Message Posts by bullbullgirl
Dating a leo, so following to see more advice. 
My leo man needs space to do his stuff.. Don't expect him to be always be with you physically.. He like independent woman. Make him laugh, they are playful. They are rather straight forward, so if he doesn't like you, you will know, although they can be a flirt. And don't try to control him, it doesn't work, they are the king.
For me, my leo man works a lot and he has other stuff to do, instead of planning and fixing a date with him.. I will let him lead when he wants to see me, the chances of spending time with him this way is higher than if I asked him and try to fixed a date. Lol
They are charmer so look out for his actions rather than his sweet words.
My leo man needs space to do his stuff.. Don't expect him to be always be with you physically.. He like independent woman. Make him laugh, they are playful. They are rather straight forward, so if he doesn't like you, you will know, although they can be a flirt. And don't try to control him, it doesn't work, they are the king.
For me, my leo man works a lot and he has other stuff to do, instead of planning and fixing a date with him.. I will let him lead when he wants to see me, the chances of spending time with him this way is higher than if I asked him and try to fixed a date. Lol
They are charmer so look out for his actions rather than his sweet words.
Sop doing everything for him.. He will only appreciate if he wants to be with you. He knows you like him, so give him the chance and space to chase you. When he's in, he's in. Right now, no matter how much more you do for him, he's not going to care that much. And yes, leo likes to be in control. But you have the power to control your own life. I won't ask you to give up on him, but ask you not to focus on him.
Posted by themb22Posted by bullbullgirlThank you, this was the comment I needed to see! I will let him chase me, but it can get so confusing cause at the same time Leo's feel like if you don't talk to them you're ignoring them...they're so annoying and confusing
Just focus on your studies now.. If he's meant to be, he will come around.. Leo man is quite self centered, until unless he thinks that you are as important as him.. Leave him alone, let him come to you.. Leo man like to chase.. Give him space to chase u.. Until he decide you are the one, he will be roaming around.. Right now you are putting in more efforts than him.. So just step back and focus on yourself.. Leo are charming, especially with words... But pay to his actions, it speak louder..click to expand
It's confusing because you like him. It's not balanced between u and him.. It's obvious that you like him more than he likes you now, thus you feeling confuse.. For now don't initiate any communication with him.. Not initiating is not equals to ignoring.. Give him the power to lead if he does lead.. I don't know how mean is your leo to u, because my leo will be angry with me playfully, but he's never mean to me.. You need to feel secure with yourself, if he does return and chase u, good. If not, you need to let him go. Give yourself a time frame on how long you will wait for him. Meantime find some one to date or activities to do; take him off your mind.
My leo talks sex to me often, but when we meet, he such a gentleman.
I'm not a expert in leo, but I have somewhat similar situation as you.
Just focus on your studies now.. If he's meant to be, he will come around.. Leo man is quite self centered, until unless he thinks that you are as important as him.. Leave him alone, let him come to you.. Leo man like to chase.. Give him space to chase u.. Until he decide you are the one, he will be roaming around.. Right now you are putting in more efforts than him.. So just step back and focus on yourself.. Leo are charming, especially with words... But pay to his actions, it speak louder..
I love leos.. male and females.. they are so fun to be with.. I can get along well with all them..
@JohnnyRed007, the leo man I dating now has the same Leo Sun, Gemini Rising, Virgo Mercury, Scorpio Mar as you.. hopefully we will make it works.. lol..
@JohnnyRed007, the leo man I dating now has the same Leo Sun, Gemini Rising, Virgo Mercury, Scorpio Mar as you.. hopefully we will make it works.. lol..
he will be back if he likes you.
but everything will need to go by his pace..
I was in similar situation as you before, but I didn't start to be insecure and start questioning him that early..
but like yours, his action doesn't match his words..
once in awhile, I did question him and tell him those insecure words, but mine never block me or say goodbye to me.
I feel that mine is quite self centered as he cares more about himself more..
he will come back and see if you still around, but I learn to work on my insecurity , let go of expectations.
and I when i don't expect much.. he start putting in actions effort.. so now I'm happy with every effort he made..
but everything will need to go by his pace..
I was in similar situation as you before, but I didn't start to be insecure and start questioning him that early..
but like yours, his action doesn't match his words..
once in awhile, I did question him and tell him those insecure words, but mine never block me or say goodbye to me.
