Message Posts by Ebony_Libra
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
It seems I'm hated on for my ghetto English which i don't kno why I'm trying to understand i speak very good English I'm being jock from left and right i guess I'm well loved.
eh, I wouldn't worry about it. Let the haters continue to hate
Posted by cappysweetie
More people will chine in but basically, in order to tell if the cap guy is interested, he will bascially talk to alot. Like a whole lot, granted, he talks to others but he makes sure he gets his time in with you and he'll make sure that you KNOW this is what he is doing.
Theres this cap guy that kinda likes me at the moment.
I completely agree. When I was talking to the cap guy I was interested in, he would talk to me A LOT. Also, what I've noticed is when we talked he would call everyday just to see how I'm doing. So, those are pretty good signs imho about a cap being interested..
Before she deleted the post, she said she will eventually delete it.
Thanks for your advice ume. I do agree he's serious, but he also has a great sense of humor. He has a tattoo on his wrist of his former weight. He told me that it was a reminder of of hard he worked to lose the weight. He's a very determined person, and that's one of the qualities I admire about him. He's also trying to complete his teaching degree so he could become a high school math teacher, then a college math professor. I've met plenty of people that were fickle, inconsiderate,and inconsistent but he is by far stable,kind-hearted,and upstanding. He gets uncomfortable when I constantly compliment him and let him know that he's valued, but he needs to be reminded of it. He has been hurt in the past. I've told him that if he needs someone to talk to I'm there. There are times where I'll call him to know how he's doing and he'll do the same. So whenever he calls, whatever I'm doing at the moment is put on pause because I don't want to miss his call. That may sound crazy to others, but I do care about him a lot.
To Warholian, I'm sorry my frequent lol's pissed u off. Even though I do appreciate the feedback you've given, I don't think you should group all Libras together as if all Libras are flaky, vain, etc. I don't laugh at anyone who are working extremely hard to make changes in their lives. As for friendships, I value them tremendously as well as my family. Again, thanks for your feedback.
Posted by noirecapricornprincess
I don't think they are compatible at ALL. I had a BOSS who was by far the WORST individual I have known. He was a pathological liar and always had a HUGE ego that needed to be fed.
Wow. The Libra men definitely aren't popular on this thread.
Oops, it cut off. What I continued to say was, to come out of the relationship and still admire your ex is even better. I've witnessed the demise of my parents' marriage and I've seen the end of some of friend's relationships too. Let me just say that things didn't end well at all. My parents' despise each other, and personally my mom could do without EVER seeing my dad. So yeah, that's pretty sad. Oh, I am gentle and sensitive sagigoat...to the point where I get flack for it. I guess one of my many lessons here on Earth is to develop a thicker skin..
Posted by sagigoat
Ebony_libra, you do sound gentle and sensitive. you know, it's not that my libra ex is insensitve or loves conflicts on purpose he just have this innate detachment/coldness/insecurity that would really shine when he feels threaten emotionally. while we were in the process of breaking up, both of us did a lot of analysis of ourselves and each other. based on what he realized about himself and what i observed over the years, it was evident that he only became uncooperative/difficult/bickering when he felt threaten (often time subconsciously) by my quick-to-the-point logic or when he felt jealous when we were out with any of my male friends / coworkers (doesn't matter whether there are other females there). i would say the latter really embarrassed me in pubic (and u know how capricorns hate to feel humiliated in public) to a point that i felt burdened and stressed coz i needed to constantly attend to him when we were out, stroke his back like every few mins etc. to keep his unfriendly expressions under control. and fwiw, i do not flirt in person especially when my SO is present i'm very aware of being respectful so i never had similar problem with another and it took me forever to realize that it was because he felt threaten with no regard of how i behaved.
i admire my libra ex very much. he is by far the most capable man at his age i have become closed to. he is popular among women. infact he has 3 admiers right now as we speak lol. he is successful and very well rounded with many hobbies he is an expert in every one of his hobbies better than some ppl who do that as their professions. that made it very hard for me and him both to understand / realize that he somehow felt threaten by my capricorn logic sometimes that made him become uncooperative. i have to say that my libra ex was and still is very protective and loving towards me. he is always there for me when i needed him and vice versa. we trust each other very much even during our frictions lol. it's just that there is something in the core in our charts that it's the best we are friends / family instead of SOs so he doesn't feel threaten which in turns hurts and tires me out emotionally.
