Message Posts by SALSALOVER
Jeeze caprigirlwithvirgo thanks for the moral rant you should become the first female POPE.
Secondly I never explained the dymanics of my relationship regarding my fiancee for you to go their and state I'm disloyal. Secondly, I do intend on calling if the engagement because of the fact what took place between me and the Virguy and because of the fact there are more cons then pros in the state of my relationship. That's why I'm calling off the engagement before I believe marriage is suppose to be for the long haul.
I asked for a cut and dry ADVICE not a moral rant.
Secondly I never explained the dymanics of my relationship regarding my fiancee for you to go their and state I'm disloyal. Secondly, I do intend on calling if the engagement because of the fact what took place between me and the Virguy and because of the fact there are more cons then pros in the state of my relationship. That's why I'm calling off the engagement before I believe marriage is suppose to be for the long haul.
I asked for a cut and dry ADVICE not a moral rant.
The Virguy is the one that suggested the friends with benefits.
I was thinking of breaking up the engagement.
In the meantime his sister and I go out to have a smoke and she's asking me what was going on with Her brother and I, because she never seen Him act the way he was acting unless he geniunely likes a girl. She asked me if I wanted her to talk to him, I told her no because I felt that I needed to clarify somethings to Him myself. Since I made the bed I might as well lay on it. So I end up showing to his workplace with this time him playing it a little bit more cool. He still came to say hello, here and there would come over a few times to ask about how was I doing and still kind of intently stare but not make it to obvious. I asked him if he was doing anything after his shift ended and he said no. I told if that I needed to speak to him just to clarify somethings. So at the end of the night I don't know if he freaked out because all of a sudden he was feeling tired and wanted to go home making the comment he was to tired to go hang out. I asked him why he didn't call me and he came out with remember we're friends and that I'm a married women and me retarting that I'm engaged. He asked how is he able to communicate with me talk about me by this time I was completely confused and floored because I told me that I had on long distance relationship with my fiancee where we get to see each other on the weekends only. He stated he couldn't believe I waited for him until the end of his shift, I told him if that was the case he should have been honest with me sooner and told me he was not into the mood for talking instead of leading me to believe he was willing to talk. So I ended up going home and before I leave he tells me he'll give me a call. The reason I wanted to talk to him was so I can clarify to him that this has never happened to me before and that I was questioning the state of my relationship with my fiancee by possibly breaking off the engagement. Can someone give me advice does he have feelings or was he just playing heads games?
I'm a leo female really feeling a virgo male whom I met around the summertime at his workplace. Both of us had the mutual sentiment as though we've known each other forever. Due to our open forum of communication regarding everything from personal things going on in our lives to relationships etc. He just came out of a relationship about a year ago and I recently got engaged but in a long distance relationship. About 2 weeks ago he suggested that we go hang out together for some music and drinks. We really couldn't communicate much due to the loud music so we ended going back to his place. Where he was showing me pictures of his family (keep in mind I already met one of his sisters and we seem to get along really well) and took his dog for a walk. After finishing walking the dog we go back to his place and eventually one kiss leads to other things. He tried the next morning to initate the morning after talk to no avail because I was so wrecked with guilt for my fiancee and him. He asked me a few times what was I thinking about b/c I'm sure he can tell the wheels were turning in my head but I couldn't answer. Now this is were I sort of freaked the Hell out more because we had gone to walk the dog so he came up with how he wanted to introduce me to his sister and talked furthermore about his family and the dynamics of the past relationship he came out of. Finally he came out with the conclusion we would be friends with benefits. Now he state he would contact me and he never did which really didn't effect me because in the meantime I was able to reevalute some things about my relationship with my fiancee. This week I went over to His workplace with my girlfriend to grab dinner. As soon as He seen me He immediately came over to greet me like a lovestruck puppy. I tried playing it cool because I didn't need his coworkers/sister drawing the obvious conclusion. Throughout the night he would stare at me intently and came a few times to where I was at to ask me how I was doing. So basically when it was the end of his shift he came over to say goodnight I told him to give me a call. My friend says he looked like he wanted to talk to me and I also wanted to talk to him but didn't have the nerve to invite him to sit down being that it was his workplace.
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