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Don't live in the same city, broke up after one person graduated. because one person are moving home. but now the girl just graduated in May, still live in the same city where she went to school. would there ever be a chance, will he even want to ?
Posted by bittercupcakeI feel like i shbould have listen to my friend told me , dont call him out have that talk, if i just cut it off all contact with him then it ould have a better outcome i feel like.Posted by nooneunderstandmeIt is what it is. Now learn from it and let him go. He's not interested and I doubt he's ever going to be. So holding a torch and being 'friends' will only backfire. Don't be friends just cut contact, cold and cut, otherwise you'll never be able to move on properly.Posted by bittercupcakeyea i totally can see that now, and I feel like thats what i did wrong too. he didnt try to do it right away, and it wasnt all about sed, it it was we would have sex every single time when we see each other
Worst mistake you can do with Aries man is have sex with them too soon - which is a common trait they share with Aquarius males.
I never lost my ex Aries attention. He chased harder as time went on and was relentless. Was always there when I wanted something and introduced me as his within 3 months. I didn't give in to having sex with him until the 10th month, so that was partly the reason why he stuck around so long. According to him I was his classy lady.
Aries men are the poster child for 'don't give it up to soon if you want him to stay'.click to expand
Posted by LuckyLibra979all good no worries.Posted by nooneunderstandmeYea my bad I didn't see your response until after I postedPosted by LuckyLibra979i havent reach out at all im gonna leave him alone.
He's done. He was straight up with you tho. If your feelings are attached then being a fwb will only crash and burn in the future which he knows and will probably become more and more distant.
Not an Aries but im a man and one of our biggest pet peeves is clingy women when we aren't emotionally invested nor ready to be. If you keep reaching out he will keep ignoring youclick to expand
To be honest i havent even been looking or thinking about guys because i been so busy with work and all the other stuff been going on in my life, he just pop out of no where lol
I guess whatever happens happens, i cant fore it right
Posted by bkbella86Thank you and yea for sure thats so true, i need to work on that and be strong not afraid about what i want.Posted by nooneunderstandmeIt gets better with time. Just know you’re a prize, your needs and wants are most important and always put yourself first.Posted by bkbella86Thank you. I tend to do that every single time, that why i feel like im not even ready for serious stuff either
Why would you agree to fwb? Why are you being desperate? Don’t want to lose him? You’re losing yourself in the process. Putting his needs and wants before your own. If he don’t want what you want keep it moving.
Don’t ever compromise what you want for the attention of a man. The happiest women have standards. Actually people in general with standards are happy. They tend to get the very best out of life.click to expand
Posted by bittercupcakeyea i totally can see that now, and I feel like thats what i did wrong too. he didnt try to do it right away, and it wasnt all about sed, it it was we would have sex every single time when we see each other
Worst mistake you can do with Aries man is have sex with them too soon - which is a common trait they share with Aquarius males.
I never lost my ex Aries attention. He chased harder as time went on and was relentless. Was always there when I wanted something and introduced me as his within 3 months. I didn't give in to having sex with him until the 10th month, so that was partly the reason why he stuck around so long. According to him I was his classy lady.
Aries men are the poster child for 'don't give it up to soon if you want him to stay'.
Posted by LuckyLibra979At least he was honest and he answer when i called him, and cool to have a talk, a lot of guys just ghost town ppl which is i hate. But i do feel like you know what i deserve better than that, Things were going so great but is not there anymore, so that's the truth.Posted by nooneunderstandmeYou did the right thing. At least he was honest. That's alot these days where ppl will lead you onPosted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by nooneunderstandmeMan, get the hell over it. You're acting like a desperate hoe with no self respect.Posted by rockyroadicecreami do have feelings care about this guy, maybe havent met one like this for a while. hes not normally that type of guy i will go for,
Uh, why are you even wasting your time? How desperate are you?
Dude isn't into you and if this isn't working for you, move on. Why the fuck would you cling on to someone who doesn't want you?
Guess what? Sometimes when you like someone, they don't like you back. It's shitty and a blow to the ego, but you have to accept it and move along. Trying to be friends with someone you like can be a PITA anyway. And settling for fwb in a situation like this where you have feelings is just pathetic.
Reread what you wrote. Is your self esteem really that shit? Are you THAT desperate for a dude? "Oh, I haven't met a guy like this in awhile"
Who cares? Women use the most stupid shit logic to cling on to a fly by because omg I may be single and never will meet another man again!!!! I will ditch all self respect and let him treat me like a human cum dumpster if it means keeping him around!!
It doesn't work like that. By accepting FWB when he clearly told you he wasn't into you just makes him look at you like a piece of shit to be used. You haven't heard from him because he's not interested in you. AND if he hasn't even hit you up for FWB, that means he's not all that interested in that either. He either doesn't want you to cling on, which you WILL do because you're one of those silly bitches who thinks that's the appropriate action to keep a guy, or he just doesn't have the heart to use you like that.
Your post makes me sad and you should be embarrassed for yourself. You WILL survive and you need to wake the eff up and get with it. What you're doing is disrespecting yourself and painting a total doormat target on yourself.
Are you a water sign by chance??
No
Thanks for the advise, i decided to cut if off,moved on. just friendsclick to expand
Posted by LuckyLibra979i havent reach out at all im gonna leave him alone.
