were it a mature 'i love who i wish' type of man, then you wouldnt have to ask that question. but since you had a man that could not stand on his own affirmations, there's your reason why. he is wishy washy. and i think all he wants is someone to hold his hand and sympathize. he's a grown damn man that needs to grow the hell up. my parents know around the age of 5 that they couldnt just tell me what to do. at least not without good reason. so i'll be damned if im gonna be told who to spend my life with.
nothing is wrong with you nor what you stated about good trumping evil. good will trump it when you find that good man that knows what he wants. im sorry you got stuck with a weaker version of our male sign. we have our good and bad. next time, be aware that all that drama is nothing but baggage that will be carried over to you if you choose to accept that person into your life. that guy was all red flags. why the hell would you pursue a girl anyway if you KNEW your parents were going to arrange a marriage for you. i feel he unecessarily dragged you into the bllsht. leave this jerk alone and rid yourself of the emotional debris he brought into your life. you need another 'life is beautiful!' type of person.
Gem, you will never fully be his nor submit to him because its not in you to do so. you will accept all the good things this man does for you. you will even want to go as far as to sleep with him, but more so for your own pleasure. but when it's time to give him what he's seeking - committment, depth of relationship, and real love, you will get scared and retreat. you might pull what alot of gems do and resort to spiteful behavior, such as sudden stopping of contact, treating him cruelly, or even sleeping with someone else, to send scorp the message that he's gotten to close and you no longer have interest in him.
when it comes to having scorpio as a partner, alot of people like to get their toes wet. but when it's time to dive deep and experience the depth of their waters, people get scared and take off. truthfully, airy geminis could really give a crap less about emotional scorpio. it's too detached, selfish, and impatience for that. this pair always sounds lovely at first. but give it some time. you two wont be able to stand each other. he needs to keep his eyes out for your flightiness. because it is in you, gem. after you got what you wanted, your curiousity will be gone and your affections for mr. sucker will be too.
good answer lmfao! ^
my sexlife
my family
anything that i consider mine personally is closed off from the knowledge of the world.
i will testify to that. allelujah.
bad childhoods seems to be the scorpionic theme. if you had to option to choose to be born into a terrible dramamtic childhood, or never be born or even aborted, which would you pick? this is not a question to be funny. i want to know perosnally which would be worse to you. some people do wish they were never born when they face unfair, complicated b.s. in their young lives. its worse when the abuse comes from the people who are supposed to love and take care of you.
this is not making fun of anything or anyone, as abortion is never a good answer for children, nor is abuse while growing up in the home, but it does happen in the real world.
so, would you rather be born to messed up parents and go through a childhood full of hell?
or would you prefer not to have any part of bad childhood and not be born, if you had a choice to decide?
i will answer this. i would have chosen to stay in my Creator's bosom rather than to be born to a crippling childhood.
Decan, call it what you will, but it seems like you're the one that doesnt want to be called out on some bull. you went bleeding your undies over a mere question.
my question was not a bash. you, just like alot of other virgos, are uptight and defensive. since you'd rather go on pissy rants yourself instead of asking me what i meant, i shall break things down for you. *rubs head* its okay slow one.
Are you emotionally dead? = i asked this because i know alot of ppl under virgo. when something happens to someone else, they dont really understand what another person feels. like if someone is upset for great reasons -death, something life altering- instead of comforting others, virgo becomes like a rock. they'll give you automated responses and their attitude is almost superficial - not the sign to come to for comfort. yet when something small happens to the virgo they go on about it for days and want people to listen. the only time emotions are shown is if virgos themselves have problems. thats when they have no issue showing emotion. i've seen this lots of times.
That goes into the question do you have feelings outside of your own wants and needs. stay with me know decan. i know you can do it. how do you perceive other people's feelings? you know they do have a right to them. are you capable of putting your feet in someone else's shoes? or is it all about you in your world? am i still bashing, or is it you cant really answer the question?
