Message Posts by Happygal2011

Posted by Mujer_latina
No. Just not.

Cancer people are strong people. They are emotional in a way that they sense your emotions and then use it to manipulate you. Also they are emotional but do no like to show it. Keep it to themselves. And try to refrain them. They want to be in control and usually are in control. Very sly people.

Meanwhile libra is just a wishy washy indecisive mess that just doesn't stand a chance

Posted by oneday
Hello I just recently posted about my long disrance situatuon with my cancer.

How he is scared to fly and will not visit me but I have came multiple times there. Well the only time he can get off is during a period where I promised my aunt 3 months ago I’d watch her house and dogs for her while she’s on a cruise and she doesn’t trust anyone else to do this job. I gave my word before she planned the trip and I’m gonna stick too it it’s not right if me if I didn’t. Anyways she said he is more than welcome to come stay at her house with me. But he’s scared to fly and when I mention driving or train he doesn’t wanna do that either.

I even mentioned flying down and flying up with him (only 2.5 hr flight) and he still won’t. I am very understanding with things but if I can’t see him in a couple of weeks in February it most likely won’t be until April or later.

Is it wrong of me to feel as though I am the only one putting in work?

I don’t wanna be taken advantage of like in my past relationships I always cater to the guy and to be honest I have always been the one catering to him and I guess maybe now and then it would be nice to see how bad he really wants to see me?

A lot of friends and family said I shouldn’t be doing all the work and that he should “meet me halfway”

Now my aunt told me she would fly instead of drive which would mean she could come back earlier to where I’d still be able to go down there but between hotel renting and car and airplane tickets she would be spending an extra $ 1000 which is not right. I told her no.

Anyways, am I wrong for feeling slightly bitter?

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Libra social

Cancer anti social...me and my bf very sociable

Libra extrovert ..my bf is good at making friend but doesnt talk alot and usually quite and not share about his life

Cancer introvert....me the extrovert..talk everything under the sun..i talk a sentense, my libra talk a wors

Libra mental...yeah, think too negative with things and nvr walk away from past hurt and very emotional

Cancer emotional...yeah..i am emotionL

Libra trouble maker...yeah, forever giving me problem like fighting, trouble at work, finance problem

Cancer mediator...yeah..70% of me

Libra talkative...no at all and how i wish he talk more than me

Cancer bored...yeah, easily bored and 50% a boring person

Libra loud and boring...60% true

Cancer exciting (artsy funny engaging)...60% true

Libra naturally charming...yes..my bf is very charming and of those reason, woman keep coming for him

Cancer falsifys charm to win but hates it...yes, 60% true

No i see very little similarities

Posted by brendaf007
I have never seen an emotional Libra. I will say that libra cant make up their minds. Libras are fun but in a relationship for me is another animal altogether.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
No Libra has way better fashion sense and is less emotional

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Posted by themilkyway36
I've noticed that they both like staying with the things that they're used to, like people even if they're not the best for them, and do not like confrontation

That is one of our strengths. We actually love people.

I like Libra women. Libra and Cancer have few things in common, but one big thing that we both have in common, and no one mentioned it here is: we are both LOVE driven.

Right, although Cancer is definitely more about the family while Libra is about their romantic partner

i like cancer's way of security and making sure their children are going to be fine. they really save for a rainyday. the way they ensure resources and planning for the future. you feel so safe with that. even in death, like knowing your funeral is going to be paid for. even if it's a low cost funeral. Just that fact and having health insurance. their motto...security really is something that is very desirable for security minded peeps.

i see libra making your home beautiful and making sure even children get a good education (i think because of the air realm) they think of the future consequences of education more, and making your world more peaceful and harmoniously. libra can learn alot from cancers and cancer can learn from libra.

so if they have strong energies in the chart like that for both of them it's good and they have a perfect understanding of that.

This is very true. If both of them let each other in, they quite possibly could be happy. Libra I used to think is a romantic love but i feel like they are very guarded and don't want people to see that side of them.

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Posted by brendaf007
Just to ask. Does anyone see any similarities between Cancer and Libra?

I found that Libra doesn't have a clingy bone in their body but Cancer does. However, when Cancer becomes unclingy Libra comes running.

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Posted by airwrecka
Well let me start with we have a long distance relationship (only an hour drive). So we rotate weekends but sometimes he wants his time with his friends which is fine with me but he never just tells me that because he thinks I'm his ex girlfriend and I'll get mad. We fight about that a lot because he feels like he lets me down when he just wants friend time. So the night before thanksgiving I was supposed to go out there and he ended up working late and then he said he didn't want me to come out there because he has a really long day and he was in a really bad mood and just wanted to relax and get stuff done around his house. He made me wait until 10:30 at night to tell me this so I was irritated. Then he told me that he wasn't feeling the same way about me? "It's not that I don't love you any less I just don't see our future the way I used to" but then admitted it's probably because of our fighting. He just turned 30 and I'm 27 and we've been together for 9 months. I'm also an Aquarius if that helps at all. He goes through depression periods and has had to take breaks from seeing me before but never stopped contact. He said he thinks he's to immature for me because he always tries to do the right thing and then screws it up somehow and he's tired of letting me down and hurting me. He can't stand the guilt. When really if he could just communicate with me we'd have no problems. I don't think he's seeing anyone else...if he is it sucks for her because he's always texting me. And his "field" is a little ditch with some grass around it because he lives in a REALLY small town and already knows everyone.

Posted by Lionness718
Wow whatever happened to talking it out. That’s sad I thought a Libra would be more communicative with his spouse. She dodged a bullet.

Posted by dwin
Well not really disappreaing. He has been pursuing me for about a year, has lots of girls on his end pining for him, but he's trying to keep them a secret from me: constantly trying to clear the air and say he's not interested in them, very jealous type, does not like other males approaching me, tried to mark his territory though nothing sexual ever happened between us except for small endearing gestures.

He has been pursuing for a year: taking me on trips, working with him (travels a lot), comes to my house everyday, confides with everything ( except women, he does not talk about ANY OTHER woman though he did at the beginning but not anymore) he's flirting, all that, then tells me he does not want a girlfriend right now (saying he is too very busy with his own new business, and university), but still keeps pursuing me. I never initiate because i do not want to seem like another lame fangirl to him. so can someone tell me whats up? any thoughts?

Posted by Boots1313
Hi I'm new here but have been reading the boards for quite sometime.

I have been with an amazing Libra male for 5 months now.

He has always been emotionally closed off and at times hard to read, however he is very affectionate and we are always finding fun things to do together. ..to me everything has seemed fine.

Friday night, we cooked a romantic steak dinner togther, candles, music the works. I felt so special, spoiled and appreciated and he kept saying how much fun this was.

We settle in and watch a movie have a 2nd bottle of wine (we don't drink much so we were both very drunk) and moved into the bedroom where.....it didn't work. We tried and tried and nothing.

Now I know he's drunk and I'm not concerned I tell him let's just go to bed it's fine. Being completely understanding. His response "we don't have a connection anymore, there is no spark and our sex is boring" what?! I have been very satisfied and I figured he was as well we have never had this issue before.

He ended up breaking up with me and in the morning I packed all my things and left..

A few hours later he texted me begging for me back and that he wants to work things our, he knows things aren't perfect but he wants to try to make it work. He even showed up to a superb owl party I was at to say sorry.

Now I have forgiven and as of Monday we went on a nuce date bowling and it seems good. Im just scared and unsure and I need help just moving forward...any advice would help.

Thanks