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Posted by cosmicbutter
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Posted by cosmicbutter
What is the sign of the nosy bitch?

Probably Virgo...

Or gemini
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Aries
So, nosy bitch goes up to my Aqua and asks, "are you guys (him and I) dating," to which he shrugs. She then asks him, "Do you like her?" to which he also shrugs. She then proceeds to tell him, "Well if you don't know, I'm telling you she likes you!" He shrugs again...Nosy bitch then comes and tells me everything. I decided to also shrug! 😄

WTF is he shrugging for? is what I'm left wondering! I've been with him long enough to feel secure, but not long enough to fully understand all his 'quirks' (will I ever?) Long enough to know, going back to ask him will cause unnecessary problems, which could be what nosy bitch wants, but not long enough to understand if I give a flying fuck at this moment. I do know, I won't give nosy bitch the satisfaction of causing a problem, so I bring it to you by way of venting...
Posted by truecap
Posted by Romancelives
Hi Aquas,

Just a quick question, aimed at the Aqua males in particular. How would you react to getting a state of the art laptop with all the trimmings, from someone deeply into you that you may not be in a relationship with, but have a bond with? Do Aqua translate gifts into bribery, or do they see them as just gifts?
Admittedly, such an expensive gift can make an impact, but would it make a good or bad one on an Aqua?
Asking a Christmas has been upon us and gifts have been exchanged!!!

I'm an aqua mars and that expensive gift would make me extremely uncomfortable. I'd feel like you were bribing me or trying to buy my love. It'd give me an icky feeling.

I don't think aquas put a lot of impact on expensive things. My impression is they'd rather have something meaningful (a.k.a something that represents a private joke or something that comes from the heart) or something cool, inexpensive but exotic/weird/odd.
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Even if the expensive gift means you can now continue with studies and plans for the future?
Posted by killerwhalemoon
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Posted by killerwhalemoon
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As an aqua myself thanking me for doing something im not good at makes me feel like your my mother and thats not attractive. Id drop the first person to do that. I do it on my terms when i want to and if anyone gives me credit ill never do it again.

Wow, thank GOD he's not like you then!!! Sounds a bit sad that you think only your mother should be supportive of your efforts... Well, I guess if he REALLY didn't want to he wouldn't have, But he did and I recognised how tough it was for him and I showed my appreciation! Why should that cause anyone who isn't selfish and self absorbed to not do it again.

Let me guess, you are a young unevolved Aqua? or could be just unevolved? Which poor self depreciating person will you find on this earth that will live by your terms alone? Relationships are a two way street!!! How boring would it be to have someone who always lets you have your way? You're not always right for start...

I havent actually had anyone do that to me because they know me well enough.
I dont feel bad about the way I work. Im sorry you do tho smile

I really don't feel bad at all. I just don't understand I guess... smile

For not understanding you sure got offended. You should keep an open mind about things you dont understand.
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It's human nature to be defensive, attack, run or shut down in the face of what we don't understand. I will try to keep an open mind as you say. Nobody gains understanding with a closed mind or resisting change, I guess that's why "on my terms" hit a nerve, if we all operated on only individualistic terms, where would we end up. There's always room for communication and compromise if needed. That's open minded in my book.... Thanks for your input.
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As an aqua myself thanking me for doing something im not good at makes me feel like your my mother and thats not attractive. Id drop the first person to do that. I do it on my terms when i want to and if anyone gives me credit ill never do it again.

Wow, thank GOD he's not like you then!!! Sounds a bit sad that you think only your mother should be supportive of your efforts... Well, I guess if he REALLY didn't want to he wouldn't have, But he did and I recognised how tough it was for him and I showed my appreciation! Why should that cause anyone who isn't selfish and self absorbed to not do it again.

Let me guess, you are a young unevolved Aqua? or could be just unevolved? Which poor self depreciating person will you find on this earth that will live by your terms alone? Relationships are a two way street!!! How boring would it be to have someone who always lets you have your way? You're not always right for start...

