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"astrology is fun to think about... and laugh about. Leo with Gemini Moon, Virgo Venus, and Leo Mars."
"astrology is fun to think about... and laugh about. Leo with Gemini Moon, Virgo Venus, and Leo Mars."
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Hahaha, aq61.
I know it is so rude. Although I never have that intention. And you know what? When someone I like doesn't reply to me instantly, I get a little annoyed and think it's rude too. Ha, double standard, I know.
If you really want to meet up with him, then I honestly don't think a leo guy would mind being chased. I can be super oblivious. But magic can happen face to face.
Good luck! I hope he's worth the chase... and if not.... run in the other direction
I know it is so rude. Although I never have that intention. And you know what? When someone I like doesn't reply to me instantly, I get a little annoyed and think it's rude too. Ha, double standard, I know.
If you really want to meet up with him, then I honestly don't think a leo guy would mind being chased. I can be super oblivious. But magic can happen face to face.
Good luck! I hope he's worth the chase... and if not.... run in the other direction
Thanks again LibraSid for your airy perspective.
He actually doesn't know I'm recently single as of yet. It's not exactly something you slip casually into conversation. ha. He knew my ex boyfriend, who is like... twice his size. I imagine this leads to caution/his inability to make a move as of yet. Since I have yet to really get a chance to talk to him as a single woman.
Anyhow....to all of you Leo haters on this post, I find it ridiculous that you actually think I take myself and this situation seriously.
It's meant to entertain and spark insight. Or at least humorous banter.
From my understanding, this entire forum is ridiculous. There mere fact of characterizing someone from their zodiac sign is ridiculous. And everyone on here, myself included, is ridiculous by default.
If you don't have anything constructive to add to the thread, then don't post, ya Trolls. Don't you have something better to do? Like hiding your treasure under bridges?
He actually doesn't know I'm recently single as of yet. It's not exactly something you slip casually into conversation. ha. He knew my ex boyfriend, who is like... twice his size. I imagine this leads to caution/his inability to make a move as of yet. Since I have yet to really get a chance to talk to him as a single woman.
Anyhow....to all of you Leo haters on this post, I find it ridiculous that you actually think I take myself and this situation seriously.
It's meant to entertain and spark insight. Or at least humorous banter.
From my understanding, this entire forum is ridiculous. There mere fact of characterizing someone from their zodiac sign is ridiculous. And everyone on here, myself included, is ridiculous by default.
If you don't have anything constructive to add to the thread, then don't post, ya Trolls. Don't you have something better to do? Like hiding your treasure under bridges?
Posted by LibraSidPosted by PuppyPuddles
I'm picky with words, don't do anything because you think we're "a sucker for it". Everyone likes compliments, but only if they're believed to be genuine.
If you like him and can deal with an insecure (at least with women) kinda shy guy, yes show him you're interested. You don't have to take the lead but be clear.
I don't get "subtle clues", never have. People have come up to me randomly my whole life and said some variant of, "you realize [she] likes you, right?". Of course, I talk to people. The only time I've ever just stared at a woman is when I felt she was 'out of my league'. Or... if I already knew she was only eye candy. You know, smart as a brick, a bitch, something like that.
Thanks again LibraSid for your airy perspective.
He actually doesn't know I'm recently single as of yet. It's not exactly something you slip casually into conversation. ha. He knew my ex boyfriend, who is like... twice his size. I imagine this leads to caution/his inability to make a move as of yet. Since I have yet to really get a chance to talk to him as a single woman.
Anyhow....to all of you Leo haters on this post, I find it ridiculous that you actually think I take myself and this situation seriously.
It's meant to entertain and spark insight. Or at least humorous banter.
From my understanding, this entire forum is ridiculous. There mere fact of characterizing someone from their zodiac sign is ridiculous. And everyone on here, myself included, is ridiculous by default.
If you don't have anything constructive to add to the thread, then don't post, ya Trolls. Don't you have something better to do? Like hiding your treasure under bridges?click to expand
Posted by Iwill
Thanks guys
Now: if they??re not on the same page, from this short info I??ve given here, do you think, that he just needs time????? I know my girl want this to be serious or to GET serious, she really really likes him and have had a lot of bad luck with guys. That is ofcours also on of the reasons why she holds on; she doesn??t want to go back on the dating marked again, she has been there all her life.
