Message Posts by starrynight
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by starrynightIt's possible.
Really appreciate your replies. I've decided to move on after my confession.
But on the other hand, just curious, will LEOs go back to chase a girl whom they have chase before?
I had a very similar situation. Before I started dating a Libra, I got a number from a Sag. She was cool and I found out she had a boyfriend. I stopped my pursuit, but remained friends with her. One night she let me know that she was going to hang out with her "ex", but didn't give me much more information to go on beyond that. (From what I know her ex was her bf she'd just broken up with). Having been around the ol' metaphorical dating block before, I knew I didn't want to get involved with a girl who had just gotten out of a relationship.
I started talking more with the Libra and would see the Sag woman from time to time because she worked at a bar I frequented. As I grew closer to the Libra, I backed away from the Sag more until I stopped talking to her altogether. Eventually I became completely focused on the Libra woman. A few months past and out of the blue the Sag woman called me wanting to hang out randomly. I declined, but dropped by her bar sometime after that with a buddy of mine. At the bar she asked me about my life and I let her know that I was seeing someone. Her face went from smiling to frowning and she walked away. After she collected herself she came back and was fine. Well things didn't work out with the Libra, so once things ended I contacted the Sag to hang out.
So if you didn't reject him outright, there's a chance he'll swing back around if the other girl leaves the picture. My advice though is not to wait on him. He may come back, he may not.click to expand
I didn't reject him outright, cause I told him I like him.
And it feels more like he reject me and keep me out of his life cause he went from warm, to cold to distant and there is a bit of drama because I did approach him and ask what did I do wrong or do that make him distant himself from me and yet he just treats it as nothing. It feels more like he rejects me and get me out of his life and spend his energy on someone else who gives him better attention when I realised it was all too late.
Thanks Chuckem!
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by starrynightPosted by ChuckcemYeah, in a situation with a LEO. Just like you've mentioned, he was very initiative at the start but at that time I was dating with another guy.
Are you in a situation with a Leo?
Recently, I ended with the other guy cause I wanted to chase this LEO guy back as I like him at the later part, however it seems that during the period after he knew that I was dating another guy, he went ahead and chase other girl.
So after I end with my guy, I did confess to LEO that actually I like him. He didn't replied me at all. Cause I guess he might be quite occupied with chasing that new girl.
Cause to me, I just feel like at least I've confessed to him and have no regrets even if he does or does not reciprocate on my confession.
Something to remember is that Leos don't chase indefinitely. Our pride simply won't let us unless we are young/inexperienced. We only chase for as long as we can see progress and an eventual reward. My guess is he may currently be with the other girl or at least very close to being with her. Contrary to popular belief, Leos aren't the players we are perceived to be. I myself can only focus on one girl at a time. It's very possible this girl has his full attention. In which case the only thing you can do is move on and let him come to you if he chooses to do so.click to expand
Really appreciate your replies. I've decided to move on after my confession.
But on the other hand, just curious, will LEOs go back to chase a girl whom they have chase before?
Posted by 90210
I'm not a guy but I'm a Leo and I'd be flattered if someone was crushing on me but I admit if i didnt like a guy who obviously liked me Id do everything just to avoid him, and at the same time be super aware of his every move from that point on and if I do like that person I'd try to initiate something to get a relationship going.
If you don't like him and if he is persistent, will it change anything?
OR
if the guy just give you space and don't care/ignore you after he confessed to you, will you feel weird or strange about his absence?
Posted by ChuckcemYeah, in a situation with a LEO. Just like you've mentioned, he was very initiative at the start but at that time I was dating with another guy.
Are you in a situation with a Leo?
Recently, I ended with the other guy cause I wanted to chase this LEO guy back as I like him at the later part, however it seems that during the period after he knew that I was dating another guy, he went ahead and chase other girl.
So after I end with my guy, I did confess to LEO that actually I like him. He didn't replied me at all. Cause I guess he might be quite occupied with chasing that new girl.
Cause to me, I just feel like at least I've confessed to him and have no regrets even if he does or does not reciprocate on my confession.
Just curious, how will Leo Guys reacts when a girl confess to you?
And what's the difference in treatment if the girl who confess to you just nice to be the girl you like AND don't like?
And what's the difference in treatment if the girl who confess to you just nice to be the girl you like AND don't like?
Posted by LarsCPosted by MiZLeo2nd that. You gonna spook the little kittiePosted by starrynightNoooooooo!!!!!!Posted by MiZLeowhat if I drop him a lil gift on this upcoming Valentine day? is it okay or it seems too much for Leo to take it and will backfired eventually?
