Message Posts by Something222
Currently living (basically) separated under one roof with Cancer Sun, Aqua moon.
I have Scorpio Sun, Gemini Moon.
We were together for 7 years, then split for about 3 years (on/off) then moved back in together when Covid hit and severe rental crises began, where we live. That was 4 years ago.
For the past year and a bit, since our little one was born, we've been separated (we've had seprate bedrooms since moving back in together 4 years ago) all physical and emotion connection severed (by me). I realised after our little one was born (actually while I was still pregnant) that the connection was draining me more than it ever fulfilled me and I had zero spare energy to give after having a baby. I was exhausted.
He's been emotionally closed off almost our entire relationship He's closed off to the kids- so it's not just me.
I've felt alone anytime we were involved. I've felt more alone when 'with' him than I ever have when actually alone. More alone than when times were a struggle living as a single parent.
During the time when we were separated and living separately, I briefly dated a Scorpio sun and Venus, Gemini moon. That brief relationship or whatever it was was deeper and closer than anything I had ever experienced. It changed me. I've felt a longing ever since.
I have Scorpio Sun, Gemini Moon.
We were together for 7 years, then split for about 3 years (on/off) then moved back in together when Covid hit and severe rental crises began, where we live. That was 4 years ago.
For the past year and a bit, since our little one was born, we've been separated (we've had seprate bedrooms since moving back in together 4 years ago) all physical and emotion connection severed (by me). I realised after our little one was born (actually while I was still pregnant) that the connection was draining me more than it ever fulfilled me and I had zero spare energy to give after having a baby. I was exhausted.
He's been emotionally closed off almost our entire relationship He's closed off to the kids- so it's not just me.
I've felt alone anytime we were involved. I've felt more alone when 'with' him than I ever have when actually alone. More alone than when times were a struggle living as a single parent.
During the time when we were separated and living separately, I briefly dated a Scorpio sun and Venus, Gemini moon. That brief relationship or whatever it was was deeper and closer than anything I had ever experienced. It changed me. I've felt a longing ever since.
I've felt like I've needed this place. = D
Posted by MareInfameYes!
If he said some ugly truths to you while angry, I would believe him 100% .
IME as a Scorpio and with Scorpios I’ve encountered, we always say what we mean.
I’ve noticed other signs saying things like “I said it bc I was angry but I didn’t mean it”
But for us it’s more like “I said it in a rough tone and regret that, but meant every bit of it”.
I have never apologized for something I’ve said. I’ve only apologized for the manner it which it has been said (tact vs. lack of tact).
And the tact and tone had all to do with that moment that made me get angry. Which... I don’t like to do. I don’t like losing my temper, as I see it as a weakness (losing control).