Message Posts by SheDevil77
sounds like the scorp im dealing with
Posted by capgirl75
Well, so far, Mr. Scorpio has 2 rules:
Rule #1: You must have eyes only for him.
Rule #2: Don't lie or omit part of the story.
This is why i love my Gem friends. they solve my problems with simple sentences like this! lol
Posted by Geminems
You make everything so dramatic
urus. :-) she fit right in. the one thing i can say about our friendship. we argue like cats and dogs...but we will rip someone's head off for fucking with anyone in the crew. its a family type of situation.
Posted by truecapPosted by SheDevil77
when i was in school i hung out with a crowd of about 5 girls including myself. 4 of us were caps. we usually share b-day celebrations since ours are days apart.
Curious. What was the sun sign of the 5th girl?click to expand
ted or anything (at least not to my knowledge) but it was known that we only hung out with each other and everyone else was pretty much an outsider. Guys loved our relationship they loved that we stuck together from freshman year until now. we weren't mean or anything, we just were super tight and super protective of our circle. we literally hung out pretty much 24/7. i have never been so close with a group of women in my life.
Posted by lnana04Posted by SheDevil77
when i was in school i hung out with a crowd of about 5 girls including myself. 4 of us were caps. we usually share b-day celebrations since ours are days apart.
Wow...sounds interesting. I wonder how your clique was viewed by others lol.click to expand
when i was in school i hung out with a crowd of about 5 girls including myself. 4 of us were caps. we usually share b-day celebrations since ours are days apart.
depends on whether or not we think we did something wrong. most of the time i will move on because i think its immature. And IMO caps dont ignore people. we walk away and never return. there's a difference between doing something to prove a point and doing something because it needs to be done.
strictly on logic. Their strong value systems demand that decisions are evaluated against their subjective beliefs, rather than against some objective rules or laws.
ISFPs are extremely perceptive and aware of others. They constantly gather specific information about people, and seek to discover what it means. They are usually penetratingly accurate in their perceptions of others.
ISFPs are warm and sympathetic. They genuinely care about people, and are strongly service-oriented in their desire to please. They have an unusually deep well of caring for those who are close to them, and are likely to show their love through actions, rather than words.
ISFPs have no desire to lead or control others, just as they have no desire to be led or controlled by others. They need space and time alone to evaluate the circumstances of their life against their value system, and are likely to respect other people's needs for the same.
The ISFP is likely to not give themself enough credit for the things which they do extremely well. Their strong value systems can lead them to be intensely perfectionist, and cause them to judge themselves with unneccesary harshness.
The ISFP has many special gifts for the world, especially in the areas of creating artistic sensation, and selflessly serving others. Life is not likely to be extremely easy for the ISFP, because they take life so seriously, but they have the tools to make their lives and the lives of those close to them richly rewarding experiences.
*I have a B.A. Communications, work as a freelance writer, I also study theatre and music. a few months ago i sold all the crap in my place and moved to a big city, with no job or place to live. This description was pretty much spot on for me*
ISFPs are extremely perceptive and aware of others. They constantly gather specific information about people, and seek to discover what it means. They are usually penetratingly accurate in their perceptions of others.
ISFPs are warm and sympathetic. They genuinely care about people, and are strongly service-oriented in their desire to please. They have an unusually deep well of caring for those who are close to them, and are likely to show their love through actions, rather than words.
ISFPs have no desire to lead or control others, just as they have no desire to be led or controlled by others. They need space and time alone to evaluate the circumstances of their life against their value system, and are likely to respect other people's needs for the same.
The ISFP is likely to not give themself enough credit for the things which they do extremely well. Their strong value systems can lead them to be intensely perfectionist, and cause them to judge themselves with unneccesary harshness.
The ISFP has many special gifts for the world, especially in the areas of creating artistic sensation, and selflessly serving others. Life is not likely to be extremely easy for the ISFP, because they take life so seriously, but they have the tools to make their lives and the lives of those close to them richly rewarding experiences.
*I have a B.A. Communications, work as a freelance writer, I also study theatre and music. a few months ago i sold all the crap in my place and moved to a big city, with no job or place to live. This description was pretty much spot on for me*
The Artist
As an ISFP, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your value system. Your secondary mode is external, where you take things in via your five sense in a literal, concrete fashion.
ISFPs live in the world of sensation possibilities. They are keenly in tune with the way things look, taste, sound, feel and smell. They have a strong aesthetic appreciation for art, and are likely to be artists in some form, because they are unusually gifted at creating and composing things which will strongly affect the senses. They have a strong set of values, which they strive to consistently meet in their lives. They need to feel as if they're living their lives in accordance with what they feel is right, and will rebel against anything which conflicts with that goal. They're likely to choose jobs and careers which allow them the freedom of working towards the realization of their value-oriented personal goals.
ISFPs tend to be quiet and reserved, and difficult to get to know well. They hold back their ideas and opinions except from those who they are closest to. They are likely to be kind, gentle and sensitive in their dealings with others. They are interested in contributing to people's sense of well-being and happiness, and will put a great deal of effort and energy into tasks which they believe in.
ISFPs have a strong affinity for aesthetics and beauty. They're likely to be animal lovers, and to have a true appreciation for the beauties of nature. They're original and independent, and need to have personal space. They value people who take the time to understand the ISFP, and who support the ISFP in pursuing their goals in their own, unique way. People who don't know them well may see their unique way of life as a sign of carefree light-heartedness, but the ISFP actually takes life very seriously, constantly gathering specific information and shifting it through their value systems, in search for clarification and underlying meaning.
