Posted by AerialView1st she said to remind him of my existence and when I asked how, she said if it was not there you cant do anything to change it.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlplease don't listen to compy. she's a negative nancy.Posted by compyAnd how do I remind someone of my existence who may have lost interest? *panic mode on
They are lousy with initiations once they've triggered your attention. They may also lose interest while doing something funnier to do. You need to remind them about your existence.
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Posted by SentimentalCrabbyWow I really like you. Platonic thoughPosted by Cancervirgo15degreesI am going to say this specifically for you to understand. You mention that "Somebody coming on a thread that YOU btw made, and talking all sorts of smack about someone else, and then you dont expect that person to eventually find out and come lay out the facts of the story? cookiemonster please.."Posted by SentimentalCrabbyYou misunderstood my post entirely lol.
@Cancervirgo15degrees
It's already clear to me that you dgaf what anyone says. You don't have to tell me, I could already see it.
You're making me laugh, you're making yourself look like a complete idiot at the moment. Thanks for the screenshot cause that was not a clarification towards you. I've never address it to you.
To begin with, I never even talk shat about you, you think I'll even waste my time mentioning about you, someone that I don't even know. The world doesn't even revolve around you, and I would simply careless what's going on.
You got into the situation yourself, you deal with it. Stop spreading your drama to other people. NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT.
Good luck to you and your lame drama. You go deal with it Whorpio, and you have no right to even mention other people's names and throw them into your little mess.
Act like your age and deal with it yourself. Seeking validation from other people is useless and trying to talk shit about her is not going to do you any good but just more chaos.![]()
Im not being rude but im asking seriously is english your first language. You are not getting what i said.
I never said you were talking about me. I said "you made a post and then **others** are talking smack" not you.
I never thought or said you didn that at all ever. Your calling me an idiot when you didnt even read what i wrote properly lmao. Seriously...
Of course, you'll probably think that other people would start talking smack cause of pictures they post. Obviously. Spreading a drama that was unnecessary.
Shyt I wouldn't even care about cause it was irrelevant to the topic.
And yes you're an idiot I am going to make that clear, and yes English is my first language.
Is it yours? Cause you need to fix those grammar errors you have with typos.
I'll be straightforward, you're A COMPLETE IDIOT.
anything you have to say after this...
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Posted by compyAnd how do I remind someone of my existence who may have lost interest? *panic mode on
They are lousy with initiations once they've triggered your attention. They may also lose interest while doing something funnier to do. You need to remind them about your existence.
Posted by PassionateTruthWe text almost everyday here and there.
Have you sent him a message or called him yet? quirkycrabbygirl
Posted by PassionateTruthThis mental stimulation. I guess I'm very poor at itPosted by quirkycrabbygirlYes they know a lot about a lot of things but you have to find a way to engage him in mental stimulation. I knew that from day one of dating my Aqua and in the beginning we would talk a lot about relationships the world, quotes I may read to him that he would like. My aqua know want me to teach him how to hand dance because I told him I took the class and then showed him a video of me dancing and he was excited and then got mad (playfully) at me because I have not taught him yet. He does frustrate me at time when I try and tell him a story and he want to already finish like he knows what's going to happen and it would piss me off and I would get really upset with him and tell him "You don't know everything so stop trying to act like you do" he would LOL but then say ok finish the story. That is the one thing that bothers me with Aqua's I'm glad he finally stopped and started listening to the story and then he can say what he has to say when I'm done. LOLPosted by PassionateTruthI dont really know if there is anything he doesnt know about. I mean there must be many things but he knows a lot of stuffs more than I know.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlHe knows I'm into horoscopes and often ask me what his signs says. He's intrigue with anything that he don't know nothing about so when I introduce him to something that he don't know he wants to know all the details and would say "you got my attention because I'm about to learn something"Posted by PassionateTruth
This is our charts
Him
Sun Aquarius '
Moon Capricorn
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Pisces
Mars Sagittarius'
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Cancer
Neptune Scorpio
Pluto Leo
Lilith Capricorn
Asc node Sagittarius
Me Sun Scorpio
Moon Capricorn
Mercury Scorpio
Venus Scorpio
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Virgo
Neptune Scorpio
Pluto Virgo
Lilith Virgo
Asc node Leo
I dont have much details regarding his elements but I am sure we dont have much in common.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewOk "I miss your voice" added to my "to say" listPosted by justagirlnot sure about other aquas but i always found it sweet when someone i like said that to mePosted by AerialViewYup.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlyou guys have "something" right?Posted by AerialViewMiss him?! Wouldnt it put him in shock mode?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlsurprise him. give him a call and say you miss him.Posted by AerialViewIf he wants to talk to me he will give me a call. I will not. Huhh!!! lolPosted by quirkycrabbygirlperhaps now is the time to call himPosted by AerialViewWe havent "talked" for like 2 weeks. 2 weeks! *deep sighPosted by quirkycrabbygirlthat's a good sign. maybe he just shy and slow or commitment phobic lolPosted by AerialViewYeah he does.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlpersonally i don't need much space.Posted by AerialViewYou guys need a lot of space right?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlno i don't know what you mean.
