Message Posts by FeelingShred
Aries mooner will stay focused only in you because for him you are his goddess. If you want to keep him focused only in you and admiring you like this, DO NOT accuse him of being a cheater/player or change things into the direction of "locking him up" (specially social media), this will ultimately lead to opposite effects. Basically, we are living in the moment, and not some hypothetical/imaginary future. Do not change a team that is winning, like they say. We are pretty easy to decipher, other people are the ones who complicate things up.
Ok, I understand virgo women are not for me. But the second question I made stays unanswered: Were you fellow Gemini folks able to find someone who does not makes us want to jump out of the ship? (appreciate if you inform their sun/moon/venus signs)
She is virgo with virgo moon (!!!!!!) It was all good for the first three weeks, but then she went "full on Virgo mode" and started to say some nasty things and treating me bad over simple things that didn't need much analysis to it, always analysing every little bit of anything and not appreciating that I jumped subjects on conversations (going on tangents), she wanted to stay for hours in the same subject (boring!). All of that broke the glass, and I was never been able to glue it back together.
Yes, been there. Two women with Leo moon, cannot be coincidence. It's like they lack tact, summing it up.
I don't know if I should post in the Gemini forums, but I have Venus and Mercury in Gemini, reading Gemini's relationship descriptions I identify the most, and also Aries (my moon). So, maybe Gemini is how I must be identified in relationship subjects.
I was dating with this virgo woman who was by my side through the worst, since we met when I was unemployed (while paying rent of a shithole).
The main problem since the beginning was her needy-ness and pushing the relationship to serious commitment. Basically I feel like it's impossible to stay with just one person for the rest of my life, and that it could only work with someone similar (I think Leo or Sag women can be the ones?)
Anyway, I send a message to her but she is not accepting that I want to break up, even though I omitted the part that I can't stay with just one person. (liar!!! ok I admit it)
It would be easier if we had a fight or something, but our once-a-week times together are always awesome, cuddly, apart from my mental restlessness wanting to search interesting things in the internet despite her desire to stay hugged silently for hours. I just don't know what is this, it's like a curse, every time I finally achieve what I was chasing I feel the need to find new pursuits, what is this?
She is older, I don't want to feel like a complete waste of her time, sooner or later I will cheat behind her back and I don't like the way I feel about it.
Any other geminis gone through the same? Were you ever able to find someone who can maintain a relationship without feeling like you're trapped? I dumped a Libra before, after 2 years living together and never a fight, it was devastating for me, hurts so much when the desire dies!
I was dating with this virgo woman who was by my side through the worst, since we met when I was unemployed (while paying rent of a shithole).
The main problem since the beginning was her needy-ness and pushing the relationship to serious commitment. Basically I feel like it's impossible to stay with just one person for the rest of my life, and that it could only work with someone similar (I think Leo or Sag women can be the ones?)
Anyway, I send a message to her but she is not accepting that I want to break up, even though I omitted the part that I can't stay with just one person. (liar!!! ok I admit it)
It would be easier if we had a fight or something, but our once-a-week times together are always awesome, cuddly, apart from my mental restlessness wanting to search interesting things in the internet despite her desire to stay hugged silently for hours. I just don't know what is this, it's like a curse, every time I finally achieve what I was chasing I feel the need to find new pursuits, what is this?
She is older, I don't want to feel like a complete waste of her time, sooner or later I will cheat behind her back and I don't like the way I feel about it.
Any other geminis gone through the same? Were you ever able to find someone who can maintain a relationship without feeling like you're trapped? I dumped a Libra before, after 2 years living together and never a fight, it was devastating for me, hurts so much when the desire dies!
(Taurus sun with Venus/Mercury in Gemini here...) Well, women behaving all like crybabies because they happened to be born with a pussy between their legs and they feel that they can exchange its usage for stuff, when they don't get things in exchange, they get all mad... What is exactly the impact it makes in the times that you spend together if you are under Plan A or Plan B or etc? Does it change anything in the relationship between you and the desire you feel for each other being called this or that? Does it really? I thought the main thing was the fact that you spend time together with your significant other and that it is quality time, and not how you call it. I can't understand these "proceedings" to things, either you are or you're not, it's pretty black and white. If I'm spending my day with you, is because I chose to not be with someone else, so stop the bitching already. These types of things actually push men away and make us lose interest, and then starts the cheating and all the f** up stuff, women are the starters of all the (avoidable) drama.