ISFPs are action-oriented individuals. They are "doers", and are usually uncomfortable with theorizing concepts and ideas, unless they see a practical application. They learn best in a "hands-on" environment, and consequently may become easily bored with the traditional teaching methods, which emphasize abstract thinking. They do not like impersonal analysis, and are uncomfortable with the idea of making decisions based
As an ISFP, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your value system. Your secondary mode is external, where you take things in via your five sense in a literal, concrete fashion.
ISFPs live in the world of sensation possibilities. They are keenly in tune with the way things look, taste, sound, feel and smell. They have a strong aesthetic appreciation for art, and are likely to be artists in some form, because they are unusually gifted at creating and composing things which will strongly affect the senses. They have a strong set of values, which they strive to consistently meet in their lives. They need to feel as if they're living their lives in accordance with what they feel is right, and will rebel against anything which conflicts with that goal. They're likely to choose jobs and careers which allow them the freedom of working towards the realization of their value-oriented personal goals.
ISFPs tend to be quiet and reserved, and difficult to get to know well. They hold back their ideas and opinions except from those who they are closest to. They are likely to be kind, gentle and sensitive in their dealings with others. They are interested in contributing to people's sense of well-being and happiness, and will put a great deal of effort and energy into tasks which they believe in.
ISFPs have a strong affinity for aesthetics and beauty. They're likely to be animal lovers, and to have a true appreciation for the beauties of nature. They're original and independent, and need to have personal space. They value people who take the time to understand the ISFP, and who support the ISFP in pursuing their goals in their own, unique way. People who don't know them well may see their unique way of life as a sign of carefree light-heartedness, but the ISFP actually takes life very seriously, constantly gathering specific information and shifting it through their value systems, in search for clarification and underlying meaning.
ISFPs are action-oriented individuals. They are "doers", and are usually uncomfortable with theorizing concepts and ideas, unless they see a practical application. They learn best in a "hands-on" environment, and consequently may become easily bored with the traditional teaching methods, which emphasize abstract thinking. They do not like impersonal analysis, and are uncomfortable with the idea of making decisions based
ISFP :-) i will prob get a dif Answer if i take it again next week lol
My moon is in leo not my rising but i swear i have this same problem. i wonder which is worst leo moon or leo rising lol
Posted by aquarius09
My rising is Leo. I'm not too happy about this placement as it makes me a lil proud and conceited in my times of anger. In those moments, I remind myself that everyone is my equal in humanity and then I'm right back to my modest self
I read this and said they must be a cancer rising. I could have typed this word for word.
Posted by sunnydiamond
Mine makes me seek security and stability, makes me nostalgic and takes me awhile to move on from the past, makes me emotional, and careful when approaching new acquaintances. I have times when I'm a social aqua butterfly, and times when I want to be left alone and stick with my close friends. My relationships are even more complicated, I'm screaming emotions on the inside and always wonder why it never gets across to the person I'm dating...and then I remember , oh yeah...I'm a stoic crazy person.
Aquarius and Gem's...I fall for them personality wise (damn venus in aqua) and we get along great in the beginning. but they are selflessly selfish and so am I... Great relationships communication wise. but idk i think its just too much air or something...its always an off and on thing though. It has NEVER been a long term situation with a gem tho...always like years of a cat and mouse game. its sooooo addictive though lol. what i can say is that it never ends on bad terms. all my gem ex's are great friends! we just realize that a relationship is a bad idea...its works best when there is ABSOLUTELY NO TITLE. which is right up my alley.
I had a long term relationship with an Aquarius, even though i highly doubt he was 100% faithful, i do believe he was in love with me and he was very vocal about the fact that i was his girlfriend...and if you knew him, you'd know that's a huge deal for him. it worked for a while and then he wanted his freedom.
I had a long term relationship with an Aquarius, even though i highly doubt he was 100% faithful, i do believe he was in love with me and he was very vocal about the fact that i was his girlfriend...and if you knew him, you'd know that's a huge deal for him. it worked for a while and then he wanted his freedom.
Kisses on the back and kisses on my neck right behind my ear (esp on my left side) drive me insane. kisses on the back of my thighs and the back of my knees (its true Caps!) *sigh*
I like to bite the bottom lip and suck the person's tongue a few times(slowly and softly) when kissing...its kind of wierd...and i dont know if it turns them on. but it usually gets me going. lol. no one has protested yet. esp the girlies
did i mention i like to kiss?
I like to bite the bottom lip and suck the person's tongue a few times(slowly and softly) when kissing...its kind of wierd...and i dont know if it turns them on. but it usually gets me going. lol. no one has protested yet. esp the girlies
did i mention i like to kiss?
No stuff shirts. Must love kids, even though i dont want any, i love kids and will probably be surrounded by lots of them at some point. Must have good taste in music. Must be EXTREMELY INTELLIGENT, i dont want to be the only one giving out random facts that have nothing to do with nothing because you would get annoyed with me quick. and last but not least, must LOVE to travel and explore.
LOL. My post was def taken out of context.
Only other Mercury Caps understand my tongue in cheek humor. dah well.
Only other Mercury Caps understand my tongue in cheek humor. dah well.
you just said a mouth full.
