Message Posts by eatfirst
Thank you for all your advice
Having a mutual friend text her and ask her what's up can really help sometimes with someone else viewing this from another perspective.
As far as I long, her moon is in cancer and so is my mars too. But yes she's been under great stress recording an album.
We're both female btw but I speak about my friends all the time. I truly admire them so it doesn't occur to me someone would feel this way at all. An aries thing maybe being untactful and oblivious? I do see now how it would've caused insecurity though, so point taken.
So we finally spoke yesterday after I told her I've been selfish and should try to view things from her point by trying to be friends. She finally opened up after that saying its always a pattern with people liking her. They say/do the same things but ultimately end up learning her for someone better and I'll be no different. She thinks I am only interested in her because she's nice and easy to like but nothing more. Obviously this isn't true. She agreed to carry on with previous plans like going for dinner and going on with our small hotel getaway. She says we shouldn't have sex because it might lead me on and confuse her but then seems to have given in to the idea.
I know I'm threading a very dangerous line here (aries lol) but I'm not exactly taking this friend thing seriously. I don't feel like she's completely made up her mind yet and seeing me would help (I leave for the airport tomorrow) I don't get to fly to her often and she might only come over to where I am (london) in september so I feel like I have to try everything/anything
xx
Having a mutual friend text her and ask her what's up can really help sometimes with someone else viewing this from another perspective.
As far as I long, her moon is in cancer and so is my mars too. But yes she's been under great stress recording an album.
We're both female btw but I speak about my friends all the time. I truly admire them so it doesn't occur to me someone would feel this way at all. An aries thing maybe being untactful and oblivious? I do see now how it would've caused insecurity though, so point taken.
So we finally spoke yesterday after I told her I've been selfish and should try to view things from her point by trying to be friends. She finally opened up after that saying its always a pattern with people liking her. They say/do the same things but ultimately end up learning her for someone better and I'll be no different. She thinks I am only interested in her because she's nice and easy to like but nothing more. Obviously this isn't true. She agreed to carry on with previous plans like going for dinner and going on with our small hotel getaway. She says we shouldn't have sex because it might lead me on and confuse her but then seems to have given in to the idea.
I know I'm threading a very dangerous line here (aries lol) but I'm not exactly taking this friend thing seriously. I don't feel like she's completely made up her mind yet and seeing me would help (I leave for the airport tomorrow) I don't get to fly to her often and she might only come over to where I am (london) in september so I feel like I have to try everything/anything
xx
I'm going to be brief because I'm so anxious even thinking about this.
Basically me and libra girl were great, we were perfect even but she held in a lot of still that upset her (like all libras) until one day she exploded...which was two days ago on christmas eve. Reason was, I kept mentioning and bringing up this other girl who was always always just a friend to me but she claims I think she's the most perfect and amazing person, even more than girl. So libra girl is extremely insecure..right. We've been speaking for about four months with the last two months actually being romantic. We're in different countries so this is even more upsetting for me. Adding on to everything, this was three days before we were finally going to meet again.
So on the evening of christmas eve, she texts me saying she wants to end things and go back to being friends. As an Aries I really blew up, not in anger but in sadness. I've never showed her this side to me before. I told her she was the only one and etc, she sad I was sweet and everything but she's feeling really insecure and crazy and she doesn't like feeling like this at all. Since I've made her feel this way, it only makes sense to end things and protect herself.
After that, she just ignores all my messages and went cold. Our mutual friend texted her for me asking whats up and she said "I was starting to really like her but now I don't know about that."
What gives? was it really just her insecurity or maybe she was just scared I was coming back or plain scared of the whole thing? Also I'm thinking of doing a grand gesture by going to her house once I land.
xx
Merry christmas all
Basically me and libra girl were great, we were perfect even but she held in a lot of still that upset her (like all libras) until one day she exploded...which was two days ago on christmas eve. Reason was, I kept mentioning and bringing up this other girl who was always always just a friend to me but she claims I think she's the most perfect and amazing person, even more than girl. So libra girl is extremely insecure..right. We've been speaking for about four months with the last two months actually being romantic. We're in different countries so this is even more upsetting for me. Adding on to everything, this was three days before we were finally going to meet again.
So on the evening of christmas eve, she texts me saying she wants to end things and go back to being friends. As an Aries I really blew up, not in anger but in sadness. I've never showed her this side to me before. I told her she was the only one and etc, she sad I was sweet and everything but she's feeling really insecure and crazy and she doesn't like feeling like this at all. Since I've made her feel this way, it only makes sense to end things and protect herself.
After that, she just ignores all my messages and went cold. Our mutual friend texted her for me asking whats up and she said "I was starting to really like her but now I don't know about that."
What gives? was it really just her insecurity or maybe she was just scared I was coming back or plain scared of the whole thing? Also I'm thinking of doing a grand gesture by going to her house once I land.
xx
Merry christmas all