Message Posts by Crabbygirl95
I don’t know.. I think that’s a little judgy.. that was like 8 1/2 years ago. Get over it??? He obviously chose YOU. If he’s a great man and you wanted to marry him, he felt comfortable enough to tell you a dirty little secret from his past, you should accept him for who he is. And if it’s such a big deal to you, move out of the way so someone else can come love him and accept him for who he is. I get that it’s gross, but girl... 8 1/2 years not doing that nasty shit is a long time lol.
Posted by LalaloPosted by Crabbygirl95Ha ha ha ha. That’s a lot of air - so yes, sounds like he could be indecisive. My libra moon friend has gemini mars too (but leo venus)Posted by LalaloPosted by Crabbygirl95I think that sounds like a good match! Are you thinking of making a move?Posted by LalaloI’m a Cancer sun Aries moon, he’s a Cancer sun Libra moon
My leo sun/libra moon and cancer sun/aries moon friends have been together forever. They seem solid.
I’m also an aries moon myself, and I go well with libra moons as friends (never tried it romantically)
We’re compatible friends, just wondering if we’d be compatible lovers.
Wellllll.... we briefly dated months ago. We’ve just been friends since. His Gemini venus and Gemini mars are kinda indecisive. He acts like he still likes me but he dates around haha. Just kinda waiting for him to pull his head out of his a $ $
What she said about how she got together with her aries moon: ‘Idk, we just started kissing at parties again and again’ 🤷🏽♀️click to expand
Haha yup! So much air. Seven of his planets are air. I’m chill with it though. I’m the type of person who can understand that people need to work their own shit out first. If he treated me like shit it would be different. But I think the cancer in him makes him a sweetie pie. I just hope he can figure it out before I get over it lol.
Posted by LalaloPosted by Crabbygirl95I think that sounds like a good match! Are you thinking of making a move?Posted by LalaloI’m a Cancer sun Aries moon, he’s a Cancer sun Libra moon
My leo sun/libra moon and cancer sun/aries moon friends have been together forever. They seem solid.
I’m also an aries moon myself, and I go well with libra moons as friends (never tried it romantically)
We’re compatible friends, just wondering if we’d be compatible lovers.click to expand
Wellllll.... we briefly dated months ago. We’ve just been friends since. His Gemini venus and Gemini mars are kinda indecisive. He acts like he still likes me but he dates around haha. Just kinda waiting for him to pull his head out of his a $ $
Posted by LalaloI’m a Cancer sun Aries moon, he’s a Cancer sun Libra moon
My leo sun/libra moon and cancer sun/aries moon friends have been together forever. They seem solid.
I’m also an aries moon myself, and I go well with libra moons as friends (never tried it romantically)
We’re compatible friends, just wondering if we’d be compatible lovers.
Posted by AfternoonDelights22I don’t understand
lol
Posted by Primrose
As an Aries moon who have crushes in real life
What do you mean? 😂
Are Aries moon and Libra moon compatible?
Posted by Lala1393Posted by Crabbygirl95Posted by Lala1393Posted by Crabbygirl95Posted by Lala1393
Oh no.... 🙄🙄
RUN BISH RUUUUUUUUN
Uh oh.. why?
Instead of thinking about what he wants.
What do YOU want ?
What KIND of relationship do you want ?
This guy is an a $ $ . Sorry.
Like he has the NERVE to act jealous and try to control you even though you're young and beautiful and in your prime time. Wasting it with him 😒😒 Waiting around.
YET, he gets to fvck about and not commit to you ?
Totally not trying to justify his behavior but it’s not like he tells me I can’t do what I want.. he just kinda pouts about it a little then carries on with his day. Like he’s trying to not show he’s jealous but I can tell he is. He doesn’t try to control me one bit. He’s honestly the sweetest man I’ve ever met, other than my father. He just sends mixed signals.. like he likes me soooo much and I make his day and he hates when I don’t talk to him.. but won’t be with me. Like he’s scared of me or something. Probably because I’m young, we connect so well but I’d outgrow his old ass lol. This is what I get from the situation but I could be wrong.Posted by Crabbygirl95Posted by Lala1393Posted by Crabbygirl95Posted by Lala1393
Oh no.... 🙄🙄
RUN BISH RUUUUUUUUN
Uh oh.. why?
Instead of thinking about what he wants.
What do YOU want ?
What KIND of relationship do you want ?
This guy is an a $ $ . Sorry.
Like he has the NERVE to act jealous and try to control you even though you're young and beautiful and in your prime time. Wasting it with him 😒😒 Waiting around.
YET, he gets to fvck about and not commit to you ?
Totally not trying to justify his behavior but .
Literally, you should have just stopped right there.
Because the whole paragraph was just you making excuses.
A man sending mixed signals is a man who is not fully committed to you. Clearly he isn't or he wouldn't be banging other women then having the audacity to tell you about it like it's normal. I understand that you're not together but when you want to be with a woman, out of respect for her, you don't tell her all that.
I have a feeling you're not really looking for answers here. We're telling you this man is playing you.
We're being more honest than he is. We're answering your question(s). We're not gonna sugar coat it.
Look, I was lucky enough that people were loving enough to tell me the TRUTH. Took a while and strength (and new D lol ) for me to do the right thing. But please, don't waste your time on a 38 year old man who isn't respecting you. That's not respect. Nor is it love.
And he knows EXACTLY what he's doing. Remember ...he's 38.
Don't do the typical girly "I ask a question but I want you to tell me what I want to hear" thing.
We want your best. We want you to be happy.
This isn't it.
And yes, as @impulsiv says, it's just for the ego boost. Plain and simple. He's kinda old lol.