Posted by DMV
why do we always have to know? cant we just stay in a fog of confusion? how come i just cant leave well enough alone?
i always have to get to the bottom of something even when i know the outcome is not going to be great. is it truly a good thing to know everything? like a German Sheppard sniffing out a hiding criminal, we find out everything.
sometimes i hate being in the know. i hate my BS radar. i want to be stupid and dumb and live in a constant honeymoon phase. i want to accept anything anyone gives me. i dont want to second guess anyone. i want the wool pulled over my eyes.
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree
Sun Capricorn 16??51'41 in house 6
Moon Leo 29??10'22 in house 2
Mercury Capricorn 26??14'41 in house 7
Venus Aquarius 20??33'29 in house 8
Mars Scorpio 29??32'34 in house 5
Jupiter Aries 20??42'16 in house 10
Saturn Sagittarius 26??15'46 in house 6
Uranus Sagittarius 28??04'23 in house 6
Neptune Capricorn 8??02'55 in house 6
Pluto Scorpio 12??09'48 in house 4
True Node Pisces 25??23'15 in house 9
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 20??17'50
2nd House Leo 13??26'29
3rd House Virgo 9??43'36
Imum Coeli Libra 10??46'03
5th House Scorpio 15??17'57
6th House Sagittarius 19??19'48
Descendant Capricorn 20??17'50
8th House Aquarius 13??26'29
9th House Pisces 9??43'36
Medium Coeli Aries 10??46'03
11th House Taurus 15??17'57
12th House Gemini 19??19'48
and Him (male)
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree
Sun Scorpio 28??04'32 end of house 9
Moon Cancer 13??56'44 in house 5
Mercury Scorpio 13??20'49 in house 9
Venus Scorpio 5??29'57 in house 9
Mars Aquarius 26??22'37 in house 1
Jupiter Pisces 13??13'37 in house 1
Saturn Sagittarius 10??33'29 in house 10
Uranus Sagittarius 21??07'35 in house 10
Neptune Capricorn 4??11'49 in house 11
Pluto Scorpio 8??07'06 in house 9
True Node Aries 20??11'27 in house 2
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Aquarius 20??18'49
2nd House Pisces 27??07'46
3rd House Taurus 1??03'05
Imum Coeli Taurus 29??48'12
5th House Gemini 25??20'28
6th House Cancer 20??55'54
Descendant Leo 20??18'49
8th House Virgo 27??07'46
9th House Scorpio 1??03'05
Medium Coeli Scorpio 29??48'12
11th House Sagittarius 25??20'28
12th House Capricorn 20??55'54
Please note that we have the sun, merc, and venus in the 8th house in our composite chart. which is in no way an excuse for my panties falling to the floor. :-P
planet sign degree
Sun Capricorn 16??51'41 in house 6
Moon Leo 29??10'22 in house 2
Mercury Capricorn 26??14'41 in house 7
Venus Aquarius 20??33'29 in house 8
Mars Scorpio 29??32'34 in house 5
Jupiter Aries 20??42'16 in house 10
Saturn Sagittarius 26??15'46 in house 6
Uranus Sagittarius 28??04'23 in house 6
Neptune Capricorn 8??02'55 in house 6
Pluto Scorpio 12??09'48 in house 4
True Node Pisces 25??23'15 in house 9
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 20??17'50
2nd House Leo 13??26'29
3rd House Virgo 9??43'36
Imum Coeli Libra 10??46'03
5th House Scorpio 15??17'57
6th House Sagittarius 19??19'48
Descendant Capricorn 20??17'50
8th House Aquarius 13??26'29
9th House Pisces 9??43'36
Medium Coeli Aries 10??46'03
11th House Taurus 15??17'57
12th House Gemini 19??19'48
and Him (male)
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree
Sun Scorpio 28??04'32 end of house 9
Moon Cancer 13??56'44 in house 5
Mercury Scorpio 13??20'49 in house 9
Venus Scorpio 5??29'57 in house 9
Mars Aquarius 26??22'37 in house 1
Jupiter Pisces 13??13'37 in house 1
Saturn Sagittarius 10??33'29 in house 10
Uranus Sagittarius 21??07'35 in house 10
Neptune Capricorn 4??11'49 in house 11
Pluto Scorpio 8??07'06 in house 9
True Node Aries 20??11'27 in house 2
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Aquarius 20??18'49
2nd House Pisces 27??07'46
3rd House Taurus 1??03'05
Imum Coeli Taurus 29??48'12
5th House Gemini 25??20'28
6th House Cancer 20??55'54
Descendant Leo 20??18'49
8th House Virgo 27??07'46
9th House Scorpio 1??03'05
Medium Coeli Scorpio 29??48'12
11th House Sagittarius 25??20'28
12th House Capricorn 20??55'54
Please note that we have the sun, merc, and venus in the 8th house in our composite chart. which is in no way an excuse for my panties falling to the floor. :-P
So about a month ago i met this scorpion. i could give u a long story. but I cant even put into word whats is taking place before me. cliff notes version...we slept together last week. I have been avoiding him like the plague since (which is damn hard to do). not because it was bad...I dont think i could have had better sex if i turned into a man and fucked myself. I had been trying not to give in...obviously because i didnt want to feel like a whore. plus the fact that he likes me alot. he has made his intentions very clear (he wants a relationship)...which i thought would change after sex...but nope...he is still talking this exclusive mess...even more. i knew that i should be careful about sleeping with him because he would get attached (don't worry, i already know how i sound) but i let him in the house and that was all she wrote. its not that i don't want him getting attached, its just all the serious "I want to be with you" stuff makes me hyperventilate, especially when you try to make me respond in .2 seconds! Ive told him this a million times but i dont know if he is listening. He seems to not listen to me much....he seems controlling (which is a HUGE red flag for me). he calls it caring. but idk....i care...but its never like that. he says he doesn't think i care cause i don't call and blah, blah, blah (different dude...same story). anywhooo...ive been keeping this guy a secret...more than i normally do...mostly because i slept with him so fast, I cant argue with anyone who judges me lol. so I needed to tell someone.
at first i was going to say...stay away, bad idea. but then i saw you were a female, so i'm gonna say...whats the big deal? lol
does she have some leo in her chart? or cancer?
