Message Posts by MJane89
Posted by nanoAs I was told by my guides in my dream 'You're here to give and receive love.' Simple as that. All else is illusion.
In our short and insignificant lives on earth, does anything transcend beyond the emotion of love?
Do you think it is the ultimate thing to acquire in life?
Do successes, experiences, material possessions, etc matter AS MUCH if there is no one to share them with in your life?
Do you think people who say that they are fine with never having found love (in whatever form), are lying to themselves?
Share your thoughts.
Posted by MadMarchRamThe twin flame dynamism accelaretes everything more with the kundalini awakening. It's not going to be sugarcoated either. The most painful emotions and the fastest healings come up once your twin enters the scene. Your soul then starts to be washed out properly. You will heal whatever is in the basket, your whole ancestrial lineage, your egoic self, each other. It's epic. My twin flame gives me the f* mirror which I sometimes forget that is my reflection.Posted by MJane89This! ☝?
It's a whole lot of process, for some quick others slow. Seemingly chaotic, unexplainable, far from logic or conceptual understanding. Natural cleansing will take place within your body, you might feel aches, emotional frustration, psychic skills start to open, conscious dreams, visions. Your perception changes, you start to have connection with everyone and everything on a deeper .
Mine started with a mental breakdown 3 yrs ago, to recover from that found spirituality but I had no idea about awakening back then. There is always a triggering event prior to spiritual awakening. (rarely just happens out of blue to some people)
It's not a walk in the park, this much I do know! It's messy, unpredictable and at times quite emotionally painful. However the plus side is, that you do gain clarity on a lot of things that have caused problems in the past.
I've always been spiritual, but the actual "awakening" process started 8 years ago after a very painful breakup with, what is known as a karmic partner. My real "wake the fuck up!" Started this year when I met my twin flame/divine partner. Again NOT for the faint of heart.
I wouldn't change it for the world, I'm grateful for my journey. However I wouldn't wish it on anyone as it's not all fairies and rainbows.click to expand
Posted by LilianniYes, yes and yes!
They say that a dreaming is just your subconscious sorting itself out. What if you get a message in your dream? Do you follow it? Have you had any weird experiences where you had a dream and it happened in real life?
I'm exhausted, hot, have muscle and joint aches, and everything around the chakras. Can't move , just want to sleep.
Posted by Leo-melloLet him go. Cancer men have complexed personalities with deep issues. Just have positive thoughts that he will fix himself, it will take a long time. Don't wait for him either, live your life to the fullest.
Hey so iv never bothered seeking advice like this but i feel its time to get the world wide knowledge for once. Word of warning this may end up a long one.....
Basicaly, Im a leo woman (26 years) who has a crush on a cancer man (35 years). He happens to be one of my bosses.
So being a leo, i pursued him a bit by making the first out of work contact on FB a couple of months back asking to grab a coffe to wich he said that would be great. We had breif conversations for a bout a week but he never seemed to put much effort in actualy chatting (getting to know each other) and of course, we never went for that coffee and he seemed to brush off the other couple times i tried to see him on an out of work basis.. so... I left him alone after this assuming theres no interest.
At a work do, his best friend told him i liked him so sure enough once i was in the cab home i get a message from him after no contact for about a week asking if id got home safe. The converstation quickly turned into him initiating sexting wich isnt my cup of tea but i had a f*** it moment and went with it. ( first sexting experience!) This went on for a couple of days with him also showing just a tad more interest in getting to know me to. Realy just a tad though. He did however start messaging me everyday without me having to be the initiator. However, even with the "sexting" he never seemed keen on meeting up to do the deed itself. He was wuite happy taking care of himself. (He did have the opportunity to ask me round or come round mine.) So another week or so passed and i asked him what it was we were doing as we werent friends, we wernt having sex either and we were werent dating. He said he didnt want to date but wanted to build up trust with me and that he was wary due to our work situation. At this point i clarified i like liked him and not just for sex although sex would be great but not a priority. We agreed to be friends/ collegues watever....
I stopped contacting him except for work related stuff and of course never heard from him unless he was responding to my work queries. (Just like to add that at work he seems to look out for me quite a bit and i often catch him looking over my way but i cant say he makes any extra effort to be around me)
We often go for drinks after work with the rest of our team and iv noticed when he drInks he open up to me and we chat for hours. He has told me about his past relationships. The last night out was interesting as he said he was not over his ex-ex girlfriend, as in the girlfried before his last ex. I also found out through another collegue that hes on tinder but "hes sick of it as the girls arent serious".
Since i invited him to my birthday party and again we were chatting for hours and he crashed at mine.... in my bed.. he asked if he should cuddle me or not so i said sure. He didnt try anything at all and when i turned over he said "oh you not go na cuddle me anymore) so i had to cuddle him again.
The following morning, still likely drunk he told me he was "in the mood" and i politley rejected the offer as i was haaanging so he got up and stumbled out of the house about 5/10 minutes later . He messaged me when he got home to say hed got in safe and we chatted a bit (me asking questions him giving straight answers as usual). He then attempted to intiate sexting again.
Having written it all out it seems clear to me now that yea hes just interested in sex (which contradicts his anti-timder comment) and is emotionaly or generaly unavailable. (For several reasons noted above) But hey advice anyway i guess..?
So, should i steer clear as im looking for relationship portential or just hang around slying for a bit still and keep it PG and hope for the best? Any cancer men out there who can relate to what hes doing/ what he could be thinking/feeling in regards to me?
