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I will try to make this short. I had been dating a cancer man now for about 3 months. He lives out a ways and I have 50/50 custody of my son, so I would only see him every other weekend. He said how much he liked how we had a connection and laughed together and had a lot in common. The mistake I made was getting drunk one night when I was with him and he is sober. He said it was fine to drink, but I went overboard. After about a week he texted and everything was good again. He told me he had feelings for me. The next thing I know he ghosted me. I was stupid and texted him like 3 times, but that was last week. I haven't texted since. I just wanted an explanation. I had bought us tickets to a concert for the end of this month. I was thinking I should just send them to him by email and not say anything. Should I do this or wait to see if he comes back? Well that wasn't really short, was it!
Posted by blackphvseHe wanted me to stay the week, but it turned in to two. What should I do?
Probably cause you were only dating a week then he got stuck with you for 2.. Probably a bit overwhelming.
I just started dating this cancer guy 3 weeks ago. He came on so affectionate but then I got snowed in with him for two weeks. It was great the whole time, but when I left he got distant and no longer sending heart emojis and saying I’m beautiful. Just short texts. Should I say something or just act like everything is fine? I’m sad 😞
Posted by Rish27So what exactly should I message him without looking desperate?Posted by RwalstonPosted by Rish27Posted by RwalstonPosted by Arinoaqua
Why would you message him again when he ignored your pleas to cut you loose? Keep your dignity.
But we were fine and this was out of the blue. We were talking on a daily basis.
Things happen, life happens, problems arise. Why do people suddenly throw the whole relationship into the bin after 1st sign of discomfort or problem rather than just fixing it?
Call him, text him or straight up go to his place. Tell him you want to know if there is an issue between you two because of you and you want to solve that. And don't think for a second that you're being desperate like some idiot above has replied, if you're not passionate for something it's not worth it, and passion doesn't come without crazy.
Thank you for that! I was looking for advice from Pisces male since that’s what I’m dealing with. However we have only gone out once, the rest has only been messaging. I suppose that’s not a good sign.
Pisces are introverts, especially males. I've had 2 relationships in the past where we both first met via messaging, had our phone sex before actual sex lol and a large sum of our talking was via phone or messaging (because of distance and busy lives). So there is nothing wrong with messaging, but no message at all is bad, that means something is bothering him but he's not telling you about it.
We can be busy for hours but not for a whole day, never.click to expand
Posted by ArinoaquaPosted by RwalstonPosted by ArinoaquaPosted by RwalstonPosted by Arinoaqua
Why would you message him again when he ignored your pleas to cut you loose? Keep your dignity.
But we were fine and this was out of the blue. We were talking on a daily basis.
How long ago was it that you had sex?
We’ve only had sex twice the first and only night we went out.. It’s basically been a message only relationship
Yes, how long ago was that date?click to expand
Over a month
Posted by Rish27Thank you for that! I was looking for advice from Pisces male since that’s what I’m dealing with. However we have only gone out once, the rest has only been messaging. I suppose that’s not a good sign.Posted by RwalstonPosted by Arinoaqua
Why would you message him again when he ignored your pleas to cut you loose? Keep your dignity.
But we were fine and this was out of the blue. We were talking on a daily basis.
Things happen, life happens, problems arise. Why do people suddenly throw the whole relationship into the bin after 1st sign of discomfort or problem rather than just fixing it?
Call him, text him or straight up go to his place. Tell him you want to know if there is an issue between you two because of you and you want to solve that. And don't think for a second that you're being desperate like some idiot above has replied, if you're not passionate for something it's not worth it, and passion doesn't come without crazy.click to expand
Posted by ArinoaquaWe’ve only had sex twice the first and only night we went out.. It’s basically been a message only relationshipPosted by RwalstonPosted by Arinoaqua
Why would you message him again when he ignored your pleas to cut you loose? Keep your dignity.
But we were fine and this was out of the blue. We were talking on a daily basis.
How long ago was it that you had sex?click to expand
Posted by sweetheartsAnd act like nothing is wrong? So he can do it again?Posted by Rwalston
I wasn’t sure how I could link to my other post but need advice. The post was called Second round, same Pisces. After months of communicating, he didn’t text for a bit and told me he would message me and get me up to speed. We were literally been messaging everyday and not only did he not get back to me on Thursday, I haven’t heard from him since Tuesday. Should I message him again? My last message was, if you want to let me go that’s fine, just tell me. I hate being here in limbo not knowing if I’ve been ghosted or what.
It’s been 4 days, wait 2 more and drop him a casual how are you text. Nothing serious or pressing!
“If you want to let me go that’s fine, just tell me” that’s heavy and desperate, he’s dealing with his personal issues and you’re laying that on him. That’s why he’s not texted back yet. He has things on his mind that he’s dealing with. Men doing multi Task very well, his mind is elsewhere.click to expand
Posted by ArinoaquaBut we were fine and this was out of the blue. We were talking on a daily basis.
Why would you message him again when he ignored your pleas to cut you loose? Keep your dignity.
I wasn’t sure how I could link to my other post but need advice. The post was called Second round, same Pisces. After months of communicating, he didn’t text for a bit and told me he would message me and get me up to speed. We were literally been messaging everyday and not only did he not get back to me on Thursday, I haven’t heard from him since Tuesday. Should I message him again? My last message was, if you want to let me go that’s fine, just tell me. I hate being here in limbo not knowing if I’ve been ghosted or what.
Posted by virgoOPPPI don’t want to date. I’d he doesn’t work out I’m ok being alone.Posted by RwalstonPosted by Arinoaqua
So...he’s done this twice now, made up some BS about messages not going through and says he wants to do things with you but doesn’t follow through 😐
What do you like about him again? The sex?
We have this strong connection and I just feel like we are meant to be together, especially if we got together again after all of this time. Yes, our sexual chemistry is off the charts, but that isn't the only connection. I keep reading that this is what Pisces men do sometimes.
well good luck but also try to date other people is all i'm sayingclick to expand
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by RwalstonPosted by sweethearts
Well if you don’t know the history you can’t give advice
Well he’s told you everything is fine and he’ll get back to you later. What do you want him to do? Drop whatever he is doing to cater to you because that’s what it sounds like. Give him the space he needs, let him breathe and deal with whatever is on his plate. He might not even tell you what it is but it’s not your business to know either unless he volunteers the information.
You’re heading in the right direction to be blown off if you continue your obsessive behaviour... it’ll wear thin in the end with a Pisces!
Did you read my first post? I feel like he is going to make up something. We haven’t gone this long without texting. I have learned not to put him on the spot and that he is sensitive to me even expressing my feelings. I am just trying to learn him.
I read his text.
You’re overthinking again... but do as you willclick to expand
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