Message Posts by Sunflower3
I have been with my bf officially for 8 months (1 year 2 months dating) we have always had a great relationship and have only recently started becoming more stable because of improved communication and sorting out our issues effectively. I know all his friends and family, his friends always tease him about him being in love with me, he is always there and always very sweet and caring towards me and is always looking for ways to be a better bf. He is not very verbally expressive and we have never said 'i love u' to each other.
We had a discussion today which then eventually i flat out asked him if he loves me and he said, "ive actually thought about it a few times and the answer is no, i am not in love with you yet." I was very hurt by this which now leaves me on the fence. He said he knows he will love me, and he wants to love me forever, and he always thought i could possibly be the one, he sees a future with us (he also always talks about having kids with me) but he's not in love yet.
This now leaves me wondering..Should I continue to build on our relationship and just hope he one day soon loves me, or should i not waste time and break up with him and find someone who i won't have to wait so long on their love?
We had a discussion today which then eventually i flat out asked him if he loves me and he said, "ive actually thought about it a few times and the answer is no, i am not in love with you yet." I was very hurt by this which now leaves me on the fence. He said he knows he will love me, and he wants to love me forever, and he always thought i could possibly be the one, he sees a future with us (he also always talks about having kids with me) but he's not in love yet.
This now leaves me wondering..Should I continue to build on our relationship and just hope he one day soon loves me, or should i not waste time and break up with him and find someone who i won't have to wait so long on their love?
I'm a scorpio, my man is a cancer. We had a fight yesterday which stemmed from my jealousy, and he broke up with me because he said he couldn't take it anymore. I apologized and accepted that I know I have a problem and I will be willing to work on it. He said he's run out of patience and has quit trying.
He seems very serious but I really want him back. Usually when something like this happens (twice before), he says it's over then he tells me to leave him alone, but no more than 2 days later he always comes back. This time it seems different. His bestfriend told me it's no different than the other times, give it time and he'll come around, but I just don't know.
I spent all day yesterday apologizing. I asked him if we can meet and talk it out, and he said no, his mind is made up. I then I saw messages from him from about 2am this morning checking up on me and asking if I was still willing to meet.
I just cried my eyes out and haven't eaten since it happened yesterday. I do not want this to be the end. Advice please?
He seems very serious but I really want him back. Usually when something like this happens (twice before), he says it's over then he tells me to leave him alone, but no more than 2 days later he always comes back. This time it seems different. His bestfriend told me it's no different than the other times, give it time and he'll come around, but I just don't know.
I spent all day yesterday apologizing. I asked him if we can meet and talk it out, and he said no, his mind is made up. I then I saw messages from him from about 2am this morning checking up on me and asking if I was still willing to meet.
I just cried my eyes out and haven't eaten since it happened yesterday. I do not want this to be the end. Advice please?