Message Posts by scorpioswife
I will tell you one thing, I've noticed Scorpios like a quick transition from relationship to relationship without taking much of a breather in between.
Let me tell you this. Years ago I was madly in love with a fellow scorpio, we had a fight and he just dropped out of site, no word or anything...just left, no closure, no resolution.
Lo and behold, 11 years later I find out he has been married to this woman he met ~around then~, and has 2 kids with her!
So ok, he still feels the "old feeling" with me and his marriage is not happy---this jerk wanted to have me on the side!!!!!!!!!!HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The truth is it gets back to that scorps hate to be alone bit. They like to keep someone on the back burner when the current relationship hits a rocky point. I told him to "act like a man."(Well I meant a man of HONOR, not just another man-dog who thinks with his crotch.)
I told the same to my fellow scorpio ex hubby to his face "Act like a man, I know its a pretty tall order for you!"hahahahaha
Sorry but omg are these men are babies sometimes. The trouble comes in when they use all these snaky manevuers to hide it, instead of like..um..BEING REAL!
Let me tell you this. Years ago I was madly in love with a fellow scorpio, we had a fight and he just dropped out of site, no word or anything...just left, no closure, no resolution.
Lo and behold, 11 years later I find out he has been married to this woman he met ~around then~, and has 2 kids with her!
So ok, he still feels the "old feeling" with me and his marriage is not happy---this jerk wanted to have me on the side!!!!!!!!!!HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The truth is it gets back to that scorps hate to be alone bit. They like to keep someone on the back burner when the current relationship hits a rocky point. I told him to "act like a man."(Well I meant a man of HONOR, not just another man-dog who thinks with his crotch.)
I told the same to my fellow scorpio ex hubby to his face "Act like a man, I know its a pretty tall order for you!"hahahahaha
Sorry but omg are these men are babies sometimes. The trouble comes in when they use all these snaky manevuers to hide it, instead of like..um..BEING REAL!
What a relevant topic! I am a Scorpio woman who filed on my Scorpio ex 3 months ago. What am unethical, exploiting others for his own gain snake! He lived life as a facade, and so does my Scorpio ex flame from the past who is pursuing me now.
get this, this a-hole is MARRIED to yet another Scorpio woman! And he is pursuing me, gettind rid of him has been like trying to exorcise a demon.
I think scorpio-scorpio can be a good combo at times, but my, does it turn ugly. Frequently I see Scorpio men cheat, I think its the secret doublelife that attracts them.
Don't get me wrong, I am sure some scorp ladies out there are jerks, too...but the men don't seem to wear the sign very well in my personal opinion. Not in a relationship anyways.
get this, this a-hole is MARRIED to yet another Scorpio woman! And he is pursuing me, gettind rid of him has been like trying to exorcise a demon.
I think scorpio-scorpio can be a good combo at times, but my, does it turn ugly. Frequently I see Scorpio men cheat, I think its the secret doublelife that attracts them.
Don't get me wrong, I am sure some scorp ladies out there are jerks, too...but the men don't seem to wear the sign very well in my personal opinion. Not in a relationship anyways.
About the feeling that he may not be genuine part..listen to that feeling. While it is probably a good idea to let him know where you stand just in case there has been a miscommunication, one thing about us Scorpios, *especially the men*...is the ability to live in a masquerade so you never know when he is "real" or when he is not real.
Be careful, Capricorn...scorpio men sting.
Be careful, Capricorn...scorpio men sting.
You know, personally I believe in the Universe. If its meant to happen that 2 specific people hook up, nothing can stop that.
If you are having trouble hooking up with a certain person, despite your best, honest, true and authentic feelings and efforts...maybe the Universe is looking out for you.
Maybe despite the feelings, there is someone else out there for you. Love will come to you again, whether its a familiar face or a new one.
If you are having trouble hooking up with a certain person, despite your best, honest, true and authentic feelings and efforts...maybe the Universe is looking out for you.
Maybe despite the feelings, there is someone else out there for you. Love will come to you again, whether its a familiar face or a new one.