Never chase a leo. That is a sure fire way for me to run for the hills. Unless I'm in love with you that will just annoy me.click to expand
But if that's the case, how do I show the signs of wanting him to be back? or what can I do. hahah
Posted by MiZLeowhat if I drop him a lil gift on this upcoming Valentine day? is it okay or it seems too much for Leo to take it and will backfired eventually?
Never chase a leo. That is a sure fire way for me to run for the hills. Unless I'm in love with you that will just annoy me.
Posted by Miamia13
Don't keep reaching out.
I would say distance is best if he hasn't completely lost interest. It depends on how deep you two were...
If you were of significance to him, then you'll still remain on his radar. If your on his radar, he'll still secretly want your attention. But he won't want it until you back-off and make him wonder if he can still have it.
I have experienced this with Leo's. But I was significant enough in my situation for him to pop back up with distance.
However, Leo's usually have followers/admirers waiting in the wings. I've seen Leo men jump to a different woman hours after a failed relationship attempt. Leo's can't be second, if he thinks you made him second in your life then he will find someone who will make him feel like first. Or find someone to temperalrily cool-off the ego burn. Very sensitive egos with these kittens...
Yes I'm keeping my distance away from him now as a breather I hope. What do you suggest if I still want to be friends with him, should I start talking to him after a few more weeks or I should just totally stop and let him initiate a conversation?
Posted by Freetobe007could I know what actually triggers you to be disinterest in them? does it happen to you before? And are there anyone try to reach back to you and you just avoid them?
Give one more try to reach out and if he doesn't reciprocate, then move on because there's really no telling when he'll regain interest. With Leos romantically, it tends to be either a ton of fire or no fire at all. There is no in between and we are very fixed in one or the other.
Personally speaking, I don't ever come back from disinterest. Once I lose interest, the disinterest morphs into indifference and by that point, I've severed any and all emotional attachment. Once I make the decision to disconnect with someone, I never decide to connect with that person again and I will stop taking any physical, mental, or emotional initiation to make them a part of my life. This isn't uncommon among Leos.
Posted by LarsCBack then when I first told him that I was seeing another guy and told him that I seldom see that guy, he replied me and said "technically you're still seeing other guys". After wards next few days I did told him about me and that guy RS is quite rocky and not stable and this Leo guy did suggest to me to "break up and find other guy." And he was still the same. He still treat me nice. But out of the sudden he just change to being very cold towards me when I starts to pay more attention and clingy.
But in your case there maybe a chance if you text or email him and be honest with him....act cool and explain the situation that there must be some sort of misunderstanding between you two and not quite sure why he is upset at you. If the girl I liked made me 2nd guess if my actions were incorrect, I may cool down and approach her again. We love being right, who doesnt? But most of us, if we know we are wrong, we will drift back to make amends.
I did ask him like what's wrong and all that but he just tell me that I'm thinking too much since we aren't in a RS. and then we're back to being cold again.
So it's like I've tried to ask and explain to him but I believe he's quite upset with me or don't even care anymore.
Hey TheLibraMudra, how I wish I could do that. cause when I like someone, I really will want him to know. But it seems for now I think it's best to give him some space as I scare I annoyed the hell out of him
Posted by leowwwPosted by starrynightYou didn't lie but you weren't honest about your relationship status so once he discovered the truth he most likely got turned off and didn't think you were deserving of his attention anymore. And the more you'll insist desperately to have him back the more he'll pull away.
To be honest, I was kind of clingy and dependent towards the Leo guy at the end before everything of this happens. Like I keep initiating to go out dates so I can spend alone time with him. But the more attention or affection I gave him, he just pull himself away.
But thanks solo87! I guess I might just wait till he talks to me again.click to expand
Hey leowww! yeah but I wasn't honest cause at the start we are nothing but as normal friends and we don't talk about love stuffs. It's only I realise I'm falling for him, hence I come clean. But I admit maybe I'm too late or something.
Yeah I was kind of desperate in a form of wanting to meet him alone, and he didn't agree to it, which makes me sad.
are you a leo? are there any ways I can salvage this?
Posted by blackphaseSigh~ so does that means he gone for good?Posted by starrynightThat's what pushed away the one I liked too.
To be honest, I was kind of clingy and dependent towards the Leo guy at the end before everything of this happens. Like I keep initiating to go out dates so I can spend alone time with him. But the more attention or affection I gave him, he just pull himself away.
But thanks solo87! I guess I might just wait till he talks to me again.
Also, when replying, hit quote at the bottom of what you are replying to or I may not see it and respond backclick to expand
I keep trying my luck cause just before that each time I initiate he was all positive about it. But just within a week everything changes, he's all negative, asking me why meet up or he's not free or tell me he gonna meet a friend and is a girl. That's why I stopped being clingy or desperate and don't text him anymore.