I feel that mine is quite self centered as he cares more about himself more..
he will come back and see if you still around, but I learn to work on my insecurity , let go of expectations.
and I when i don't expect much.. he start putting in actions effort.. so now I'm happy with every effort he made..
Hi,
recently met this charming gemini guy.
tried to do a birthchart on him.
what can i expect from him based on the birthchart?
Sun Gemini 29.03
Moon Virgo 4.23
Mercury Gemini 18.59 R
Venus Gemini 17.57 R
Mars Pisces 17.38
Jupiter Taurus 23.48
Saturn Sagittarius 29.16 R
Uranus Sagittarius 29.03 R
Neptune Capricorn 9.06 R
Pluto Scorpio 10.01 R
Lilith Virgo 4.05
Asc node Pisces 17.34
recently met this charming gemini guy.
tried to do a birthchart on him.
what can i expect from him based on the birthchart?
Sun Gemini 29.03
Moon Virgo 4.23
Mercury Gemini 18.59 R
Venus Gemini 17.57 R
Mars Pisces 17.38
Jupiter Taurus 23.48
Saturn Sagittarius 29.16 R
Uranus Sagittarius 29.03 R
Neptune Capricorn 9.06 R
Pluto Scorpio 10.01 R
Lilith Virgo 4.05
Asc node Pisces 17.34
i feel that she needs someone to talk to or share her problems with.. or just spend time with someone who can understand her better to help get her out of the situation. and obviously, ex will know her better than you. and also because you keep pressing her to tell you that the currently situation is not because of you, but of the job. i think she's feeling frustrated with you, with all your insecurities, you push her a little away in this situation.
right now, i guess you need to just back away and let her do her things.
if she comes back, you then deal the questions/problems you have with her.
and wanting to get to know why she meet her ex, did she sleep with him at the moment, you wont get any good result.
as for the sleeping part, no comments. it might or might not happen.
right now, i guess you need to just back away and let her do her things.
if she comes back, you then deal the questions/problems you have with her.
and wanting to get to know why she meet her ex, did she sleep with him at the moment, you wont get any good result.
as for the sleeping part, no comments. it might or might not happen.
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by DMV
food, money, sex. and in that order
Nope.
Money, food then sex ( that's the order for me at least)!!!click to expand
i'm with busyeyes88 for this order..
we, (or maybe only me) need to have money to feel secure before we can enjoy other things..
Most of my close friends (females)
4X Scorpios- i just can bond/click with them very well
2X Capricorn- need to have high level patience when with them
1 X Aquarius- childhood friend, and so we are very close.
1 X Leo-Virgo- alawys all over the place, but a nice girl, childhood friend
my favourite cousin is a cancer, easily moooody, but is a sweeet girl.
and i find i get along well with leos too (males and females).
4X Scorpios- i just can bond/click with them very well
2X Capricorn- need to have high level patience when with them
1 X Aquarius- childhood friend, and so we are very close.
1 X Leo-Virgo- alawys all over the place, but a nice girl, childhood friend
my favourite cousin is a cancer, easily moooody, but is a sweeet girl.
and i find i get along well with leos too (males and females).
Posted by SsupesPosted by bullbullgirlPosted by regulus
It seems to be his thing.
If you miss him, be his friend, if you can handle it. If not, walk away. Don't hang onto something out of hope, because my guess is while he does enjoy a chase, this guy is just being honest and missed your friendship. Don't overthink it with this one.
Also, it's very hard to say anything beyond the basics i just gave you without knowing where the signs fall in the houses, but this gives you a general idea of how he might be thinking, or why he might be acting the way he is. And as fun as all this is, take it with a grain of saltBest of luck with the situation!
guess he has already move on and really just see me as his friend..
i will do a closure on my side and try to move on..
it's just how long i take..
Taurus wear our heart on sleeves plus i have a cancer moon.. loll
I'm willing to bet that Leo will give you closure if you need it.click to expand
He will. It's not like he's stringing me now or leaving me hanging.
It's me.
And I have done my closure.
I write a goodbye poem wishing him all the best and that love someone is not to own him if that's not his wish, love someone is to set him free, and also to set myself emotionally free from him.. he read and acknowledge with a crying face.
I still likes Leos..
I have a few leo friends and they are wonderful people..
Posted by regulus
It seems to be his thing.
