Message Posts by libralovesgemini
lol my gemini boyfriend always thinks im saying hes mean when i point out one thing he does that i dont like but i constantly reassure him as a person he is amazing. geminis, in my opinion, are very nice people unless they are under pressure or pushed to be mean. they can say very hurtful things when they are mad but besides that i believe geminis are very kind people.
i feel like i keep my opinion to myself alot of times unless hes overstepping the boundaries of our relationship then when it turns into an argument he says hurtful things, like terrible things, it has gotten better since the beginning it used to be him comparing me to his exs and why they were better than me then after he saw how it affected our relationship he made sure i knew i was who he was with for a reason and that im better for him than any of them not it turned into him bringing up my past when he is far from perfect. and its like he wants to show me if i dont let every single thing slide its going to be a bad bad argument and my feelings are going to get hurt and to me its not fair (and as a libra im big on things being fair lol) i feel like i should be able to have an opinion on things especially when its something that bothers me i just want to let him know but when he snaps it makes me hold it in unitll it becomes such an issue that by time i say something about it i snap. i know we love each other we have a beautiful baby boy and talk about marriage but i just want to know what i can do to keep peace and not get so hurt. i will try to letting things go thing because i have noticed if something bothers me and i dont say anything about it he stops doing it but because of issues in the past in our relationship i try not to let things go too far so they dont get out of hand and cause major issues. haha sorry just venting.
leo and cancers are so annoying to me like they think they know everything or they want someone to feel sorry for them.
that is very helpful, just wanted to make sure im not being taken for a foold because I am gullible lol. have you ever been with a libra woman? if so did you guys get along well. i feel like the stuff he says hurts my feelings so bad and im so nice to him that its so unexpected that he will be that hurtful then it blows up and we argue for hours.
i have been with a gemini for 3 years. sometimes we get along great and other times not so great but when we arent getting along its terrible. gemini men/libra women, any advice?? are geminis just hard to get along with 100% of the time or is it something him or i could change to help us get along better? sometimes he can be so mean that i feel like he doesnt love me anymore but then he turns right back around and treats me like a princess and i forgive him..whats the deal??