Im not sure about her's mine is oct 15 but what does all this mean to me? Oh and to add to the story I finally saw her tonight. Her and a few friends of mine came over and smoked hookah with me. I also asked her what the deal was and made sure she wasnt ignoring me because of the fling we had.
Because its just a game really, just a way of proving to ourselves we still have that "charm."
And to sucha_d0ll's comment, yes i am ; )
Are scorpio's prone to using drugs to hide, because from my current point of view on them they are. correct me if i just choose the bad one's
So im a rather classic libra guy and i met this scorpio girl about a month ago. so we got to talking...to make a long story short she said she likes me a lot and loves talking to me. well after that she would invite me to all her parties and i invited her to mine, at one of them i saw her with another guy and talked to her later saying that i dont need bs like that and if she's just keeping her options open with guys thats cool but i dont want to be just an option. she assured me over and over it wasn't like that (she didn't hook up with him)and that she really does like me a lot. we fooled around a little bit at one party, nothing big, and from then it went down hill. she started getting really distant and now she wont even text me. this is a first and i dont know exactly how to take it. we got closer and closer then she just cut and run. is she scared of something serious? whats the deal because i really have no idea? at this point i know she's not even worth my time but i do want to know what went wrong. If more details on the situation are needed just say so. Thanks!
I like whats already been said but as for the sign part libra's aren't big on cheating. but if we get bored we will flirt with other girls to the point they want us. its like a way of proving to ourselves we still have that "charm." just keep things new and fun and you shouldn't even have that problem.
Not gunna lie i pull this crap all the time with my ex which i still like. She's a libra to but it confuses the crap out of her which i love. i like to keep her guessing and wondering when i may show up next. Its just a way to make sure he is on your mind. Considering you posted this it seems his tactics are working to a mild extent. It may be stupid and childish but it works. But with his whole off and on thing it may just be a game to him.
Well if ya'll dated before then he probably isn't over you. I'm the guy in that situation right now, libra guys like to flirt but we draw a line at some point and it seems like he is going further than just being a flirt. I'm doing the same thing with the libra girl i lost 4 months ago after a fun two years, she has a new guy just like you. And if his thinking is anything like mine i'm sure he thinks he can win you back. But as for the line we draw with flirting, its a shady one. When i went after taken girls or when i was the taken one i would just get to the point where they said they like me then i would back off. But im pretty sure he still likes you.
P.S. Never said i cheated, just a flirt.
Care for some advice from a Libra guy? I can see how this could come off as him just wanting to get some but from whats been said that may not be the case. Ok so he started by being cute with you, the whole "been thinkin about you," then called you, you didnt answer, and thats were the first problem was. The next day he says he is busy, kinda short in the way he said it ya? Then that kinda goes on for a bit...Well when a libra guy likes a girl he will say those cute things, but if you ignore him in anyway it will really hurt his feelings. And in this case i think you did just that. You had sex but i think there may be more than just a "booty call" as some have stated. When libra guys like a girl and the girls shows she likes him, he expects her to stroke his ego on a daily basis (non-sexual) but when the girl ignore's him, it'll bother the crap out of him, making him very short with people. So sure it could have been a booty call but in most cases libra's like attachment too much to screw the world for kicks. So my advice is to boost his ego and dont ignore him, if you have plans with him stick to them. If he starts saying cute things to you throw some his way, dont one-up him just be sweet. And if its more than sex, he will show it, if not then he's not worth your time. Good luck!
Being a libra guy my best advice to you is to leave it. As we all know libra's weigh the goods and bads of things and considering he is going over sea's he may be watching out for your feelings as well as his. Libra's love to make others happy, even more so when they care about that person, so I am sure he does care about you. And as for the mixed signals we use them like a hook, we can always be on and off about things but we do this to leave people thinking and wondering. They say once a libra guy has you, he has you for good. See by "hooking" you with these "mood swings" he is making sure he does not leave your thoughts, which shows he care's for you. I think this guy has strong feelings for you but with war ahead he wont risk hurting you or himself. If this is indeed the case then backing off will be the best for both of you. If its not then backing off may put the hook in his mouth.