Earth signs are more logical creatures, not emotional like water creatures. But in the time of showing concern and giving comfort to others, i have seen many tauruses and capricorns actually show a feeling emotional side to themselves; something they mostly keep in. they know how to come out of themselves and open up, especially when they see another person needs comfort. NEVER seen this from virgo. they usually use their emotions when it comes to their own selves. thats what i was getting at, but you have trouble reading between lines. dont insult stinger or kaleidescorp cos they got my post and you didnt. say it all to me. it's my post, which you clearly have a problem with.
and you dont have to like scorps; trust me you're doing us all a favor by keeping your distance.
has the virgin been fuked twice stinger? i think i just handed buddy's ass to him lol.
be a man? LOL. well last time i checked i was. i was trying to be more of a GENTLEMAN and let her decide. i dont feel that i have to be macho or dominant over my wife all the time. she's a woman with her own mind, her own feelings, and i was just trying not to hog all of the decisions. i believe in equality in marriage.
but i guess i will have to be commander and chief. i'll be damned if im going without dinner again. sultry and librasid, thank you for the advice.
I love my libra wife, but she drives me crazy sometimes. When it comes to making decisions, she's very indecisive, and when she cant choose an option, she ends up not making any decision at all.
Last night, we wanted to go out to a nice restaurant. Place A was a nice seafood place. Place B was fine Italian. We ended up going nowhere because she kept going through the pros and cons of each place, but still couldnt choose. By the time she ended up choosing Italian, we were already almost at the seafood place. I turn around and do a 360 to the seafood place, then she changes her mind again. 'Oh no wait, babe. Italian. I'm sorry'. It got so late the restaurants ended up closing and it was too late to go anywhere.
my question is how do i get her to make up her mind and stop running me around crazy?
you libra women sometimes...... love you but.... ridiculous...
How well do you understand other scorps?
Or are we so misunderstood and mysterious that we cant even get each other?
Your thoughts please....
you messed up when she found out you had another girl. you may have killed this relationship before it could start. well done libra venus. this is what happens when you cant make a decision. if scorpio doesnt trust you, its not likely she'll have anything else to do with you.
if you do manage to get her attention again, you better have dumped the other girl or else you'd be seen as a cheating, lying, insensitive bastard. maybe you should stay with your girlfriend and leave martha alone...unless you wanna be stung.
Are you Virgos emotionally dead? Do you have any feelings or emotions outside of your own wants and needs? Is it capable for you to feel for the next man? We know earth signs dont really do the emotion thing, but even capricorns and taurus' manage to show that they have feelings. What about you?
Cos we like to partay!
Aquarians, what music do you like to play when you all are in that hardcore party mood? What's your favorite shake it song?
i like how aquarians are misunderstood, like us scorpios. it brings us closer and gives the feeling of us against the world when we analiyze together. they are my cerebral twins
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Are u white scorphubby? I've noticed that most white scorp guys hate on black rappers. Probably cause your jealous that not only are their dicks bigger than yours, but that they could also afford to have u murdered. You'll never be as successful as any of them. Your attacking the intelligence of men that get paid to talk.. Ur nothin but jelly on their sandwich
i am black, fyi. not all black folks listen to that bullsht they calling 'music' nowadays. get paid to talk? half of what these idiots say is negative, self absorbed garbage...when you can understand it. i like REAL music; rnb and the dusties, but you wouldnt know anything about that, would you trailor trash? you think all us black folks listen to hip hop, wear our pants off of our asses, and use terrible slang. no. dont you dare try to pull that race card with me bitch. i dont hate on rappers, but i do hate on people that bring down our youth with negative messages. all i hear when rick ross and gucci, all i hear is 'ladies be whores and lower your standards for a few dollars', and 'young men forget an education. go sell drugs, be a pimp, and be absolutely worthless in life. oh and go get a bunch of nasty ass lookin tattoos that make you look even more worthless.' i have a kid on the way and i dont want that bullsht displayed in front of my shorties. if you think what they say is so damn 'intelligent' that says alot about yours doesnt it? you probably sit around all day soaking up all the rap lyrics, BET and nigga swag you can cos you wish you were black. sorry. it will never be. as long as you burn in the sun you will always be reminded of your true race, pale face.