In some areas they communicate very well, in others... It just gets difficult with feeling so vulnarable and maybe ge hugely dissapointed. Ofcours, it is better in the long run.... It is kinda tricky, and really tricky for me (and her ofcours!), sine I have never met the guy and have no idea how he comes of in real life and how he is with her....
My tidbit for "do you think, that he just needs time??" is... two people should try to be with peeps that feel similarly to them.
I am a fire sign and I fall hard and deep for people that I trust in a relationship. But I've been with a Venus in Libra that had a more analytical approach. He had to weigh all the options. In the end, it took me leaving his ass after 9 months for him to come back literally crying and begging on his knees for me to take him back... THEN he said I love you.
But you know what? I think he was just more afraid of being alone. I could never trust his feelings. Our approach to love was different. So, I'd say people should find people they resonate with. People they can talk to about anything and feel like the other person respects, accepts, and understands them.
If you don't have that, it is better to be alone for a bit and find someone new. Otherwise, you're just living a lie. Good luck!
Hey There!
I agree that I wouldn't say he isn't interested yet, but I would say you shouldn't sweat it too much because us Leos like things on OUR terms, hahah. And who responds to a message a week late? I DO! Why, because I felt like it. Annoying to others but so true.
I would take his lack of initiative as a sign that he isn't really into you yet. He may be interested, but has yet to be really be into you.
Personally, I am super chill about potentials until a few dates/months in. I don't really invest my whole self into anything until I'm in a relationship... then again, they'll have to catch me first! ha.
With Leo men, I've found that they like LOTS of women, and aren't shy... and tend to be less faithful than Leo ladies... or at least more into 'open' relationships.
Don't know if this helps, but just keep it casual and see what happens. Don't freak out over texts.
I don't take texting as a sign for 'how much I care'.
Texting is boring and stupid. If someone needs to talk to me ASAP, they'll call. So, if you want to set something up, just call?
Otherwise, he'll respond to your text whenever he feels like it. I do that ALL the time.
I agree that I wouldn't say he isn't interested yet, but I would say you shouldn't sweat it too much because us Leos like things on OUR terms, hahah. And who responds to a message a week late? I DO! Why, because I felt like it. Annoying to others but so true.
I would take his lack of initiative as a sign that he isn't really into you yet. He may be interested, but has yet to be really be into you.
Personally, I am super chill about potentials until a few dates/months in. I don't really invest my whole self into anything until I'm in a relationship... then again, they'll have to catch me first! ha.
With Leo men, I've found that they like LOTS of women, and aren't shy... and tend to be less faithful than Leo ladies... or at least more into 'open' relationships.
Don't know if this helps, but just keep it casual and see what happens. Don't freak out over texts.
I don't take texting as a sign for 'how much I care'.
Texting is boring and stupid. If someone needs to talk to me ASAP, they'll call. So, if you want to set something up, just call?
Otherwise, he'll respond to your text whenever he feels like it. I do that ALL the time.
Posted by LibraSid
We're very observant, and many of us are shy (myself included). You said you see him stare but you "barely notice him". He sounds young and insecure, that's all. He doesn't talk to you because he's nervous, that's also why he looks away. The thoughtfulness in his gift shows he pays attention and cares what you're saying. You also say you prefer a man who takes charge (that's not us) and are fine to just let him watch. He picks up on your apparent lack of interest and doesn't chase. Many libra's fear rejection so much we'd rather not take the chance. I know I don't chase unless I think you want me to catch you.
Thanks a million LibraSid!
This is super helpful. So, you're saying I should totally let him know that I WANT to be caught...???
Perhaps I should let him know that I can't run very far...
(*wink wink nudge nudge) And compliment him... I hear Libras are suckers for compliments...
Honestly, I'll probably just stare back at him and tell him he looks handsome with his new haircut and suit.
And of course, I'll be dressed to kill.
boom chica pow!Posted by virgoyum
Lol what do you mean you barely noticed? I feel like this whole thread is about how much you noticed.