Oh, I forgot to say... I noticed I always talk shit people didn't ask, so I'm trying to open my mouth less. Maybe that's the problem. But it's crazy, because conversations happens because someone initiate it. If there is no initiatior, how are conversations going to be engaged? Waiting for things to happen is always tough for us 
The problems you described may be related to your Aries moon. I have Aries moon too, and I'm also facing the same problems. I never know if it's paranoia in my head or if it's real, but it's crazy to watch people changing behaviour everytime you approach them, it's sad I usually wait until the 3rd time to make sure I'm not imagining things. After 3rd "deception" I withdraw and ignore them 4evah LOL
"Oh, had you been hit by an arrow? Do you want me to pull it for you? Hummmmmm......... NAH?" LOOOOL
I usually wait until the 3rd time to make sure I'm not imagining things. After 3rd "deception" I withdraw and ignore them 4evah LOL"Oh, had you been hit by an arrow? Do you want me to pull it for you? Hummmmmm......... NAH?" LOOOOL
Pisces guitarist... Rhythm, lyrics... LOL
By the way, Michael Jackson was a Pisces
By the way, Michael Jackson was a Pisces
Posted by LIb4Life
BUT you know you LOVE us Libran's and everything about us..You secretly wish you were a Libra....don't ya
LOL Yeah, I love libra people. They have all the social skills I wish I could have, but they lack a real important one: hability to make quick decisions.
The more I learn about astrology, based on real life examples, the more I see that opposites actually results in good relationships, because they think alike and they complement each other.
But neighbour signs relationship usually are hell on earth, they are so different.
Don't get worried with our Taurus way of being "wordless" about feelings. If the guy is willing to spend time with you is because he wants. Time is precious, time is money LOL
Keep things easy No need for discussing relation. In fact, if you seed any type of worry inside a Taurus head, this seed will become a huge tree of worry and will mess things up. LOL
Difficult to describe, I hope you got it Cheers
Keep things easy
No need for discussing relation. In fact, if you seed any type of worry inside a Taurus head, this seed will become a huge tree of worry and will mess things up. LOLDifficult to describe, I hope you got it
CheersBy the way, did you notice that major female porn stars are Pisces? 
Go for it! Taurus male and Pisces female must be one of the best pairings ever.
I met a Pisces woman and it was the greatest thing that ever happened to me (until now LOL).
We had to go separate ways due to strangely odd life circumstances Time will tell 
I met a Pisces woman and it was the greatest thing that ever happened to me (until now LOL).
We had to go separate ways due to strangely odd life circumstances
Time will tell VenusAquarius, yeah I am sort of detached also, and my Asc is Cap too.
Someone said about imagining competitions that are only in our heads, maybe that's the case too. Aries is said to take everything personally. I have extreme difficulty to perceive sarcasm also, I'm too literal.
Another "theme" I noticed in my life is that I always manage to achieve the impossible things, but too often I fail to do the easiest ones. It's this constant up-down curve, "success, fail, success, fail".
Someone said about imagining competitions that are only in our heads, maybe that's the case too. Aries is said to take everything personally. I have extreme difficulty to perceive sarcasm also, I'm too literal.
Another "theme" I noticed in my life is that I always manage to achieve the impossible things, but too often I fail to do the easiest ones. It's this constant up-down curve, "success, fail, success, fail".
Edit: Or is it my Taurus brain that "don't handle changes so well". LOL
Posted by aqulibini
I have fun with aries.... For the first few hours... and then ...
You nailed it! Exactly the way I was trying to say.
Everywhere I go, first meetings are usually great, feels like heaven, instant friends... A few days later everything changes suddenly, like people don't saying "good morning" anymore at the office, or you get that feel they are avoiding your presence, not interested in what you have to say, judging by the facial expressions and closed answers. Totally opposed to first day.
I was thinking "Well, maybe I was not that interesting as I thought I was". But then, why the first meeting was so great?