and why are you concerned about my dick size? no woman i ever been with complained about this here. i bet you mine will put yours to shame, while you're worried about it. have you seen rick and guc's dicks before? you just told on yourself. white guy obsessing about black dicks. i dont swing that way, trap. sorry. and though i dont rap i make a damn good living as a software developer. i been in the IT field going on 10 years. i make a six figure salary. nice big house with a wife, three cars, paid and owned in full. by the end of this year, my net worth will be seven digits. so what you were saying about my success? sorry you think that the only way black men can be successful is through rapping or playing sports, opie.though some were making a point about fine lines between mental greatness and insanity, please exclude rick ross and gucci from this cerebral discussion. when i saw those nigs, my IQ just dropped lol. i think people actually get dumber and less evolved the more they listen to their mind rotting music. what the HELL is with the damn ice cream cone on the face? and rick ross??.. im not even gonna touch on that. this originally was about 'higher' evolution... not reverting back to lesser forms of intelligence... ie. the 'crappers' above lol.
i say...
and this is just me...
kick her @ss, block her out your life completely, and move on. cancer broads are crazy and have those mental issues. she was probably mad because he was talking to you and not her. she wants to destroy what you guys were building. that vicious whore needs to be put in her place. i really didnt mean kick her ass, but maybe this is one for the authorities if she doesnt back off. And i like your name too, AquaJ.
im a non aquarian. scorp male come to socialize in the pond. how yall doin?
what i like about aquas are their way of thinking. they are out there lol. i love how they can think not only outside the box, but around it, under it and over it. their minds asks the questions that no one else seem to touch on. not to mention they are cool, aloof mellow people. hilarious too. the best people to hang out and have a laid back time with.
what i dont like about them?... .... .............. .............. thats a good question. the only thing i would say that they might need to look into is their focus. sometimes they are all over the place all at once, and they move on very quickly and randomly. but i dont mind, cos i like to flow with them. you never know where you'll end up lol. we could be talking about one thing, and then aqua will bring up another new subject out of no where. but i really wouldnt say i dont like this about them. that just shows how their minds are always on the move. they think about something and move on to the next. they have a lot of water to cover, so i let them flow and dont stop them.
i really dont have anything bad to say about aquas. they are my buddies.
i used to have multiple women, until i met my wife. she made me want to change and she taught me sex is not love. i thought i was giving love to the womem i had; it was just sex. i didnt know about love and giving my all to one person until she came in my life. now since we been together, it's just been her in my life and i've calmed my ways down drastically. im happy and wish for no other.
fire and water....when will you learn? unless both parties give up ego and immaturity; unless they try to bring out the BEST in each other instead of the worst, then this group will NEVER work.
run away. leos and scorps dont get along in the long run. something always happens. it best to be friends and keep things light.
lolz, come on now you guys. ease up on P-Angel. yall gonna make that lady go off the deep end and kill herself.
dont believe me?....
just wait....
she's gonnabe sitting there one night with a full cup of clorox bleach on the rocks, thinking about all the mean things you guys said
and then you will feel bad...but it's gonna be too late. i say flip the script on him. all of a sudden go around making decisions and treat him like he's supposed to know what's on your mind. if he gets upset, flip it on him and use his own bullsht agaisnt him. 'we're married. you're supposed to be able to read my mind....remember?' he will not like it, but it will make him think. and then ask him 'it doesnt feel so nice, does it?' sometimes, you have to go through what you put other through to understand how they feel.
Adele knocked my socks off. She deserved that ovation. Then i love after her performance they played a commercial with the lil black girl on the bus singing... 'WE COULD'VE HAD IT A-AALLLL!' and her lil school mates chimed in with the chorus. LOVED IT. adele has brough real music back to the industry. none of that light, sickly, superficial garbage of the youth. Reign on Adele. *ps...stop smoking cigarettes and save that gem of a voice you have*
i saw him on the grammy's....
can you say cheesy x 100? all that gold and glitter crap, with that weak performance, was over the top.
looking like a fake ass elvis...
for so much talent, bruno needs to find his own style and stop emulating. he is a mere carbon copy.
i heard that :-) i think geminis rock HARD. CORE.
when i make arrangements my wife knows our plans in advance. sound like he needs to work on his communication skills.
