Message Posts by TowardAscension
How do you Pisceans (especially women) feel about open relationships?
When does it end?
When I've felt that way, it almost seems as though everything my friends did to try to snap me out of it, actually ended up irritating me. Messed up, I know.
The only thing that helps me get through those periods is to be left alone to actually GO THROUGH whatever I'm feeling. Eventually, I'll reach some sort of conclusion about the situation and snap out if it.
The only thing that helps me get through those periods is to be left alone to actually GO THROUGH whatever I'm feeling. Eventually, I'll reach some sort of conclusion about the situation and snap out if it.
"Oh the average Aqua KNOWS what they're doing & why they're doing it & when you find an evil Aqua, they don't try to sugar-coat who they are (because it all goes back to the contentment we have in our own decisions)"
"I concur."
Lady M............... what is the rationale when thinking like this? Do you care who you hurt? Or have you become soooo self-centered and selfish that it really doesn't matter? Is there any thought that goes into purposely dishing out this pain? How is there contentment in this kind of behavior?
"I concur."
Lady M............... what is the rationale when thinking like this? Do you care who you hurt? Or have you become soooo self-centered and selfish that it really doesn't matter? Is there any thought that goes into purposely dishing out this pain? How is there contentment in this kind of behavior?
Oh God.
Krysrenee......thanks. I've decided that I won't tell her. Even though I feel sorry for her, I really have no obligations to her nor do I wish to interfere in their relationship. To be honest, if I did tell her at this time, it would be out of pure vengeance, not concern. More than I want to pay him back, I don't want to be that kind of person.
Wheelhomies, Exotic......you know, I would sometimes think he was playing games with me. I brushed it off because I did not WANT to believe someone could be soooooooo deliberately cruel and evil. It hurts me to my SOUL to know that he would treat me like that. However, the writing was on the wall, and I CHOSE to be blinded by love. Next time, I'll go into a relationship with my head AND heart.
BOTH his parents abandoned him around 9 years old so love might not be his easiest emotion......Imma let it slide. Also, I was no angel either. My controlling and jealous bullshit had to be alot for him to deal with. No pass for his behavior, but more of an understanding.
Thanks ladies.
Krysrenee......thanks. I've decided that I won't tell her. Even though I feel sorry for her, I really have no obligations to her nor do I wish to interfere in their relationship. To be honest, if I did tell her at this time, it would be out of pure vengeance, not concern. More than I want to pay him back, I don't want to be that kind of person.
Wheelhomies, Exotic......you know, I would sometimes think he was playing games with me. I brushed it off because I did not WANT to believe someone could be soooooooo deliberately cruel and evil. It hurts me to my SOUL to know that he would treat me like that. However, the writing was on the wall, and I CHOSE to be blinded by love. Next time, I'll go into a relationship with my head AND heart.
BOTH his parents abandoned him around 9 years old so love might not be his easiest emotion......Imma let it slide. Also, I was no angel either. My controlling and jealous bullshit had to be alot for him to deal with. No pass for his behavior, but more of an understanding.
Thanks ladies.
Good luck with that.
2 cents.......
Mata Hari might'a got it right. I know personally, even if I really want a person, if they told me they didn't want something serious, I would fall back and respect their wishes.
As a scorpio male, my love interest would have to give me something to go on in order for me to give it my all and not fear a possible rejection.
The original poster was interested in a casual relationship, so what she got from him was his version of a casual relationship. If she wanted something serious, she should have said so.
Mata Hari might'a got it right. I know personally, even if I really want a person, if they told me they didn't want something serious, I would fall back and respect their wishes.
As a scorpio male, my love interest would have to give me something to go on in order for me to give it my all and not fear a possible rejection.
The original poster was interested in a casual relationship, so what she got from him was his version of a casual relationship. If she wanted something serious, she should have said so.
Thanks. I needed to read that. You said all the things I've felt, but haven't been able to put into words. It still hurts too much to actually face the fact that he was using me and I allowed it.
And actually, I put him out in June, 2007. We had absolutely no contact until November 07, when he appeared at my doorstep wanting to "talk." I was pretty much over our relationship and was moving on. But seeing him brought all those feelings back.
The reason he's been on my brain lately is that last Saturday, he showed up WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND AND THEIR NEW BABY at my door. I told them their kid was cute and he took her out of her mother's arms and damn near forced me to hold her. WTF?