Lots of looove
🤗🤗🤗
Forget him hunclick to expand
I’m not trying to be in denial.. I did come on here for advice and insight. I just know my relationship with this man and one paragraph is all anyone else knows, not all the details.
So regardless of the fact he doesn’t tell me shit about his dating life, he doesn’t give me any details whatsoever other than the fact he’s dating, he’s extremely kind to me, he doesn’t try to make me jealous, he doesn’t use me for sex, he doesn’t slap my ass or kiss me and lead me on like that.. it doesn’t matter. He’s just using me. There’s no hope at all for a friendship to blossom into a loving relationship is what people are telling me? Well, it’s a sad world we live in that there’s no hope because he didn’t choose to be with me immediately.. is there any possibility maybe he’s a decent man and he’s just nervous??? Maybe he’s not a bad guy??? Maybe he does like me but my age scares him??? Maybe he loves talking to me every day and loves going to the movies and going for hikes and getting drinks and taking me to lunch. It’s unfortunate people only see negativity. But hey, maybe you’re right and I’m just some dumb little girl who loves someone that doesn’t care about me.
Posted by Ladyleo18I’ve never had a male FRIEND treat me the way he treats me. Even his best friend tells me he has romantic feelings for me. I get that he’s not committed to me and he’s dating other women but I’m still very lost.
Why would a guy, tell you he wants to be friends, date other women and never have had sex with you?
Does that sound like he wants something romantic with you or like he doesn't?
Posted by Lala1393Posted by Crabbygirl95Posted by Lala1393
Oh no.... 🙄🙄
RUN BISH RUUUUUUUUN
Uh oh.. why?
Instead of thinking about what he wants.
What do YOU want ?
What KIND of relationship do you want ?
This guy is an a $ $ . Sorry.
Like he has the NERVE to act jealous and try to control you even though you're young and beautiful and in your prime time. Wasting it with him 😒😒 Waiting around.
YET, he gets to fvck about and not commit to you ?click to expand
Totally not trying to justify his behavior but it’s not like he tells me I can’t do what I want.. he just kinda pouts about it a little then carries on with his day. Like he’s trying to not show he’s jealous but I can tell he is. He doesn’t try to control me one bit. He’s honestly the sweetest man I’ve ever met, other than my father. He just sends mixed signals.. like he likes me soooo much and I make his day and he hates when I don’t talk to him.. but won’t be with me. Like he’s scared of me or something. Probably because I’m young, we connect so well but I’d outgrow his old ass lol. This is what I get from the situation but I could be wrong.
Posted by Impulsv
Meaning he knows how to play it to keep you around while dating other women
Damnit.. well, why keep me around if he’s not getting anything out of it or has the intention of being with me later? Men suck.
Posted by LadyNeptuneLol let me clarify.. sorry. Back when we were seeing each other romantically he would let me sleep in his bed but never had sex with me. I haven’t slept in his bed since like.. early March. I told him if we were going to be friends he needed to treat me as such. Since then he has.. except for the fact he talks to me like he likes me and these women he’s dating are like a safe space, idk. I’m totally confused by this man.
Why are you calling this a friendship? Idk about you but I don’t let my ‘friends’ sleep in my bed and spoon me with their boner. Js.
Posted by Lala1393
Oh no.... 🙄🙄
RUN BISH RUUUUUUUUN
Uh oh.. why?
Ok so I’m not really sure how this works but I’m gonna try to post something, crossing my fingers!
I’m a Cancer 23 years old, he’s a Cancer 38 years old. We briefly dated beginning of the year, but I was going through a messy time and needed to settle things. I let him know this but he was persistent. We got very close super fast.. then he told me relationships scare him cause his ex wife really hurt him and he has kids that he needs to take care of, blah blah blah, but totally understandable. Pretty much letting me down easily, but wanted to stay “friends”. (Side note, I’ve read a lot on here that Cancers don’t sleep with people easily... he didn’t sleep with me once, but let me stay over all the time in his bed *weird*) Anyways, we’ve been friends for quite some time but now he’s dating other woman but acts like he still likes me??? He gets mad when I don’t talk to him, take breaks from him or date other guys and tells me how important I am to him, I’m beautiful and wonderful all that crap... stupid. He has a Gemini Venus, and my dad is a Cancer sun w/ gem venus and he said friendship first is most important to him. Can someone help me out here? Is this going to stay a friendship or will patience hopefully pay off? I wouldn’t be surprised if my age scares him a little.
I’m a Cancer 23 years old, he’s a Cancer 38 years old. We briefly dated beginning of the year, but I was going through a messy time and needed to settle things. I let him know this but he was persistent. We got very close super fast.. then he told me relationships scare him cause his ex wife really hurt him and he has kids that he needs to take care of, blah blah blah, but totally understandable. Pretty much letting me down easily, but wanted to stay “friends”. (Side note, I’ve read a lot on here that Cancers don’t sleep with people easily... he didn’t sleep with me once, but let me stay over all the time in his bed *weird*) Anyways, we’ve been friends for quite some time but now he’s dating other woman but acts like he still likes me??? He gets mad when I don’t talk to him, take breaks from him or date other guys and tells me how important I am to him, I’m beautiful and wonderful all that crap... stupid. He has a Gemini Venus, and my dad is a Cancer sun w/ gem venus and he said friendship first is most important to him. Can someone help me out here? Is this going to stay a friendship or will patience hopefully pay off? I wouldn’t be surprised if my age scares him a little.
Can someone tell me more about this combo?
Aquarius sun & Mercury, Aries moon, Capricorn mars & venus.
Aquarius sun & Mercury, Aries moon, Capricorn mars & venus.
Can someone tell me more about this combo?
Aquarius sun & Mercury, Aries moon, Capricorn mars & venus.
Aquarius sun & Mercury, Aries moon, Capricorn mars & venus.