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Libra.
haha. perhaps i really did something that he didn't like, just that i didn't realise that.
maybe i should really leave everything to fate and stop giving myself hopes.
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Perhaps I'm really reading too much into it. smile
Yup, Just a simple, "Merry Christmas to you too."
Hey all! I've got another question now.
On Christmas Eve night, he suddenly sms-ed me, "Merry Christmas!".
I don't know whether he send the sms to other people as well.
But that was the greeting I least expected to receive from.
Because frankly speaking, we have not contact or meetup with each other for nearly 2 months. Even if we bump into each other, we would just act as if we didn't see the other party.
And he isn't those kind that will bother to send festive greeting to people.
Does that sms means anything?
I'm losing my patience, but at the same time, I don't want to give up yet.
But anyway, thanks for all your advices.. smile
In my opinion, he had been pushing me away.
Its like.. everytime I take 1 step forward, he would take 2 steps backward.
Yes, i do love him. Thats why I'm still waiting for him..
I'm a Libra.
Its tough to stay calm. I'm really afraid that we would drift apart.
He had been taking quite some time already.
As for the problems, I will take special note of that. Thanks.
Exactly. I tried asking him out to clarify everything but he told me "There is nothing to be clarified. Everything that have to be say, are said" and he doesn't even give me a chance to talk.
In my opinion, i think that we have so much more things to clarify but he is just running away from the problems.
But from what I heard from my(and his) friends, he told them that he wants to try and solve the problems between us by himself before we get back again. But how can it be possible to solve the problems between two by himself? It sounds like he's going to fail and we are never going to get back. That's one of my worries.
I understand that. Because I'm now acting as if I'm very happy after we broke up and I could live just as well without him. But in fact, I know I can't. Sad
Sometimes I have my doubts for what he said too. But he still have our photos and all, in his blog and other online accounts. And he had been updating all those as well, but he never remove our photos.
Thats why I doesn't know what he actually wants and whether this relationship could be salvage.
There was some minor arguments between us. Hence, he asked for the breakup.
But even after we broke up, he says he still love me alot. Just that he doesn't know how to handle all the arguments we had, thus, he doesn't wants to get back(yet).
And our relationship wasn't a very long one, but definitely not a fling.
I want him back because both of us still love each other, and it is definitely not worth it to give up a relationship just because of some minor problems.
So is it still possible?
Is it possible to get an Aries ex back? What should I do to get him back?