He's done. He was straight up with you tho. If your feelings are attached then being a fwb will only crash and burn in the future which he knows and will probably become more and more distant.
Not an Aries but im a man and one of our biggest pet peeves is clingy women when we aren't emotionally invested nor ready to be. If you keep reaching out he will keep ignoring you
Posted by ariesnoPosted by rockyroadicecreamAre you a fucking bitch by chance?? Jesus, are you so perfect? Why do you feel so entitled?Posted by nooneunderstandmeMan, get the hell over it. You're acting like a desperate hoe with no self respect.Posted by rockyroadicecreami do have feelings care about this guy, maybe havent met one like this for a while. hes not normally that type of guy i will go for,
Uh, why are you even wasting your time? How desperate are you?
Dude isn't into you and if this isn't working for you, move on. Why the fuck would you cling on to someone who doesn't want you?
Guess what? Sometimes when you like someone, they don't like you back. It's shitty and a blow to the ego, but you have to accept it and move along. Trying to be friends with someone you like can be a PITA anyway. And settling for fwb in a situation like this where you have feelings is just pathetic.
Reread what you wrote. Is your self esteem really that shit? Are you THAT desperate for a dude? "Oh, I haven't met a guy like this in awhile"
Who cares? Women use the most stupid shit logic to cling on to a fly by because omg I may be single and never will meet another man again!!!! I will ditch all self respect and let him treat me like a human cum dumpster if it means keeping him around!!
It doesn't work like that. By accepting FWB when he clearly told you he wasn't into you just makes him look at you like a piece of shit to be used. You haven't heard from him because he's not interested in you. AND if he hasn't even hit you up for FWB, that means he's not all that interested in that either. He either doesn't want you to cling on, which you WILL do because you're one of those silly bitches who thinks that's the appropriate action to keep a guy, or he just doesn't have the heart to use you like that.
Your post makes me sad and you should be embarrassed for yourself. You WILL survive and you need to wake the eff up and get with it. What you're doing is disrespecting yourself and painting a total doormat target on yourself.
Are you a water sign by chance??click to expand
No idea
i been feeling lot better now, we talk yesterday about some work stuff, but AW. i decide to cut it off, the hooking up part, before is too late, now we could still be friends. I don't know why i act so desperate, no idea why i care about it soo much. something is wrong with me LOL
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by nooneunderstandmeMan, get the hell over it. You're acting like a desperate hoe with no self respect.Posted by rockyroadicecreami do have feelings care about this guy, maybe havent met one like this for a while. hes not normally that type of guy i will go for,
Uh, why are you even wasting your time? How desperate are you?
Dude isn't into you and if this isn't working for you, move on. Why the fuck would you cling on to someone who doesn't want you?
Guess what? Sometimes when you like someone, they don't like you back. It's shitty and a blow to the ego, but you have to accept it and move along. Trying to be friends with someone you like can be a PITA anyway. And settling for fwb in a situation like this where you have feelings is just pathetic.
Reread what you wrote. Is your self esteem really that shit? Are you THAT desperate for a dude? "Oh, I haven't met a guy like this in awhile"
Who cares? Women use the most stupid shit logic to cling on to a fly by because omg I may be single and never will meet another man again!!!! I will ditch all self respect and let him treat me like a human cum dumpster if it means keeping him around!!
It doesn't work like that. By accepting FWB when he clearly told you he wasn't into you just makes him look at you like a piece of shit to be used. You haven't heard from him because he's not interested in you. AND if he hasn't even hit you up for FWB, that means he's not all that interested in that either. He either doesn't want you to cling on, which you WILL do because you're one of those silly bitches who thinks that's the appropriate action to keep a guy, or he just doesn't have the heart to use you like that.
Your post makes me sad and you should be embarrassed for yourself. You WILL survive and you need to wake the eff up and get with it. What you're doing is disrespecting yourself and painting a total doormat target on yourself.
Are you a water sign by chance??click to expand
No
Thanks for the advise, i decided to cut if off,moved on. just friends
Posted by bkbella86Thank you. I tend to do that every single time, that why i feel like im not even ready for serious stuff either
Why would you agree to fwb? Why are you being desperate? Don’t want to lose him? You’re losing yourself in the process. Putting his needs and wants before your own. If he don’t want what you want keep it moving.
Posted by nightowlhes not sure because he said we never talk about it , i guess we should have talk about it at the very beginning.Posted by nooneunderstandmeor you can get let him go..he is not sure of your intentions already and you will always want more than friendshipPosted by nightowlDidn't wanna to lose him, now im thinking about it , when next time i see him in person,I need to cut the sex part off, and just be friends.
girl smh
why would you agree to fwb if you have feelings for himclick to expand
I think im gonna let it go though. I'm already feeling so much better, i just have to know what is he thinking i guess.
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Don't live in the same city, broke up after one person graduated. because one person are moving home. but now the girl just graduated in May, still live in the same city where she went to school. would there ever be a chance, will he even want to ?
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So i met this guys about 2 month ago, hes aries, I'm a Sag.
we been seeing each other at least once a week for a month(one on one date),sometime 2-3 time a week.One time hes was really nice took me to a really expensive place for dinner, he said becau
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