..that they never go back?hahahh who told yah that. Well ok it just may be my case..scorpios hang on to stuff with an iron grip, including old flames sometimes.
That is why an ex and I have been in such torment. I am closing the door, and yes, once a scorpio closes the door, it is forever. But may take awhile to get to that point. This man does not want to close the door and knows how final it is so he is fighting it like a demon.
But I guess not hard enough to leave his wife. sad huh
That is why an ex and I have been in such torment. I am closing the door, and yes, once a scorpio closes the door, it is forever. But may take awhile to get to that point. This man does not want to close the door and knows how final it is so he is fighting it like a demon.
But I guess not hard enough to leave his wife. sad huh
Well I am glad you moved on honee.....if he really loved you, he would make his feelings clear and direct within the form of physical communication.
Its true that pure scorpionic love is eternal, and that we, especially the men, hold back our innermost feelings sometimes.
But keeping someone in the dark and/or letting them dangle on a string means the person is not capable of authentic love. In my opinion. Such a person is too egocentric to truly love another.
Its true that pure scorpionic love is eternal, and that we, especially the men, hold back our innermost feelings sometimes.
But keeping someone in the dark and/or letting them dangle on a string means the person is not capable of authentic love. In my opinion. Such a person is too egocentric to truly love another.
Well sorry to say but some Scorpio men are just plain too insecure to act on their feelings and don't mind dangling you from a string as long as it suits their purposes.
Know what, he (scorpio man x) could have that Love there but not know how to handle it, and in fact, mistreat you.
There is this scorpio man floating around out there who scrawled my name across his chest with a knife and veers back and forth from expressing his intense love for me to not taking any action.
Like umm ah dumping the wife. No we have not even been physical so its not a sexual thing. My instincts tell he truly feels this unbridled love for me--but can't or won't act on it.
He is doing a great disservice to both his wife and myself, but hey, he is her partner not mine.
So I have stepped back, but the more I do that, the more I feel his energy coming at me. Know what I mean? Its psychic almost. He is married but says crap like "remember our love!!" and looks so tortured.
But my god the man is 28, if he wants me he has to come get me (as a divorced man)or put this demon of our so-called "Love" to rest. I mean that is what I am doing.
He feels so guilty as he should for loving another woman instead of his wife, but ah, isn't the solution for that to dump this woman? She too deserves an authentic relationship if he can't give it to her.
He can't give it to me so I gave him his walking papers, now he is pulling all sorts of strange stuff. He scares the hell outta me sometimes with his intensity and I am another scorpio.
Know what, he (scorpio man x) could have that Love there but not know how to handle it, and in fact, mistreat you.
There is this scorpio man floating around out there who scrawled my name across his chest with a knife and veers back and forth from expressing his intense love for me to not taking any action.
Like umm ah dumping the wife. No we have not even been physical so its not a sexual thing. My instincts tell he truly feels this unbridled love for me--but can't or won't act on it.
He is doing a great disservice to both his wife and myself, but hey, he is her partner not mine.
So I have stepped back, but the more I do that, the more I feel his energy coming at me. Know what I mean? Its psychic almost. He is married but says crap like "remember our love!!" and looks so tortured.
But my god the man is 28, if he wants me he has to come get me (as a divorced man)or put this demon of our so-called "Love" to rest. I mean that is what I am doing.
He feels so guilty as he should for loving another woman instead of his wife, but ah, isn't the solution for that to dump this woman? She too deserves an authentic relationship if he can't give it to her.
He can't give it to me so I gave him his walking papers, now he is pulling all sorts of strange stuff. He scares the hell outta me sometimes with his intensity and I am another scorpio.
Well personally I think its playing with danger to become sexually involved so soon..unless you are very clear about the boundaries. That sex is just sex and you are not in a relationship.
Or if you are in a relationship, that you are exclusive. But this kind of relationship does not happen from a one-night stand. You offered yourself to him right off the bat..hell yeah he is going to buy what you are selling.
Why did you expect to be treated any better? People don't appreciate what comes easy.