I'm slightly possessive of my friends. I'm more over protective than possessive though. I dont care if my friends meet new people...if i like them, i'll probably LOVE them lol...but i go off first instincts when i meet ppl. so if I'm not feeling someone off bat, chances are i wont click with them ever. I look for good character traits when i meet someone, if i get bad vibes, i stay away. Im not a bitch about, it i just keep a good emotional distance from that person.
some of my closest friendships have started through mutual friends. I've been accused of being a friend thief (jokingly of course)...most of the time people meet me and cling on like you wouldn't believe. I've dealt with a fair amount of possessive friends (ahem, water signs stand up) and those friendships never last because i have always had alot of "associates" despite my extremely introverted ways. I blame my leo moon and venus aqua for this. I've never done anything that cool and I've always been popular. not in the Captain of the cheerleading team type of way, but the general everyone knows who you are but you dont know how type of way. literally since elementary.
I do HATE for my friends to have fun without me though. not in a mean way. I just hate when im missing out. I would never tell my friends not to hang together because im not there. I want them to hang out. I want them to like each other. unless i have something to hide. I probably dont wanna hear about all the fun they had though, just because i wasnt there. I'll listen and be happy that they are getting along, but i will be a bitter betsy because i wasnt there. and i have no problem saying so. lol. again blame my leo moon.
does she have some leo in her chart? or cancer?
I'm slightly possessive of my friends. I'm more over protective than possessive though. I dont care if my friends meet new people...if i like them, i'll probably LOVE them lol...but i go off first instincts when i meet ppl. so if I'm not feeling someone off bat, chances are i wont click with them ever. I look for good character traits when i meet someone, if i get bad vibes, i stay away. Im not a bitch about, it i just keep a good emotional distance from that person.
some of my closest friendships have started through mutual friends. I've been accused of being a friend thief (jokingly of course)...most of the time people meet me and cling on like you wouldn't believe. I've dealt with a fair amount of possessive friends (ahem, water signs stand up) and those friendships never last because i have always had alot of "associates" despite my extremely introverted ways. I blame my leo moon and venus aqua for this. I've never done anything that cool and I've always been popular. not in the Captain of the cheerleading team type of way, but the general everyone knows who you are but you dont know how type of way. literally since elementary.
I do HATE for my friends to have fun without me though. not in a mean way. I just hate when im missing out. I would never tell my friends not to hang together because im not there. I want them to hang out. I want them to like each other. unless i have something to hide. I probably dont wanna hear about all the fun they had though, just because i wasnt there. I'll listen and be happy that they are getting along, but i will be a bitter betsy because i wasnt there. and i have no problem saying so. lol. again blame my leo moon.
@DMV I'm so glad you made this post!!! I logged on today to post about a ex-friend i have with an aries rising and aries mars. We bump heads alot and i have made sooooo many attempts to find out the underlying issue. But the behavior of your friend is very close to what i experienced with her. Also I have a Strong scorpio influence(or so i've been told) with my mars in scorpio and my venus in the 8th house. I think its the aries vs scorp thing. I've always felt like my friend secretly dislikes the fact that i get alot of attention even when im not really trying. where as she goes out of her way to get attn.
Once example: One week I was being spontaneous and decided I wanted to get a piercing that weekend. Me being me, I call her and I'm all like "lets get piercings!!", she's down of course. I'm excited because i think this is the perfect crazy thing that all girlfriends should experience. wellll, she gets mad at me about something trivial (it was about something i said...and instead of telling me she was upset, she ignores me for the entire week) and she went and got the piercing by herself. and when i asked her what was up she was like "nothing". I really didnt care that she got it without me, but it did bother me that it seemed like she went out of her way to be hurtful. and she showed it off to everyone and just loved the attention. which i figured it must have been about all along. Weeks later she kept saying how she really wanted me to get the piercing and she wanted to go with me. and i was cool about it (but i never went). because it was never about being first it was about being friends and i really think she forgets that alot.
I dont want to hijack your post so i will prob post the full story later today. but this post really made me stop in my tracks.
I dont think aries are bad people...i think the women are hard to understand. and its difficult to get along with other "strong" women, especially if they are young or young minded. my childhood friend had an aries rising (and a leo sun), and that was another relationship i literally had to walk away from, though it wasn't as volatile as the latter. there was a lot of competition and unnecessary jealousy that i still will never understand.
I also think aries may do better in friendships with more passive signs...like libra. because someone has to back down. or at least pretend to.
