Message Posts by ariesamazone
Hi PA, could you do mine: H(first name)B(last name) - Thanks!!
Me too - although for the field, I am not quite a good player - I am not too much into quantity - I would get bored - I'd rather have quality - That special thing that catches my eyes and make my heart wonder, is it him?
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And me too, I love variety, new things, new people, new experiences but within a relationship, that means to be creative, imaginative enough to keep that taste for discovery and learning and growing together. That can be achieved through things we share, dream, build together.. It doesn't mean necessarily changing partner for the sake of change. A partner is not disposable/interchangeable. Human beings are not products. A man I dated for 2 years, who was commitment phobic, once tried to explain to me that having multiple partners was like putting on a new dress. That sounded awful he admitted. His moon was Sag. But yes I would need a new partner, if my partner was always the same, while I am growing. I would lose my attraction. So yes, one has to find someone who is in sync with him/her. That's the tough thing to achieve.
same here - completely agree with the sort of moral code, most aries here seem to have - I have never cheated on anyone in my life - been in several long term relationships that I considered exactly the same as being married - I did develop an interest for someone else while into the relationship, once, but to me it was the sign that I'd done everything I could to save the relationship and that it didn't work out so I ended it. But I would never have cheated. Cheating for me is just impossible. Unless it is an agreed open relationship, but in that case it's not cheating. To me, cheating, means that you are lying to someone. And to me, it is dishonesty. And also a lack of honor and courage. 2 words that most aries seem to value a lot.
I am also, aries, aquarius, scorpio except that my moon is scorpio and my rising aquarius - And I noticed exactly the same - I have never met or ever been strongly attracted by a Sag or Leo, (supposedly) the best matches for an aries. Really never. And the only 2 leos I got to meet/date had me run in the opposite direction! I've been very good friend with some aries, but I don't have that many around me. And recently I have experienced the most magical and unique connection ever, with a Cancer- I would have married him in a heartbeat. And believe me, I am not at all the kind that fancy marriage. The experience was so surreal. It didn't go far because we live in 2 different countries, I spent too little time with him and there were tons of other obstacles between us. But I still have him on my mind after more than 5 months away, and I still dream that maybe one day I will meet him again or at least get a chance to experience something that strong with another one. His moon is gemini. Does that mean, we would have been a great match, considering the air and water element of our charts?
Hey Angel, do you still read online? I tried to PM you but for some reason, there's nowhere to write a message and no send button. Could you pm me if you have some spare time and tell me what you need to know to be able to read. I am far from you!! I would be impressed if you actually can read my situation.. well from what people say here, you seem quite good!
yeah definitely on the friendship level it works completely different for me too- Lots of air and fire in the ones I really like - But definitely for the romance, the attraction, connection and chemistry is with the ones I am not supposed to get along with. But probably to look at the moon, venus and if you're on the cusp of another sign makes a lot of sense.. I am one day before being on the cusp of aries/taurus so it feels like I am both although most of the astrology site state that the cusp starts 1 day after my birthday so..not sure about that, but that would explain all the taurus and other earth guys in my life..
you need to learn meditation with a teacher and then practice on a daily basis. It comes slowly with the practice, but you will feel something happening. I think it as very personal thing and the more you will ask about it, the more you will have a preconception about it, as opposed to experiencing it which is completely different. I recommend you try a Vipassana 10 day-retreat, Check www.dhamma.org for more info. It's donation based and extremely well organized. It's not easy but you have to have a strong commitment to it to really benefit from it. Oh and it's "new age crap-free according to me. Yeah because when it comes to meditation and all the eastern philosophies and practices, there's a lot of crap out there as it has become a huge business.. so follow your intuition.. Good luck and enjoy. It will definitely help you in all kinds of ways.
oh and me too, the only libra guy that I got (my longest relationship, 6 years) had his rising or moon in cancer .. He was definitely more like a cancer than a libra..
All my life I just got earth and water signs. Mainly Taurus, then scorpio, capricorn and cancer.. I should be more compatible with fire and air signs - I am aries. But that might be because of my venus placement : taurus and moon sign: scorpio.. BTW I don't think your opposite sign (libra) necessarily means some sort of incompatibility. I don't know too much about that though..
hi pretty, I am aries sun/scorpio moon which might be different than a cancer moon but it' s still a fire/water combination. All I can say is that i experience my emotion very deeply and keep them under wraps which makes me look as if I am detached or cold or aloof whereas inside of me it's very very intense. I might be totally depressed inside for example and still appear as if everything is ok, being social and outgoing, while in truth, I can't wait til the time where I can just go to bed and release everything, sometimes crying rivers and feeling totally hopeless, when everyone sees me as someone who hardly ever cries and is always moving forward (which is also true at the same time). So yeah I am extremely sensitive. I seem tough and I am actually, but I am also very vulnerable, just don't like to show it. But the older I am, the better I am at allowing myself to show my vulnerability and I actually feel good about it. I am everything but superficial. I cannot stand shallow. in everything whether friendship, love, communication, aspiration, everything... I love totally and completely, not sure if that's the water or the fire or both combined.. I read somewhere " a deeply sensitive soul capable of great courage and strength." That's me. Also I can be so nurturing and compassionate to others that I often forget to be so with myself but that is my cancer south node I believe. Hope this helps. xxxxxx
CG, didn't get what you mean, could you explain "keep it from my family as I do"..
