MrScorp joined February 19, 2012
37 years old from Cambridge, England
"I'm not too good at these 'self analysis' things, but here it goes... Describe myself? I'm still learning that one! If hobbies/interets might help...here they are: I enjoy socialising with friends/loved ones, playing and watching sport, i play the drums
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Posted by LunarMaiden
What exactly is she bored about? Is this a money issue? Remember she's a Cardinal sign which means she needs action every now and then. We don't like to just talk about what we are going to do, at some point we need those thoughts to become a reality. Cancers love to travel and meet people.
But we do need someone to GENTLY remind us that we have bills to pay and a house to save up for. So I understand you putting your foot down and saying lets stay focused. Sounds like there needs to be a balance. Like instead of a trip to Switzerland; a drive upstate. I know that's a big difference as Switzerland is beautiful. Going somewhere with the one we love will be accepted. But we never forget that someday Switzerland is on the list. Remember, Cancer's love to fantasize about luxury and expensive trips, even if we don't have a pot to piss in.
Hey!
No, it wasn't a money thing. She is more of a 'go getter' than me which i think is fine, we are also both introverts which is good and bad, but it seems like she wants to do all of these things but needs me to 'make it happen' or be assertive and go and do it! There her goals/dreams/ideas/passions and i have always said i support whatever decision you choose to make, aslong as it's not life threatening or financially fatal! It's odd. I don't think she can put her finger on it, let alone me, but i do have a good understanding of it.
She got bored i think because i seemed happy to just plod along in life. I don't like my job for example, and i'd been saying that since we first got together (over 2 years) and yet i am still in this same job.
This is where we do clash...My reason for not changing is the utterly perplexing and almost soul destroying fact that i jave no idea what i want to do! My job at the moment is just that...'a job' i go, i work, i get paid, i go home.
I want to care about my job, be passionate about it and be the best at it, but i just don't know what i want to do!
This is also an area where i would like some more support from her, she just told me to search until i find one that sparks even a slight interest and then apply. Fair enough, but the doesn't understand me properly. This is what i am basically trying to say... I am a 'scanner' apparently. http://getmotivation.com/articlelib/articles/barbara_sher_scanner.html
She takes my lack of motivation as a 'not going anywhere' si
Yeah, definately!
There are tremendous displays of care, compassion and emotion. The scene when he has to speed off pretty rapidly springs to mind there.
I'm trying very hard not to give anything away here, but it's difficult because i love the film!
Anyway...Cafe scene is fantastic, as is the elevator, the scene in the appartment too! But perhaps my personal favourite is the scene in the 'dressing room'
Any Scorps who haven't seen it yet make sure you do. Well worth it, plenty of 5* reviews too.
There are tremendous displays of care, compassion and emotion. The scene when he has to speed off pretty rapidly springs to mind there.
I'm trying very hard not to give anything away here, but it's difficult because i love the film!
Anyway...Cafe scene is fantastic, as is the elevator, the scene in the appartment too! But perhaps my personal favourite is the scene in the 'dressing room'
Any Scorps who haven't seen it yet make sure you do. Well worth it, plenty of 5* reviews too.
Hmm...No, I can't say that i want to be the 'dumper' I'd rather not waste my time if that is all i intend!
I want the jacket!
I actually think 'The Driver' played by Gosling is actually very upfront and honest to people. He plays it all down the middle and basically doesn't want to be messed with.
I actually think 'The Driver' played by Gosling is actually very upfront and honest to people. He plays it all down the middle and basically doesn't want to be messed with.
To some exstent i do too. My faith in people is pretty useless, i am judgemental, i can't help it. I think it's my security barrier coming up! Also it's a risky business going after someone new, plus...i am secretive, so getting to know new people is pretty much impossible sometimes!
With her, i know what to expect and know she is a good person. She just has issues with the 'mundane life' she wants more excitement and to go and see places and do things. I'm not saying i dont, it's just not realistic to do all of these things when we did want to buy a house!
You can't have your cake and eat it, as they say!
With her, i know what to expect and know she is a good person. She just has issues with the 'mundane life' she wants more excitement and to go and see places and do things. I'm not saying i dont, it's just not realistic to do all of these things when we did want to buy a house!
You can't have your cake and eat it, as they say!
No, you just get your own personal glory? lol
I just don't want to do this for the nostalgia or anything like that. If there's something in there that is worth saving then yes i would be interested but otherwise, i'd rather save myself the pain again.
Believe me, we have experienced the Scorp/Cancer thing and it is quite magical, but sometimes i wander if i am too 'strong' a personality for her.
I think i am very much a stereotypical Scorp on a lot of things, one of them is my disgust for 'drunk, sloppy behaviour' it repulses me to be honest. People in control is a turn on, and when the girl in question has been drunk, she has picked up on the way i am. It's probably the eyes that are the give away, but yes this is a negative for 'us'
Sometimes i do feel i need to relax! When girls i like behave like this it makes me feel like an old man who is 'disgusted with the youth of today'
I can't help it though and i am 24! More like 24 going on 94!
I just don't want to do this for the nostalgia or anything like that. If there's something in there that is worth saving then yes i would be interested but otherwise, i'd rather save myself the pain again.
