Primetime joined February 03, 2009
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I dunno, I know guys try to get with her. On her facebook, there's guys talking about how pretty she is and everything. I trust her, though, that's the difference. I feel like she doesn't trust me too much.
Sup, I am a Scorpion, 11/1/85, need some advice on my girl.
So I been dating this girl for about a year, she's real cool, she's a Scorpio, too, a little quiet and set in her ways, but I like her. My last couple girlfriends were crazy as shit and that was aight for a little while but it got boring to always be guessing what was up all the time. So me and this girl are cool and I really like her. She's met most my friends, my family, and I took her to my job the other day. That's when the problem came in.
Before I go any further, I should mention I am white and she is black. All my past girlfriends have been black except one. It's just a preference, I guess. Anyway, I work in the city at an agency so a lot of my coworkers are also black and that includes some black females my age. I did talk to a couple, it didn't go anywhere with either of them and we're just cool, we say hi and bye, and that's it. So when I took my girl to work, word got around and there were a lot of females just coming up and saying hi to me and my girl got angry about all that, saying they was only doing that because they see I like "chocolate." I actually heard that before from my last ex girlfriend because some of her friends would flirt with me a little and she said black girls are always curious when they see a white guy with a black girl cause they think maybe if she ain't that cute, they can get with him.
I'm not looking to cheat and the girls at my job I was talking to are just my friends now, nothing more. I feel like my girl is getting upset over nothing. I was just like "If I had something to hide, would I be taking you around to meet these people?" I just don't know what to do. In some ways she's not exatly my type because she's so quiet and serious, but I feel like I can be myself around her and don't have to play games or act a certain type of way, and I only felt that before one time with my first girlfriend (who funny enough, is white). So I want her to be happy but I'm not doing anything wrong and it gets on my nerves when I get a text or something and she's all like "Oh, who's that, one of your girlfriends from work?" And she is always looking to see who posts on my space or my facebook. I don't really like all this jealousy, it's really making a mess of what can be a real nice relationship.
So I been dating this girl for about a year, she's real cool, she's a Scorpio, too, a little quiet and set in her ways, but I like her. My last couple girlfriends were crazy as shit and that was aight for a little while but it got boring to always be guessing what was up all the time. So me and this girl are cool and I really like her. She's met most my friends, my family, and I took her to my job the other day. That's when the problem came in.
Before I go any further, I should mention I am white and she is black. All my past girlfriends have been black except one. It's just a preference, I guess. Anyway, I work in the city at an agency so a lot of my coworkers are also black and that includes some black females my age. I did talk to a couple, it didn't go anywhere with either of them and we're just cool, we say hi and bye, and that's it. So when I took my girl to work, word got around and there were a lot of females just coming up and saying hi to me and my girl got angry about all that, saying they was only doing that because they see I like "chocolate." I actually heard that before from my last ex girlfriend because some of her friends would flirt with me a little and she said black girls are always curious when they see a white guy with a black girl cause they think maybe if she ain't that cute, they can get with him.
I'm not looking to cheat and the girls at my job I was talking to are just my friends now, nothing more. I feel like my girl is getting upset over nothing. I was just like "If I had something to hide, would I be taking you around to meet these people?" I just don't know what to do. In some ways she's not exatly my type because she's so quiet and serious, but I feel like I can be myself around her and don't have to play games or act a certain type of way, and I only felt that before one time with my first girlfriend (who funny enough, is white). So I want her to be happy but I'm not doing anything wrong and it gets on my nerves when I get a text or something and she's all like "Oh, who's that, one of your girlfriends from work?" And she is always looking to see who posts on my space or my facebook. I don't really like all this jealousy, it's really making a mess of what can be a real nice relationship.
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