nisha1490 joined July 25, 2013
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Damn! All libra guys are same. I cant believe everyone has same problem with libra guys. Why the hell they are so undecisive? Dude.. Just be strong.
Its like hes been undecisive and prioritizing his career and taking me easy because I have pressurizing him and chasing him. I really like him and want to mend things. I guess I should give ourselves some break and get busy in my own life. Hope he does contact me once his career is all settled.
@rockyroadicecream- You are mean!
@rockyroadicecream- You are mean!
@Alisiyaabcd- I guess i was pressurizing him because he was pampering me initially and hes really tense about finding a new job. Moreover he spends long hours at work. He did tell me that because of this he is unable to go to gym since 2 months. I have been pushing him to meet me and talk to me so may be hes avoiding me because of that. I realized I screw things and over reacted when he said right now his priority is his career and not relationship and as far as our status is concerned, its friends for time being. I wrote a message to him yesterday saying that if I would have been in his place, even I would have given my career the priority. I know I over reacted but I felt bad that i was no where in the picture. I should stop expecting anything because once someone (he only told me)told me thats the best thing to do and see how things turn out on their own. I did not get his reply.
i guess i need to disappear.. @rockyroadicecream-you are really mean. I can and will write this post1 cr times whenever i feel like.
but why should I apologize? I am hurt when I see hes thinking abt himself only. I guess i am easily available so thats why i am nt on his priority list.
I was all upset and I wrote a message to him-
What you did me that was really not justified. If u knew u gonna be busy u shudnt have let me on. U had decided that we will limit ourselves to frndship n later u back turned it n made moves on me. U been all selfish n really nt thinking what I am gng thrgh n a true frndship is nt like tht. I truly liked u but I guess u will always hav reasons like u will always be busy n I dunt think so I will b there waiting fr u to get free. I tried understanding ur situation bt u will always have reasons cos reasons hav their reasons. U been avoiding me n actions do speak louder than wrds. You been taking me fr granted n I dunt want tht to happen anymore.
Guess what? He dint reply. I knw libra men hate conflict. But do you think he will contact me or understand that I am hurt.
What you did me that was really not justified. If u knew u gonna be busy u shudnt have let me on. U had decided that we will limit ourselves to frndship n later u back turned it n made moves on me. U been all selfish n really nt thinking what I am gng thrgh n a true frndship is nt like tht. I truly liked u but I guess u will always hav reasons like u will always be busy n I dunt think so I will b there waiting fr u to get free. I tried understanding ur situation bt u will always have reasons cos reasons hav their reasons. U been avoiding me n actions do speak louder than wrds. You been taking me fr granted n I dunt want tht to happen anymore.
Guess what? He dint reply. I knw libra men hate conflict. But do you think he will contact me or understand that I am hurt.
Hi. I am aries who is hell confused abt this libra man. Things were going fine and one day he shares that he isn't ready for relationship because he really doesn't have time due to his course load and work pressure. He doesnot want to push things unnecessarily so we should stick to friendship till his course gets over. I tried understanding his situation. In between I was getting insecure and kind of clingy. I was approaching him so he kind of took me for granted and became less available to me. Whenever I used to ask him why isnt he seeing me or giving me time, he used to tell me his work schedule and how busy he is with work and studies and he isnt avoiding. Its work thing and nothing else. I gave him a 5 day gap and he dint approach me so i called him on 6th day and asked him to clarify what is really happening. He told me hes dealing with mess these days. he doesnt really have time because his work has increased and he sits for long hrs at work, his course has finished but hes busy studying for interviews and doesnt really get time to go to gym since last 2 mnths. he isnt really thinking abt relationship right now as hes tense abt his career so later he will think after getting a new job. Hes been undecisive and i was no where in the picture. He mentioned that as far as our status is concerned we are friends for time being.
i am sorry for such a big story bt i am really confused. whenever I ask him is he ignoring me/nt interested he just tells me he is been busy wit course thing and job so hardly get time. And later he tells me tht he went out wit frnds.. so if he can take out time for frnds..y nt me.. why understandng is expected frm me? once he said he isnt looking for a relationship ryt now cos he lacks time.. I am getting hyper day by day.,.gng all crazy in my head.. really need a good advice. I just dont want to lose him bt how can sum1 stay frnds wit person whom u like.. hes all sweet to me.. never ignores my msges/calls.
Now the talk has decreased.. I was initiating fr past week/10 days n I dint do 1 day..so
he msged me.. now his exm is ovr bt hes busy wit presentations n wrk.. n busy studyng
fr interviews.. I dint do anythng fr 2 days n he also dint msg me..i called him yestrday
asking him hws evrythng..he said hes been busy wrking.. gng fr wrk early n coming
home late.. we had like 7 min talk.I asked him to meet me sumday n he tld me abt his
plan wit frnds. so he will let me knw wen he can meet.latr i was near his place n thot of
asking him to meet me like fr 5 mins..he msged me tht hes nt at his place n driving. I
saw his car parked outside his house. Is he avoiding me? He seemed to be interested
n made clear tht hes busy wit course thing.. I am all confused. Has he lost interest..?