If you miss him, be his friend, if you can handle it. If not, walk away. Don't hang onto something out of hope, because my guess is while he does enjoy a chase, this guy is just being honest and missed your friendship. Don't overthink it with this one.
Also, it's very hard to say anything beyond the basics i just gave you without knowing where the signs fall in the houses, but this gives you a general idea of how he might be thinking, or why he might be acting the way he is. And as fun as all this is, take it with a grain of salt
guess he has already move on and really just see me as his friend..
i will do a closure on my side and try to move on..
it's just how long i take..
Taurus wear our heart on sleeves plus i have a cancer moon.. loll
'Okay, so you're dealing with a Leo sun/venus. I have both of these. I'm not gonna lie. Unless I'm head over heels, I'm a little bit flaky. A realization I was reluctant to admit in younger years, but I'll own up to it now. There has to be a super deep connection. I will try at first, but if I know it's not going to work, I won't waste more than a few months, if that, in the situation. If this combo is needing some attention, they may keep coming back around out of sheer boredom. If you were friendlisted, then my guess is he came back because he wanted his friend. We may be flaky, but we're not liars, so I'm thinking you should take his word on it. He's mercury Virgo, probably a pretty hard worker, so I doubt he's lying about that aspect, either, or just using it as an excuse. Leo sun/mercury Virgo combos don't tend to communicate or get back in touch, either, unless they actually want to. That combo is known for just not responding to you, or just disappearing. Super flaky.
However, Leo sun libra mooners are going to be dreamy, optimistic, and super charismatic. Add that to a leo venus, and this guy probably oozes charm. You're drawn to him because everybody is drawn to him. He's a Scorpio mars. Mars is in it's home here, so you're going to feel a magnetic pull, most likely. Most people will be able to sense the Scorpio presence in this placement. Being that he's so charming, it's like he's going charm coming out of every available nook and cranny he's got going for him (i'll stop there before this gets gross). So it seems he does want you as a friend, he was honest there. He was also honest in his attempt to get back in touch with a friend. You're attracted because most people are probably attracted to this kid'
this is so him.. lol
i'm smiling when i read what you wrote..
you are quite spot on with him..
he is flaky when he's unsure which is me..
and he did mention before.. he doesnt really respond to his friends if the message are not important..
he will either not respond or respond days later..
but he will always respond to me.. that was before.. i'm not sure in the future...
he does seem to have that nature charm.. loll..
However, Leo sun libra mooners are going to be dreamy, optimistic, and super charismatic. Add that to a leo venus, and this guy probably oozes charm. You're drawn to him because everybody is drawn to him. He's a Scorpio mars. Mars is in it's home here, so you're going to feel a magnetic pull, most likely. Most people will be able to sense the Scorpio presence in this placement. Being that he's so charming, it's like he's going charm coming out of every available nook and cranny he's got going for him (i'll stop there before this gets gross). So it seems he does want you as a friend, he was honest there. He was also honest in his attempt to get back in touch with a friend. You're attracted because most people are probably attracted to this kid'
this is so him.. lol
i'm smiling when i read what you wrote..
you are quite spot on with him..
he is flaky when he's unsure which is me..
and he did mention before.. he doesnt really respond to his friends if the message are not important..
he will either not respond or respond days later..
but he will always respond to me.. that was before.. i'm not sure in the future...
he does seem to have that nature charm.. loll..
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by bullbullgirlPosted by MontgomeryPosted by regulus
Also, if you're basing it on sun sign alone, you're not going to really get anywhere.
Ah ha!
This.
He seems to have most of the obvious leo traits. Lol
And apparently, Leo like attention, but do not give them too much, not until they have catch u.
Is that right?
The attention you give to a Leo has to be genuine not fake!! Games are not for Leos. Genuine admiration and attention to them as individuals and getting to know their personalities will get them to warm to you. They are warm hearted being. Appreciate their warmth and genuine loyalty. Leos along with the taurus are the most steadfast loyal generous people on the planet. The type of people that you want to make an effort to keep because once you are theirs they are loyal to the core.click to expand
he knows i'm real and true to him..
he's so warm and sweet..
if it doesnt meant to be, it's ok... i cant force anyway..
i just want him to be happy.
