Message Posts by Elinaelle
11;30 pm
Carla
12 feb 1994 - born at 11;30 ish can't remember exactly
Ukraine
The person John
2 september 1989
born in Belgium
don't know the time
thanks
Virgo sun ( early september)
Moon and venus in Libra
Rising sign is Scorpio
Mercury in Virgo, i believe.
Year of the snake
Thanks in advance.
Moon and venus in Libra
Rising sign is Scorpio
Mercury in Virgo, i believe.
Year of the snake
Thanks in advance.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by ElinaellePosted by P-AngelPosted by Elinaelle
I guess ill move on as im not really into games.
What games do you refer to? You don't mention any in the OP.
Meant as in the cancelling because I had, dissapearing and reappearing.
Posted by Elinaelle
he always initiated conversations
He wanted to meet but due to me being busy i cancelled
i didnt message
i had to again cancel
texted me next morning i replied with a joke
Posted by Elinaelle
I'm not the most caring and warm person, I'm quite detached
Judging from everything I've read from you, I believe the resolution here is for you to do a self check because from where I observe .... you are expecting him to treat you differently than how you treat him. You aren't giving what you want to receive.click to expand
That is true actually, I really need to give what I want which is pretty difficult for me as sometimes I do things without realising how that would affect the person/ or come across as. It's always been an issue with me.
Do you have any tips?
Posted by kaqual75
Often when people we care about don't act as we wish they would (act funny), we assume it's because of how they are feeling about us. But if you take a step back and see the bigger picture that really is a self centered notion. Think about it...you barely know him. Do you think at this point you could have a big impact on his mood?
With Virgos, what you or I would perceive as a minor bump in the road, for them it's a mountain. Have you asked him how he is doing? Has anything changed in his life? He may not even share yet if you aren't close yet but you need to consider this may be all about him and what he has going on and nothing about you at all.
2nd of September. Yeah I'll just give him time and just do my own thing.
Posted by kaqual75
Often when people we care about don't act as we wish they would (act funny), we assume it's because of how they are feeling about us. But if you take a step back and see the bigger picture that really is a self centered notion. Think about it...you barely know him. Do you think at this point you could have a big impact on his mood?
With Virgos, what you or I would perceive as a minor bump in the road, for them it's a mountain. Have you asked him how he is doing? Has anything changed in his life? He may not even share yet if you aren't close yet but you need to consider this may be all about him and what he has going on and nothing about you at all.
I did ask how he was doing and most of the times he's at work. I'm not the most caring and warm person, I'm quite detached (being an aquarius) but I think I have actually tried with him.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by Elinaelle
I guess ill move on as im not really into games.
What games do you refer to? You don't mention any in the OP.click to expand
Meant as in the cancelling because I had, dissapearing and reappearing.
Hey guys
I have a dilemma with a virgo man. We are both in our 20's (mid) His venus is in libra mine is in Pisces. We met on a dating site in January, he always initiated conversations but replied late but always with long messages asking a lot of questions.
We met 2 month later and instantly got along. Even he commented on the 2nd date saying "how its going so well and we instantly got comfortable"
we had dinner together at his and he cooked and then we talked and kissed. Its all been great.
I grew to like him, and i dont fall for someone easily. His job is quite demanding (investment) so he is busy a lot. He wanted to meet but due to me being busy i cancelled then he cancelled on me. Then he dissapeared for a little over a week, i didnt message and finally i did and he replied with a huge text of reasons. He said "he missed me which was weird", arranged a date but i had to again cancel (one day before) then i asked to meet up (he cancelled on the same day) texted me next morning i replied with a joke and no reply ever since its been about 2/3 days now.
When we do meet he is the sweetest gentleman, and when he texts its always long and unforced. Its just past 2 weeks, He has been distant then talkative then distant and im just confused, it was going really well at first. I guess ill move on as im not really into games. What are your thoughts?
Thanks in advance!
I have a dilemma with a virgo man. We are both in our 20's (mid) His venus is in libra mine is in Pisces. We met on a dating site in January, he always initiated conversations but replied late but always with long messages asking a lot of questions.
We met 2 month later and instantly got along. Even he commented on the 2nd date saying "how its going so well and we instantly got comfortable"
we had dinner together at his and he cooked and then we talked and kissed. Its all been great.
I grew to like him, and i dont fall for someone easily. His job is quite demanding (investment) so he is busy a lot. He wanted to meet but due to me being busy i cancelled then he cancelled on me. Then he dissapeared for a little over a week, i didnt message and finally i did and he replied with a huge text of reasons. He said "he missed me which was weird", arranged a date but i had to again cancel (one day before) then i asked to meet up (he cancelled on the same day) texted me next morning i replied with a joke and no reply ever since its been about 2/3 days now.
When we do meet he is the sweetest gentleman, and when he texts its always long and unforced. Its just past 2 weeks, He has been distant then talkative then distant and im just confused, it was going really well at first. I guess ill move on as im not really into games. What are your thoughts?
Thanks in advance!