exception of one.
We rarely see each other during the week because he works later hours than I do and we live a bit apart.
I did talk to him yesterday and told him that he was confusing to me. He did say he likes me and likes being with me. He definitely throws out a lot of sexual innuendo and joking around when we text.....but that just makes it more confusing to me.
Thank you again for your input
I like a man to take charge....up to a point. When it seems controlling it makes me rebellious.
He likes you. Cancer men will come on strong and then retreat when he's not sure if he said the wrong thing or you weren't interested. They are notorious for not volunteering information....but will feel flattered if you ask him about himself and really listen. If you like him...let him know. They are shy at heart.
He is an Aries. I am a Cancer woman.
We met online and texted for months before we actually met. We have gotten together about 4 times to take rides on his motorcycle. We have ridden for hours at a time. The first time we rode he bought me a helmet of my own to wear. He always requests certain clothes he likes me to wear when we ride and is appreciative. We talk and laugh and have a good time. He texts me every morning first thing and we text throughout the day. He always wants me to let him know I've gotten home safely. He is planning a long weekend away with me next month.....a long ride throughout our state.
The confusing part? The texting is often flirty or naughty. The first kiss we ever had was after two dates and I am the one that kissed him. Good kiss with potential.....but that was it. The date after that...he kissed me goodbye and grabbed my ass but that was it. The kiss was more friendly than hot.
Am I being impatient? I think 5 dates and a few months is not a rush. Is he just not 'into' me?
We met online and texted for months before we actually met. We have gotten together about 4 times to take rides on his motorcycle. We have ridden for hours at a time. The first time we rode he bought me a helmet of my own to wear. He always requests certain clothes he likes me to wear when we ride and is appreciative. We talk and laugh and have a good time. He texts me every morning first thing and we text throughout the day. He always wants me to let him know I've gotten home safely. He is planning a long weekend away with me next month.....a long ride throughout our state.
The confusing part? The texting is often flirty or naughty. The first kiss we ever had was after two dates and I am the one that kissed him. Good kiss with potential.....but that was it. The date after that...he kissed me goodbye and grabbed my ass but that was it. The kiss was more friendly than hot.
Am I being impatient? I think 5 dates and a few months is not a rush. Is he just not 'into' me?