Once example: One week I was being spontaneous and decided I wanted to get a piercing that weekend. Me being me, I call her and I'm all like "lets get piercings!!", she's down of course. I'm excited because i think this is the perfect crazy thing that all girlfriends should experience. wellll, she gets mad at me about something trivial (it was about something i said...and instead of telling me she was upset, she ignores me for the entire week) and she went and got the piercing by herself. and when i asked her what was up she was like "nothing". I really didnt care that she got it without me, but it did bother me that it seemed like she went out of her way to be hurtful. and she showed it off to everyone and just loved the attention. which i figured it must have been about all along. Weeks later she kept saying how she really wanted me to get the piercing and she wanted to go with me. and i was cool about it (but i never went). because it was never about being first it was about being friends and i really think she forgets that alot.
I dont want to hijack your post so i will prob post the full story later today. but this post really made me stop in my tracks.
I dont think aries are bad people...i think the women are hard to understand. and its difficult to get along with other "strong" women, especially if they are young or young minded. my childhood friend had an aries rising (and a leo sun), and that was another relationship i literally had to walk away from, though it wasn't as volatile as the latter. there was a lot of competition and unnecessary jealousy that i still will never understand.
I also think aries may do better in friendships with more passive signs...like libra. because someone has to back down. or at least pretend to.
If i were you I wouldnt even take his words personal, because i would know that they have nothing to do with me and everything to do with him. Hurt ppl hurt ppl. I swear if anyone ever told me they had to distance themselves from me because of my physical features, i would laugh my ass off in their face and me and my imperfections would walk out, with my head held HIGH. like i dont get it, I'm sure he's no Channing Tatum...BLOW ME. I would have torn his soul to shreds...he would have needed therapy after i finished with his weak ass. He prob is the type of dude that compares himself to all of his males friends, always trying to have the better car, clothes, girls, etc. and you know what these guys are as shallow as puddle. scorp or not. and they are always lonely, bitter, and sad because they never are satisfied. Be thankful you realized he was a jerk before you did something crazy like marry him, those are the guys that have multiple affair written all over them...then you would have had to pull a Lorena Bobbitt and its all downhill from there LMAO!!! See situation could have went waaaaay worse, find the silver lining and move the hell on. This guy is not worth the energy it takes to go to a gym. lol.
The steam coming my ears and eyes made it impossible for me to read past the first page, so pardon me if im repeating something that has already been said. I'm going to try to type slow, but i tend to type really fast when upset...and that made my blood boil.
I have two words
FUCK him!
The problem is not yours so there is absolutely nothing you should do besides get on with your life until that fateful day comes that he calls you out of the blue to "see how you've been" (and trust me, he will). Then it will be time for you to do something...and that will be to tell him to FUCK off...with or without the four letter word (and some extra 4&5 letter words just for kicks). If you joined a gym i sincerely hope that it was because YOU wanted to be healthier and feel better about yourself and not because some insecure Pussy ass punk boy who probably got picked on in his adolescence thinks its okay to reject a woman who obviously cares about his own self more than he does because he feels like she should lose a few pounds. This is not your issue...it is his. something in him is rejecting you because he is rejecting himself. That is the only explanation for the way that he handled that. His rejection, self esteem, what the fuck ever issues should not be of your concern unless he chooses to voice them honestly to you instead of trying to make this a party of two for misery. What he said to you is a warning sign of a toxic personality and toxic personalities lead to toxic relationships. So what if you two were having the time of your life before? Obviously he made sure that the relationship was beneficial to him whether it be physical or emotional and gave you the short end of the stick.
I am in no way implying that he is not entitled to his feelings, everyone has an opinion or preference or whatever. My thing is relationships are about encouragement and support. Even if he did feel like you should lose weight a person who cares about you sincerely is going to try to figure out a way to encourage and support you to do things that may make you feel better about yourself. Partners are suppose to Uplift one another. not avoid the person or emotionally punish them. That has nothing to do with scorpio honesty or any of the bullshit. You are dealing with someone who is obviously not happy with themselves...people like this will only try to bring you down with them. I honestly don't think you should spend another second analyzing this situation.
I have two words
FUCK him!
The problem is not yours so there is absolutely nothing you should do besides get on with your life until that fateful day comes that he calls you out of the blue to "see how you've been" (and trust me, he will). Then it will be time for you to do something...and that will be to tell him to FUCK off...with or without the four letter word (and some extra 4&5 letter words just for kicks). If you joined a gym i sincerely hope that it was because YOU wanted to be healthier and feel better about yourself and not because some insecure Pussy ass punk boy who probably got picked on in his adolescence thinks its okay to reject a woman who obviously cares about his own self more than he does because he feels like she should lose a few pounds. This is not your issue...it is his. something in him is rejecting you because he is rejecting himself. That is the only explanation for the way that he handled that. His rejection, self esteem, what the fuck ever issues should not be of your concern unless he chooses to voice them honestly to you instead of trying to make this a party of two for misery. What he said to you is a warning sign of a toxic personality and toxic personalities lead to toxic relationships. So what if you two were having the time of your life before? Obviously he made sure that the relationship was beneficial to him whether it be physical or emotional and gave you the short end of the stick.
I am in no way implying that he is not entitled to his feelings, everyone has an opinion or preference or whatever. My thing is relationships are about encouragement and support. Even if he did feel like you should lose weight a person who cares about you sincerely is going to try to figure out a way to encourage and support you to do things that may make you feel better about yourself. Partners are suppose to Uplift one another. not avoid the person or emotionally punish them. That has nothing to do with scorpio honesty or any of the bullshit. You are dealing with someone who is obviously not happy with themselves...people like this will only try to bring you down with them. I honestly don't think you should spend another second analyzing this situation.