I am guilty of mood sometimes. It drives my libra wife crazy. I dont mean to shut her out, but sometimes i need to deal with my issues alone. It's nothing a person can do really to end that mood. All ppl can do is respect our feelings and let us work it out. I try not to slip into it, but i find that it's usually when i am dealing with a lot, or if i have much on my mind. Scorpio man is used to internalizing; we're the last sign that will come to others with our problems, be it a wife, shrink, or friend. Even when we do trust you, its still very hard to get out our feelings. They are intense and we dont want to run risk of scaring ppl off.
Best way to handle the mood is to love him through it. When you see he's in one of his funks, give him a loving hug and let him have his thoughts. Kiss his forehead and let him know you're there if he needs you. Sometimes people want to talk us out of things; that only agitates us after a while. Yes, trust he will come out of it so no worries there.
He might slip in and out of moods when he's soul searching or something is weighing heavy on him. But if he's a man that cares about your feelings too, he will learn how to communicate and not shut you out so much when he feels a certain way. It will happen from time to time, but not frequently if he understands how it effects you. I dont think he's doing it to test you; I never get this way to test my wife. It just happens and I wish it didnt. That's why deep down I love her even more for being able to put up with this side of me. Im sure he appreciates you too.
When I'm moody and withdrawn, i talk to no one. I ususally am by myself doing things that get my mood back right again. If my mood is due to a problem, i am working to solve it. If i just need to retreat, i will catch up on reading, sports, video games. at times i just need to think and sort some things out. his mood is temporary and he should be fine if you let him work it out on his own.
im not a cap, but my grandmother is. the most dingy things she does, all the time, envolves her keys. she lives in her home and she always misplaces her house/car keys. they are on the same ring. she always puts them down in the most 'right in front of your face' location, lol, then she tears up the house looking for them. then she calls me and the rest of the family and asks 'who stole my keys?' lmao. you the only one in your house....how did WE manage to steal your keys? we have our own keys lol.
LouLore, how real are the feelings and words if they are always changing, or never come true?
action is undisputed - it happens and the proof of it is in itself. that is more real than hanging onto words of 'hope'. thats all you have - hope -when a person says something. hope that it will come true.
you have your opinion, i have mine. there is nothing wrong with my statement.
libras have you beat in beauty. sorry. you're a close third, after scorpio. but im biased and thats my opinion.
my wife squirts a little when i tongue fuk her.
she squirts alot when i penetrate her. by the time im done my entire middle is drenched... feels like my dick went swimming... sorry didnt have a better way to say lol
damn, i love when that woman rains on me.....
i cant stand clothes. i wanna feel her body....not threads and all those annoying things that get in the way. all she neeeds to wear is a smile and that's enough for me.
when a person says its not in them to hurt you, beware. pisces can be some of the most cruelest people. and when they think they are in love, thats when all the sweet nothings as come out. they will stroke your ego and pull the rug out from under you if you are foolish enough to value what they say. if you expect pisces to act on their many words.... good luck on that one.
believe in actions, never words.
no one is better than the other. each man handles his business, and is a real man in every sense of the word. it's simply a matter of who is your type.
the man in the business suit and briefcase, groomed and neat in the office, making moves in the business world.
or the man in the jeans and timbalands, rugged and not afraid to get himself dirty, making moves in manual labor?
what does it for you?
what is the worst pick up line you have received?
what is funny or just plain sad?
if you had to live without sex or money, what would it be?
and you CANT say you'd keep both. thats not an option.
Or do you follow the crowds and have to stay on top of what's in?
I am an individual; never did good when it came to being like others. my hardheadness wouldnt let me follow lol.
What male sign do you know tries too hard to be macho? Give your full opinion. Is it a turn on or a disgrace?