rockerangel joined April 09, 2014
38 years old female
"emotionally scarred, but still all strong and hopeful"
"emotionally scarred, but still all strong and hopeful"
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Posted by BeautifulVirgo
Awe, darlin I have been there and done that. I know exactly what you mean and how you are feeling. It's intense I know. We aim for perfection, it's who we are, but you have to keep in mind that there is NO such thing as perfect. It's the imperfections that make you perfect. You have to give yourself a break.
I have a feeling you are young. Maybe 20's??? I don't ask as if it is a bad thing, I ask so I can better understand where you are in life.
Your brain probably never shuts off...constantly analyzing anything and everything. The home, or your things, need to be organized just so. Your overly critical of yourself and you tend to judge others and not on purpose. You do this for many reasons but not purposely. You have friends but few close friends a even fewer that understand you.
Is any of this true for you? I'm totally willing to help you. I get what you're going though...
you got it all right
ya thats all me and i am 27@pinklibra and @scorpiofish thanks a lot for ur contribution i think am seeing things clearly now. before we started dating we ve been friends for two years and i know that he opened up to me more than once but not completely. the thing is once when we were friends we talked bat my ex and he sensed that i still have some feelings for him. i didn't know back then he had feelings for me , but from the way he changed his treatment to me afterward i think that caused some kind of a problem. still i can't tell if he camp 1 or 2 he has charecters from both sides like when i see him we are the perfect match but when we talk on the phone or text he is just wayyyy distant. now simply he asked me to leave him alone coz that what he want since he is depressed. i asked if he wanna end it btw us but he didn't want to. i think am just stuck, but honestly part of me is moving on as i have nothing to base this relationship on
@mz we are in the same country but its hard here to see each other that much ,,, due to the rules here so u can say its so and so
Posted by BeautifulVirgo
I love being a Virgal. I don't think I did when I was in my teens or twenties...I was too critical of myself. Now older, I embrace it and love it.
Why??? I'm intelligent, witty, social, caring, independent, confident, and I believe I'm beautiful on the inside and out. I love being me and I think that's a good thing. As with anyone, I know that I have things about me I wish were different. What? I wish I wasn't so sensitive sometimes, I wish my brain would quite down so I can sleep (haha), I wish I wasn't so picky all the time (although that can be a good thing too), and I wish I could just relax sometimes. And who can forget the n
Embrace who you are and roll with it.
Now why don't you like being a Virgo??? _??_
i don't like being a virgo because most of the time i want everything to be perfect but perfect according to my standards not the normal globally known standards. plus aim sooooo hard on my self like i have a good life and everybody shows me that am doing good but am never good enough in my head i keep putting myself down and its so frustrating. i don't know if any other virgo's feels what i feel but it seems am always on some side of an extreme never in the middle? am a fun person true and i can handle tough situations with great patience but i feel am in a box alone and i just need someone to break in and get me out although i block who ever tries. so confusing ??_. so ya thats part of it
oh my god everything everybody said is so true and i can relate to.
@tiziani most of my problems and confidence issues is related to something from my childhood that includes all the phobias too
@tiziani most of my problems and confidence issues is related to something from my childhood that includes all the phobias too
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@rockerangel Well him disappearing for a week & a half IS not normal in any relationship. Most good Cancer Men wouldn't leave their gf hanging weeks on hand. We usually are very attached & like closeness in relationships. Either you put up with this behavior, OR show him you got respect for yourself. Let him know you not gon put up with the on & off behavior. If he gonna be with you, he gotta make the effort with his actions. Remember this, Love is something that is shown, not told!. Follow your heart, & there you can make the right decision
u r soo right thats y i stopped talking to him and am nt doing anything becoz i think i already gave him all the reassurance he needs and he knows am serious about us. so i hope he will wake up soon coz i know i mean something to him, but he is so occupied with his own problems. thanks a lot for ur opinion
Posted by kim30
Did he say anything else besides I love you that would suggest his sincerity?Like he can't think about anything else but you? Thinks you two belong together?
yes he said he can see me as a wife and that he blindly trusts me ,,,, ya stuff like that !!!!
like now its been week and a half ??_
there were times before that we stop talking for couple of months but we weren't in a rleationship. me and him we seem can never be only friends it always ends up with us flirting and him getting really jealous when i used to date other guys
there were times before that we stop talking for couple of months but we weren't in a rleationship. me and him we seem can never be only friends it always ends up with us flirting and him getting really jealous when i used to date other guys
okay i always didn't like my sign as virgo,, i would love it if all the virgos here can tell me what so special about us ?
it seems i don't really understand me am just focused on the bad side ??_. i hope ill find answers here
it seems i don't really understand me am just focused on the bad side ??_. i hope ill find answers here
Posted by ScorpioFishPosted by kim30
Cybercrab I'm sure that's only true for those good cancers. Some cancers abuse their ability to create a feeling of warmth and love to manipulate. Or because they wish they were in love.
Bingo.
Some people seem to think that ALL Cancer women and men belong to the wonderful and warm Camp 1 Cancer Club.
However, many folks seem to forget about the Bizarro and HORRIFIC WORLD of Cancers who reside in Camp 2.
CyberCrab's advice is effective only with the respectful, civil and warm Crabs in Camp 1.
If your Crab is straight out of the depths of HELL (Camp 2), then you may want to get the hell away from him altogether.click to expand
okay how can i know for sure what camp he is ???
ya true they know how to make u feel so special and loved as if there is no other person in this world accept u ,,
Depends on the situation.
I'm assuming affairs of the heart.
If he's not interested, he'll be pleasant, but that's about it.
If he's interested, he'll be rarely direct and you'll get the "push-pull".
Can you be more specific?
okay the push- pull thing , he said it more than once that he loves me , but his actions says other wise
i was clear more than once that we can breakup with no any hard feelings and he just answered me with no hesitation that he wanted this and he wants me
its confusing
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