I forgot to add that I'm Extremely private about everything, even silly things...and this seems to make everyone want to know everything about me. Everyone i have come across in life says that i never reveal any details about myself. I have found it hilarious the lengths that ppl go to find out info about me. A friend of mine once confessed that she spied on me for 30 mins straight to see what i did when i was alone. i found it weird but funny since i know i'm nowhere near interesting enough to watch for 30 min.
people often tell me their deepest secrets because of this i think. I have had complete strangers reveal some pretty bizarre things to me. i think that may be more of my cancer asc though...people tend to cling
people often tell me their deepest secrets because of this i think. I have had complete strangers reveal some pretty bizarre things to me. i think that may be more of my cancer asc though...people tend to cling
Posted by SheDevil77
I recently have become very interested in house placements...mine in particualar. I have Venus in Aquarius in the 8th as well as mars in scorpio.
Here are some things i notice about myself:
1)Can be very obsessed when crushing on someone...though they would never know it because i will act EXTREMELY detached
2)I often lure in the object of my affection before they even knew i exist...then they become infatuated with me and i get bored or detached
3)If someone makes it past the crush stage (which has only happened once...maybe twice)...i am extremely passionate and loyal, i take the term "till death do us part" quite literally (i know that sounds crazy but its true). so i try not to get serious about people unless i know they are trustworthy.
4)Speaking of trustworthy...i don't trust anyone...not a soul...I even trust my mother to a certain extent
5)My temper has gotten me into more than enough trouble...I've seen the inside of a Jail cell too many times for my liking when i had less control over my emotions.
6)As i have gotten older i have learned to control my emotions which have led to me being called emotionless...though those that know me know this is far from the truth. I try to not show much emotion because i can be quite emotional...though it tends to be expressed through anger before tears.
7)I am a total Jelly Belly in Relationships...though i will never show it..LOL. Unless there is a situation in which i feel i am being disrespected, like if a woman approached my significant other in a romantic way right in front of me ( I will confront her right then...usually with a warning first...leaving both her and my S.O. in s
lol you guys really calmed my nerves...i was minutes away from sending the infamous "This isn't gonna work" txt or call. I always feel like this huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders after i send those. LOL
I'm the same age...and i too have never let anyone in before in fact my inexperience in relationships is quite hilarious. We spend nights talking until the sun comes up...literally. we tell each other things (him mostly) that we would never say to anyone else. intimacy like that frightens me...im just not good at it. But i actually want to try...which is why i think im becoming an emotional wreck. One thing is for sure...we have some serious fun together, i feel like a teenager when we are together, we are SILLY...i dont think i've ever laughed with anyone this much in my life. besides my silly girlfriends. Its hard for me to relax around people...even harder for me to be goofy (although i am very much so..just not around people who dont know me). okay so what im getting is we should slow down on the intensity and let the friendship continue to build. cant be too hard...sigh...he's super fine...but i cant control myself lol
Posted by PhoenixRising
I get the whole Gem thing. I'm talking first love of my life (at age 24) intense. Never let anyone in before that. We became best friends before taking it up a notch. Placement:
Sun/Scorpio, Moon/Gemini,Venus/Sagittarius, Asc node/Scorpio
*sigh* the truth hurts.
Lol @ female fantasy :-)
Lol @ female fantasy :-)
Posted by ellessque
@ My female fantasy aka "shedevil"
you've established a pattern. I know this because I notice, how can I not (lol....I'm a groupie), every time you post here.
you get "this far" into a potential relationship and your venus freaks the hell out.
I know you are extremely intelligent and know logically that if you repeat the same thing over and over again.......you get nowhere.
How about you try something different this time? Challenge your venus. It will be uncomfortable at first and you might even fail. But who cares? You are YOU, you'll get a million more chances to be YOU.
Challenge that venus to really be an aqua and step outside of that box.
Phoenix!!!
What are your freaking placements?! Im the exact same way...i know i have some serious control issues, in every area of my life to be honest.
Apart of me is afraid of his gemini half sensing that lost of freedom and running off...when that's totally not my intention. Then another part of me is afraid that im moving too soon too fast...and im going to flake out and ruin a good friendship. I keep telling him we are ruining what was a budding great friendship, because there is nothing superficial about this. on either side..despite the detached ways on both sides. we share secrets, dreams, fears, etc. it is honestly scaring the fucking shit outta me. in some ways it feels like im watching a train wreck...i cant stop it...but i know the ending is gonna be horrible.
I'm Cap mercury...natural pessimist :-P lol
What are your freaking placements?! Im the exact same way...i know i have some serious control issues, in every area of my life to be honest.
Apart of me is afraid of his gemini half sensing that lost of freedom and running off...when that's totally not my intention. Then another part of me is afraid that im moving too soon too fast...and im going to flake out and ruin a good friendship. I keep telling him we are ruining what was a budding great friendship, because there is nothing superficial about this. on either side..despite the detached ways on both sides. we share secrets, dreams, fears, etc. it is honestly scaring the fucking shit outta me. in some ways it feels like im watching a train wreck...i cant stop it...but i know the ending is gonna be horrible.
I'm Cap mercury...natural pessimist :-P lol
alone! lol sometimes i truly feel like im a nutjob!
