It is perfect! Feels like it anyways. Funny, my 3 closest friends are sags. I love sags and always got along with them and had this great connection with them. Now for the first time in my life I am in a relationship with one and it sure is lovely :-)
I have been dating a Sag for a couple months now. I am a Sag as well. We get along great and have a blast together and I have no doubt in my mind the way he feels about me. At first he seemed scared or nervous and kept his distance from me or he seemed to try to keep his distance. Now he has been chasing me hardcore for several weeks, we are in constant contact, he wants to see me almost everyday and tells me all the time how he feels about me. He thinks of me everyday, thinks of how to make me happy, he is always smiling thinking about me, ect. There is also this INTENSE attraction and we can't keep our hands off each other. He has got to be hands down the sweetest, most caring guy I have EVER dated and I am already so in love with him although we haven't said those words yet. I am 35 and have dated a lot, been married but this relationship is so different.
He is so different from what I have read about Sags. He doesn't want much space, he wants to see me all the time and he is pretty darn open with his feelings. This all kinda feels like a dream. I know it is early days and I am hoping this doesn't fade as fast as it has come on. I have met all his family and his sister told me she is so happy we are together and even had me in her family wedding pictures! They are really close, him and his sister and have been spending a lot of time together because he was helping her with wedding stuff. So I guess he has been talking a lot about me to her or something.
It is almost a psychic connection. When I think of him, he texts, or calls or contacts me somehow. Sometimes I get this heavy, warm feeling in my chest and it feels so weird and then he will text me telling me he was thinking about me. One day it was so intense, this feeling, it brought tears to my eyes. This has never happened to me before. Has anyone ever experienced that? What is going on? This is all so weird to me! LOL
I hope this is it because I can't imagine feeling happier than I do now. And I can tell he is super happy too.
He texted me the other night I guess because he hadn't really heard from me and we chatted for a while. We went to the ballgame last night and had a blast! He said he has a gift for me so he actually bought a pair of white tennis shoes, and painted our home team's name on them to wear last night! The shoes are super cute. So sweet of him! We stayed up till 2 in the morning talking. We are hanging out again this weekend. I guess he was just busy last weekend but he seemed really interested and engaged last night with me. I guess I was freaking out about nothing.
I didn't bring up us or what we are or anything but we got so many plans already, like every weekend this month and he is already talking about doing something with me on Halloween, both our favorite holiday, so looks like he is sticking around for a while. I feel better now. :-)
Yeah, maybe. He has a lot of friends he still hangs out with them pretty frequently and they have been friends with him since childhood. He is always doing things for his family too. Always. He is a busy guy. That is for sure.
I hope he isn't thinking casual. He already brought me around his family and he is meeting my sister tomorrow. He said from the beginning he wanted a relationship and even mentioned something about calling me his girlfriend on the way to his family get together. So I don't think this is a casual thing for him at all. He has been in some really long relationships and he doesn't strike me as the type who wants something just casual.
Geez, can't you guys just agree to disagree? LOL
I don't think all Sag men are like that. My best friend is a Sag and married another Sag and he is one of my good friends too. Great guy and would do anything for his family. He is anything but selfish. Believe me, my best friend tells me EVERYTHING. They don't have the perfect marriage by any means and broke up like 10 times before they got married but he really is a good guy and far from being narcissistic.
Thanks so much Weeds! That makes me feel a lot better. He is very kind and I always make sure I tell him how much I appreciate it. I am blunt at times, not with him yet, I say it how it is, so I will make sure and try and control that. I have hurt people in the past because of that. I don't mean to. It just comes out.
But thanks again. I am excited to see how this develops! I am just going to go out and have fun with him and see where it takes us. Although I am having issues with the communication, he has got to be the sweetest and most thoughtful guy I have ever dated. There is just something innocent about him. I can tell he has a big heart. I love that about him.
Mine is December 4th, 1979
His is December 18th, 1979
Thanks Weeds!!!
I still don't understand charts though. I guess that would mean we are a lot alike in temperament and so on?
My chart is almost exactly like his except for the moon and mercury.
Sun Sagittarius 11.59
Moon Gemini 24.26
Mercury Scorpio 21.47
Venus Capricorn 7.40
Mars Virgo 6.12
Jupiter Virgo 9.30
Saturn Virgo 26.02
Uranus Scorpio 22.34
Neptune Sagittarius 19.55
Pluto Libra 21.03
Lilith Virgo 16.28
Asc node Virgo 2.50
Yes! Mine is super sweet. He was sick last week but really wanted me to come over for a bit. I brought him dinner so he didn't have to go out. We were watching a movie and he asked if I wanted a foot massage because he knows how much I like them. I said, you should be the one getting a massage, you are sick. He responded but you brought me dinner so you deserve it. He does sweet things like that all the time. Fixes things around my place, fixes things in my car, he is very thoughtful and caring. Just felt some distance from him the past 4 or 5 days. No initiation from him at all. Just wondered if his feelings changed. I also noticed he got online, where we met, yesterday and he hadn't been on for a month or so before that. So that kicked my panic and anxiety into high gear. I guess I will see tomorrow how things go. He said he was excited to hang.
Thanks yellow submarine. You would think I would know this since I am also a Sag and I like my alone time but I guess when I am really into someone, I like to hear from them at least once a day. But I am also a woman. I know men don't think like that. He seems happy and excited when I do talk to him, we just don't talk a lot. On our first date, he did mention that he liked the fact we didn't talk a lot thru texting so that we had more to talk about when we were together and he has texted a lot before and then when they met up, he says there is really no connection. So maybe he just doesn't need to keep in contact all the time.