Posted by geminibunny

Posted by insertyourquarters
Classic Cancer testing 101. To see how you react to certain situations or statements. Think of an elastic band, you snap it back and forth until eventually it will stretch beyond it's original form and snap.
That's how they see things when intrigued or interested in someone.
Nip that ish in quick cause it can go on indefinitely until they are sure about you.

when you say nip that ish you mean walk away and never look back? these cancer dudes don't listen when you try to reason with them usually....so it does go on indefinitely if you so choose to play their games
hah mine knows that he sucks but he still can't stop sucking even though he's promised many times to change but still...no change
@prettybitter so you either have to play their games or don't play at all. but if you're gonna play, don't be afraid of losing. gotta go about it fearlessly if you really want this guy. first you gotta figure out if you really want him or not. doesn't matter if he's playing games. figure out for yourself if he is worth it. once you know the answer to that then you proceed. why bother with this crap if you aren't going to want him in the end anyway. but if you only want him then why have another friend on the side. but if you really want him you gotta take all the ups and downs and mood swings and sulking and bitchiness.
for me..I think mine is worth it. he is testing me and my limits. i'm holding on but i'm not waiting around for attention or change in behavior. i know he's going to test me and I know he's going to wait and see if I still want him even though he's constantly pushing me away or not showing me any of his true feelings. when he does show them it's like finally bathing in a waterfall after being in the dessert for weeks without a drop of water. So is it worth it to you and other suffering ladies? you gotta be the judge. because when it is dry...heck it is dryyyyyy.....you can't let it take you to a new low just to finally get that high when they come back. if you can manage to keep your own emotions in check I think it is best not to get swept up on their roller coasters.

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