Over time I am noticing that I must avoid telling things that people didn't ask. Maybe the urge to express itself is the problem? But then, how could 2 people engage in conversations if both of them are "avoiding initiating things"?
Damn humans, so complicated.
Hello, fellow Aries suns and Aries moons.
Do you also get the feeling that people always get mad at you everywhere you go for no reason? Like at work. Most of the time I'm chilling but even that seems to annoy some people and they always come to confront me in front of the group, saying that I "am wrong" or "must change".
I withdraw from fights because I believe these types of people craves for attention, and ignoring them makes them feel so angry it's funny.
Or is it my bad luck? LOL Cheers from Brasil.
Do you also get the feeling that people always get mad at you everywhere you go for no reason? Like at work. Most of the time I'm chilling but even that seems to annoy some people and they always come to confront me in front of the group, saying that I "am wrong" or "must change".
I withdraw from fights because I believe these types of people craves for attention, and ignoring them makes them feel so angry it's funny.
Or is it my bad luck? LOL Cheers from Brasil.
I'm not an Aries, just have an Aries moon, but I identify much more with Aries traits than Taurus.
I read it another site that Aries men are faithful because they put their woman on a pedestal. I feel the same way, when a woman treats me good and is nice to me, there is no need to look for another woman. All the Aries men I knew (friends and work) are chilled guys too. We all have crazy stories of how we met our wives, always bold stuff, but cheating was a subject that was never brought into conversation. Also, I could feel in their voices the absolutely praise for their woman.
But, keep in mind that we have quick minds like Gemini. If a woman hurt us or if the love is not reciprocal, we will keep moving on. Time is short and precious.
Oh, I don't know for the other Aries dudes, but I feel that the woman must be compatible in bed, otherwise we lose interest quickly.
I also noticed Aries men (I don't know any Aries woman) are pretty open-minded in relationships, they understand the value of having time alone to avoid boredom.
From all signs, the ones I found the most "players" with women were Pisces and Scorpios. Water people have this need to play the bad guy.
I read it another site that Aries men are faithful because they put their woman on a pedestal. I feel the same way, when a woman treats me good and is nice to me, there is no need to look for another woman. All the Aries men I knew (friends and work) are chilled guys too. We all have crazy stories of how we met our wives, always bold stuff, but cheating was a subject that was never brought into conversation. Also, I could feel in their voices the absolutely praise for their woman.
But, keep in mind that we have quick minds like Gemini. If a woman hurt us or if the love is not reciprocal, we will keep moving on. Time is short and precious.
Oh, I don't know for the other Aries dudes, but I feel that the woman must be compatible in bed, otherwise we lose interest quickly.
I also noticed Aries men (I don't know any Aries woman) are pretty open-minded in relationships, they understand the value of having time alone to avoid boredom.
From all signs, the ones I found the most "players" with women were Pisces and Scorpios. Water people have this need to play the bad guy.
Coincidence or not, Glenn Hughes has Aries moon
"I can see that you're justified
And I get your point of view
You're courageous, You are strong
You're courageous, All along
Turn the pages, Brand new dawn
You're courageous, Your time has come
You do believe in lovin' your brother
I can see you found a new way
All you want is to keep it a simple thing
You always had habitual attention
It's all because you live day to day
And you receive the colours that love will bring"
Please someone tell me how do I post youtube videos here? LOL
"I can see that you're justified
And I get your point of view
You're courageous, You are strong
You're courageous, All along
Turn the pages, Brand new dawn
You're courageous, Your time has come
You do believe in lovin' your brother
I can see you found a new way
All you want is to keep it a simple thing
You always had habitual attention
It's all because you live day to day
And you receive the colours that love will bring"
Please someone tell me how do I post youtube videos here? LOL
I tried hard, but there are sometimes when the stupidity coming out of their mouths are so intolerable, that I can't help but letting my anger come over written all over my face, at the same instant I hear it.
My wish was to kill everyone that denied me a chance in life, or maybe just make them suffer and letting go alive to keep suffering all life long. But fear of prison is what keep me from doing this.
If it's a game, the rules shoud apply to everyone, but it's not what I've been seeing.
Safety is harder to get from what I taught.
My wish was to kill everyone that denied me a chance in life, or maybe just make them suffer and letting go alive to keep suffering all life long. But fear of prison is what keep me from doing this.