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by bullbullgirlPosted by busyeyes88
@OP. How long were you in a relationship? If you are unsure about the current status be strong enough to voice it out and no EXACTLY where you stand. And if being only friends with him causes you pain then walk away PERMANENTLY.. Cut ALL ties.. This is what I do but so many people are afraid to go through the pain that this kind of permanency holds so sit in 'friendzone' causing themselves even more long term pain.
He say he can't give me happiness that's why he doesn't want to carry on.
I will be strong! It's just hurt that he gives up without trying.
Maybe he did try but whatever efforts he made, seems like it was not enough for you ie 'he said he can't give me happiness that's why he doesn't want to carry on'!
So let him be.. Leo's need attention and admiration like the air that we breath.. Leos are warm and generous to the ones they love but if they feel they are not being appreciated or no matter what they do is enough, they will take it to someone who will appreciate them and they are never short of admirers. It's very hard for a Leo/leo enhanced person (I have leo rising and moon) to let go of someone they have chosen as their standards are usually high ie not anyone will do.. So trust me in that it is just as hard for him to have had to come to this decision.click to expand
he cant give me happiness because his work requires alot of his times and he has no time for me and he feels it's unfair for me..
and he keep thinking that he's not good enough for me.. that i deserve someone better..
i never once put him down, i even told him why i like him..
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by regulus
Also, if you're basing it on sun sign alone, you're not going to really get anywhere.
Ah ha!
This.click to expand
He seems to have most of the obvious leo traits. Lol
And apparently, Leo like attention, but do not give them too much, not until they have catch u.
Is that right?
Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. How long were you in a relationship? If you are unsure about the current status be strong enough to voice it out and no EXACTLY where you stand. And if being only friends with him causes you pain then walk away PERMANENTLY.. Cut ALL ties.. This is what I do but so many people are afraid to go through the pain that this kind of permanency holds so sit in 'friendzone' causing themselves even more long term pain.
He say he can't give me happiness that's why he doesn't want to carry on.
I will be strong! It's just hurt that he gives up without trying.
Posted by SsupesPosted by bullbullgirlPosted by regulus
Leo's are cats, you're the mouse.
he's busy catching other mouse now. loll
Then your still friend zoned and he's just making sure your friendship is good. He's being nice to make sure your not mad at him.click to expand
Most likely this is the case as he's on social chatting site..
He's so funny, though he friendzone me, he gets unhappy that I'm on the site too.
He says I must be talking to other guys, but he's the one chatting with girls if not he won't be in that site.
but I tell him, 'but you say I'm your friend.' Then he try to laugh it off and say wish me luck. Sigh.
In the beginning, he add me in fb and says will be active on there for me.
But now, he's hardly on fb and is rather active on the social site.
Sometimes, I really wish what you say is true, he's trying to chase me back.
But I can't live in denial.
Posted by regulus
Leo's are cats, you're the mouse.
he's busy catching other mouse now. loll
Posted by regulus
Also, if you're basing it on sun sign alone, you're not going to really get anywhere.
i dont know his time of birth, but this is his birth chart if it helps:
Zodiac in degrees
Sun Leo
Moon Libra
Mercury Virgo
Venus Leo
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Capricorn
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Pisces
Asc node Gemini
Posted by Ssupes
Well, he did friend zone you. No doubt about that.
Now, he's pursuing you, correct?
If he is pursuing you again then what I have said should be correct, coming from a fellow Leo.
i dont think he's chasing me.. maybe he's just being friendly..
l thought leo are famous for being direct and straightforward?
in the beginning when he's chasing me, he texted me everyday.. but not now.. he cant be leaving comments just like that..
anyway, i also know that he's talking to other girls on social site..
he's a sweet guy, but i guess also a typical leo charmer..
Posted by SsupesPosted by Montgomery
Tell him?
So far, you've been demoted and had your date canceled
with no reschedule-- so...
No.
Sounds like he friend zoned her, realized he messed up and trying to win her back.
