Message Posts by hopelove
Hi All,
You guys know i was trying to make things work with a taur for six months. Most of you said to let go off him and guess what i have finally " STOPPED MESAGING, MAILING HIM" and iam stoping this madness and i am going to live my life and love myself.
I am not going to chase him nor am i going to tell him i still care. I have done what i have to; i have to start taking care of myself anyways I wanted to thank each one of you for your suggestions especially Harry99, Nikki, Spring mood, insilver, David 13, Ormas, Jynga & kira, Bullgem.
Thank you all!
You guys know i was trying to make things work with a taur for six months. Most of you said to let go off him and guess what i have finally " STOPPED MESAGING, MAILING HIM" and iam stoping this madness and i am going to live my life and love myself.
I am not going to chase him nor am i going to tell him i still care. I have done what i have to; i have to start taking care of myself anyways I wanted to thank each one of you for your suggestions especially Harry99, Nikki, Spring mood, insilver, David 13, Ormas, Jynga & kira, Bullgem.
Thank you all!
when it comes to taur, you have to be very patient and if you have made a mistake its better to apologize and show them you care.. which i have been doing.. Because in my case i know i hurted my guy.. I didnt give him any space now i have understood my mistakes and i am taking one step at a time.. like harry used to say baby steps 
Thanks champranger for your advice
So glad , you guys replied
I dont want to force him, I have done that before and it has hurt-ed him before... I think what hurted him a lot is he had come to see but he thought i ignored him wantedly which i didn't ... Though he said he will change the number till this minute he hasn't changed it...In one of his messages he also said he is all alone and All that " us" is gone which i didnt understand.. I love him a lot ,I hope we resolve this gap..
Thanks for your timely advice harry
Thanks for your timely advice harry
when you say "All the space" could you explain in detail.. Taurus has to be assured that we still care.. So i send mails.. once in two days.. Apart from that i dont try to call him or text him.. So should i stop sending mails..?
Thank you goddess, I agree to be honest in the beginning I used to be really hurt. Now I am concentrating on my life??_ at the same time Iam trying to work things out. It??s a six year relationship what started as an argument has prolonged for six months. Sometime I think I have to let him go because love should be reciprocated. It shouldn??t be this complicated.. I was wonderding may be i should give the same silent treatment but it dosent work for bull. How to let him know i still care, I have apologized enough.. What should i do ?
Oh no 
I really need Ur advice... Ten days a ago he called me because so I called him and he answered the call. He sent me a text saying ask pls ask your family to leave me alone, stop creating problems in my life. Apparently my sister had tried to call him and sort this issue. As I was speaking He didn't speak anything. He kept texting saying he is all alone, but he will mange. I hurt him badly and he is scared to be with me. He told me he is been seeing me and he came to our common place and I ignored him.. . I replied saying didn??t see him and I can never ignore him .He sent a text saying u didn??t realize it??s me and this is my last message. I ordered his fav food and got it delivered he sent a text saying pls don??t do this again.. I started texting him again... After three days he sent a text saying I am going to change the number and will give u the new number... He didn??t reply after that nor did I text him... But he hasn??t changed his number??_ Do you think I should call him and sort this out? I never knew he was seeing me, he said he has been seeing me but he can??t come back... His texts were confusing , he sent a text he is alone , he will manage, He doesn??t know where his life is going but I am a special person but things are not the same as it was??_ As you said I have been waiting patiently. It??s been going to be six months what should I do??_ what should i do.. Should i call him
I really need Ur advice... Ten days a ago he called me because so I called him and he answered the call. He sent me a text saying ask pls ask your family to leave me alone, stop creating problems in my life. Apparently my sister had tried to call him and sort this issue. As I was speaking He didn't speak anything. He kept texting saying he is all alone, but he will mange. I hurt him badly and he is scared to be with me. He told me he is been seeing me and he came to our common place and I ignored him.. . I replied saying didn??t see him and I can never ignore him .He sent a text saying u didn??t realize it??s me and this is my last message. I ordered his fav food and got it delivered he sent a text saying pls don??t do this again.. I started texting him again... After three days he sent a text saying I am going to change the number and will give u the new number... He didn??t reply after that nor did I text him... But he hasn??t changed his number??_ Do you think I should call him and sort this out? I never knew he was seeing me, he said he has been seeing me but he can??t come back... His texts were confusing , he sent a text he is alone , he will manage, He doesn??t know where his life is going but I am a special person but things are not the same as it was??_ As you said I have been waiting patiently. It??s been going to be six months what should I do??_ what should i do.. Should i call him Hi All,
I am so glad you replied.. Harry & Nikii I have been sending you messages did you get it ?
I am so glad you replied..
Harry & Nikii I have been sending you messages did you get it ?Any idea about niki, harry99, spring mood and Insilver long time since i heard from them...
Posted by hopelove
How do you let the taurus know that you still need them and not invading their space...
You apologize and you give them all the space they need and still they continue to give the silent treatment then what to do... Totally CLUE LESS !!!!
How do you let the taurus know that you still need them and not invading their space...
That's an awesome observation, All the very best
Hi heeleeya, I am trying to make amends with my taur,What i have learnt from this forum is Taurus are very loyal at the same time they need space,if he truly loves you he will come back to you. Good luck
Posted by hopelove
What do they assess during the silent treatment ? Are they trying to figure out whether they want to be in the relationship or an apology from their partner or is it their first step to move on with their life ?
What do they assess during the silent treatment ? Are they trying to figure out whether they want to be in the relationship or an apology from their partner or is it their first step to move on with their life ?
Posted by hopelove
I am going thru the same with my BF, I hurted his feelings
I am going thru the same with my BF, I hurted his feelings I apologized but not able to end this silent treatment.How to win him back while he is giving the silent treatment
I apologized but not able to end this silent treatment.How to win him back while he is giving the silent treatment