And once again I feel horrible about our relationship, horrible about being vulnerable with him (no one else has ever had me like this), and strangely enough, I feel horrible about the way he is playing her by bringing her and their baby to his ex-lovers house and she doesn't even know. The audacity of that.
Still, I do know that NO CONTACT whatsoever is the best way to deal with this clown. But the scorpio in me wants to tell the girlfriend who her boyfriend REALLY is.
And actually, I put him out in June, 2007. We had absolutely no contact until November 07, when he appeared at my doorstep wanting to "talk." I was pretty much over our relationship and was moving on. But seeing him brought all those feelings back.
The reason he's been on my brain lately is that last Saturday, he showed up WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND AND THEIR NEW BABY at my door. I told them their kid was cute and he took her out of her mother's arms and damn near forced me to hold her. WTF?
And once again I feel horrible about our relationship, horrible about being vulnerable with him (no one else has ever had me like this), and strangely enough, I feel horrible about the way he is playing her by bringing her and their baby to his ex-lovers house and she doesn't even know. The audacity of that.
Still, I do know that NO CONTACT whatsoever is the best way to deal with this clown. But the scorpio in me wants to tell the girlfriend who her boyfriend REALLY is.
Okay, this is what it is.
I was in a live-in relationship with an Aquarius guy for two years. I am a scorpio guy. We actually moved to another city together.
Anyways, after about a year or so, he met a girl that he really liked. He told me so, and I was pretty goddamn upset. He said he couldn't see himself being with a man in the long run (So what was our relationship thus far? A 60 day free trial?).
I tried to understand. I really did. I gave him alot of space and freedom. But things came to an end when he started staying out all day every day and lying about the littlest things. I think this was to avoid pissing me off (Scorpio rage is no joke). lol
For instance, I was missing a pair of sneaker and repeatedly asked him about the missing sneakers, to which he denied knowing anything. This went on for days on end with me getting angrier because I KNEW he had them. He eventually admitted leaving them at the girl's house. To me, that's being cruel, he caused me to question my own judgement. There were many other instances of these little lies.
Anyways, before we stopped living together, there would be phone calls to my phone from a guy looking for my "friend", the guy clearly sounded gay. I asked him about it and he, of course, denied it. Of course he would, would he tell his new girl about his relationship with me?
Lying about sneakers is one thing. But possible screwing three different people?Why would an aqua tell serious lies like this??? To get what they want and to hell with everyone else who might be hurt by these actions? To spread the love around to the little boys and girls, literally? Or, I'm wondering, does he lie to me specifically because he knows I WILL ACT A DAMN FOOL on him?
Oh Beautiful, Intelligent Aquarians, please give opinions on your brethren....LOL
I was in a live-in relationship with an Aquarius guy for two years. I am a scorpio guy. We actually moved to another city together.
Anyways, after about a year or so, he met a girl that he really liked. He told me so, and I was pretty goddamn upset. He said he couldn't see himself being with a man in the long run (So what was our relationship thus far? A 60 day free trial?).
I tried to understand. I really did. I gave him alot of space and freedom. But things came to an end when he started staying out all day every day and lying about the littlest things. I think this was to avoid pissing me off (Scorpio rage is no joke). lol
For instance, I was missing a pair of sneaker and repeatedly asked him about the missing sneakers, to which he denied knowing anything. This went on for days on end with me getting angrier because I KNEW he had them. He eventually admitted leaving them at the girl's house. To me, that's being cruel, he caused me to question my own judgement. There were many other instances of these little lies.
Anyways, before we stopped living together, there would be phone calls to my phone from a guy looking for my "friend", the guy clearly sounded gay. I asked him about it and he, of course, denied it. Of course he would, would he tell his new girl about his relationship with me?
Lying about sneakers is one thing. But possible screwing three different people?Why would an aqua tell serious lies like this??? To get what they want and to hell with everyone else who might be hurt by these actions? To spread the love around to the little boys and girls, literally? Or, I'm wondering, does he lie to me specifically because he knows I WILL ACT A DAMN FOOL on him?
Oh Beautiful, Intelligent Aquarians, please give opinions on your brethren....LOL
Do Aquas really hate to be ignored? Especially male ones. What happens when an aqua feels that s/he is being ignored or no longer receiving consistent attention levels?
These post really hit close to home. I usually lurk, but I just had to respond. I can count on my fingers how many times I have been to several friend's house, but they constantly are at mine and showing up unannounced to talk and just be here.
