TMV, your conceptualization of sun in virgo/ aquarius ascendant dynamic is impressive. The Vulcan/Romulan metaphor gave me a laugh- how apropos of the topic!
My sun sign is virgo with moon in pisces and an ascendant sign of aquarius. It's a vivid mix, to be sure, and presents innumerable opportunities for personal growth. I'm not sure what I would do without a healthy sense of humor, though. I often find the absurdity of my day comical and enjoy a good laugh.
One of my patients had some sage advice to share with me regarding how she deals with disappointment, anger, or sadness: "sometimes you need to just take a nap and get over it." Did I mention that she's 7 yo?!?
Hilarious.