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Thanks for advice Emhendo, I appreciate it. I'll take it and run with it!

I just hate these fucken games women play.. it's just childish.
I have thought about it multiple times. I think it might add some comfort to her situation and hopefully a solution to her issue. At least I'm reaching out to her so she might think it's very thoughtful. If it doesn't get me a second date tomorrow it might happen in 2 weeks to 30 days.

I can relate because I had to deal with a ton of narcissistic agents on over 5000 real-estate transactions so I know it feels and I know it effected her. I could see her quivering from the inside of her stomach when she was talking about it.

it's a Cancer man and Scorpio woman to begin with
I was thinking about texting her one last time but I don't want to seem overwhelming. I'm still a little bit but hurt for her not texting me back, but I can see how much stress this might be on her.

Should I bother to text and say this??

Hey I was thinking about your problem with the closing and your ex. I had numerous transactions with difficult closings and I always dealt with it but nothing on a personal level like yourself. I can see how much stress this is causing you and I feel for you! This would be difficult for anyone to handle.

Maybe have one of the secretaries, or another agent in your office, or the broker handle the rest of the paperwork and calls until it closes. Pay them $ 1,000 to $ 2,000 what ever you feel comfortable with so you can still get your commission. Seriously it's not worth it. Just circle that closing date on your calendar and count down the days everyday and it will bring peace to you. Just a thought. If you feel like talking about it you have my number. I hope everything else is going good.

Take Care James
I know she a Scorpio and they believe in revenge but get real. The dude is a psycho if he tried to strangler her.

The best thing she can do is forget about him and move on to something healthy. The best revenge is just letting go of a bad person and never talking to them.




Well she could respond with a Yes, No or simply thanks for the invite but I'm not ready yet or something.

Yes, met on on-line dating site.

I asked her on the date if she was ready for dating mentally and she kinda of hesitated and said yes but I could be reading into it too much.

The thing is she is the listing agent on this house her and her ex boyfriend own together. He has been stalking her and calling her boss to complain about her. I told her it might be best to just give up the listing to someone else if you don't can't deal with him. I would just ignore him and try to let it not bother you. They have an offer on the house but it's not closing till the end of November. I said great just look at the big picture you only have to deal with him for another 40 days.

I hope this brought more light to the story.....

I just think it's give a response in a timely manor.

Any thoughts?


Thanks carrazeda for your thoughts. I just don't see the point in not letting her know how I feel about her. My responses via text and my actions during the date didn't come on too strong what so ever. I would hate it if I was the girl waiting 3 days to get a text or a call after the first date. Cancers and Scorpios are really good at hiding their emotions so someone needs to make the first step.

I guess I'll just wait to hear from her if she does ever respond. I don't want to text her anymore until she gets back to me, it's only proper. I don't want to feel stalkerish at all.

I just think it's kinda rude not to text some back even if they might not be interested or not ready. I can take a hit to my ego, there are millions of other great women out there.

Women want a man to take the lead especially early on.

Any other options of this issue?


Thanks for your advice ladies I really appreciate it. Of course I'm willing to take it slow, I just out of an engagement myself 2 months ago.. I usually take things slow..

I texted her this...

I had a great time with u! What a coincidence that we're both the youngest of 5 kids. I would like to take you out Friday an do something fun! R u free?


Shit... is it's been 9 house and no response...I'm crushed..

Do I do anything or just play the waiting game?

This is pathetic. Why would she agree to a second date on the first date? Was she just trying to be nice? I thought everything went really good..I thought Scorpio women are blunt? Cancers are defiantly blunt!

Any ideas?


hello anyone?
I had a really good date with her. I greeted her at door of the restaurant and she kinda gave me a half hug which seemed ok...but not extremely warm.


She and I shared a lot of stuff in common from work to social life and family.

Both of us where engaged less then 2 months ago with other people. Her's didn't end well. The guy tried to strangler her. OMG I felt so sorry for her....and now he is stalking her...I asked her if you want me to call him and set him straight.. She smiled and said no but thanks. I think she really liked that, of course what woman wouldn't !!!! LOL

I didn't try to pry too much into her personal background because I know Scorpio women don't like sharing this kinda of info with strangers. I told her to share if she felt comfortable. But she totally opened to me a lot, about her ex's, family, her kids, work and other stuff.

Date lasted about 1 hr and 30 minutes but I felt like I could talk to her all day. I think she had to go because was needed at work.

I asked her if she had a good time...She said yes...I asked her if she would like to go out again and she said yes that would be nice.

Also she said I can't believe a man like you is still available.. I told her I get a ton of messages and likes on the online dating but I know what I'm looking for and I really don't want to waste my time.. She was kinda fascinated by my career and my vast knowledge of math. (she doesn't like math)

I was going to walk her to her car but she gave me that half hug again. Maybe I'm over thinking things because she did have her purse and leftovers in the other hand. She might be scared of dating because of her nutty ex...

Should I text her or should she text me after first date(Scorpio Women Please)

I was going to say...

I had a great time and I look forward to seeing you soon. Let me know if your free later this week so we can get together and do something fun!

Any advice would be appreciate. If she's into me or is she blowing me off.. Would she agree to a second date if she wasn't interested? The half hug bugged me for some reason because I'm an awesome hugger.lol I didn't lean in for the kiss because she faced was turned to the side. Do Scorpio women not like to kiss on the first date?
Should I text her or should she text me after FIRST date(Scorpio Women Please)

I was going to say...

I had a great time and I look forward to seeing you soon. Please don't worry about your ex, things will be fine. If you need anything just call me. If your free on Friday I would like to get together?

I had a really good date with her. I greeted her at door of the restaurant and she kinda gave me a half hug which seemed ok...but not extremely warm.


She and I shared a lot of stuff in common from work to social life and family.

Both of us where engaged less then 2 months ago with other people. Her's didn't end well. The guy tried to strangler her in her pool. OMG I felt so sorry for her....and now he is stalking her...I asked her if you want me to call him and set him straight.. She smiled and said no but thanks. I think she really liked that, of course what woman wouldn't !!!! LOL

I didn't try to pry too much into her personal background because I know Scorpio women don't like sharing this kinda of info with strangers. But she totally opened to me a lot, about her ex's, family, her kids, work and other stuff.

Date lasted about 1 hr and 30 minutes but I felt like I could talk to her all day. I think she had to go because was needed at work.


I asked her if she had a good time...She said yes...I asked her if she would like to go out again and she said yes that would be nice.

Also she said I can't believe a man like you is still available.. I told her I get a ton of messages and likes on the online dating but I know what I'm looking for and I really don't want to waste my time.. She was kinda fascinated by my career and my vast knowledge of math. (she doesn't like math)

I was going to walk her to her car but she gave me that half hug again. Maybe I'm over thinking things because she did have her purse and leftovers in the other hand. She might be scared of dating because of her nutty ex...

Should I text her or should she text me after first date(Scorpio Women Please)

I was going to say...

I'm willing to take it slow because I think she is amazing but I know it takes time for Scorpio women to show emotions after only 1 date.

I had a great time and I look forward to seeing you soon. Please don't worry about your ex, things will be fine. If you need anything just call me. If your free on Friday I would like to get together?

Any advice would be appreciate. If she's into me or is she blowing me off.. Would she agree to a second date if she wasn't interested? The half hug bugged me for some reason because I'm an awesome hugger.lol I didn't lean in for the kiss because she faced was turned to the side. Do Scorpio women not like to kiss on the first date?