Imagine someone you are friends with(opposite sex and a bit closer to you than your other random friends)
How can that someone show that they care about you without getting into your space?
How can they show that you're important stuff to them and still not creep you out?
How can they stay on your mind? If you know what i mean![]()
be more specific.
I'm giving it to him. We exchange messages here and there but I'm keeping my over energetic self my talkative self under control.
But I dont know I feel like I am just a random friend to him nowadays as we dont share much about whats happening in our lives except on phonecalls (which hasnt happened for 2 weeks). Maybe its normal for aquas I dont know.
did he always answer your calls/texts?![]()
i thinks it's ok to say miss him after two weeks haven't spoke each other.
say you miss his voice![]()
It's okay to tell someone you miss them.
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Posted by BrittnieHis parents' and my city #1Posted by quirkycrabbygirlWhich one is closest? LolPosted by BrittnieThe last time we saw each other was 2 years ago. After that he shifted to a different city. We've talked about meeting and catching up but when he gets any leave (once or twice in a year for a week), he goes to his parents' who stay in another city. All 3 cities are longgggg hours apart.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlGood! Do you two ever see each other?Posted by BrittnieIts more of like 50-50. When I text he replies. When I stop he texts I reply. When he stops I text he replies. Its like we both need attention from time to time.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlWho texts who mostly? Yea I'm not big on calls except occasionally. Texting everyday is a lot to me so if he is texting you, he must like you!Posted by BrittnieWe've texting each other everyday. But no phone calls for 2 weeks, so no real convo other than memes and videos.Posted by quirkycrabbygirl2 weeks would be long enough space. If he isn't talking to you he may be waiting to hear from you. My other does most of the initiating and when he doesn't, I'm like waiting on him LOLPosted by BrittnieI dont know if he is loving the space.
You are giving him the space, he should love that. I like people who tell me how they feel but they are patient. I feel like many people don't listen sometimes when I talk and the other night my guy would fully put his attention on me when I say stuff and remember little things I've told him and I notice! I love it
I give him enough attention when we talk over phone. I stay involved. I even follow up on stuffs he mentioned days before.click to expand
Posted by BrittnieThe last time we saw each other was 2 years ago. After that he shifted to a different city. We've talked about meeting and catching up but when he gets any leave (once or twice in a year for a week), he goes to his parents' who stay in another city. All 3 cities are longgggg hours apart.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlGood! Do you two ever see each other?Posted by BrittnieIts more of like 50-50. When I text he replies. When I stop he texts I reply. When he stops I text he replies. Its like we both need attention from time to time.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlWho texts who mostly? Yea I'm not big on calls except occasionally. Texting everyday is a lot to me so if he is texting you, he must like you!Posted by BrittnieWe've texting each other everyday. But no phone calls for 2 weeks, so no real convo other than memes and videos.Posted by quirkycrabbygirl2 weeks would be long enough space. If he isn't talking to you he may be waiting to hear from you. My other does most of the initiating and when he doesn't, I'm like waiting on him LOLPosted by BrittnieI dont know if he is loving the space.
