Message Posts by aspegz
Ixion, you're super insightful & it's really nice to hear an actual Virgo male's opinion. So thank you for all your advice!
Posted by Sagtastic1
@aspegz Don??t let them sappy ass water signs try and drag you into emotional turmoil. They always think the WORST first??_.ewww I??m itching just thinking about it. Back to the OP. #GirlCode you never let a man know that you are sleeping with another man, that just makes your stock go waaaaayyy down. I know you can??t help but being honest, because it??s only fair (typical Sun Sag Libra Acs trait??_..*air five* astro twin). While we??re on the subject of being fair, I??m sure your V-guy truly enjoys your company and better yet the sex; probably why he??s hung around for so long. I??ve experienced the tit for tat with Virgo??s as well as the criticism. I personally think they find humor in making fun of our flaws, as if it makes them feel better about themselves. So TF what I??m clumsy and I forget to put money in my parking meter which leads me to get tickets. That??s how I carried that situation!
His intent is very clear; he likes you and your cookies! If you want more, TELL HIM! If he doesn??t??_.well, now you know. You can either detach yourself emotionally or continue to bang him or tell him it was fun and throw up the peace sign. If you decide to leave, BE PREPARED for him to re-appear. A Sag to a Virgo is like crack to a addict. They know it??s bad for them, but they can??t leave it alone.
Can I just say I love you?
& @realtalk, you're one of those people who think they're being "real," but really you're just incredibly insensitive. There's a big difference & I think you need to learn it. You're violent. You want to tell everyone else their life problems and how stupid they are and then as soon as someone speaks up you jump down their throat. But okay. I tried to be nice & thank you for your "advice" and you had to get defensive. I hope you don't sound as pathetic in real life as you do on here. Have a great day.
Gemini, you've probably given me the most real answer yet. So thank you for that. You're completely right, and I have let my emotions cloud my logic. Maybe I'll stop the sex entirely because it's not worth the worth the fuss that I obviously can't help creating lol.
Happy Anniversary by the way
Happy Anniversary by the way
Posted by RealTalk
You're a "Sagittarius" so that makes you exempt from jealousy? FOH, everyone gets jealous, it's just human nature & you're a damn lie if you say you don't.
Anywho, I'm afraid you won't be viewed as anything more than cum dump. He knows you're fucking other guys too? Smh...he's not going to want anything more boo, cut your losses.
I didn't say it makes me exempt from being jealous, of course I get jealous in certain situations. But I honestly don't really get JEALOUS with him, or care who he's having sex with. So call me a liar, or whatever else. lol I'm honest.
He fucks other girls as well. Anyway, you're kind of rude. Thanks for enlightening opinion though.
Posted by Ixion120
I do have one question when he does mention the other guys that you chill with does he do it in a sarcastic or teasing sort of way?
Yeah, he's rarely serious about it, as far as I can tell. Except the past couple times he's been over, he's legit asked me if I think he's "small" down there.
Like I said, I'm just trying to figure out his way of thinking. I'm not emotionally invested as in looking at him in a romantic way. I think he's an interesting, cool person that I want to know better but don't know how to approach him.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by aspegz
..... I've had a f**k buddy relationship with a Virgo man for about seven months now.
That is the opening sentence, and I won't read anything past that ....... once you get hurt, don't come crying around these parts.click to expand
It amuses me that you automatically think I've been hurt, which I haven't. But thanks
@smurfy: Thanks for the reply.
I don't "want a relationship" with him. Like I said, I'm starting to like him, yes... it's very weird to me, and I change my mind about it all the time. But I'll take your advice & leave it as it stands.
@gemini64: Thank you, also.
I guess first, the sex thing is mutual. You made it sound like I'm a prostitute that doesn't make money lol. I do understand that it's weird. The sex started very unexpectedly and it's not at all how I normally am. But when sexual frustration hits it's peak...you do what you do. He's a Virgo & I'm a Sagittarius and it'd be a hard relationship anyway. I guess I'm just trying to understand him because I like him as a person & I quite enjoy his company. He's just so damn hard to read about everything all the time.
I don't "want a relationship" with him. Like I said, I'm starting to like him, yes... it's very weird to me, and I change my mind about it all the time. But I'll take your advice & leave it as it stands.
@gemini64: Thank you, also.
I guess first, the sex thing is mutual. You made it sound like I'm a prostitute that doesn't make money lol. I do understand that it's weird. The sex started very unexpectedly and it's not at all how I normally am. But when sexual frustration hits it's peak...you do what you do. He's a Virgo & I'm a Sagittarius and it'd be a hard relationship anyway. I guess I'm just trying to understand him because I like him as a person & I quite enjoy his company. He's just so damn hard to read about everything all the time.
So I've had a f**k buddy relationship with a Virgo man for about seven months now.
Sometimes he's very reserved, he doesn't talk much at all. He'll come, we'll do it, he'll leave. Other times, he'll hangout for a few hours, he'll talk to me about things in his life, we'll laugh & have a good time..ect. Sometimes he even stays the night.
He always has to say things like he was with another girl earlier in the evening; I'm assuming trying to gauge my reaction? I'm a Sagittarius so I don't really get jealous or care who he does what with..& I let him know that. He found out I had sex with another guy a couple times & now he always brings him up. Like, "I'm sure so&so was here earlier, I'm sure he's better than me" ect.
Anyway I'm kind of confused as to what he feels. I don't ever bring feelings up because we went into this as sort of strangers with mutual friends, and I don't want to ruin the sex part with feeling-talk, so before I do anything my question is:
Is this just how he is, or is there some underlying feeling he's got?
I'm starting to like him, he's good company.. but I don't ever let him know that because he's very critical & I don't want to freak him out. It's very possible that he just thinks I'm good company & I'm way over thinking this, but for those who know more about Virgo men, your opinion would be MUCH appreciated.
Thanks~
Sometimes he's very reserved, he doesn't talk much at all. He'll come, we'll do it, he'll leave. Other times, he'll hangout for a few hours, he'll talk to me about things in his life, we'll laugh & have a good time..ect. Sometimes he even stays the night.
He always has to say things like he was with another girl earlier in the evening; I'm assuming trying to gauge my reaction? I'm a Sagittarius so I don't really get jealous or care who he does what with..& I let him know that. He found out I had sex with another guy a couple times & now he always brings him up. Like, "I'm sure so&so was here earlier, I'm sure he's better than me" ect.
Anyway I'm kind of confused as to what he feels. I don't ever bring feelings up because we went into this as sort of strangers with mutual friends, and I don't want to ruin the sex part with feeling-talk, so before I do anything my question is:
Is this just how he is, or is there some underlying feeling he's got?
I'm starting to like him, he's good company.. but I don't ever let him know that because he's very critical & I don't want to freak him out. It's very possible that he just thinks I'm good company & I'm way over thinking this, but for those who know more about Virgo men, your opinion would be MUCH appreciated.
Thanks~