He cant re-schedule until she recognizes his efforts.click to expand
i dont think he feel that he messed up after friendzoning me..
more like he wants me to give him the same attention and affection like before..
because after he friendzone me, i withdraw all my attention on him and he came back a few days trying to be the same as before, and when i tell him i need time.. he reply, 'only as friend, why need time?'
tell me what he wants.. loll
of course, if he realise he has made the wrong decision to friendzone me will be great
but i doubt that for now.. loll
'It's hard to just remain friends with someone you have feelings with.' i raise both hands to agree!!
i'm trying to be strong.. just having my weak moments now..
he knows i like him, and i know he likes me but not enough to take it up to another level.
yesterday, i posted a qoute,' it's funny how 1 truth, 1 lie,1 text, 1 song,1 person can change your mood.'
he commented,' i'm here to change your mood'
seriously i dont know what he's thinking.. just wanting some attention?
i'm trying to be strong.. just having my weak moments now..
he knows i like him, and i know he likes me but not enough to take it up to another level.
yesterday, i posted a qoute,' it's funny how 1 truth, 1 lie,1 text, 1 song,1 person can change your mood.'
he commented,' i'm here to change your mood
' seriously i dont know what he's thinking.. just wanting some attention?
so leo has decide to demote us to friends about 3 weeks ago..
after i tell him as long as he's happy.. to be in a rs or not doesn't really matter.. he came back last week came back telling me he miss me and wanted to see me but couldnt as he's working....
when he tells me he miss me, i didnt tell him the same.. all the while i remain friendly but distant with him.. texting him like a friend..
then a few days before the date, he say he cant as he has work on that day, i told him it's ok and to cheer up...
later that night he sang me a song, song lyrics is saying i have changed, not as warmed and affectionate as before..
as in he wants to be friends, so i treat him like one..
i didnt mention the lyrics, i just take it as he just wants to sing to me, which he often does..
so i told him,' gald to hear you sing, still having a nice voice' and had some friendly chat.
and so today i kinda of miss him, feel like telling him that..
can i tell him?
after i tell him as long as he's happy.. to be in a rs or not doesn't really matter.. he came back last week came back telling me he miss me and wanted to see me but couldnt as he's working....
when he tells me he miss me, i didnt tell him the same.. all the while i remain friendly but distant with him.. texting him like a friend..
then a few days before the date, he say he cant as he has work on that day, i told him it's ok and to cheer up...
later that night he sang me a song, song lyrics is saying i have changed, not as warmed and affectionate as before..
as in he wants to be friends, so i treat him like one..
i didnt mention the lyrics, i just take it as he just wants to sing to me, which he often does..
so i told him,' gald to hear you sing, still having a nice voice' and had some friendly chat.
and so today i kinda of miss him, feel like telling him that..
can i tell him?
Why are you feeling confused?
I mean she tells you she likes you but you rejected her, and out of sudden, after 2 weeks (i assume no contact for 2 weeks), you ask her to hang out..
Most likely she's the one feeling hurt and confused, and doesnt want to be in this state trying to figure out what you want when you have rejected her but still asked her out. And you might have hurt her pride and ego because she tells you she likes you but is being rejected.
I suggest if you really like her and want to take it slow. Tell her that, because i think she took it as a rejection.
I mean she tells you she likes you but you rejected her, and out of sudden, after 2 weeks (i assume no contact for 2 weeks), you ask her to hang out..
Most likely she's the one feeling hurt and confused, and doesnt want to be in this state trying to figure out what you want when you have rejected her but still asked her out. And you might have hurt her pride and ego because she tells you she likes you but is being rejected.
I suggest if you really like her and want to take it slow. Tell her that, because i think she took it as a rejection.
He will be back.
Maybe with more drama or to make it sound like he's the one who wanted to end things with you and not you dumping him.
My leo texted me 'sorry' after telling me that he doesn't want to be with me. and i asked him what's he's sorry for, he didnt reply. I was feeling 'why send me that', maybe he waiting for me to tell him 'I miss him'. loll..
I miss my leo, but he was never mine.
Be strong girl, let's move on! After every storm, there will be a rainbow.
Maybe with more drama or to make it sound like he's the one who wanted to end things with you and not you dumping him.
My leo texted me 'sorry' after telling me that he doesn't want to be with me. and i asked him what's he's sorry for, he didnt reply. I was feeling 'why send me that', maybe he waiting for me to tell him 'I miss him'. loll..
I miss my leo, but he was never mine.
Be strong girl, let's move on! After every storm, there will be a rainbow.
That's right girl, move on from him and have fun dating some other men.
If he's meant to be, he will be back.. and by then it's up to you if you still want him
i think he will be back to give you some lame explanations/excuses and try to blame it on you.