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by SheDevil77
I recently have become very interested in house placements...mine in particualar. I have Venus in Aquarius in the 8th as well as mars in scorpio.
Um were you telling us about you or me? Can you get out of my "closet" pleaseclick to expand
This is my problem!!! lol i give no one a chance. someone likes me and my survival instincts kick in. LOL
Posted by ellessque
btw, you aren't even giving him a chance.
you are assuming he's not up to the task.
he might be, he might not be.
you will never know until you let go and enjoy the ride.
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Posted by ellessquePosted by DazedScorp
I'll fight you for her?
let's go.
out back. behind the dumpster.click to expand
This just made me smile...oddly enough i think he likes that intensity...he keeps pressuring me to open up...but his Gemini Sun tendencies make me reluctant. he can be all over the place, though i'm flaky (darn aqua venus) im also consistent in my feelings...even if i dont express them. my venus makes it *look* easy for me to detach when he's doing his gem thing...he contacts me everyday..which is big for gem's i think. but they have always been that way with me so i dont take it too serious. today he made a comment about me disappearing on him...though i feel like i'm just giving us both space to breathe. like i said it feels claustrophobic at times. i think its because we have the same moon and asc.
Posted by ellessque
if he takes off running, do you really want him around for the long haul anyways?
you know you are intense as hell. you know you have this energy around you that is like "HOLY FUCK"....so therefore, you *need* someone to be able to handle this.
be yourself and they will come.
don't try holding back who you are so you don't *scare* them away. my goodness, woman....you need someone to step up to the plate and handle you, anything less will only lower your standards and make you unhappy.
I think I just met my Soulmate
Posted by DazedScorp
Cancer Asc
Scorp Sun
Leo moon
Scorp Venus
Aqua Mars
Believe me when I say... I'm as confuzzed as the come.
Squares between us or just with me?
Posted by DazedScorp
I don't think it's Scorp energy per se...
Just a shit load of squares, and chaotic emotions.
Hey Elle!!! U know I always think about that time you said "I could walk into a room and make you dizzy" or something like that lol. I think I'm just now starting to understand what you meant!
Posted by ellessque
welcome back, you sexy diva you
haha be careful what you wish for...seriously. :-P
Posted by DazedScorp
You're pretty much reversed from me...
Mars Aquarius in 8th house... Scorpio Venus.
I feel your pain.
Basically I'm intense as hell...almost too much so for myself...which is why i think most of my relationships have been filled with passion but short lived. I'm a Cap sun with a Cancer Rising and Moon in Leo BTW. Men and Lesbians are drawn to me often...sometimes its uncomfortable...but mostly it heats up my insides...i feel like i have to suppress a huge part of myself because there's this huge animal instinct feeling inside of me and I am afraid for it to fully takeover. i masturbate at least 3 times a day (sorry if its TMI, but you get the picture)...though i suppress myself from sex alot. I feel like if that part of me were to lose control, there may not be any coming back.
The current object of my affection is a cancer rising, gemini sun, Leo moon, Taurus venus, and Cancer mars. i should also note that his venus is in the 11th house.
The chemistry is crazy. Passionate, INTENSE, claustrophobic and stifling. My emotions have been a complete wreck since meeting him....I can't think straight when we kiss. Surprisingly we haven't had sex...Self Control seems to be pretty damn crazy on both sides...but its hard to pull away. literally like trying to pull magnets apart. cra-zy.
okay back to the point..what i want to know is how do i find a release of this scorp energy...is this even scorp energy? and how do i keep my emotions in check with this guy?
I cant believe I'm asking that...im usually really good at hiding emotions...over analyzing is usually my thing. but im so possessive of him it scares me. I am the queen of detachment...yet i hate when he's away from me. I'm Jealous of everyone around him...he cant tell of course. but my blood boils when he talks about his female friends. it shocks me...of course some it is insecurity, but most of it is just a "I wanna trap you in my basement and keep you from the rest of the world feeling". I feel like he brings out my scorp energy...i feel myself about to have emotional outburst for no real valid reason (not tears...i cant explain it). Thankfully my pride is holding me back from making a fool of myself...I detach from him for days at a time...in an attempt to get some control of my emotions (aqua-venus). but i am so scared im going to say or do something crazy lol...not illegal but just enough to make him take off running. which honestly might be a relief to my peace of mind. lol
Please tell me this is scorp energy and im not nutzo.
The current object of my affection is a cancer rising, gemini sun, Leo moon, Taurus venus, and Cancer mars. i should also note that his venus is in the 11th house.
The chemistry is crazy. Passionate, INTENSE, claustrophobic and stifling. My emotions have been a complete wreck since meeting him....I can't think straight when we kiss. Surprisingly we haven't had sex...Self Control seems to be pretty damn crazy on both sides...but its hard to pull away. literally like trying to pull magnets apart. cra-zy.
okay back to the point..what i want to know is how do i find a release of this scorp energy...is this even scorp energy? and how do i keep my emotions in check with this guy?