If it's a game, the rules shoud apply to everyone, but it's not what I've been seeing.
Safety is harder to get from what I taught.
In love I don't withdraw because I always crave to see her again soon as possible and the waiting kills me.
But in general life, yes I escape a lot to my lonely world of "mp3+reading". After this period in the cave, I sort of know what to do again.
But in general life, yes I escape a lot to my lonely world of "mp3+reading". After this period in the cave, I sort of know what to do again.
Depends on the type of Taurus... If it's a passive Taurus (like a Cancer man) that thinks he can buy a girl with a diamond ring, it can work because the Leo woman will dominate him. Probably, he will loose everything in divorce later LOL
One thing I instantly recognize in Leos is the expression "drama queen" LOL
Although, sex is good and you know it instinctively from first sight.
The main chemistry occurs because Taurus likes to feel that he is giving pleasure to her with his hands. And Leo woman (comparing with a cat) likes to be grabbed with firm/heavy hands. Suddenly, things are getting hot around here... LOL
One thing I instantly recognize in Leos is the expression "drama queen" LOL
Although, sex is good and you know it instinctively from first sight.
The main chemistry occurs because Taurus likes to feel that he is giving pleasure to her with his hands. And Leo woman (comparing with a cat) likes to be grabbed with firm/heavy hands. Suddenly, things are getting hot around here... LOL
I have 2 Scorpio uncles and 1 Scorpio aunt.
They always had the URGE to say it out loud their opinions on my quiet side. "Why this boy is so quiet?" "How do he spend so many time sitting here?" "Why don't he treat women like a piece of garbage?" "Why is he so soft spoken?"
Another thing, they are always suspecting of something. "If he is so quiet, he must been dumped by a girl".
They can't understand, sometimes all I want is sit and look at emptyness drinking my cup of fresh brazilian coffee LOL
They always had the URGE to say it out loud their opinions on my quiet side. "Why this boy is so quiet?" "How do he spend so many time sitting here?" "Why don't he treat women like a piece of garbage?" "Why is he so soft spoken?"
Another thing, they are always suspecting of something. "If he is so quiet, he must been dumped by a girl".
They can't understand, sometimes all I want is sit and look at emptyness drinking my cup of fresh brazilian coffee LOL
Thanks for the advice, but this wednesday I lost another job, because of a witch/b1tch that was on leader position.
So you're saying the only way to succeed is quit being an employee and working for myself/start a business?
Another thing I noticed in this corporative world, is that people value more pretty words than real results and facts. It makes my head explode in anger!
So you're saying the only way to succeed is quit being an employee and working for myself/start a business?
Another thing I noticed in this corporative world, is that people value more pretty words than real results and facts. It makes my head explode in anger!
Problem with bosses and with taking orders... Is it a Taurus thing? Or is it my Aries moon? (I born 9PM, this makes me a nocturnal chart, ruled by Moon instead of Sun )
In 2 years I passed by 9 jobs. Only 3 of them I really liked, but my bosses were all full of bullshit, and they didn't like me because probably they noticed I am not "controlable" and "passive". This makes me a bad "employee" for many types of jobs.
Do you have this problem? How do you deal it your boss? Specially when you are in a situation when it's clear like water that your boss don't know nothing about your job, but he keeps stubborn defending his position and his "pizza chart who tells what is right and what is wrong" LOL
)In 2 years I passed by 9 jobs. Only 3 of them I really liked, but my bosses were all full of bullshit, and they didn't like me because probably they noticed I am not "controlable" and "passive". This makes me a bad "employee" for many types of jobs.
Do you have this problem? How do you deal it your boss? Specially when you are in a situation when it's clear like water that your boss don't know nothing about your job, but he keeps stubborn defending his position and his "pizza chart who tells what is right and what is wrong" LOL
Yes, I noticed this behavior with Taurus, both males and females. When they are in a large group they act as they want to be the leader of the group, a bit like Geminis do too.
I don't get along well with other Taurus because they put so many conditions you realize it's not worth it. And the "diamond ring" story, heard this a million times. Being a sucker is a choice you can avoid if you want.
