nerdyvirgp

Posted by iPootMagic
I can't believe I just read all that, lol.

I have a Scorp moon too (initially I thought it was Libra), and my Merc is in Aries...so that explains alot, esp in my past!

Yea, you seem a lil intense OP. Just chill, go with the flow a lil more, I def know how it feels for the need of "control". That will push most people away, every time.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@ OP- If this was any other guy you liked, how do you display your emotions then, simply not because he is a Taurus though.

How do you control your emotions???? I think because of your moon and mine are different I would be a little hesitant and pull back. Because right now he is still getting to know you and you're pressuring him. That would make any bull back off is pressure. But later will talk about after careful consideration.

Let's say I want red lobster, because your cooking is horrible, I express this because well you want straight forward honesty..How would you fix this without getting upset???

So you expect him after only a few weeks or months to meet his family. You just gave him an Ultimatum. You let me see your family or else. That's controlling. He has to think about that. His family is important too. And his parents can be just as picky when bringing the ONE home to meet parents.

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Posted by busyeyes88
@AP.
I advise you, if you see potential with this taurus, please keep and hold out for your "relationship contract"! Meet this taurus in the new year as "platonic friends" only and hang out. He likes you already. Taurus men with sag moons are very sexual but if they like you they will respect you, hang out with you and treat you as a gf and after a matter of time of getting to know one another and building emotional foundations as friends, he will begin to see the potential of a relationship. Patience is needed. Mine treated me like a gf, no sex but our emotional bond is so close. I know him and the insides of his life more than anyone else. Our emotional ties are so strong.

Behind your taurus man's jokes is a very very sensitive soul. Insecurity is hidden behind his jokes.

I don't have any issue keeping my legs closed at all. There's no other option available to him. However, I feel he wants an easy lay and perhaps isn't interested in waiting or going about it in a more palatable way. Usually, he's been super responsive and always initiated. So far he's read but no replied. It wouldn't surprise me if he's not responsive because there's zero possibility of putting his dick in me considering I'm not in the country! Unsure about potential, lots of ticks, some things to think about. I wouldn't have minded being able to go out platonically without the huge pressure of having him constantly aiming to put his dick in me or his hands in my pants or in my bra. I told him as such and that it drives me away. Anyway, fuck knows. Up to him what he wants to do. If he wants to bother in the new year then no problem. Other than that I'm not contacting him.

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Posted by jeane

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Posted by busyeyes88
Call it quits OP. Taurus is now avoiding you!!!!

Not only he's avoiding her, he's VERY unsure about her. Especially unsure & scared how she'll react because I can see why with those intense expression.
So basically, he'll filled her out to make her satisfaction, but keeping her distant for not getting further traumatized. He doesn't feel safe to be with her it seems, but at the same time.. he feels trapped & lost from her.

Right now he's a coward to not amputated her because he wasn't sure of her reactions.

maybe he is just waiting it out. i've been in a similar situation. we maintained contact throughout though. it mainly had to do with his emotions and past (although i had contributed as well).

sometimes all it needs is a bit of time for everyone just to calm the fuck down and get back into a routine of smoother waters.

my main problem with this and i'm trying really hard not to be judgmental is that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you op. so after a year what do you have? casual dating?

if he doesn't want to be in a relationship at all, then what is he doing wasting your time, waiting for the moment when everything falls into place? sometimes you have to jump. relationships involve being vulnerable and putting yourself on the line. if he is not ready to do that then i think you should move on.

if he is not ready to be in a relationship with you, then again, he is wasting your time. after a year you should have a pretty good grasp on each other. there is no point in meeting hi family is he is still unsure if you are the woman he wants to commit to.

for me, it would be time to put your money where your mouth is. i have struggled in a similar way with my relationship. i gave him time as we tried to each get on the same page, but there came a point where i had to make it clear what was most important to me and then held my ground when i walked away from everything.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- So what are you going to do? If there is a lesson what is it about this situation?

Yeah OP! What's the latest?

Well haven't seen him yet. But we talked on the phone and I asked him why would you tell me you're ready and then now tell me you're not and he said because he didn't want me to leave him. So I get pissed because I hate lies. Then I'm like look you don't have to make me your gf but you need to keep your promise and let me meet your family (they've asked to meet me already) so he said that sounds like a great compromise but I'll have to be ready eventually so he said let me think about it

Also he said something similar to what busy said about me wanting to be all or nothing ... He said it's not so simple. He wants to be with me but is scared of the consequences

he lies because he doesn't know how you will react. try to reassure him in word and deed that you are committed to him (if you are and mean it) and the need to lie will stop.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- So what are you going to do? If there is a lesson what is it about this situation?

Yeah OP! What's the latest?

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- So what are you going to do? If there is a lesson what is it about this situation?