Message Posts by doodlestrudel12
Posted by dilettanteyeah i think ive hurt his feelings a couple of times already lol but he seems to get over it 😂Posted by doodlestrudel12Posted by dilettantePosted by doodlestrudel12 I'm an aries
SSSSKKKKRRRTTTTT!!!!!!
danger zone, you are approaching a danger zone. unless he has strong fire placements, or you, water, this will be a HUGE trash fire.
tread lightly, my friend. this can be a v painful & disastrous combo.
Yeah I've heard it can be a real shit show. If it helps, this is our charts:
His-
Rising: Sagittarius
Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Pisces
Mercury: Scorpio
Venus: Libra
Mars: Virgo
Mine-
Rising: Sagittarius
Sun: Aries
Moon: Virgo
Mercury: Pisces
Venus: Aries
Mars: Cancer
ok, this isnt the worst i’ve ever seen. this could actually be ok.
his moon sign is what makes me worry lol
just beware that you may be too direct for his sensitive ass moon.click to expand
Posted by Sailor_Mars
He wants sex...damn pervs...they always want that
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Yeah kinda what I figured lol
Posted by dilettantePosted by doodlestrudel12 I'm an aries
SSSSKKKKRRRTTTTT!!!!!!
danger zone, you are approaching a danger zone. unless he has strong fire placements, or you, water, this will be a HUGE trash fire.
tread lightly, my friend. this can be a v painful & disastrous combo.click to expand
Yeah I've heard it can be a real shit show. If it helps, this is our charts:
His-
Rising: Sagittarius
Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Pisces
Mercury: Scorpio
Venus: Libra
Mars: Virgo
Mine-
Rising: Sagittarius
Sun: Aries
Moon: Virgo
Mercury: Pisces
Venus: Aries
Mars: Cancer
Posted by dilettanteHere's his chart:
well first thing: scorpios are moody. if he is acting like you annoy the hell outta him & there was genuinely no reason... it isnt you, it’s just a mood he’s in. we are, generally, brooders. don’t take our moods personally. in fact, this is something i tell most dudes when i start hanging out with them romantically. “if i am brooding, it probably isn’t you. i am very moody.”
it sounds like he likes you? romantically, i dunno. however, i do find that if a dude is talking about his emotions, he is likely interested.
it would be best if we knew his chart. i have a lot of air so i talk about my emotions a lot & dudes tend to confuse that as me being interested in them. they mistake emotionality for romantic intimacy.
Rising: Sagittarius
Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Pisces
Mercury: Scorpio
Venus: Libra
Mars: Virgo
Posted by Phantom_DangusInteresting. I can't imagine wasting that much time and energy just for that 😆
I have seen Scorpio men act this way with women when they didn't want anything at all except to be the guy she liked and talked to most in that environment.
Posted by jaymens933Yeah lol he's not super chatty with others so I think it's mistaken as him being rude. I'm an ariesPosted by doodlestrudel12
Hello everyone. I really would like some insight from some other Scorpios. I've worked with this Scorp guy for around a year and a half. I would say we've become fairly good friends within that time, and I will admit I've developed a bit of a crush on him. The problem is, I can't figure out how he feels about me. He's definitely very flirty with me, example: he's said things like, "I bet you never have to pay for any drinks at the bar, all the guys get them for you", crap like that. He seems to have a soft spot for me, he'll drop whatever he's doing to come help me if I need it, and I can get away with things others wouldn't. (He's a shift leader) I catch him staring at me all the time, to the point where other coworkers frequently mention it to me. He'll be silly and do whatever to get me laughing, while being serious and kinda unapproachable towards others. Im basically the only person he'll talk to. He's opened up and told me some things that are very personal and will share his feelings and thoughts with me (not too much though😂) he'll stay past his shift so he can hang around me, and he hates when I talk to other male coworkers (one in particular) too much, to the point where he'll shut down and ignore me/be snippy the rest of the night. Or he'll make snarky comments about the other guy to me, making fun of them basically. He tells me how nice I am to have around, how he doesn't deserve someone like me. However, there's days where he acts like I don't exist, as if I'm annoying the hell out of him by just speaking to him. This will last a week or two, then he's back to his old self. I don't get why he's so hot and cold. So really I wanna know, does he just wanna be friends? More than that? There's just a sweetness to him that I really only see, and everyone else thinks he's weird, creepy, or a dick. I'd appreciate any insight into helping understand him better!
Lol everyone else thinks he is a dik?
Anyway I dont think he has a crush on you, just flirty
Whats ur signclick to expand
Hello everyone. I really would like some insight from some other Scorpios. I've worked with this Scorp guy for around a year and a half. I would say we've become fairly good friends within that time, and I will admit I've developed a bit of a crush on him. The problem is, I can't figure out how he feels about me. He's definitely very flirty with me, example: he's said things like, "I bet you never have to pay for any drinks at the bar, all the guys get them for you", crap like that. He seems to have a soft spot for me, he'll drop whatever he's doing to come help me if I need it, and I can get away with things others wouldn't. (He's a shift leader) I catch him staring at me all the time, to the point where other coworkers frequently mention it to me. He'll be silly and do whatever to get me laughing, while being serious and kinda unapproachable towards others. Im basically the only person he'll talk to. He's opened up and told me some things that are very personal and will share his feelings and thoughts with me (not too much though😂) he'll stay past his shift so he can hang around me, and he hates when I talk to other male coworkers (one in particular) too much, to the point where he'll shut down and ignore me/be snippy the rest of the night. Or he'll make snarky comments about the other guy to me, making fun of them basically. He tells me how nice I am to have around, how he doesn't deserve someone like me. However, there's days where he acts like I don't exist, as if I'm annoying the hell out of him by just speaking to him. This will last a week or two, then he's back to his old self. I don't get why he's so hot and cold. So really I wanna know, does he just wanna be friends? More than that? There's just a sweetness to him that I really only see, and everyone else thinks he's weird, creepy, or a dick. I'd appreciate any insight into helping understand him better!
Posted by sagittariusxoThank you for the advice, and for being kind. I'll try that.
honestly give her her space
appreciate her direct honesty
and allow her to come back around, or give her a week after her trip to reach out.
I get this way and I always put space between me and anyone that is effecting me negatively
but I always get over it, I understand thing and I don't hold grudges.
I just need space and distance.
you need to really work on your "words of affirmations" when you get in that head space.
speaking to yourself out load is actually very helpful if you practice it.
"everything is ok"
"I am ok"
"nothing is different"
"I need to chill out"
nothing drives me more crazy then people trying to share their bad energy.
So a couple of days ago I got into a bad fight with my Sagittarius friend. I have a lot of issues with anxiety and depression and sometimes I have panicky meltdowns over situations. Well, she was away on a trip for school for the weekend and wasn't talking much to me, and even though I knew deep down she was busy, I still couldn't help but have one of those meltdowns on her over her lack of response. (In my anxious state I thought I did something wrong) anyway, she's told me before that these meltdowns upset her, and I've been doing good but I slipped up and had one. Now she's angry at me and told me she's tired and wants me to leave her alone for awhile. Does anyone have any advice on how to patch things up with her? How long is a Sagittarius angry, and how long should I wait before contact? Thank you.
I'm an Aries btw
I'm an Aries btw