Met a saggitarius guy in october, both got on really well the chemistry was WOW.
(being a leo im usually quite gaurded and dont give my heart easily).
but this guy really wowed me, and he also felt the same. to cut a long story short.
we had a disagreement in begining of january. he said something i missunderstood.
i was polite got out of car,he sent text asking what was wrong, and i realized i had been
over sensative, and missunderstood what he'd said.
I called at his house and appologised, and i said i would understand if he didnt want to see
me again, but he said he did, and arranged to meet on the saturday but he cancelled, saying he
could speak to me at moment, that he was having problems, and his head was a shed.
(Id sensed there was something wrong) earlier.
so i tired to contact him via text with no reply back, so i left it.thought he was just ignoring me.
so begining of last week received a text out of blue, stating that he had, reset his phone and the messages from january had just come through, from january ???.and that why would he ignore me when he liked me so much. and that he'd never met anyone like me.
I replied friendly, stating that he never said what problems he was having,and he replied the start of the problems was his friend being diagnosed with cancer, and dies last week, also he is having test for cancer , and thought it too soon after meeting me to tell me, also having business problems, and problems with his ex wife.
this had thrown me into confusion, his he wanting to rekindle things,
basically that was two weeks ago, i asked his to keep me informed on his test, and if there was anything i could do. but havnt heard anymore in the last 2 weeks, do i text to enquire about him, as i feel sick and wory he may be ill, or do i just leave it and wait for him to contact me.
(we are both in our 40s). hope someone can shed some light on this, because this guy has really got to me.
hi Seraph,
just a update, lol after the incident with him joining a dating site, after a few more messages , i told him not to contact me again, as i was totally confused, as to what he wanted,so thought that was the last i would hear from him but no so thursday night my phone went it was a message from him asking if i was ok and he was no longer on dating site, what is this lion playing at, so hes started sending the night lioness text again, i feel hes playing with his food, and i might have to eat him up and spit out the bones.
Seraph may i say you are a fine example of a leo man stunning x
hi Seraph, just a update, i have done what you said being very cool, and really trying to detach myself, and not doing too bad (if i say so myself)lol, i havnt had a text since monday night, so think hes got the message that i wont be treated this way, but you are right it was driving me crazy, trying to second guess his intentions, but would like to thank you for your advise, you wise lion x
ps are all leo men this complex ???
Hi seraph thank you for your advise.i am trying to distance myself.buy still cannot understand he is still sending the usual messages if not more.i am replying with just short brief answers.and not flirting back as i was. But as he said on my last message why's he wanting to continue with these text if theirs a Que wanting to meet him on a dating site.just doesn't make any sense.as we are both not kids we are in our late 30s. Must admit i can honestly say i have never had this with any man I've dated
You advise seraph has really helped me x
thank you so much Sepaph, your such a wise lion, will try, and keep you updated x
Hi Seraph, just a update, been getting text with kisses at least 4 times a day, and sweet messages from him then last night got a text saying he has joined a dating site, and has a date today, so i sent one back saying im confused, but got one back from him saying why are you confused???. so havnt repplied to that one as dont know what to say, but i feel hurt, that hes strung me along for nearly a month sending text and wanting to meet, i am not usually dense as a leo woman, but i find his behaviour cruel, and cannot understand why he would want to hurt me, as i never asked him to text. as previously said i have never had any dealings with a leo on a personal (dating) level, but my brother is a leo, and is of good, values, and doesnt hurt people like this, your thoughts would be welcome as a leo gentlemen yourself, much appreciated thank you
thanks seraph,so i do nothing just be cool, lol yes the attention is nice lol, will keep you updating but thanks for advise you wise lion
hi Seraph, thank you for reply, thought id update you on situation, still getting text but they are getting shorter, and just getting a text with a kiss at random times, this man has me totally confusing, if he wants just to be friends why doesnt he just say, or if he wants a relashionship???? this is example of text (xx hug xx)not a lot you can say to that
but think he does like me, so why doesnt he just come out and say ????. as a leo myself find the behaviour strange, and not sure whether its worth all this effort, and trying to second quess what he wants from me, your thought on this would be appreciated, as we are not young leos, we are in our late 30s.
thank you seraph, you seem to know me so well, yes i do tend the analize things lol
but got another text last night at 10.30 pm, with just saying night sweet dreams lioness and a kiss
so just sent a kiss back, then today nothing. (must admit never had any dealings romantically with another leo)
but really confused, do you leo men play before you pounce lol
thank you seraph
ive just received a message from him. saying have a good weekend, and that he could eat the lioness, and other flirty
things, not sure what hes wanting, a relashionship, or just to be friends, but i dont talk to my other friends in such
a flirty way, so im confussed, do i just let him do the chasing, or meet him half way ?????
Yes i would like to really get to know him he was very tactile and wanting to hugg me all the time but just dent know if i should wait for him to contact me or should i contact him ???
i have been chatting to a leo for about a month, we got on well with chat,
then i met him for a coffee.which i was very nervous, and felt the situation was
a bit stale, (as i wasnt really attracted to him)
so when i got home i sent a text stating that i felt we both felt the same (not really
intrested) then never heard anything more.
then last week i sent a email of a joke by mistake,was meant for a friend but
phone sent it to all contacts including him
thats when i got a nice message back, stating that he thought i had sent it by
mistake to him, so we stated chatting and he text me asking if i would like
to go for a coffee i agreed, we got on really well and i say him in a different
light (i like him) and said we could be friends. so we texted very flirty for a
few days, and havnt heard any more from him since, (its been 3 days) no contact
a bit confussed as we seem to really get on would appreaciat any leo mans advise
or if any leo woman have come accross this do i leave it and not contact him or
let him contact me ???????