And there is clearly a type of Scorpio man that is very lowly developed who fits the character type you mentioned. I know a married Scorpio man who sleeps around with all these gals, and yes uses his cellphone rather frequently.
Its easy for him, even though they know he is married because he is so sexy and charming. Hence the flaw I see in scorpio men who have not gone beyond the crawling stage. Very magnetic to the ladies, charming..and capable of lying, hiding true feelings and leading doublelives. Its only the higher ones who devote their lives to making one mate happy in all ways, is my opinion based on too much direct experience.
Or if you are in a relationship, that you are exclusive. But this kind of relationship does not happen from a one-night stand. You offered yourself to him right off the bat..hell yeah he is going to buy what you are selling.
Why did you expect to be treated any better? People don't appreciate what comes easy.
And there is clearly a type of Scorpio man that is very lowly developed who fits the character type you mentioned. I know a married Scorpio man who sleeps around with all these gals, and yes uses his cellphone rather frequently.
Its easy for him, even though they know he is married because he is so sexy and charming. Hence the flaw I see in scorpio men who have not gone beyond the crawling stage. Very magnetic to the ladies, charming..and capable of lying, hiding true feelings and leading doublelives. Its only the higher ones who devote their lives to making one mate happy in all ways, is my opinion based on too much direct experience.
you know I think that ideally, that is the best exchange. However, I am single and have hormones. I don't expect myself to be an angel.
Well, I am so glad you are not married to other people. That would really suck.
The one who I thought was my "soulmate" did marry someone else, so did I. We each married fellow Scorpios to boot.
Only I have filed them divorce papers, and my "soulmate" Scorpio hasn't.
Sooooooooo....F him!!!!!!!!I am more than sure that someone more worthy will replace him and he knows it too.
The one who I thought was my "soulmate" did marry someone else, so did I. We each married fellow Scorpios to boot.
Only I have filed them divorce papers, and my "soulmate" Scorpio hasn't.
Sooooooooo....F him!!!!!!!!I am more than sure that someone more worthy will replace him and he knows it too.
well I think it is pretty natural for a human to generalize based on direct, repeated experience. As long as you allow for individual differences you are doing fine in my book.
I've been around the block with scorpio men(I am a scorpio woman so I know what they are all about)and must say, if you find a healthy, stable, emotionally mature one, you are in the same group as those who have made a yeti sighting.
I've been around the block with scorpio men(I am a scorpio woman so I know what they are all about)and must say, if you find a healthy, stable, emotionally mature one, you are in the same group as those who have made a yeti sighting.
Let me edit that, I actually filed divorce on him a few months ago. Of course he is being very vindictive and dragging the whole thing out. The only thing worse than being married to a lower Scorpio male in my book, is going through a divorce with one. But I'm Scorpio too, so he is actually somewhat afraid of me.
I just wanted to point out everything you said is right. These ladies just dating these magnetic Scorpio men (cause there is no shortage of women entranced by them) have no idea until and unless they marry one.
Once he realized that I saw through his mask and his manipulations failed to work on me, that is when it all blew up. Yes, any whispers of "something is not right here" only become screams after you tie the knot.
I just wanted to point out everything you said is right. These ladies just dating these magnetic Scorpio men (cause there is no shortage of women entranced by them) have no idea until and unless they marry one.
Once he realized that I saw through his mask and his manipulations failed to work on me, that is when it all blew up. Yes, any whispers of "something is not right here" only become screams after you tie the knot.
Beg to differ with the Scorpios won't tell you when they love you nonsense.
Simply not true, we are very clear when we truly love someone. It may be hard for one of us, especially a male, to express it on the drop of a hat, but we would not leave you guessing.
In fact, when you scratching your head about how one of feels for you, I think that is a pretty bad sign. Some Scorpios get very caught up in ulterior motives. Ask yourself if you are being used in some way, honestly.
Ask yourself: would someone who really loved me and/or even cared about my feelings in the first place act this way?
Simply not true, we are very clear when we truly love someone. It may be hard for one of us, especially a male, to express it on the drop of a hat, but we would not leave you guessing.
