Message Posts by spion
I am relax and i don't have problems with the Virgo man or with the man at all.
And i can balance, I am Libra by the way...
I forgot for him already but he told me to improve things with me not I thats the difference, any way i know the true already
)) my luck open up very slowly i believe in me and in him but i don't put pressure between us. Its very frustrate when has ups and downs in the relationship but everybody must to passed this and after that start harmonious process. Hello all ladies there!!!
I appreciate your opinions, and i decided to not contact him at all to see what happens, and one day he wrote me on skype we talk to each other 4 hours and there he told to me that he is scared how will be understand, and told to me you see i completely open up to you, I am so honest with you etc, he also told me that he accept me intellectually and so on and so on and after that no contact and one day out of the blue he rang on my phone and was so nervous i could feel it. He asked me about my job, and where i am he was so carry but didn't want to show that.
Before this to happen, we had a verbal fight about dating, i told to him that i want to date him in his own way that i have my own needs and after that we were intimate again and i though that everything will turn all right but bum bum bum .....
But i am fine i don't have trouble any more i am in peace with my soul thanks of god.
He is very confused not me and don't know what he wants and about understanding i told to him that only he wants to be understand and where i am in this situation.
I tried to understand him all 1 years and a half that he has problem to believe in some woman because of the past ( 5 years relationship and she left him for other guy and married with him ) but thats not a very big excuse everybody learn lessens on his own life and I learn mine in this relationship.
Best regards to all of you
Stop over analyzing Virgo and be confident in yourself and really give him chance to show you what he knows. You Virgos are focused in the past experience but this is very strange for us Libras.
I am also Libra with some relation with Virgo guy and i really ignore him right know and i wait for him because he really is not sure for me and this is the some reason with your Libra he is very confused with your action and why is so " indifferent " what you said he is not he think on you every minute but say this to him and you will see what will happen.
We Libra really want to feel save with someone and this is the problem with Libra and Virgo in the beginning because we really dont give us some seve and why we react in this way just think how many times you hurt him with your cold behavior.
Just stop analyzing and focus on your current relationship not in your past one because your Virgos really have the difficulties with this all your life is in your past not in your present just stop to think on your past partner and focus on this one we deserved this and the same treatment. We really not guilty for your bad experience in your past.
GOOD LUCK
I am also Libra with some relation with Virgo guy and i really ignore him right know and i wait for him because he really is not sure for me and this is the some reason with your Libra he is very confused with your action and why is so " indifferent " what you said he is not he think on you every minute but say this to him and you will see what will happen.
We Libra really want to feel save with someone and this is the problem with Libra and Virgo in the beginning because we really dont give us some seve and why we react in this way just think how many times you hurt him with your cold behavior.
Just stop analyzing and focus on your current relationship not in your past one because your Virgos really have the difficulties with this all your life is in your past not in your present just stop to think on your past partner and focus on this one we deserved this and the same treatment. We really not guilty for your bad experience in your past.
GOOD LUCK
Hello again from me
I got answer from my Virgo guy after so many push and pull thing that he is so scared he told me that what i see into myself I want to fix this in you ( mean on fear ).
I told to him that i am so scare that he not accept me intellectually that i feel so unaccepted and scary that i will be reject from him after this he told me that he accept me intellectually and to not be scared and also told me this what i wrote to you above. And also he told me if you didn't want to talk with you i will not waste my time on you.
We also talk about on same private things about his sister and about his new work etc.
But after this conversation he withdrawn again and disappear again please tell me what to do next in the next conversation, also he told to me in this conversation you can see that i open up to you fully what this mean, and where you will find such honest person like me and i told to him i never try to find another. I wait to him very long time and i will wait more if is needed because i love him but i really don't know how to show him this because in this period of time he is so distant from me.And i talk to him only if he contact me because when i try to speak with him he always find some excuses or not answer.
Please any advise
I think that didnt say noting to upset him he always do this to me come and disappear and i was tired to call him and why i decided to not contact him and wait a little bit longer.
The conversation was that why i seem so strange and no bother to contact him and i answer on this that you are that person who don't want to speak with me because i tried to contact you but you didn't answer and i let he go.
And after that he asked me do you have a a boyfriend because i didn't hear you and i want to ask you do you met somebody i told to him that i thinking on him and that he is my boyfriend and that i have feelings for him and he kidding with me that maybe i think that he doesn't have feelings and i said that i really don't know and in the end of the conversation he asked me again do you have a boyfriend or you don't want to tell him and i told to him again that you are my boyfriend and he disappear
I will give to him the same treatment again if he like to be childish be it so ...
Why to think that i upset him with my behavior he is the only one who upset me because he push and pull every moment and test me so many times.
Hello
I write to you because you give very good answers here is my problem with my Virgo guy.
He is so distancing from me after we had a fight and after that we had one intimate date again but after this date he is very very distancing he contact me very rare but in the conversation i can see that he do this observation on me.
