Message Posts by fallenangel16
I see that.
It's in no means perfect. I get ahead of myself at times and claim it's been pure happiness, but in reality, it hasn't been. We suffer from communication problems, obviously. I hardly ever say what's really on my mind, because (I think) things are usually a little too complicated to explain and to be understood fully. I'm not naturally affectionate or even emotional (on the surface) - I lack a lot of the basic needs for a fully functional relationship. I find myself often rolling my eyes and tiring of her antics. Her charms hardly work on me; I'm not impressed anymore, but at the same time, she scares me with some of the things she says and does.
To be honest, you're not the only one to point this out. A handful of my friends tell me these things are my fault for allowing the problems to slowly seep into our lives - because I put up with them and allow them to happen, and then push them off as my fault, my mistake, and nothing to fret over. The burden of taking it all down as my fault has gotten heavier over the months, and it's harder and harder to do what I did before. I'm tired of always going back. It'd be nice if she showed up on my doorstep once in a while and just took it all as her fault for once, and not mine. But her pride gets in the way, as always, so I'm just expected to swallow down my own pride and do it myself. As with many things, it appears perfect and settled on the outside, but on the inside, it's not so pretty.
The previous post wasn't so much pointed towards you. I do appreciate anybody that has put up their own reply in regards to the "hate" reply. Means a lot.
It's in no means perfect. I get ahead of myself at times and claim it's been pure happiness, but in reality, it hasn't been. We suffer from communication problems, obviously. I hardly ever say what's really on my mind, because (I think) things are usually a little too complicated to explain and to be understood fully. I'm not naturally affectionate or even emotional (on the surface) - I lack a lot of the basic needs for a fully functional relationship. I find myself often rolling my eyes and tiring of her antics. Her charms hardly work on me; I'm not impressed anymore, but at the same time, she scares me with some of the things she says and does.
To be honest, you're not the only one to point this out. A handful of my friends tell me these things are my fault for allowing the problems to slowly seep into our lives - because I put up with them and allow them to happen, and then push them off as my fault, my mistake, and nothing to fret over. The burden of taking it all down as my fault has gotten heavier over the months, and it's harder and harder to do what I did before. I'm tired of always going back. It'd be nice if she showed up on my doorstep once in a while and just took it all as her fault for once, and not mine. But her pride gets in the way, as always, so I'm just expected to swallow down my own pride and do it myself. As with many things, it appears perfect and settled on the outside, but on the inside, it's not so pretty.
The previous post wasn't so much pointed towards you. I do appreciate anybody that has put up their own reply in regards to the "hate" reply. Means a lot.
I have the same problem all the time, but I'm never playing hard to get either. Maybe Virgos just appear that way, even though we're not trying.
I'm going to pretend that I didn't just read three pages of God-lovin', Bible-preachin' bullshit. I didn't put up this topic for you critisize how I live my life and tell me I'm going to hell for the gender of the person I love. Go take your rants to your Southern Baptist Convention and stay the fuck out of my face. Understood? Hope so.
The relationship is still going. I hurt her quite a bit, but she did her own amount of damage, too. I found out later that a majority of her birth chart is dominated by various fire signs (mostly Leo) and Aquarius. It makes for an interesting mix. I still love her, and I'm sure her love's still going strong. We're devoted, and it doesn't and won't ever resemble something of a fling. It's way more than that.
So, perhaps it's destructive, and perhaps in another year I'll be without her, but for the time being, I'm content with the idea that opposites attract. Call it foolish if you will; I could be blinded by love. I'm sure I am. *sigh* So it is...
The relationship is still going. I hurt her quite a bit, but she did her own amount of damage, too. I found out later that a majority of her birth chart is dominated by various fire signs (mostly Leo) and Aquarius. It makes for an interesting mix. I still love her, and I'm sure her love's still going strong. We're devoted, and it doesn't and won't ever resemble something of a fling. It's way more than that.
So, perhaps it's destructive, and perhaps in another year I'll be without her, but for the time being, I'm content with the idea that opposites attract. Call it foolish if you will; I could be blinded by love. I'm sure I am. *sigh* So it is...
Amen to that.
Forget it. I'm heading over to the Aries section. Maybe I can get a few decent replies over there.
Rigghhhttt.
Because gay people have no personalities, and their zodiac signs just aren't compatible as they normally would be. Totally makes sense.
How am I not supposed to take offense to that?
Because gay people have no personalities, and their zodiac signs just aren't compatible as they normally would be. Totally makes sense.
How am I not supposed to take offense to that?
Actually, we strongly avoid conflicts. At least I do, for the most part. I'm pretty sure the rest of them do as well...unless I'm just totally wrong about that. Earth signs like there to be peace and security surrounding them. When something hits a nerve though, I get pretty touchy. I could blame that on my Gemini Moon and Mars, who supposedly make great debaters. *whistles* But I just seriously can't stand ignorance. Otherwise I would wave it off with a brush-off reply, and that would be that.
Are you serious? Do they only do that on this page, and not the others?
*sighs* That's true, DearDiary.
I might do that, purrrfect.
...honestly, one thing must always turn into another...
I might do that, purrrfect.
...honestly, one thing must always turn into another...
Are you all really that ignorant and stupid? Honestly I'm not the one that needs help. It's all of you that think you can change us. Wake up. We were born gay or bisexual, and it took us time to discover it.
Once again, this has nothing to do with astrology. I don't have time to deal with a bunch of narrow-minded straight people that think they can change every gay and bisexual one good deed at a time. We're not your mistakes of society. We are who we are, and you're just going to have to accept that.
