hey y’all. i met a Taurus Lady recently, I am an Aqua Man & boy oh boy was i swept off my feet. Our first meeting was completely effortless and intense. We vibed in a way I haven’t with anyone else in a long, long time. The entire night it was like we were on a different planet with each other. I spent the night over her place & It was great!! And now it’s been three days with barely any communication between us. I am trying to see her again but she barely replies and kind of just leaves me hanging. Is this normal? I read somewhere that getting with a Taurus is a patience game. I’ve only been pursued by one, never went out of my way to pursue before. Any tips are appreciated!!
well, let’s just say this one did not get salvaged. we broke-up so she could get into a new relationship (with a Gemini? she made it a point to tell everyone lol) a mere three days after our break-up. i just deleted her off my social media today. it’s been hard. what a mess
she most likely had been testing the waters for at least a week or two which might explain why things were so tense & why distance happened. she wanted to feel like she had to cut & run so she could just get with this dude. i knew something was up but she denied it & lied to me instead of being honest (which is all i want from someone). it sucks because we were so compatible & she told me she cares for me & we have a connection but her actions are wildly disrespectful. we haven’t talked since we broke-up
i appreciate the insight. communication was our major downfall & something i will work on in the future. who knows if this Aries is ever coming back but the way she handled this was not good at all
thanks y’all. i got dumb emotional last night (and maybe a little drunk) but after i fell asleep she texted me that she forgives me. i feel like the best thing for me to do is give her space & let her come to me so it’s not like i’m hounding her. we both need time to think
i do fully own my mistakes & things i say that end up being hurtful. she can be very self absorbed & not take responsibility for her part in the equation. just like as i apologized for getting upset at her ignoring me in the middle of a conversation. she hasn’t even acknowledged it at all
we both can be extremelt dramatic over little things. we fight over those things but then we chill about it. she could def already be talking to someone else idk. she isn’t talking to me right now
i tried to apologize for my part in the fight & miscommunication but she didn’t respond. she also didn’t respond when i asked later if she forgives me. i feel like i lost her.
how do i try to get her back??
we just had a lot of miscommunication. on my birthday she spent all night thinking i was ignoring her for my ex just because i talked & was friendly with my ex, then told me i ruined her night (it was my birthday!!!). she brought my birthday back up when it was her birthday like her even being there was a gift to me which started another fight because it was a horrible night. we were good after that but then she started getting distant.
we had a really good talk a few days ago but then just fought because she was ignoring me & not communicating suddenly in the middle of a conversation. she claimed she was trying to sleep but she never said “hey i’m going to sleep” she just ignored me & stayed active online which made me furious. granted, it was dumb of me to poke her because yes it did start another fight but. the whole thing is dumb. the distance between us just sucks.