Believe me, we have experienced the Scorp/Cancer thing and it is quite magical, but sometimes i wander if i am too 'strong' a personality for her.
I think i am very much a stereotypical Scorp on a lot of things, one of them is my disgust for 'drunk, sloppy behaviour' it repulses me to be honest. People in control is a turn on, and when the girl in question has been drunk, she has picked up on the way i am. It's probably the eyes that are the give away, but yes this is a negative for 'us'
Sometimes i do feel i need to relax! When girls i like behave like this it makes me feel like an old man who is 'disgusted with the youth of today'
I can't help it though and i am 24! More like 24 going on 94!
Haha. Well...to be honest, she always said i was 'the best boyfriend she ever had' and i was left feeling confused that she wanted to end it. She has called herself an 'idiot' since, which i later found out.
In a way, i feel kind of annoyed because i know she hates to be on her own, so it seems like it's a...'well, he was the best one so i'll be with him' attitude.
I don't want to get back into something that has a limited time span, yes i know nothing lasts forever but you know what i mean!
Actualy...I don't know why i posted an update on this because i'm already done with talking about it! lol
In a way, i feel kind of annoyed because i know she hates to be on her own, so it seems like it's a...'well, he was the best one so i'll be with him' attitude.
I don't want to get back into something that has a limited time span, yes i know nothing lasts forever but you know what i mean!
Actualy...I don't know why i posted an update on this because i'm already done with talking about it! lol
Indeed he is! Me and the 'Gos' are born on the same day too.
Only a Scorp could play the role!
lol
Only a Scorp could play the role!
lolJust to keep this updated, i feel like i should let you all who posted that we are talking again. Everything is cool on this level, but i am pretty sure that she wants me back.
Alarm bells started ringing when i got this feeling, but i am trying to be cool and actually take my time here.
Yes, she is really, really stunning and i am a sucker for looks. But i also realise that looks aren't the emotional bond that i crave, here's the absolute head "treetrunk" we did have that, throughout our relationship. She was the one who called it off because she was bored, we didn't do any new things anymore and it pretty much stopped in it's tracks with regards to moving forward with life. In my eyes, that is understandable and i respect her for doing it in a way, but i just don't know if we would go round in circles or is the trust has now gone.
Sometimes i wander why i wan't a relationship so much!
And.....relax.
Alarm bells started ringing when i got this feeling, but i am trying to be cool and actually take my time here.
Yes, she is really, really stunning and i am a sucker for looks. But i also realise that looks aren't the emotional bond that i crave, here's the absolute head "treetrunk" we did have that, throughout our relationship. She was the one who called it off because she was bored, we didn't do any new things anymore and it pretty much stopped in it's tracks with regards to moving forward with life. In my eyes, that is understandable and i respect her for doing it in a way, but i just don't know if we would go round in circles or is the trust has now gone.
Sometimes i wander why i wan't a relationship so much!
And.....relax.
I bought this film the other day, after missing it when it cane out in the cinema, and oh my god i love it!
It's possibly my new favourite now, after years of not seeing a rival to Shawshank!
Anyway, i found a huge Scorpio influence on this film! If anyone has watched it, let's try not to talk too much and give it away for anyone who intends to watch it.
It's possibly my new favourite now, after years of not seeing a rival to Shawshank!
Anyway, i found a huge Scorpio influence on this film! If anyone has watched it, let's try not to talk too much and give it away for anyone who intends to watch it.
Xin - Yeah, hugely! Sucks for us too!
It seems rare to find someone who understands me, then again i am only 24 and not that experienced. Yet my judgement is normally pretty sound. I feel like i have lived a whole lifetime already, such is my apparent knowledge of relationships, life and general day to day experiences! It's wierd! lol
So...(getting back to the point) My ex, yes my ex, black and white as that perhaps! Is someone i love, she is one of the great loves of my life which makes parting from her very hard.
It's all about time. Time, time and more time. Time will tell. If its meant to be its meant to be, but as i say i am being very cautious now.
This thread needs a new title!
It seems rare to find someone who understands me, then again i am only 24 and not that experienced. Yet my judgement is normally pretty sound. I feel like i have lived a whole lifetime already, such is my apparent knowledge of relationships, life and general day to day experiences! It's wierd! lol
So...(getting back to the point) My ex, yes my ex, black and white as that perhaps! Is someone i love, she is one of the great loves of my life which makes parting from her very hard.
It's all about time. Time, time and more time. Time will tell. If its meant to be its meant to be, but as i say i am being very cautious now.
This thread needs a new title!
Xin - I think this is where the 'misunderstood' opinion of Scorpio's comes to light.
We hurt, we feel, we care and we amoungst all things LOVE! Once someone is in our hearts they will have one hell of a fight on if they want to get out!
The sheer hatred that runs through my veins when the buttons are pushed is also quite immense though yes.
A world of extremes eh!
We hurt, we feel, we care and we amoungst all things LOVE! Once someone is in our hearts they will have one hell of a fight on if they want to get out!
The sheer hatred that runs through my veins when the buttons are pushed is also quite immense though yes.
A world of extremes eh!
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