Right now, you are not his priority.. he may or may not be seeing other people..
but his actions are not matching his words.. now he's taking you for granted because he knows you will be available to him...
i read this before, ' some people are meant to walk into your life to teach you how to let go.'
If he's meant to be, he will be back.. and by then it's up to you if you still want him
i think he will be back to give you some lame explanations/excuses and try to blame it on you.
Right now, you are not his priority.. he may or may not be seeing other people..
but his actions are not matching his words.. now he's taking you for granted because he knows you will be available to him...
i read this before, ' some people are meant to walk into your life to teach you how to let go.'
happpy for you! 
i still think leo are great man though my leo ended things before we can start anything official.
i got cancer moon so a big hug to you! lol..
i still think leo are great man though my leo ended things before we can start anything official.
i got cancer moon so a big hug to you! lol..
That's great
Now don't go to him, let him wonder about you and miss you, let him chase you a little
Now don't go to him, let him wonder about you and miss you, let him chase you a little
dont be too hard on yourself
virgo.. nice people to hang out with.. they are fun and helpful..
was in a rs with one, i dont know, had been burnt by one, but that can't totally blame him, i'm too navie then.. am flirting with one virgo right now. lol..
'He threatens to leave all the time but stays.' this is very manipulative.
virgo.. nice people to hang out with.. they are fun and helpful..
was in a rs with one, i dont know, had been burnt by one, but that can't totally blame him, i'm too navie then.. am flirting with one virgo right now. lol..
'He threatens to leave all the time but stays.' this is very manipulative.
are you both in a relationship?
okay, i understand that you love him, but does he see you as his lover?
i feel that he's stringing you along and only do things at his convenience. and that he can do this is because he knows you will always be there no matter how poor he treats you.
i understand how you feel, it's like all these frustration feelings are bottled up throughout these 3 years and it reach a point that you break down. but i think this should not happen in a healthy realtionship.
okay, i understand that you love him, but does he see you as his lover?
i feel that he's stringing you along and only do things at his convenience. and that he can do this is because he knows you will always be there no matter how poor he treats you.
i understand how you feel, it's like all these frustration feelings are bottled up throughout these 3 years and it reach a point that you break down. but i think this should not happen in a healthy realtionship.
Did he say you both are in a relationship?
Seems to me, he likes you but maybe abit confused with himself if he does likes you romantically, or he could be playing with you.
I would agree with 'dontgetmewrong' not to take him so seriously at this point, but still let him know you are interested in him in a romantic way and not as a family.
And the next time, if he asked for sex, tell him, 'you don't do it with your sister', (since you says he see you as a sister.)
Give him some space, and when he confused you, like 'AL4813' mention, put him in his place.
He might sulk, but he will be back if he cares about you.
Seems to me, he likes you but maybe abit confused with himself if he does likes you romantically, or he could be playing with you.
I would agree with 'dontgetmewrong' not to take him so seriously at this point, but still let him know you are interested in him in a romantic way and not as a family.
And the next time, if he asked for sex, tell him, 'you don't do it with your sister', (since you says he see you as a sister.)
Give him some space, and when he confused you, like 'AL4813' mention, put him in his place.
He might sulk, but he will be back if he cares about you.
I'm not a leo, but maybe i can say my experience with virgo men.
my first guy is a virgo with many virgo placements and apparently i'm too easy for him and it turns out a disaster, i can only blame myself. lol. but from that experience/him, i learn alot and grow myself.
And then i met another guy, have some interest in him on our first meeting, but upon knowing he's a virgo, i step back. He's sweet but he wants something else. Has a virgo colleague, fun to be with but is super careful with his money(more towards stingy, but he's very willingly to teach.
So far those i came across are a charmer, but all have communication problems in some level and they will used you if you are weak. For me, nice friends to have, that's all.
Sorry if i shouldn't comment since i'm not leo.
my first guy is a virgo with many virgo placements and apparently i'm too easy for him and it turns out a disaster, i can only blame myself. lol. but from that experience/him, i learn alot and grow myself.
And then i met another guy, have some interest in him on our first meeting, but upon knowing he's a virgo, i step back. He's sweet but he wants something else. Has a virgo colleague, fun to be with but is super careful with his money(more towards stingy, but he's very willingly to teach.
So far those i came across are a charmer, but all have communication problems in some level and they will used you if you are weak. For me, nice friends to have, that's all.