I asked him the same..n he said its nevr been the case of nt interested hes just been
busy..hes been meeting frnds..den y no time fr me? What should I do? I really like
him..How to make him chase me?
he msged me.. now his exm is ovr bt hes busy wit presentations n wrk.. n busy studyng
fr interviews.. I dint do anythng fr 2 days n he also dint msg me..i called him yestrday
asking him hws evrythng..he said hes been busy wrking.. gng fr wrk early n coming
home late.. we had like 7 min talk.I asked him to meet me sumday n he tld me abt his
plan wit frnds. so he will let me knw wen he can meet.latr i was near his place n thot of
asking him to meet me like fr 5 mins..he msged me tht hes nt at his place n driving. I
saw his car parked outside his house. Is he avoiding me? He seemed to be interested
n made clear tht hes busy wit course thing.. I am all confused. Has he lost interest..?
I asked him the same..n he said its nevr been the case of nt interested hes just been
busy..hes been meeting frnds..den y no time fr me? What should I do? I really like
him..How to make him chase me?
1 day i felt nice hes msging initiating to talk..(we used to alternatively take initiatives..like
naturally.. ) and the odr day hes all aloof n distant.. I used to control my emotions bt
once or twice shared wit him.. n gt the same ans tht hes busy wit course thing.. case studies.presentations..wrk pressure..n exm pressure.. I was understandng n controlling
my craving to talk to him.. I tried asking him if we cud meet..he showed interest n we
tried making a plan for movie bt suddenly he rembred tht he shud ask his mother if she
has sum wrk..n hen he tld me tht he has to go to sum relative's place. I said replied cool.
Later in the evening his msges tht hes still dere till dinner so wun b able to msg me.. I
found it weird cos I wasnt msging/calling him..
naturally.. ) and the odr day hes all aloof n distant.. I used to control my emotions bt
once or twice shared wit him.. n gt the same ans tht hes busy wit course thing.. case studies.presentations..wrk pressure..n exm pressure.. I was understandng n controlling
my craving to talk to him.. I tried asking him if we cud meet..he showed interest n we
tried making a plan for movie bt suddenly he rembred tht he shud ask his mother if she
has sum wrk..n hen he tld me tht he has to go to sum relative's place. I said replied cool.
Later in the evening his msges tht hes still dere till dinner so wun b able to msg me.. I
found it weird cos I wasnt msging/calling him..
Later after 10 days I went for an interview near his office and made a plan to meet him a day bfre my
interview. He wasn??t excited..no clue why..he was more like you shudnt push ur self for it..hes ok if I dunt hav to travel much.. and nxt day hes all excited..msged me gud morning..wht time is ur interview n wen will I get free.. guess what he did..he took an half day fr me..planned fr lunch n movie..gave me a surprise.. he dint behave as frnds..which we had discussed earlier. He kissed on hands while watching movie..we ate from one spoon.. n while he was dropping me home, he randomly kissed on my sideneck.I was all confused because he said we r supposed to act as frnds n then he was all mushy wit me.. I said this to him n he backed off..he dint ans to my ques.he said he will think n ans latr..we had his awkward silence in his car..i left without saying bye.. he initiated to brk the ice by msging me gud morning the next day.. after like 2 days he was aloof..into his things..i felt neglected..I thot of calling n shared my feelings wit him..he said thts y he had told me to stay frnds..hes busy wit wrk n course so unable to giv me time. Days went..
interview. He wasn??t excited..no clue why..he was more like you shudnt push ur self for it..hes ok if I dunt hav to travel much.. and nxt day hes all excited..msged me gud morning..wht time is ur interview n wen will I get free.. guess what he did..he took an half day fr me..planned fr lunch n movie..gave me a surprise.. he dint behave as frnds..which we had discussed earlier. He kissed on hands while watching movie..we ate from one spoon.. n while he was dropping me home, he randomly kissed on my sideneck.I was all confused because he said we r supposed to act as frnds n then he was all mushy wit me.. I said this to him n he backed off..he dint ans to my ques.he said he will think n ans latr..we had his awkward silence in his car..i left without saying bye.. he initiated to brk the ice by msging me gud morning the next day.. after like 2 days he was aloof..into his things..i felt neglected..I thot of calling n shared my feelings wit him..he said thts y he had told me to stay frnds..hes busy wit wrk n course so unable to giv me time. Days went..
He used to apologize for evry late reply. He even tried meeting me tht day. We had a great time. He
showed me his family and friends pictures in his fone. Later while he was dropping me home, he said
he wanted to kiss me. But I said I am comfortable wit kissing on his cheek. So we kissed each oder on
cheeks. Before this we did discuss abt the status of r relationship on which he said we r special frnds.Later on we turned vry gud frnds.. I didn??t concentrate on labels cos I was feeling special..a week later he msges requesting to stay frnds fr time being cos hes busy wit course thing and hes feels mentally pressured if he doesn??t msg me on time as he feels I feel bad and this makes him feel bad abt it.I dint wanted to push him and felt its just abt a mnth or so.. so I agreed giving him his space.
showed me his family and friends pictures in his fone. Later while he was dropping me home, he said
he wanted to kiss me. But I said I am comfortable wit kissing on his cheek. So we kissed each oder on
cheeks. Before this we did discuss abt the status of r relationship on which he said we r special frnds.Later on we turned vry gud frnds.. I didn??t concentrate on labels cos I was feeling special..a week later he msges requesting to stay frnds fr time being cos hes busy wit course thing and hes feels mentally pressured if he doesn??t msg me on time as he feels I feel bad and this makes him feel bad abt it.I dint wanted to push him and felt its just abt a mnth or so.. so I agreed giving him his space.
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