I don't get along well with other Taurus because they put so many conditions you realize it's not worth it. And the "diamond ring" story, heard this a million times. Being a sucker is a choice you can avoid if you want.
Yes, if things are not straight forward from the beginning, I go to the next chase. A perfect example of hell would be the "patience" required to date Capricorns or Taurus women. No sex in the world can worth all the wasted time, you gotta think that way LOL
Cancers got on my nerves too because they don't talk what they like when you answer.
Libras, Sagitarius and Aquarius seems to be the most straight forward from what I saw
Cancers got on my nerves too because they don't talk what they like when you answer.
Libras, Sagitarius and Aquarius seems to be the most straight forward from what I saw
rockyroadieicecream is right. Remembering right now 3 Cap women I knew, all of them used to do this "test boundaries" thing.
Poor Taurus people on the hands of this type of users, because I feel a lot of pleasure in providing for others. But what do we get back?
That is the reason Caps like Cancers, because they are passive males.
Hard working all day and just signing a deal where it says "Yeah baby I will give you all that I have, and if you don't want me anymore, you can take half with you"???? NEVER!!!!!!!!!!
Poor Taurus people on the hands of this type of users, because I feel a lot of pleasure in providing for others. But what do we get back?
That is the reason Caps like Cancers, because they are passive males.
Hard working all day and just signing a deal where it says "Yeah baby I will give you all that I have, and if you don't want me anymore, you can take half with you"???? NEVER!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks for the help, but if the person is not even saying "good morning" anymore, there is not a chance of even friendship coming back. End of this thread Everyone have a good and lusty life LOL
Everyone have a good and lusty life LOL"grab her by the hand and say "u are coming with me" and take her wherever"
THAT was what my Aries moon told me to do from the beginning!!!
So the news is that I QUIT!!! Right now, she is extremely cold, don't say even Hi, Good morning... Things are at the shittiest situation possible.
I miss her friendship and I was thinking in tell her this, but now I thought to myself that I don't want to let a person treat me as a piece of shit in front of others, only because she has a female sexual organ between her legs. NOOO!!!!!
Before the "kiss incident" she always showed she knows a lot more than me, in front of others, making me feel like a useless being, and I hate that kind of bullying (her Taurus moon?), specially in front of others.
Anyway I am better without her, because an Air lady came just in the right time to please me and give me the HEAT I missed...
Another thing she does: she gives rides in her car, let other coworkers eat her food, help others in general, but later she keeps reminding them that they "owe" her that help.
THAT was what my Aries moon told me to do from the beginning!!!
So the news is that I QUIT!!! Right now, she is extremely cold, don't say even Hi, Good morning... Things are at the shittiest situation possible.
I miss her friendship and I was thinking in tell her this, but now I thought to myself that I don't want to let a person treat me as a piece of shit in front of others, only because she has a female sexual organ between her legs. NOOO!!!!!
Before the "kiss incident" she always showed she knows a lot more than me, in front of others, making me feel like a useless being, and I hate that kind of bullying (her Taurus moon?), specially in front of others.
Anyway I am better without her, because an Air lady came just in the right time to please me and give me the HEAT I missed...
Another thing she does: she gives rides in her car, let other coworkers eat her food, help others in general, but later she keeps reminding them that they "owe" her that help.
I am Cap Rising, so I assume I can participate here LOL My Libra ex was constantly asking about my feelings, but it was always difficult to me to SAY it, even though there was love.
When I noticed no words were coming to my head, I appealed to lots of caress and kisses expecting that would prove it.
When I noticed no words were coming to my head, I appealed to lots of caress and kisses expecting that would prove it.
True. From what I saw, Scorps sun/moon/or venus seems to create storms when there's a calm.
Depends on some things, like your definition of "leader". A "leader" to you is "someone capable of exploiting others without remorse to his own benefit"? If so I see a lot of Cancers and Pisces doing it in real life experiences.
Most of the other Taurus I know are people that "needs a boss to give directions", without a direction we are lost. But I met some Taurus friends that were working for themselves in the food area.
I met a lot of Gemini bosses, but I see that is because their ability to "take orders from above" and their inability to be cuddling with family at home, and their ability to always win a treetunkin argument.