Sorry if i shouldn't comment since i'm not leo.
Posted by SalamanderCandyPosted by SalamanderCandyPosted by bullbullgirl
if i keep giving him attention as leo is a hunter and they like chasing? but if i didnt check on him, he will roar that i dont want him anymore!
This used to puzzled me too. "The world will never know..." xD
I've only seen it with one leo though.
"*wants time alone like any other human*"
"oh okay, *leaves for a while*"
"I feel like you don't want me anymore!"
Hm.. it just depends on the maturity of the person with this sign.
I feel if someone is comfortable by themselves, they won't ask too much of their partner.
puzzle*
It's not exclusively a leo thing since I've seen it on a lot of people. But that is a great question.
Fire signs tend to megaphone their thoughts though xDD js.
So it's more about the last sentence of my message, applied to everyone.click to expand
"I feel like you don't want me anymore!" seriously, sometimes i think where do this comes from, which part make him thinks that i dont want him.. and since he 'afraid' that i dont want him, but he still doesnt want to meet me..
but i feel like he wants to know me first before meeting.. because even now, sometimes we will have those in-dept conversations..
Posted by Montgomery
Eight weeks, no meeting in person.
That's awfully suspicious, don't you think?
though this is not an excuse, but he's always on business trip and often it's a whole week thing..
okay.. we texted for 2 months, not 3 months.. it just seem a loong time has passed.. loool
Posted by GENERALIZOD
he probably has no legs like lt. dan hence the hesitation to meet.
loool.. he drives and went for business trip, so i guess that's not the issue..
so.. after texting 3 months with my leo, he still has not date me out despite me telling him i want to meet him earlier on.. though we have a little improvement, we exchange voice message recently..
so now.. if i didn't text him first in the morning, he will come saying i dont care about him, i dont want him anymore.. but the thing is i'm his girl but not his gf yet...
question is do i continue to give him attention or i should back off abit?
i'm afraid that he will be bored if i keep giving him attention as leo is a hunter and they like chasing? but if i didnt check on him, he will roar that i dont want him anymore!
what's going on with this leo?
so now.. if i didn't text him first in the morning, he will come saying i dont care about him, i dont want him anymore.. but the thing is i'm his girl but not his gf yet...
question is do i continue to give him attention or i should back off abit?
i'm afraid that he will be bored if i keep giving him attention as leo is a hunter and they like chasing? but if i didnt check on him, he will roar that i dont want him anymore!
what's going on with this leo?
thank you all for your replies.. it really helps me alot..
as now we are still are the knowing each other stage, thus i do not know what is the best way for him when he's moody.. but so far his moodiness wont last more than a day and he would always make an effort to come to me.
And it's pretty easy to know if he's moody and i will always make it a point to let him know that i'm always there if he wants to chat with me and i'm not ignoring him, but i'm giving him space at the same time. ( He always think that i'm ignoring him if i didnt tap on him for a few hours).
so far he has not been a grouchy lion and growl all over the place yet..
i still have alot to learn from you all.
as now we are still are the knowing each other stage, thus i do not know what is the best way for him when he's moody.. but so far his moodiness wont last more than a day and he would always make an effort to come to me.
And it's pretty easy to know if he's moody and i will always make it a point to let him know that i'm always there if he wants to chat with me and i'm not ignoring him, but i'm giving him space at the same time. ( He always think that i'm ignoring him if i didnt tap on him for a few hours).
so far he has not been a grouchy lion and growl all over the place yet..
i still have alot to learn from you all.
recently this leo is getting moody easily because of work..
and i like the fact that he straight up tells me what's bothering him..
for me, my moodiness passed very quickly.. and once i come to term that even if i'm moody i still need to get the job done, i will get out of it real quick.
but seem like this leo is moody because he doesn't want to do the extra work but he needs to do.
also, when leo is moody, best to leave him alone? but he likes attention too... not sure if i should tap on him even if he's moody..
and i like the fact that he straight up tells me what's bothering him..
for me, my moodiness passed very quickly.. and once i come to term that even if i'm moody i still need to get the job done, i will get out of it real quick.
but seem like this leo is moody because he doesn't want to do the extra work but he needs to do.
also, when leo is moody, best to leave him alone? but he likes attention too... not sure if i should tap on him even if he's moody..