Once again, this has nothing to do with astrology. I don't have time to deal with a bunch of narrow-minded straight people that think they can change every gay and bisexual one good deed at a time. We're not your mistakes of society. We are who we are, and you're just going to have to accept that.
What's gross is your condescending tone. Shut up already. I don't need you looking down on me with your narrow-minded views. What, are you gonna tell me next that everything a bisexual or lesbian does is a mistake and is merely experimental?
We're not any different from you, except that we're able to accept people as they are, and disregard a person's sexual orientation for the sake of avoiding conflict, unlike you. And this is why. We DO live happily, and we don't damn well need you to tell us how we'll live our life or how we'll feel.
It is extremely irrelevant to astrology.
Don't think you know a person until they tell you who they are. All it's going to get you is a face full of fist and an eye-opening expeirence, for good reason.
We're not any different from you, except that we're able to accept people as they are, and disregard a person's sexual orientation for the sake of avoiding conflict, unlike you. And this is why. We DO live happily, and we don't damn well need you to tell us how we'll live our life or how we'll feel.
It is extremely irrelevant to astrology.
Don't think you know a person until they tell you who they are. All it's going to get you is a face full of fist and an eye-opening expeirence, for good reason.
I might try here later. I tried yesterday, but she was too angry to work things out. I took blame for the things said, and she just kept putting me down and making me seem lower than herself. It's been getting harder over the past few months, but I still care about her.
I'm attracted to both men and women. If you've got a problem with that, deal with it else where on your own time. I'm not here to discuss my sexuality, and it's not up for you to flip and twist to your liking either. And no, it's not obvious. That's a very close-minded view.
It has everything to do with astrology. Am I discussing my sex life? No. I'm discussing signs and characteristics of those signs.
It has everything to do with astrology. Am I discussing my sex life? No. I'm discussing signs and characteristics of those signs.
I did critisize her in the beginning, when we were just friends, but this is fourteen months later - I long dropped critisizing her because I knew the effect it had on her.
I'm not asking what is right or wrong with what has already been done. Are none of you reading my post all the way through, or just stopping at 'she critisized me'?
I'm not asking what is right or wrong with what has already been done. Are none of you reading my post all the way through, or just stopping at 'she critisized me'?
No. I'm bisexual. It was a female Virgo & female Aries relationship.
I don't react well to critisism, especially when she can't take a dose of her own medicine. There's a breaking point, eventually.
I'm attracted to Scorpios, but I've only met one, so my expeirence with them is very limited. I'd love to try a relationship with one, though.
Thanks for the insight!
Thanks for the insight!
I just got out of a relationship with an Aries yesterday, and to put it lightly, it was devastating. We were together for fourteen months, and shared a lot of dreams and ambitions together. We wanted to have a family together, but something terrible went wrong.
She critisized me. It wasn't the first time she had ever done it, and I just got so fed up with dealing with her. And so I gave her some of her own medicine back (as artfully as us Virgos do it), and she couldn't take it. It damaged her pride, and the relationship ended right there and then.
Has anybody else ever been in a relationship with an Aries? Any tips for how to get over this as quickly as possible - the pain is surreal because we were doing so well, and I thought we were happy, and I felt secure (something essential for me) and then this came up. Any feedback is greatly appreciated.
Also, for future reference, what is your take on the best signs to date for a female Virgo? I'm looking for security, somebody with a big heart, can be slightly protective, but not to the point of being ridiculous. I was thinking maybe a Cancer - but like I said, I need a little bit of advice.
The past signs that I've dated that didn't work out: Aries, Aquarius, Saggitarius, Libra, Taurus, Virgo.
Thanks!
She critisized me. It wasn't the first time she had ever done it, and I just got so fed up with dealing with her. And so I gave her some of her own medicine back (as artfully as us Virgos do it), and she couldn't take it. It damaged her pride, and the relationship ended right there and then.
Has anybody else ever been in a relationship with an Aries? Any tips for how to get over this as quickly as possible - the pain is surreal because we were doing so well, and I thought we were happy, and I felt secure (something essential for me) and then this came up. Any feedback is greatly appreciated.
Also, for future reference, what is your take on the best signs to date for a female Virgo? I'm looking for security, somebody with a big heart, can be slightly protective, but not to the point of being ridiculous. I was thinking maybe a Cancer - but like I said, I need a little bit of advice.
The past signs that I've dated that didn't work out: Aries, Aquarius, Saggitarius, Libra, Taurus, Virgo.
Thanks!
Oh, and Virgos struggle with abrupt endings. Even if it wasn't so abrupt to you, he'll think it was. They don't understand what went wrong, and are prone to getting back together with those that they care about. And usually, they always care. Especially when you think that they don't, and you're doubting everything they ever said to you - they'll still care. They're sacrificial and devoted beings by nature. Extremely critical, but at the same time, they're sensitive on the inside, and will forgive easily, but have a hard time forgetting.
This is worst-case scenario reactions to a break-up, coming from a Virgo that just got out of a fourteen month relationship with an Aries. For him, things are probably different, but he's probably driving himself crazy in circles with worry.
Good luck!
This is worst-case scenario reactions to a break-up, coming from a Virgo that just got out of a fourteen month relationship with an Aries. For him, things are probably different, but he's probably driving himself crazy in circles with worry.
Good luck!
That's just the way Virgos are. Good luck with future guys though. 