I havent actually had anyone do that to me because they know me well enough.
I dont feel bad about the way I work. Im sorry you do tho smile
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I really don't feel bad at all. I just don't understand I guess... smile
Posted by Palerio
What placements of yours you think make you an Aqua magnet? I'm curious to know.

The placements that makes mainly Aquas my friends not to mention family! Looool, I was just trying to say that Aquas always gravitate towards me though I failed to fully understand them, I try to just let them be, when I can. *Shrugs*
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Is this the same Aquarian you bought a laptop for???

The laptop is for a different Aquarian. I have several Aquas, male and female, it's kinda stressful! Lol
Posted by SassyKiwi
AWWW omg look at these Aquas getting so touchy and jumping to protect one of their owns' feelings. You all are a bunch of
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Lol, nobody has attacked one of their own! Wow, imagine I had? I just want to do something good and have it received as such. You cute to SassyKiwi...
Posted by killerwhalemoon
As an aqua myself thanking me for doing something im not good at makes me feel like your my mother and thats not attractive. Id drop the first person to do that. I do it on my terms when i want to and if anyone gives me credit ill never do it again.

Wow, thank GOD he's not like you then!!! Sounds a bit sad that you think only your mother should be supportive of your efforts... Well, I guess if he REALLY didn't want to he wouldn't have, But he did and I recognised how tough it was for him and I showed my appreciation! Why should that cause anyone who isn't selfish and self absorbed to not do it again.

Let me guess, you are a young unevolved Aqua? or could be just unevolved? Which poor self depreciating person will you find on this earth that will live by your terms alone? Relationships are a two way street!!! How boring would it be to have someone who always lets you have your way? You're not always right for start...
Posted by killerwhalemoon
As an aqua myself thanking me for doing something im not good at makes me feel like your my mother and thats not attractive. Id drop the first person to do that. I do it on my terms when i want to and if anyone gives me credit ill never do it again.

Wow, thank GOD he's not like you then!!! Sounds a bit sad that you think only your mother should be supportive of your efforts... Well, I guess if he REALLY didn't want to he wouldn't have, But he did and I recognised how tough it was for him and I showed my appreciation! Why should that cause anyone who isn't selfish and self absorbed to not do it again.

Let me guess, you are a young unevolved Aqua? or could be just unevolved? Which poor self depreciating person will you find on this earth that will live by your terms alone? Relationships are a two way street!!! How boring would it be to have someone who always lets you have your way? You're not always right for start...
Posted by WaterBearerer
just get him the laptop lol fuck what they say

Big Grin

I've got it, just haven't given it over yet.
Posted by aqualady0118
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Posted by aqualady0118
Also, with my Aqua ex, he showed a lot of discomfort saying the 3 little words and rarely said it. Even kissing..he wasn't a kisser. However, he showed his love through actions..I never doubted his love for me.

...but now he's an ex? That's my point, I find Aquas make it so difficult at times it ends up failing. Not that I know your reason of course. I just feel it gets tough to love someone so much, yet they keep you at arms length emotionally. That's why I draw him out sometimes, it can't all be one way, that's why it's a relationship, we have to learn to relate to each other or it won't/can't last!

So far, he always comes back after his 'recharge' and the bond always seems stronger!

That's right he's an ex now for reasons that are none of your business. When we were together though, we understood each other's need for space and knew exactly what we each were thinking. He's still in my life and he will always remain special to me. I only found Aquas and Geminis compatible with myself. Most people can't handle us.
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Oops,for sure none of my business, I wasn't asking either. Hope no offence taken!

Yeah, Geminis could deal cos they are scared of emotions too, but perhaps in a more apparent, I don't give a fuck way, cos they don't, whereas Aquas secretly do give a fuck, but will handle it if they are left. Leave Gem, they'll instantly heal. Leave an Aqua, they'll eventually heal ish and the wall will be fortified and higher for the next love interest!

Libs are known for allowing realise that we have emotions for a reason, and letting them out sometimes (in your own time of course) is quite liberating.

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