Im no beleiver of the whole FWB thing and "he'll fall madly in love with me" so id rather steer clear of that because il be the one endIng up D whipped! Ha...
Emotionally it's chaotic so far, overwhelming frustration and disappointment.
Hope this energy won't last.
Hope this energy won't last.
Posted by SoulOfABirdThere is only one twin flame, the exact match of your soul. That is essentially you yourself.Posted by urbane101What are "twin flames" ?
Maybe not soul mates, I think twin flames do thoughclick to expand
Unconsciously?
I always 'thought' soul mates recognize each other on a spiritual level, so they would only help and support each other even without being aware?
Do they hurt each other unintentionally? Is there such a lesson or agreement made between the two souls?
Please add more controversies about this topic
I always 'thought' soul mates recognize each other on a spiritual level, so they would only help and support each other even without being aware?
Do they hurt each other unintentionally? Is there such a lesson or agreement made between the two souls?
Please add more controversies about this topic
It's a whole lot of process, for some quick others slow. Seemingly chaotic, unexplainable, far from logic or conceptual understanding. Natural cleansing will take place within your body, you might feel aches, emotional frustration, psychic skills start to open, conscious dreams, visions. Your perception changes, you start to have connection with everyone and everything on a deeper .
Mine started with a mental breakdown 3 yrs ago, to recover from that found spirituality but I had no idea about awakening back then. There is always a triggering event prior to spiritual awakening. (rarely just happens out of blue to some people)
Mine started with a mental breakdown 3 yrs ago, to recover from that found spirituality but I had no idea about awakening back then. There is always a triggering event prior to spiritual awakening. (rarely just happens out of blue to some people)
How disappointed are you when your cancer man drinks?
It just hurts on a deeper level. To see him transforming into another mental state.
How much hurt cancer men have to drink that away or to know that their loved one feel sad about it..
It just hurts on a deeper level. To see him transforming into another mental state.
How much hurt cancer men have to drink that away or to know that their loved one feel sad about it..
I think I should really leave him alone though.
No, you should not.
Okay, I will not establish any further communication. Thank you
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No, you should not.
Okay, I will not establish any further communication. Thank you
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Why was it on the top of topics?Someone must've refreshed it somehow..
Cancer–a Cancer guy is a sensitive guy–and before he’s in love, his attention remains on his own feelings, but once he’s fallen for you, you become part of that feeling world. He becomes attuned, not to you, but to his own feeling state that has grown to include you, and this means that, though he’s totally close and loving in interation with you, he expects you to share his emotional reactions, perceptions, and conclusions to the letter–and this can be awkward if you’re not into co-dependence. The exceptional gentleness and compassion shown by the Cancer man can be very persuasive–you’ll know you’re loved, but inevitably there’ll come a point when you’ll wonder just how much ‘you’ there really is in your relationship.
How to react–Love with a Cancer man can be a total experience, like you’re enveloped in a perpetual wave of emotion–and if you have a strong streak of independence (unaspected Sun, strong Saturn or Uranus, lots of Aquarius, Capricorn, Aries, Scorpio, or Sagittarius) the constantly enmeshed feeling of the interaction can become overwhelming–where do you end and I begin? you may ask, and a Cancer man doesn’t necessarily want to answer, as part of the illusion of love for him is that there seem to be no boundaries between you. There’s also the possibility that the Cancer man so owns his Moon (as it is ruler of his Sun/ Soul) that there is no room for your Moon, and that means that, in a very real way, your emotional state may be unreal to this man. The best approach to possible confusion and even fusion of energies is to respond with real empathy and compassion to your man’s emotional state, but to make it very clear that there are some things a woman must carry for herself, including her own Moon energies. Gently show him that your emotions differ from his, own the nurturing qualities and functions you’re most aligned with, and keep the woman/Moon part of you prominent in the relationship–any guy as sensitive as the typical Cancer is will recognize that there are Moon energies especially attuned to the female, and will admire you for claiming them as yours.
How to react–Love with a Cancer man can be a total experience, like you’re enveloped in a perpetual wave of emotion–and if you have a strong streak of independence (unaspected Sun, strong Saturn or Uranus, lots of Aquarius, Capricorn, Aries, Scorpio, or Sagittarius) the constantly enmeshed feeling of the interaction can become overwhelming–where do you end and I begin? you may ask, and a Cancer man doesn’t necessarily want to answer, as part of the illusion of love for him is that there seem to be no boundaries between you. There’s also the possibility that the Cancer man so owns his Moon (as it is ruler of his Sun/ Soul) that there is no room for your Moon, and that means that, in a very real way, your emotional state may be unreal to this man. The best approach to possible confusion and even fusion of energies is to respond with real empathy and compassion to your man’s emotional state, but to make it very clear that there are some things a woman must carry for herself, including her own Moon energies. Gently show him that your emotions differ from his, own the nurturing qualities and functions you’re most aligned with, and keep the woman/Moon part of you prominent in the relationship–any guy as sensitive as the typical Cancer is will recognize that there are Moon energies especially attuned to the female, and will admire you for claiming them as yours.
I recently surprised him by putting a gift onto the threshold of his door before he had started his morning shift. It was a decent, simple one, nicely wrapped, with his name on it. I feel that it showed my care and creativity which I'm pretty sure a cancer man appreciate.
How would you like that idea of getting a small present from your long time crush?
How would you like that idea of getting a small present from your long time crush?