I am here for everyone, but have no one here to understand me. When I do try communicating feelings, I feel like it's pointless and no one at all gets it. I am going through a big disappearing act right now because I believe I have been taken for granted due to some heavy people-pleasing(and not enough self-pleasing) that I have been unconsciously doing for the last few years.
I am here for everyone, but have no one here to understand me. When I do try communicating feelings, I feel like it's pointless and no one at all gets it. I am going through a big disappearing act right now because I believe I have been taken for granted due to some heavy people-pleasing(and not enough self-pleasing) that I have been unconsciously doing for the last few years.
How do you guys feel about intuition? Do you trust it as it relates to other people? How do you know it's intuition as opposed to general worry or mistrust? ANY feedback (especially from fellow scorpios) would be appreciated.
Thanks.
It's good to know my Aquarian may be willing to change somethings too. After my jealousy was getting out of hand(Accusing them of cheating, telling them not to go over to certain people's house), I forced myself to chill and just trust my friend, blindly.
When we met, I learned my friend was put up for adoption and doesn't really have a family, which is when my super-protective/caretaker instincts kicked in. I vowed to be there no matter what, forever. In return, I was told that nothing would ever come between us, I would never have a reason to be jealous and that I was loved. We love each other and you can feel it. My friend also goes through this thing where they are very touchy-feely and affectionate for a short period of time, but then, it abruptly stops. When I go back for more, I am flat out refused/fought off, lol. I usually initiate the contact(duh), so I wonder what would happen if I just waited, and waited for my friend to MAYBE, one day, hopefully soon, initiate a lil sumthin sumthin. That would be the icing on this Scorpian's cake.
It's good to know my Aquarian may be willing to change somethings too. After my jealousy was getting out of hand(Accusing them of cheating, telling them not to go over to certain people's house), I forced myself to chill and just trust my friend, blindly.
When we met, I learned my friend was put up for adoption and doesn't really have a family, which is when my super-protective/caretaker instincts kicked in. I vowed to be there no matter what, forever. In return, I was told that nothing would ever come between us, I would never have a reason to be jealous and that I was loved. We love each other and you can feel it. My friend also goes through this thing where they are very touchy-feely and affectionate for a short period of time, but then, it abruptly stops. When I go back for more, I am flat out refused/fought off, lol. I usually initiate the contact(duh), so I wonder what would happen if I just waited, and waited for my friend to MAYBE, one day, hopefully soon, initiate a lil sumthin sumthin. That would be the icing on this Scorpian's cake.
.......What about an Aquarius with a Virgo moon and Cancer rising with a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Capricorn rising????? Don't our moons and rising signs work together? Do these other things make any real difference or are the sun signs too different? Someone please let me know. We're living together now. It's been kinda rocky with both of us becoming quiet and distant at times(not to mention my jealousy), but the love and connection feels so strong. I think we both really want it to work.
What about an Aquarius with a Virgo moon and Cancer rising with a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Capricorn rising????? Someone please let me know. We're living together now. It's been kinda rocky, but the love and connection feels so strong. I think we both really want it to work.
Well, we do question alot...Scorpio is also the sign most likely to get into the occult. Kinda weird ha?
Okay, someone touched on the public thing. Another fantasy of mine is sex in public. Not out in the open exactly, but the "hurry up, someone might see" type. Im talking pants around the ankles, tie loose, behind a downtown building while looking out for passerbys. do it...do it...
Even though I love pleasing my partner(most important), I think one of my fantasies may be to be completely dominated in bed. Tied up, handcuffed, held down and done to finish. I think it's more of a power or control thing...trying to have it all the time...but then complete surrender.
damn i wish i knew a pisces. if i do, they havent made themselves known. how do you guys react when you're really attracted to these scorps? let em know? ignore them? act nonchalant? sweat em?
From the male and female scorpios I know, the females seem to be waaaaay more outspoken/sassy. Will cut you down with words in a minute provoked or not.
Hey everyone,
I am a newbie and have been reading up on my sign in the last year or so. Anyway, a scorpio's suspiciousness is supposedly a universal sign trait. So, how do you deal with not trusting? With friends? Significant others?
I am a newbie and have been reading up on my sign in the last year or so. Anyway, a scorpio's suspiciousness is supposedly a universal sign trait. So, how do you deal with not trusting? With friends? Significant others?