In fact, when you scratching your head about how one of feels for you, I think that is a pretty bad sign. Some Scorpios get very caught up in ulterior motives. Ask yourself if you are being used in some way, honestly.
Ask yourself: would someone who really loved me and/or even cared about my feelings in the first place act this way?
Oh this guy really sounds like a catch, first of all he was cheating on his original girlfriend with you. Niether her nor you knew it at first. So good for her she dumps him...but he goes right ~back~ to her when things don't work out well with you.
DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!More fish in the sea.
DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!More fish in the sea.
Ladies, ladies..take it from a Scorpio female who can see into the Scorpio man's soul with a laser intensity. Not only have I dated many fellow Scorpios, I married one.
Our scorpionic energy manifests a little differently in the males, trust me. Before I plunge in, let me say that yes, there are a few decent Scorpio men out there as romantic partners. They are as rare a sighting as the Yeti, but they are out there.
Open your ears to the experiences of many other women in general, cause it ain't pretty..and there is a reason for that. Should I mention that I have and have had loads of male Scorpio friends--so I have seen how they treat their women in addition to being on the receiving end.
1) MIND GAMES extradinaire...don't like you to know what they are up to. If incapable of being open and direct with their feelings, there is a good chance A) you are being cheated on or B) taken for a ride. It gives them a real power thrill to play with your feelings knowing full well you are just their toy.
2) PASSION--its their nature but they leave behind them scores and scores of puzzled females who think they were SO important to their Scorpio man...because of the intense, passionate displays and feelings expressed. My advice ladies, wait and see how this plays out ~over time~. Like at least a couple months to a year. Sorry it means nothing about you personally, but the Scorpio man is a fiend to his moment by moment passions. That doesn't mean its lasting passion. The 12 before you probably thought that too.
3) HIDING feelings, holding them back. Scorpions hate the light, enough said. Every Scorpio man I have met has been capable of holding his feelings back to the point of dishonesty. You could for example, hurt his feelings and never know it. Then a month later he stings you for no "apparent" reason.
Another caveat: any weakness you ever show, can and will be used against you in a fight.
You know, eagle is another form of this sign and a few do try and identify with that. But enough of them are snakes for me to warn other women: Look Out.
Our scorpionic energy manifests a little differently in the males, trust me. Before I plunge in, let me say that yes, there are a few decent Scorpio men out there as romantic partners. They are as rare a sighting as the Yeti, but they are out there.
Open your ears to the experiences of many other women in general, cause it ain't pretty..and there is a reason for that. Should I mention that I have and have had loads of male Scorpio friends--so I have seen how they treat their women in addition to being on the receiving end.
1) MIND GAMES extradinaire...don't like you to know what they are up to. If incapable of being open and direct with their feelings, there is a good chance A) you are being cheated on or B) taken for a ride. It gives them a real power thrill to play with your feelings knowing full well you are just their toy.
2) PASSION--its their nature but they leave behind them scores and scores of puzzled females who think they were SO important to their Scorpio man...because of the intense, passionate displays and feelings expressed. My advice ladies, wait and see how this plays out ~over time~. Like at least a couple months to a year. Sorry it means nothing about you personally, but the Scorpio man is a fiend to his moment by moment passions. That doesn't mean its lasting passion. The 12 before you probably thought that too.
3) HIDING feelings, holding them back. Scorpions hate the light, enough said. Every Scorpio man I have met has been capable of holding his feelings back to the point of dishonesty. You could for example, hurt his feelings and never know it. Then a month later he stings you for no "apparent" reason.
Another caveat: any weakness you ever show, can and will be used against you in a fight.
You know, eagle is another form of this sign and a few do try and identify with that. But enough of them are snakes for me to warn other women: Look Out.
I married a fellow scorpio a few years and now we are in one brutal, nasty, want to rip your eyes out divorce.
I think this combo can work in some cases, but when it does not, you better CYA (cover your ass)And often in the other married to fellow scorps I have seen personally, it does not work out.
I know of one case where the man finally smothered his ex wife to death in a fit of rage. I think we have the potential to bring out the worst in each other, and the worst in human passions.