You are giving him the space, he should love that. I like people who tell me how they feel but they are patient. I feel like many people don't listen sometimes when I talk and the other night my guy would fully put his attention on me when I say stuff and remember little things I've told him and I notice! I love it
I give him enough attention when we talk over phone. I stay involved. I even follow up on stuffs he mentioned days before.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewHow I miss his voicePosted by quirkycrabbygirlyou guys have "something" right?Posted by AerialViewMiss him?! Wouldnt it put him in shock mode?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlsurprise him. give him a call and say you miss him.Posted by AerialViewIf he wants to talk to me he will give me a call. I will not. Huhh!!! lolPosted by quirkycrabbygirlperhaps now is the time to call himPosted by AerialViewWe havent "talked" for like 2 weeks. 2 weeks! *deep sighPosted by quirkycrabbygirlthat's a good sign. maybe he just shy and slow or commitment phobic lolPosted by AerialViewYeah he does.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlpersonally i don't need much space.Posted by AerialViewYou guys need a lot of space right?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlno i don't know what you mean.
Imagine someone you are friends with(opposite sex and a bit closer to you than your other random friends)
How can that someone show that they care about you without getting into your space?
How can they show that you're important stuff to them and still not creep you out?
How can they stay on your mind? If you know what i mean![]()
be more specific.
I'm giving it to him. We exchange messages here and there but I'm keeping my over energetic self my talkative self under control.
But I dont know I feel like I am just a random friend to him nowadays as we dont share much about whats happening in our lives except on phonecalls (which hasnt happened for 2 weeks). Maybe its normal for aquas I dont know.
did he always answer your calls/texts?![]()
i thinks it's ok to say miss him after two weeks haven't spoke each other.
say you miss his voice
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Posted by PassionateTruthI dont really know if there is anything he doesnt know about. I mean there must be many things but he knows a lot of stuffs more than I know.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlHe knows I'm into horoscopes and often ask me what his signs says. He's intrigue with anything that he don't know nothing about so when I introduce him to something that he don't know he wants to know all the details and would say "you got my attention because I'm about to learn something"Posted by PassionateTruth
This is our charts
Him
Sun Aquarius '
Moon Capricorn
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Pisces
Mars Sagittarius'
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Cancer
Neptune Scorpio
Pluto Leo
Lilith Capricorn
Asc node Sagittarius
Me Sun Scorpio
Moon Capricorn
Mercury Scorpio
Venus Scorpio
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Virgo
Neptune Scorpio
Pluto Virgo
Lilith Virgo
Asc node Leo
I dont have much details regarding his elements but I am sure we dont have much in common.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Yes it does. Very muchPosted by quirkycrabbygirlHe probably wont until he's actually ready to admit it. It sucksPosted by justagirlHe said he likes me too but he has never mentioned about anything more than friendship.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlAnd what does he want?Posted by justagirlAhem ahem I want more than just friendship.
It also depends is this a friend or someone you want more from? Big difference.
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Posted by justagirlActually the reason I am hesitating is - I called him 2 weeks back but he wasnt feeling well and wanted to sleep early. He said he'd call me back. The next day he wanted to during the evening but I wasnt free and told him to call me at night(provided he doesnt sleep early). He agreed but didnt call. He watched movie till late night. So i was like whatever. And since then no call! So I didnt want to initiate the callPosted by quirkycrabbygirlIf you want to talk to him, call, it's that simple.Posted by AerialViewIf he wants to talk to me he will give me a call. I will not. Huhh!!! lolPosted by quirkycrabbygirlperhaps now is the time to call himPosted by AerialViewWe havent "talked" for like 2 weeks. 2 weeks! *deep sighPosted by quirkycrabbygirlthat's a good sign. maybe he just shy and slow or commitment phobic lolPosted by AerialViewYeah he does.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlpersonally i don't need much space.Posted by AerialViewYou guys need a lot of space right?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlno i don't know what you mean.
Imagine someone you are friends with(opposite sex and a bit closer to you than your other random friends)
How can that someone show that they care about you without getting into your space?
How can they show that you're important stuff to them and still not creep you out?
How can they stay on your mind? If you know what i mean![]()
be more specific.
I'm giving it to him. We exchange messages here and there but I'm keeping my over energetic self my talkative self under control.
But I dont know I feel like I am just a random friend to him nowadays as we dont share much about whats happening in our lives except on phonecalls (which hasnt happened for 2 weeks). Maybe its normal for aquas I dont know.
did he always answer your calls/texts?
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