Don't remember about the other signs, because I am new into astrology, but every sign has ability to do its own thing. Aries sports, Taurus food, Gemini sales, Cancer food too?, Virgo studies, Libra fashion/dance, Scorpio CSI LOL, Sagitarius motivating groups, Capricorn children related, Aquarius engineering?, and every Pisces I know always manages to get rich somehow without too much fight.
Most of the other Taurus I know are people that "needs a boss to give directions", without a direction we are lost. But I met some Taurus friends that were working for themselves in the food area.
I met a lot of Gemini bosses, but I see that is because their ability to "take orders from above" and their inability to be cuddling with family at home, and their ability to always win a treetunkin argument.
Don't remember about the other signs, because I am new into astrology, but every sign has ability to do its own thing. Aries sports, Taurus food, Gemini sales, Cancer food too?, Virgo studies, Libra fashion/dance, Scorpio CSI LOL, Sagitarius motivating groups, Capricorn children related, Aquarius engineering?, and every Pisces I know always manages to get rich somehow without too much fight.
OK I understand now, but the problem is that she always says hints like "I like macdonalds" or "there is gonna be a party next saturday" or "I like going to the beach at night drinking".
But when I ask her to do all these things she does not answer and start talking about some other things.
...
By the way, the "attack" episode was Saturday (she was standing close to me and asked me to come closer to see something, what can you expect a man can think in a moment like this?).
We did not see each other till today, Tuesday, and she was cold, even the friendship is gone.
But fortunately, there is a bunch of non-cold people out there, and it got so messed up that I lost all interest. Must be caused by her Taurus moon too, that makes her double stubborn, and double sluggish, and double "material".
But when I ask her to do all these things she does not answer and start talking about some other things.
...
By the way, the "attack" episode was Saturday (she was standing close to me and asked me to come closer to see something, what can you expect a man can think in a moment like this?).
We did not see each other till today, Tuesday, and she was cold, even the friendship is gone.
But fortunately, there is a bunch of non-cold people out there, and it got so messed up that I lost all interest. Must be caused by her Taurus moon too, that makes her double stubborn, and double sluggish, and double "material".
"Love ME and nobody else, let me get you stuck to me... But I never said I would do the same in return"
BYATCHS
BYATCHS
lnana, my past Cap girl was only a sex relationship, but how can I say it: I lived alone, and she wanted to come by after work to make sex, and only spend 2 hours here, and she said she would not come to my house on the weekends, BUT she called me on phone everyday, knowing that I don't like phone calls. And another point: a woman that calls me everyday, is unabling me to get another women. So it's a loose-loose relationship with someone that never stop to ASK more and NOT GIVE any. But those 2 hours of weekly sex was so good that kinda worth the effort on the whole week.
Lucriu, awesome idea!!! She loves junkie food and I didn't think about that "dinner" idea. My Aries moon is always saying to me: "You are too slow, she will put you on the friendzone, loser" LOL
Just to clarify, I NEVER saw a woman denying a stolen kiss, it was new to me.
Lucriu, awesome idea!!! She loves junkie food and I didn't think about that "dinner" idea. My Aries moon is always saying to me: "You are too slow, she will put you on the friendzone, loser" LOL
Just to clarify, I NEVER saw a woman denying a stolen kiss, it was new to me.
If we are with you, is because we really want to. If not, we could be anywhere else in this big planet... No point in wasting precious little time.
Eye contact and lots of touch whom tells more than any word could do.
But second chance is the last...
But second chance is the last...
Darn, I am getting so upset lately at Earth girls that I will avoid them. Every earth woman I know is always asking more than ever gives in return. Don't know anymore if Leo's are the most selfish of women...
After dating some Libras, the whole world seems like a crazy non-sense mess LOL
After dating some Libras, the whole world seems like a crazy non-sense mess LOL
Jupiter in Cancer may be the reason you thinking in get rid of everything and search for a new "home".
I did it, last month I sold all my furniture and traveled 8 hours to share an apartment with unknowns, the main objective was live at a beach town.
May be Uranus in my 4th house too, in Aries.
I did it, last month I sold all my furniture and traveled 8 hours to share an apartment with unknowns, the main objective was live at a beach town.
May be Uranus in my 4th house too, in Aries.