Thanks Scubafish. I have no intention to ask him to change his religion. We actually have the same one. Except that I do not follow the dress code that orthodox people see as a sign of their faith. He knows the way I live my life. He knows that I am a good person but he is not familiar with straightforward and independent women. He, himself is not that independent, although he made a big move by choosing to live far away from his family, which the family highly disapproves. So he is able to live his own life but he still has some hesitations about going further like choosing a partner with a different background. That would cause a major conflict for sure within his family. So yeah, I know that I have to learn how to express my opinions without hurting his feelings or giving him the impression that I would be a major troublemaker if I was ever introduced to his family. I am actually just a bit passionate about how women are supposed to do so many things for the sake of a so called honor or respect or whatsoever. I might have been a little bit too strong in expressing my views about that. I know I can find a different and better way to express myself if I want to be understood. At least, I am willing to improve that side of me although it can be seen as a quality as well. I am not afraid to stand up against hypocrisy. But I know he is just trapped in this system. So I have to refine my communication skills. BTW, I like the example you used to explain their loyalty to their family no matter how strange they can be. I think that's the case with him.
Thank you Ninjamu. It's good to know that although the family can be a priority it doesn't mean that one cannot choose to make his/her own choice. In the case of my cancer, i think there are different parameters that interfere. He is probably unsure of me and might think its better to play it safe and go with what he knows better (his family's ways). He seems to have a lot of respect for me and probably he is intimidated. There is also a major age difference. I am older although it's not visible but it is another issue for him. I feel that he doesn't dare to believe that he can live his life differently, probably because that will outcast him. His family seems religious in an uneducated way if u know what I mean. But he seems to be interested in different ideas (probably his gemini moon) so for now he is very ambivalent. I just hope that he has guts because that's the only thing that could save him from not being true to himself. But maybe he is being true to himself by following and adopting his family's ways. Not sure where he stands exactly. He listens a lot but doesn't really say what he thinks. It's probably wise to remain friends as he is suggesting. His cancer ways are good for me to learn how to slow down....
Hello all. I need your insights on this situation.
Considering how important family seems to be for most cancerian people and knowing that they are also attached to traditions and the past, do you think a cancer would be likely to go against his family will if it happens that the family would never allow him to be with someone for religious reasons?
To make it short, I fell in love deeply with a cancer guy. Love at first sight. Felt irresistibly drawn to him. Pursued him insanely. I was driven by a very strong feeling that the connection between us is mutual. I felt intense energy between us although he kept pushing me away until he finally told me he likes me a lot but he is coming from a very religious and strict family who will never accept me. ( We didn't even have time to become friends that he was thinking right away about marriage...waow..).
For some unknown reason, my attraction to him is so strong and so unusual, it didn't even bother me to see myself married to him anyway... I didn't give up and kept calling him. He seemed to enjoy our chats and finally said he would like to see me again. Unfortunately, I had to leave his country and he sent me a text the day be4 I left to tell me that he kept thinking of the way we both look at each other and that he did feel something different in him and his mind but couldn't explain his feelings, and that he hopes I understand. Totally boosted by this msg, I kept calling him every week from abroad. We became closer in the first month, and ..suddenly,around december, he switched to his original position: "we are friends, my family will never accept this etc.."... After analyzing this over and over, I think he started to grow colder after a conversation about religion in which i was quite blunt and I might have offended him..(I am aries and maybe too straightforward). By the way, we are not from different religions. It's just that he is, let's say, from an orthodox and strict traditional background whereas I am quite secular in the way I see religion. I favor the spirit of a sacred text over blind dogmas. Plus, of course I am super sensitive about how religion has been used to push women down so I can become quite ferocious about that. The thing is that I can feel that he doesn't necessarily disagree with my ideas, but he seems to place his family before himself, therefore not giving himself permission to even listen to his heart.
(me:aries sun, scorpio moon, taurus venus, aqua rising)
Considering how important family seems to be for most cancerian people and knowing that they are also attached to traditions and the past, do you think a cancer would be likely to go against his family will if it happens that the family would never allow him to be with someone for religious reasons?
To make it short, I fell in love deeply with a cancer guy. Love at first sight. Felt irresistibly drawn to him. Pursued him insanely. I was driven by a very strong feeling that the connection between us is mutual. I felt intense energy between us although he kept pushing me away until he finally told me he likes me a lot but he is coming from a very religious and strict family who will never accept me. ( We didn't even have time to become friends that he was thinking right away about marriage...waow..).
For some unknown reason, my attraction to him is so strong and so unusual, it didn't even bother me to see myself married to him anyway... I didn't give up and kept calling him. He seemed to enjoy our chats and finally said he would like to see me again. Unfortunately, I had to leave his country and he sent me a text the day be4 I left to tell me that he kept thinking of the way we both look at each other and that he did feel something different in him and his mind but couldn't explain his feelings, and that he hopes I understand. Totally boosted by this msg, I kept calling him every week from abroad. We became closer in the first month, and ..suddenly,around december, he switched to his original position: "we are friends, my family will never accept this etc.."... After analyzing this over and over, I think he started to grow colder after a conversation about religion in which i was quite blunt and I might have offended him..(I am aries and maybe too straightforward). By the way, we are not from different religions. It's just that he is, let's say, from an orthodox and strict traditional background whereas I am quite secular in the way I see religion. I favor the spirit of a sacred text over blind dogmas. Plus, of course I am super sensitive about how religion has been used to push women down so I can become quite ferocious about that. The thing is that I can feel that he doesn't necessarily disagree with my ideas, but he seems to place his family before himself, therefore not giving himself permission to even listen to his heart.
(me:aries sun, scorpio moon, taurus venus, aqua rising)