I have gotten so very angry at my almost ex's behavior that I felt like sending Gary Condit after him!lolWe own a house together that I had to vacate after his abuse. Well I snuck in there when he wasn't around, rifled through and took his private papers to expose him for the snake he is.
He actually then ~breaks~ into the house where I am staying at (mind you he does not have any ownership in this house)and steals my bank statemant. He guessed my password and went through my email then changed the password so I couldn't access my email.
Do you think I as a red-blooded scorpio woman sat back and took this?OK point made.
So get this, I have a long-term friend who is a fellow scorp, yes a male married to yet another scorp female. He is totally unhappy with her and completely in love with me but won't leave because of his kids(of course its ok to keep them in that environment right)
So right I keep this guy at a 100 mile distance with a barbed wire fence in between him and I. He pursues me relentlessly, I mean making it clear how much he loves me, etc.
Scorpio sisters, how would you like your man saying that to another woman? Not even having mindless sex, just all your husband's emotional energies pouring into another woman who keeps him at an arm's length.
And he just refuses to let go, the more I distance myself, the more he hangs on. Sometimes he retreats for awhile, but he always comes back.
He even scrawled my name across his chest with knife once, and calls ~me~ his "wife."
So then I am walking along the beach one day and this man comes up to me. He comments on how he could tell the beach was "my home." I am gaping in shock there because this really intense moment passes between us. I mean I "saw" he was my future husband, and know he felt it too. That was ~really~ freaky. This was love at first sight.
He brought white roses to my door a few hours later, took me out on one glorious date.
But he has been hurt in the past and ran away terrified of the intensity of his feelings from our connection and has not called me in weeks now. However, ~somehow~ I know he will come back when the time is right. And he is yet another scorpio
Well I'm off for some more guerilla warfare with the almost ex, wish me luck and his demise. And please, think twice before marrying another scorpio. (Unless you just can't escape them lol.)
I think this combo can work in some cases, but when it does not, you better CYA (cover your ass)And often in the other married to fellow scorps I have seen personally, it does not work out.
I know of one case where the man finally smothered his ex wife to death in a fit of rage. I think we have the potential to bring out the worst in each other, and the worst in human passions.
I have gotten so very angry at my almost ex's behavior that I felt like sending Gary Condit after him!lolWe own a house together that I had to vacate after his abuse. Well I snuck in there when he wasn't around, rifled through and took his private papers to expose him for the snake he is.
He actually then ~breaks~ into the house where I am staying at (mind you he does not have any ownership in this house)and steals my bank statemant. He guessed my password and went through my email then changed the password so I couldn't access my email.
Do you think I as a red-blooded scorpio woman sat back and took this?OK point made.
So get this, I have a long-term friend who is a fellow scorp, yes a male married to yet another scorp female. He is totally unhappy with her and completely in love with me but won't leave because of his kids(of course its ok to keep them in that environment right)
So right I keep this guy at a 100 mile distance with a barbed wire fence in between him and I. He pursues me relentlessly, I mean making it clear how much he loves me, etc.
Scorpio sisters, how would you like your man saying that to another woman? Not even having mindless sex, just all your husband's emotional energies pouring into another woman who keeps him at an arm's length.
And he just refuses to let go, the more I distance myself, the more he hangs on. Sometimes he retreats for awhile, but he always comes back.
He even scrawled my name across his chest with knife once, and calls ~me~ his "wife."
So then I am walking along the beach one day and this man comes up to me. He comments on how he could tell the beach was "my home." I am gaping in shock there because this really intense moment passes between us. I mean I "saw" he was my future husband, and know he felt it too. That was ~really~ freaky. This was love at first sight.
He brought white roses to my door a few hours later, took me out on one glorious date.
But he has been hurt in the past and ran away terrified of the intensity of his feelings from our connection and has not called me in weeks now. However, ~somehow~ I know he will come back when the time is right. And he is yet another scorpio
Well I'm off for some more guerilla warfare with the almost ex, wish me luck and his demise. And please, think twice before marrying another scorpio. (Unless you just can't escape them lol.)