Hmm, good advice. Thanks all! I've been giving him a little affection too but not as much as he's been giving me. I remember reading somewhere that Leos love affection and if you're not as demonstrative, they'll lose interest...or something to that affect. I was thinking that maybe I needed to step it up a little bit, but I wasn't planning to be overly emotional or start calling and running to him all the time. I guess I'll keep my feelings to myself for now and just spend more time with him.
He's my first Leo. I wasn't even attracted to him when I met him. What a surprise that I find myself thinking about him alot and wondering when I'll see him next. Talk about Lion Power! (or voodoo perhaps?)
that I like him?
I keep hearing conflicting info about this....either he will run for the hills if I tell him or he LOVES flattery and attention and will welcome it. Which one is it?
I wasn't prepared to fall for this Leo. It wasn't love at first sight and I wasn't even looking for anyone. To make it worse, I was hanging out with girlfriends and pretty drunk at the time that I met him. His friend asked me for my number to give to him, which I did reluctantly, but I never thought he'd call me. He called me THE NEXT DAY anxious to see me and we've seen each other almost every other day since. He's won me over but I'm protecting my heart so I've held back on the flattery and kept a poker face pretty much. I'm a very affectionate person but I've held back a little on that too. Now I reading that Leo's love affectionate and attention. Will it scare him away if I just come out and announce my feelings to him?
Well, let's just say I don't own a farm so I'm no cow girl, but I can be.
That's awesome! lmao
Both my roommate and I are Pisces females. She is moody as HEEELLL. She gets pissed off over the littlest things and internalizes it. She never talks directly to us when she gets this way and instead leaves nasty messages or we'll hear her slam doors and throw things. She's chased one of my roommates out and I'm currently moving out since she owns the place. Her brother lives with us and he stays away from the house when he can.
I was terribly moody as a teenager but I don't find myself being so moody now. Every once in a blue moon, I'll feel a little down or anxious for no reason but it never lasts long. When something upsets me, it'll eat away at me for quite awhile until I talk to someone about it. I don't sweat the small stuff but I do hold grudges if someone really messes with me and I'll never forget it. A Cancer recently told me that one of my best qualities is my cheeriness...lol.
lol...all us great Pisces minds seem to think alike when it comes to this.
I wonder how we compare in bed to Scorpios? They're supposed to have voracious sexual appetites, right? Perhaps Scorpio vs. Pisces in bed is like quantity vs. quality? I wonder what LadyScorp would have to say about this...lol.
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Prettypisces, you are speaking for me too as I feel the same. I haven't necessarily been in love with a person that I have slept with in the past but when I'm in love with that person, I feel SO much more at ease with and give it my all. In my youth, I fell into the Pisces trap of falling in love too easily and finding myself in the position of being with someone who only wanted one thing and got hurt bad in the end. Now that I'm older and wiser, I put sex on the back burner until I really get to know someone and then when I feel comfortable with them, I open the floodgates...lol. In my experience, Pisces are really imaginative and fun and romantic and very considerate of their partner's pleasure in bed. I think we are open minded too, but minus the third party stuff. Most Pisces usually like to feel like they are the ONLY one that their partner wants...or atleast the only male or female in the threesome...lol.
Catfish is right...we do learn over time. Pisces are very sensitive to others feelings and do not enjoy being cruel to anyone. I know that when I've broken up with someone, I may not have handled it in the right way in the past. The Pisces disappearing act is not a myth. It is the way that some Pisces deal with ending a situation that they no longer wish to be in because they cannot bear to say the words that will hurt someone. I am guilty as charged on that account. When I was younger, I would agonize for a long time when I felt like I wanted to end a friendship or relationship with someone and I would ultimately pull the disappearing act because I couldn't bring myself to tell that person and hurt them. As I've gotten older and more mature, I realized that it's far less hurtful to be honest and tell the person how I feel before ending things (and without disappearing on them).
Also I will second what Catfish says about us being fiercely loyal and steadfast when a Pisces finds a real soul connection with another. When I find someone that I really connect with...friend or romantic partner...we usually become attached at the hip.
She actually doesn't see it that way. She says she is getting what she wants...companionship and someone to spoil her and her daughter with gifts...without the commitment because she is still free to see anyone that she chooses. I don't know if she really believes this or if she is just trying to fool everyone, herself included. And yeah, it's a shame that she is teaching her little girl to be dependant on a man like that. I know the live-in girlfriend isn't too happy about all of this but yet she stays. I've met this man and he's not even cute but he's got $ $ and that's all that counts to some people. And my co-worker, who doesn't want the "commitment", refers to him as her "boyfriend". Crazy.
Notso07, I guess we think alike. It's incomprehensible to think that someone would be ok in a situation like that, but I've seen it so many times and I just don't understand it. I have a co-worker (don't know what her sign is but can't be a Pisces, no way!) who has a "boyfriend" who lives with his girlfriend. He takes my co-worker out on dates and buys things for her and her daughter, but goes home to his live-in girlfriend at night. My co-worker is perfectly fine with being the other woman and doesn't really even want him to leave his girlfriend for her. I would NEVER be ok with a situation like that. I MUST be the only one. Ideally Pisces love the idea of love/soulmates/etc and we are loyal and love completely until things get bad for us.
""Most Pisces I know, myself including, are instantly turned off if we catch wind of the fact that the one that we love has eyes for someone else.""
Wouldn't that be an instant turn-off for most people?
To answer you, Notso07, no, it's not. I know plenty of people, and I'm sure you do too maybe, who would stay and try to fight for that person's affections. I don't do that. Same thing with going after someone who is already in a relationship or seeing someone else...lots of girls would, but I simply wouldn't bother. I could never settle for being the other woman or one of many. I'm not saying that all Pisces are like me but all the ones I know are, myself included. We simply must be THE ONLY ONE when it comes to our objects of desire because they will be that for us as well...until they mess up.
Oh yeah, I wanted to add one thing. If you want to get and keep a Pisces, you have to make us feel like we are THE ONLY ONE you have eyes for. Most Pisces I know, myself including, are instantly turned off if we catch wind of the fact that the one that we love has eyes for someone else. If I like a guy and find out that he has a girlfriend or is interested in someone else or wants to see other people, that's an instant deal breaker. If I'm in a relationship with someone and I find out that they've been cheating or entertaining that though, I'm gone.