Wow, I think that is very mature that you both could analyze yourselves and eachother, and communicate what went down in the relationship. Also, to come out of the relationship and still admire your ex is
Posted by cappygolightly
Youre welcome and I don't distance myself from libras at all. I have mars in libra so I guess that makes me a little bit like them too. I get on pretty well with them 99% of the time. Can talk to them all night, because they love to chat and so do caps. But I will give you an example of what I mean about cap/libra relations...
I was at my cap/libra friends' house looking at a photo and asked if that was my cap friend. My cap friend's libra hubby said yes that was her when she was young and beautiful. Now my cap friend is a few years older than her hubby and she's only a couple of years ago had a baby. That's the sort of thing I guess I mean. He's a really nice guy and we all get on great but it's not the first time he's made comments like that, seemingly harmless but quite hurtful when you think about it. Yet he's a really nice guy, very intelligent, very entertaining.
I'm not sure other signs would even pick up on it, but cappies tend to dwell on what is said by their loved ones and read into it. But the guy is just saying what he thinks. That's what hurts I guess. I don't know about other cappies but I prefer if someone dresses up the truth a bit.
It's like he was saying that she WAS young and beautiful but now, no. I don't know, to me that was quite rude. It's one thing to be opinionated about things, but I think people need to be mindful of what comes out of their mouth. I definitely agree with you on the communication factor. I LOVE talking to my cap friend. The first time we've talked, it was for almost 8 hours. I've never talked to someone for that long.
And Sagigoat, I also agree that Capricorns are sensitive. Whenever I talk to my friend, he just comes off as being really sensitive and soft spoken and to be honest, that's what I like about him. He's in touch with his feelings. We haven't argued and I told him point blank, I don't like conflicts and he felt the same way lol, so were good on that point. I guess that's why he told me that he thought I was easygoing. But what I notice from him is that he can be cautious at times. So, I'm trying to be patient in regards to that.
Posted by cappygolightly
Ive not had great experiences when Ive dated libras. I get on very well with them on a superficial level as acquaintances or partying buddies. But I don't find them very mentally loyal as lovers (they can be quite open if they find someone walking past or friends attractive) and there is a likelihood of petty bickering about silly things, in particular I've noticed even in my cap friend's marriage that there is friction about finances. They also don't always realise that some of the things they say can be very hurtful. I think out of all air signs librans can be most verbally hurtful. Arrows shoot out of their mouths sometimes when they are feeling aggrieved about some slight. This is particularly difficult when they can be so sweet and charming at other times. It comes as a real shock because they don't show that side most of the time. A prickly relationship. But great when you don't get too close. But cappies like to get up close and personal in relationships.
I'm really sorry that you've dealt with those type of situations. I've come across other Libra men and sadly, some are quite jerks and very superficial. I don't know if it's because of my ascendant (Pisces) but, I'm pretty sensitive. I always try to be careful in how I treat people and what I say. It all goes back to that saying, "Treat people the way you want to be treated." I hope you don't distance yourself from all Libras lol. I want to thank you for taking the time to answer my question. I've found it to be helpful. It gives me an idea on how both male and female Capricorns feel.
Posted by cappygolightly
not compatible theoretically but I do know a married cap girl/libra boy couple. Weould not be first on my list of starsigns to date.
Why wouldn't they be first on your list to date? I'm curious
Hi, I'm new and I have question about compatibility between a Capricorn and Libra. For the past couple of months I've been interested in my Capricorn friend and we talk regularly. Were both interested in each other, but he wants to takes things slow. Whenever we talk it's always fun and I notice from what he tells me is that I make him feel better about himself. He's been working hard on trying to live a healthy life style and he lost over a 100 pounds, so he was pretty overweight. My friend recently told me that he's been trying to become buff (lol)and I guess with me being this good support system for him, he told me that he's trying to make me proud. he asked me if I was proud and I say yeah, lol. I was surprised when he told me that because I didn't think he felt that way. This is my first time dealing with a Capricorn. My ex was a Leo and let's say that relationship went to hell in a hand basket. I'm very curious about Capricorn males because to be honest, whenever I talk to him I'm extremely happy. He's calm and reserved and his voice is so attractive. I just want to get closer to him because I feel he's such a catch. So my question is, are Capricorns and Libras really compatible? I'm a Libra and my ascendant and moon are in Pisces. My friend of course is a Capricorn and his ascendant is Libra and his moon is in Pisces too.