After so long time i didn't contact him because he didn't answer on my calls i stopped colling him and he called me before 4 days and we start conversation and he accused me that why i didn't call him and i told to him that he is the person who don't want to talk to me after that he asked me strange question do you have a guy?
On this question i answer to him that i have feelings to him and that he is my guy and he disappear again i really don't know what to think and what to say.
Please any suggestion i love him so much and i don't know what to do how to tell him that he is the only guy in the world who exist for me.
He is distant again from me and avoid me i called him again and he told me that he is busy and he would return my call and nothing.
Here I am again..
I already struggle so much for my Virgo guy i really dont know what to do.
I dont hear him until now the last contact was before one mount he initiated and after that i wrote to him two times but he didnt answer. I saw him in the street before 3 days ago we had only the eyes contact and nothing he was in the car.
When he contacted me everything is good we have normal conversation,last time he told to me that he wanted to meet my cousin to talk with him about some stuffs.
The last time when i saw him and when we been together was before 3 mounts... I try to control myself and to think only for myself but he never was so distant to me before why this happen...
And one more thing when i dont contact him long period of time he text ed to me like
are you alive, you are disappear and so on and when i contact him after that he not replay on my messages what mean this...
The last conversation with my Virgo man was before 7 days ago and after this again nothing from him, after the fight we met to each other and we had the great time together but nothing from him almost 30 days. He only spoke with me twice in these period of time and told me that he was sick and that cousin from USA was in the town in this period and in the end of conversation tell me OK see you, what this mean any advice. I do my things by the way in this period and he told me that he looked me on the TV how made some report on one project e.t.c
But i stick around but why he disappear all the time and when he will settle down.
By the way some of my friend told to me he is passive sign do something with your life he must to thinking now and because I am a Libra told to me dont fly wait a little and be patience is this true
He contacted me after two days ago and told me what he did all this period of time and asked about me as well and in the and told to me okey see you, and again dissappear, what you will say on this ? Some comments
Hello to everyone i want to ask somebody who know to answer on my question?
I was separate from my virgo gay 2 mouth because we had a fight but after this we again were in contact and decaided to meet each other.
I met him in 26 december 2007 and after this nothing from him he totaly disappear.
I called to him before one week ago only to tell him Happy New Year and he not do some efort to contact me or to write to me some message until today what this mean.
I realize to not contact him until he do this to me is it okey
but only i want to know what means his distance. The real problem between us is that because he never want to meet me on some open place and why i reacted on this way I let him free one year and i want to know where go this situation between us.
The last conversation between us was that i saw him in front of my building but very late and he told me on the phone that he didnt see me but with some smiling. WE speak now only by phone and by skype but now i stop to be online on skype and not call him and i want to see how he will react. Also i want to save my heart but in the same time he is also away not contact me. I will see what will happen I go forward with my life.
I let him free one year and i want to know where go this situation between us.The last conversation between us was that i saw him in front of my building but very late and he told me on the phone that he didnt see me but with some smiling. WE speak now only by phone and by skype but now i stop to be online on skype and not call him and i want to see how he will react. Also i want to save my heart but in the same time he is also away not contact me. I will see what will happen
I go forward with my life.Hello for everyone
I want to ask some advise about my Virgo gay. I am with him more of one year and we are in not commited relationship yet but we are been together until two mounts ago when we had just a little fight between us about my treatening from his side and he became very angry on it. After that faith he wrote me a message like " Hello are you alive? and we started to comunicate by phone and by skype but 5 days ago he is dessapiered. When we disscuss by phone or by skype he spaek good things about me like "name of pats" she is so kind with me but i am confused and i dont know what to do. To give him a time or what. Because he never ask me about to come out with me.
The faith was: I said to him that he dont care about me so much because that night he went to play cards with his friends and we were dealed to see each other that night but after midnight because i had to much work and we didnt see to eachother because he didnt call me and when i called to him he didnt answer to me. And when i ask him why he told me sorry but i dont want to faith with you and tell me that he wanted to call me but he didnt have money on the phone.And in the end i said this that he dont care about me... Maybe i am so sentimental i dont know what to say but i want to be with him is so nice pearson.
Regards.
I want to ask some advise about my Virgo gay. I am with him more of one year and we are in not commited relationship yet but we are been together until two mounts ago when we had just a little fight between us about my treatening from his side and he became very angry on it. After that faith he wrote me a message like " Hello are you alive? and we started to comunicate by phone and by skype but 5 days ago he is dessapiered. When we disscuss by phone or by skype he spaek good things about me like "name of pats" she is so kind with me but i am confused and i dont know what to do. To give him a time or what. Because he never ask me about to come out with me.
The faith was: I said to him that he dont care about me so much because that night he went to play cards with his friends and we were dealed to see each other that night but after midnight because i had to much work and we didnt see to eachother because he didnt call me and when i called to him he didnt answer to me. And when i ask him why he told me sorry but i dont want to faith with you and tell me that he wanted to call me but he didnt have money on the phone.And in the end i said this that he dont care about me... Maybe i am so sentimental i dont know what to say but i want to be with him is so nice pearson.
Regards.