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Also the now 19 year old had a weird obsession with him for a while although she only slept with him once. She does have mommy and daddy issues, her mom is a addict, both of her parents give her alcohol and weed as well.
Thank you all for the opinions and advice, it’s just a bit confusing because I’ve never been cheated on and he wanted to get married, ect.
Lol it’s definitely not fake. His mother married a older man with two daughters who were older then the wife. I believe the stepsister is 68 years old if I’m correct.
He was drinking almost every day we when first started to date but the last 6 months he slowed down a lot and in the last 3 months he’s only gotten drunk twice. He drinks at home.
He’s 30 and I’m 29.
I have know this Taurus man since we were very young children, mothers were friends, moving states were involved. 11 years later he came to visit while we were both teenagers, it was awkward but ok. Fast forward another 11 years, long story short we ended up dating, and about 2 months later he left everything behind including his job in another state to move in with me.
About a year into the relationship we both decided it would be best if he moved into his stepsister place for a few weeks to look for work. Well… His stepsister has a granddaughter who was 18 at the time and he met her less than a week of being there. Pretty much he was drinking daily while staying at the stepsisters residence and one night while he went to sleep in his stepsisters rv the granddaughter apparently came into the rv, made the first move, and he cheated on me.
I came to visit about a few days afterwards, prior to visiting we talked daily and he complained the granddaughter was annoying him when she came to visit. I did have a strange feeling and knew something was going on due to her intensely staring at him constantly the few times she did come over to visit. The 2nd night I went on his phone and saw they both sent each other a song, I confronted him if he slept with her, of course he denied. There was no further contact between them as far as I know.
A month ago I sent text her off of my number and she confirmed they slept together once. According to her he complained about me to her and she told me to leave him. I forwarded him the text and he finally confessed blaming that he was extremely drunk but couldn’t give me an answer why he did it. I fought with him, he left for 2 days, and we “worked” things out. Idk if working it out is the right thing to do, I’m not sure how to even convince him to come completely clean about the cheating as well. He denies having feeling for this girl but I’m not sure if I completely buy into that. He did say he was finally relieved I found out because he was scared to admit that the cheating occurred. I’m wondering if anyone has an opinion or advice.
I’m a cancer and the other women is a Gemini btw.
About a year into the relationship we both decided it would be best if he moved into his stepsister place for a few weeks to look for work. Well… His stepsister has a granddaughter who was 18 at the time and he met her less than a week of being there. Pretty much he was drinking daily while staying at the stepsisters residence and one night while he went to sleep in his stepsisters rv the granddaughter apparently came into the rv, made the first move, and he cheated on me.
I came to visit about a few days afterwards, prior to visiting we talked daily and he complained the granddaughter was annoying him when she came to visit. I did have a strange feeling and knew something was going on due to her intensely staring at him constantly the few times she did come over to visit. The 2nd night I went on his phone and saw they both sent each other a song, I confronted him if he slept with her, of course he denied. There was no further contact between them as far as I know.
A month ago I sent text her off of my number and she confirmed they slept together once. According to her he complained about me to her and she told me to leave him. I forwarded him the text and he finally confessed blaming that he was extremely drunk but couldn’t give me an answer why he did it. I fought with him, he left for 2 days, and we “worked” things out. Idk if working it out is the right thing to do, I’m not sure how to even convince him to come completely clean about the cheating as well. He denies having feeling for this girl but I’m not sure if I completely buy into that. He did say he was finally relieved I found out because he was scared to admit that the cheating occurred. I’m wondering if anyone has an opinion or advice.
I’m a cancer and the other women is a Gemini btw.