Tbh you like him. Why don't you just ask him if he's into you? This fake tension seems exhausting. Lol.
lol!!! I KNOW! I totally DO notice, except I only JUST put the pieces together.
Yeah, I agree. Perhaps I'll start by complimenting him and dropping some hints?
I'll see him a fair bit in a few weeks, but I'll have a million things to do since I'll be working... and he'll be watching... (you crazy Libras, that I love).
If he were older I would just be more forward, but he is still in College and I'm finally out of that whole deal, so I don't want to scare him. Cause I think Libras scare easy with that stuff... or I could be wrong...?
Thanks!
Hey there!
I dated a Virgo for 2.5 years and it only led to heartbreak. He used to do that to me all of the time. He would take out his work stress on me, until it even escalated to him throwing plates at me. Yep. And he never apologized for what I classify as abuse. he would rationalize it away because all in all, the only one virgo ever seems to love is themselves. he treated me like a play thing. Something that was in his control.
Ultimately I played the 'try to make him apologize game' and he never did. So I left his ass when the time was right and never looked back. He still tries to get back with me, but he's never apologized for his absolutely unacceptable behaviour. And I will never let him back into my life.
I personally don't think they are worth the trouble.
It comes down to how you want to be treated. If he doesn't respect you and treat you nicely, then you have your answer. Moving on is hard, but it's better than being someone??s emotional punching bag.
so, to answer your question. There is no way to make him apologize, and I doubt he would... unless he thinks it would get him some nooky... then he'll take it back once he's satisfied.
why don't they apologize? ego ego ego. Virgo is NEVER wrong, says them.
I dated a Virgo for 2.5 years and it only led to heartbreak. He used to do that to me all of the time. He would take out his work stress on me, until it even escalated to him throwing plates at me. Yep. And he never apologized for what I classify as abuse. he would rationalize it away because all in all, the only one virgo ever seems to love is themselves. he treated me like a play thing. Something that was in his control.
Ultimately I played the 'try to make him apologize game' and he never did. So I left his ass when the time was right and never looked back. He still tries to get back with me, but he's never apologized for his absolutely unacceptable behaviour. And I will never let him back into my life.
I personally don't think they are worth the trouble.
It comes down to how you want to be treated. If he doesn't respect you and treat you nicely, then you have your answer. Moving on is hard, but it's better than being someone??s emotional punching bag.
so, to answer your question. There is no way to make him apologize, and I doubt he would... unless he thinks it would get him some nooky... then he'll take it back once he's satisfied.
why don't they apologize? ego ego ego. Virgo is NEVER wrong, says them.
Posted by firedry
I don't think they are shy, actually they are just not so good at sharing their feelings. For all I know, they are constantly thinking and measuring every detail and try to reach every perspective.
Just stay around but don't be on him that too much, let him observe. At the end of the day, he'll do smth and you'll know how you guys would be.
Thanks firedry! You're probably right. He probably hasn't 'decided' what to say, so for now he just observes.
I'll let him watch... for now.
I like a man that takes initiative anyway, and he'll have plenty of chances... the cray!
haha, guilty as charged! Sorry about this. I've noticed I do this to anyone I'm dating. I don't mean any harm by it though. I respect my exes, even when they were horrible. I never, ever feel like going back to anyone.
But for me, I come to understand myself through association with others I guess... so by bringing up past relationships, I'm also bringing up who I used to be in the hopes that I'll be more understood. Of course, I guess there would be no need if I felt that my partner understood me without my needed to hash out my past. But unfortunately, I have yet to find many people who understand fixed fire.
I'm sure she didn't mean anything by it. If I say something like, "my ex used to have a jacket just like that." It is the equivalent of saying, "the sky is blue." Aries and jealousy... ease up unless your concerns are warranted. Leo is very Loyal... at least I am, haha
But for me, I come to understand myself through association with others I guess... so by bringing up past relationships, I'm also bringing up who I used to be in the hopes that I'll be more understood. Of course, I guess there would be no need if I felt that my partner understood me without my needed to hash out my past. But unfortunately, I have yet to find many people who understand fixed fire.