To be honest, I was kind of clingy and dependent towards the Leo guy at the end before everything of this happens. Like I keep initiating to go out dates so I can spend alone time with him. But the more attention or affection I gave him, he just pull himself away.
But thanks solo87! I guess I might just wait till he talks to me again.
But thanks solo87! I guess I might just wait till he talks to me again.
Thanks solo87 and blackphase!
However, just want to know what if I were to chase this Leo guy? Will he feel annoyed and irritated? Cause I went to read about Leo guys that they like girls who are confident in themselves to walk away and once you ignore him, he might come back and talk to you.
I've stopped talking to him for a few days already and I really miss him. Before we even stop the conver, I did confront him and ask if I've done anything wrong as he seems so distant from me. He just replied " distant then distant right? it's not like we're in a relationship". No wrong in his thinking, but was kind of sad when I read it.
However, just want to know what if I were to chase this Leo guy? Will he feel annoyed and irritated? Cause I went to read about Leo guys that they like girls who are confident in themselves to walk away and once you ignore him, he might come back and talk to you.
I've stopped talking to him for a few days already and I really miss him. Before we even stop the conver, I did confront him and ask if I've done anything wrong as he seems so distant from me. He just replied " distant then distant right? it's not like we're in a relationship". No wrong in his thinking, but was kind of sad when I read it.
From the start, me and this Leo guy were just friends and during this period I was dating a Pisces guy. Like I met this pisces guy once every few months. Me and this Leo guy didn't probe into each other love life hence I did not tell him that I was dating since me and that Pisces guy were on and off.
However Leo guy started to treat me all good, initiate texts, calls and all. So to be fair, I let him know that I'm actually dating a guy. But ever since that day, Leo guy starts to slowly turn from warmth to cold. He was quite ruthless on the way he responds to me.
But it was too late. I realise I like him more than the Pisces Guy and eve plan to even stop seeing the Pisces Guy. But the problem is Leo Guy don't text me anymore and I feel distant from him. Hence I really hope you guys to let me know how to chase back a Leo guy once he loses interests in a girl.
I came across a paragraph from a website article.
"When a leo isn't into you or has lost interest: They may still respond to your calls/texts/emails but they will be short, and/or polite. There will be a lack of warmth in them. You will definitely feel the shift from warm to chilly. They may not even respond at all. They go MIA and give no explanation, and even get angry when you ask them where they have been. You will get responses such as "I was busy...", "It's none of your business" or you will get blank silence. They care not to explain themselves. And you can't guilt them into it. Even if they feel guilty they will not give into it. They will disappear and that's that. They will start to pick you apart. The little things they once did for you cease to exist. And they will not like you to touch them. When you invade a leo's space, and they do not want you, they will pull away from your hugs, the kisses, even the sex. They just turn off and shut down! "
The Leo Guy totally acts like that now. Appreciate if you guys can tell me what to do. Thank you.
However Leo guy started to treat me all good, initiate texts, calls and all. So to be fair, I let him know that I'm actually dating a guy. But ever since that day, Leo guy starts to slowly turn from warmth to cold. He was quite ruthless on the way he responds to me.
But it was too late. I realise I like him more than the Pisces Guy and eve plan to even stop seeing the Pisces Guy. But the problem is Leo Guy don't text me anymore and I feel distant from him. Hence I really hope you guys to let me know how to chase back a Leo guy once he loses interests in a girl.
I came across a paragraph from a website article.
"When a leo isn't into you or has lost interest: They may still respond to your calls/texts/emails but they will be short, and/or polite. There will be a lack of warmth in them. You will definitely feel the shift from warm to chilly. They may not even respond at all. They go MIA and give no explanation, and even get angry when you ask them where they have been. You will get responses such as "I was busy...", "It's none of your business" or you will get blank silence. They care not to explain themselves. And you can't guilt them into it. Even if they feel guilty they will not give into it. They will disappear and that's that. They will start to pick you apart. The little things they once did for you cease to exist. And they will not like you to touch them. When you invade a leo's space, and they do not want you, they will pull away from your hugs, the kisses, even the sex. They just turn off and shut down! "
The Leo Guy totally acts like that now. Appreciate if you guys can tell me what to do. Thank you.
Hi Guys! Just wanna know if a Leo guy loses interests and not into you anymore, are there any chances of winning him back? if so, how to? I really like this Leo Guy.
And is it true that by ignoring a Leo guy, he might come back to you after a while?
Please Leo guys, do give me some insights how to win a Leo Guy back. Appreciate it!
And is it true that by ignoring a Leo guy, he might come back to you after a while?
Please Leo guys, do give me some insights how to win a Leo Guy back. Appreciate it!