I cant believe I'm asking that...im usually really good at hiding emotions...over analyzing is usually my thing. but im so possessive of him it scares me. I am the queen of detachment...yet i hate when he's away from me. I'm Jealous of everyone around him...he cant tell of course. but my blood boils when he talks about his female friends. it shocks me...of course some it is insecurity, but most of it is just a "I wanna trap you in my basement and keep you from the rest of the world feeling". I feel like he brings out my scorp energy...i feel myself about to have emotional outburst for no real valid reason (not tears...i cant explain it). Thankfully my pride is holding me back from making a fool of myself...I detach from him for days at a time...in an attempt to get some control of my emotions (aqua-venus). but i am so scared im going to say or do something crazy lol...not illegal but just enough to make him take off running. which honestly might be a relief to my peace of mind. lol
Please tell me this is scorp energy and im not nutzo.
I recently have become very interested in house placements...mine in particualar. I have Venus in Aquarius in the 8th as well as mars in scorpio.
Here are some things i notice about myself:
1)Can be very obsessed when crushing on someone...though they would never know it because i will act EXTREMELY detached
2)I often lure in the object of my affection before they even knew i exist...then they become infatuated with me and i get bored or detached
3)If someone makes it past the crush stage (which has only happened once...maybe twice)...i am extremely passionate and loyal, i take the term "till death do us part" quite literally (i know that sounds crazy but its true). so i try not to get serious about people unless i know they are trustworthy.
4)Speaking of trustworthy...i don't trust anyone...not a soul...I even trust my mother to a certain extent
5)My temper has gotten me into more than enough trouble...I've seen the inside of a Jail cell too many times for my liking when i had less control over my emotions.
6)As i have gotten older i have learned to control my emotions which have led to me being called emotionless...though those that know me know this is far from the truth. I try to not show much emotion because i can be quite emotional...though it tends to be expressed through anger before tears.
7)I am a total Jelly Belly in Relationships...though i will never show it..LOL. Unless there is a situation in which i feel i am being disrespected, like if a woman approached my significant other in a romantic way right in front of me ( I will confront her right then...usually with a warning first...leaving both her and my S.O. in shock lol). Other than that i wont go through phones or emails, and if i do its usually for my own knowledge and not for confrontation. My ex's have often said i dont have a jealous bone in my body. Except my taurus ex who knew how to push all the right buttons to make me explode.
8)I am obsessed with anything dark...television...death...the occult...witchcraft...etc. I cant help help it, I have always been drawn to these things. Ive been into astrology since i was ten.
Here are some things i notice about myself:
1)Can be very obsessed when crushing on someone...though they would never know it because i will act EXTREMELY detached
2)I often lure in the object of my affection before they even knew i exist...then they become infatuated with me and i get bored or detached
3)If someone makes it past the crush stage (which has only happened once...maybe twice)...i am extremely passionate and loyal, i take the term "till death do us part" quite literally (i know that sounds crazy but its true). so i try not to get serious about people unless i know they are trustworthy.
4)Speaking of trustworthy...i don't trust anyone...not a soul...I even trust my mother to a certain extent
5)My temper has gotten me into more than enough trouble...I've seen the inside of a Jail cell too many times for my liking when i had less control over my emotions.
6)As i have gotten older i have learned to control my emotions which have led to me being called emotionless...though those that know me know this is far from the truth. I try to not show much emotion because i can be quite emotional...though it tends to be expressed through anger before tears.
7)I am a total Jelly Belly in Relationships...though i will never show it..LOL. Unless there is a situation in which i feel i am being disrespected, like if a woman approached my significant other in a romantic way right in front of me ( I will confront her right then...usually with a warning first...leaving both her and my S.O. in shock lol). Other than that i wont go through phones or emails, and if i do its usually for my own knowledge and not for confrontation. My ex's have often said i dont have a jealous bone in my body. Except my taurus ex who knew how to push all the right buttons to make me explode.
8)I am obsessed with anything dark...television...death...the occult...witchcraft...etc. I cant help help it, I have always been drawn to these things. Ive been into astrology since i was ten.
Posted by highlander
Sun or Venus in Aquarius; computers and other technical gadgets, telescopes and microscopes, magazine subscriptions, outings with friends,
This couldn't be more true!!! I told this guy once, don't bring me flowers and candy gross. Bring me an Xbox or an iPad or something I can play with lol. If a guy brings flowers, I know it won't work. Immediately
Soooo I just finished watching this GREAT documentary abt Gloria Steinem....I knew some stuff abt her but never really got into her too much even tho I consider myself a HUGE supporter of the women's right movement. Anywhoo, I was sooo into the doc and I identified with soooo much of her life and what she was saying that I wanted to look up her chart. We both have a Venus in aqua in the 8th house, ascendent in cancer, and moon in Leo in the 2nd house. Wow was all I could say. I also found it interesting that she didn't marry until 66, she never had children. She said she never felt compelled to. I say this ALL the time!!! It was soooo freaky reading her chart... Her sun was in the tenth house which is also sorta interesting since I'm a cap sun.
I've also compared my chart to my favorite musicians...I wanted to see why some artist effect me in deeper ways than others. My favorite singers Jill Scott and erykah badu both have a cancer rising.....interesting....
Have u ever compared ur chart to a celebs? Did u find any similarities? If u never had I'd recommend it!! It's entertaining to say the least! Lol
I've also compared my chart to my favorite musicians...I wanted to see why some artist effect me in deeper ways than others. My favorite singers Jill Scott and erykah badu both have a cancer rising.....interesting....
Have u ever compared ur chart to a celebs? Did u find any similarities? If u never had I'd recommend it!! It's entertaining to say the least! Lol
That is soooo true. I over analyze every emotion I feel when I like someone. Maybe because it feels so awkward to me. Out of my comfort zone