I'm sure she didn't mean anything by it. If I say something like, "my ex used to have a jacket just like that." It is the equivalent of saying, "the sky is blue." Aries and jealousy... ease up unless your concerns are warranted. Leo is very Loyal... at least I am, haha
Hello all!
I am new here so, first off, nice to meet you! Secondly, I'll stress that this is not a bleeding heart story. So please read on and laugh with me!!!
I'm just mega confused and think this forum is awesome
**What's the sitch?
What is up with Shy introverted Libras? Other people paint a different picture, but this guy is not typical. (who is really?)
**Shy introverted Libra who is younger than me, with Virgo--moon, Libra--Venus, and Scorpio--Mars... I know!!!
This kid is the sweetest most loving person... ON THE INSIDE. hahaha And that's exactly where he seems to keep it.
I am totally opposite. I'm a Leo that has an artistic career and am very outgoing and direct.
He is an atypical Libra but he'll talk to OTHER people that initiate, but NOT ME?!
In fact, I seem to be the only person he can't look in the eye if he's responding to me...and man, oh man are his responses weird and off the cusp.
YET this boy gives me the old "STARING ME DOWN while I'm not looking' routine all the time.
And I'll be damned if this boy hasn't been observing my every move from a distance and I barely even noticed!
He gave me the most thoughtful gift EVER that he picked out based upon something I said to someone else ages ago (because, again, he doesn't really talk to me...in words). But then again, if eyes could talk, he's been confessing his love for months! haha
Talk about FIRE and tension! Whew. What must be the Scorpio combo in his chart....
***So, what about the shy Libras? What's their deal? And what is he trying to say with these mixed messages?
I can't figure him out, and I'm sure he hasn't figured me out yet, which is why he is always watching.... FROM AFAR! hahaha
As a Leo, I only understand directness.
It's both annoying and adorable to see someone observe me from afar... when he could just ask me out!? wtf!
I can see how he feels about me when I look into his eyes! (that old Libra stare).
I told him I loved him at a Christmas party (he's a family friend so I meant it in a pure sense). His eyes lit up and he tried to scowl to stop from grinning. He replied, "Thanks" wryly.
I smirked back. Ha ha, gotcha silly Libra.
I am new here so, first off, nice to meet you! Secondly, I'll stress that this is not a bleeding heart story. So please read on and laugh with me!!!
I'm just mega confused and think this forum is awesome
**What's the sitch?
What is up with Shy introverted Libras? Other people paint a different picture, but this guy is not typical. (who is really?)
**Shy introverted Libra who is younger than me, with Virgo--moon, Libra--Venus, and Scorpio--Mars... I know!!!
This kid is the sweetest most loving person... ON THE INSIDE. hahaha And that's exactly where he seems to keep it.
I am totally opposite. I'm a Leo that has an artistic career and am very outgoing and direct.
He is an atypical Libra but he'll talk to OTHER people that initiate, but NOT ME?!
In fact, I seem to be the only person he can't look in the eye if he's responding to me...and man, oh man are his responses weird and off the cusp.
YET this boy gives me the old "STARING ME DOWN while I'm not looking' routine all the time.
And I'll be damned if this boy hasn't been observing my every move from a distance and I barely even noticed!
He gave me the most thoughtful gift EVER that he picked out based upon something I said to someone else ages ago (because, again, he doesn't really talk to me...in words). But then again, if eyes could talk, he's been confessing his love for months! haha
Talk about FIRE and tension! Whew. What must be the Scorpio combo in his chart....
***So, what about the shy Libras? What's their deal? And what is he trying to say with these mixed messages?
I can't figure him out, and I'm sure he hasn't figured me out yet, which is why he is always watching.... FROM AFAR! hahaha
As a Leo, I only understand directness.
It's both annoying and adorable to see someone observe me from afar... when he could just ask me out!? wtf!
I can see how he feels about me when I look into his eyes! (that old Libra stare).
I told him I loved him at a Christmas party (he's a family friend so I meant it in a pure sense). His eyes lit up and he tried to scowl to stop from grinning. He replied, "Thanks" wryly.
I smirked back. Ha ha, gotcha silly Libra.
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