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Posted by Jynja
If you really want to learn
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Scorpios are INTENSE
Leos are INTROSPECTIVE
And maybe, if you didn't see things as competitive, you could actually get some good opinions on here.
*Can't believe I was so eager to be of help.
Um, not being competitive just asking questions but apparently I need to rephrase them so as not to be misinterpreted. I should have initially asked how introspective are Leo's, specifically Leo's with scorp moons and do said Leo's keep these things within them or do they talk outwardly about them (in general, obviously not everyone is the same).
This place is so happy and friendly... Yup, *that* was sarcasm. why can't we all just be friends?!? Life's not that bad, really.
Thanks Jynga and Gandalf for your comments including the sarcasm and judgement. It has always been my understanding that scorps were the most introspective "still waters run deep" and all that so I apologize for my misunderstanding however I'm just here to learn.
You might be surprised to know that while I am a scorp I am also very intuitive and quite well connected to my heart energy. I have found an inner peace and happiness with myself such that I can live and be grateful without the need to judge or hurt others.
There is a Leo friend in my life and I am often told to stop overthinking things when I'm just trying to understand so perhaps Leo's and scorps just have different ways of looking within.
Does a Leo ever delve into these depths with others or is it deeply personal? Is it just known without conscious recognition? I ask because my Leo has also commented on wanting to find out who he is.
You might be surprised to know that while I am a scorp I am also very intuitive and quite well connected to my heart energy. I have found an inner peace and happiness with myself such that I can live and be grateful without the need to judge or hurt others.
There is a Leo friend in my life and I am often told to stop overthinking things when I'm just trying to understand so perhaps Leo's and scorps just have different ways of looking within.
Does a Leo ever delve into these depths with others or is it deeply personal? Is it just known without conscious recognition? I ask because my Leo has also commented on wanting to find out who he is.
so question... would a sun leo with a scorpio moon then be more introspective like a sun scorpio (even as a male) than a sun leo with another moon?
As a Scorpio woman I used to try and push someone to see how far I could. If it was easy then I'd lose respect for that person because I knew I could walk all over then and that they weren't my equal.
Not saying its right or wrong and its not something I do anymore but...
Not saying its right or wrong and its not something I do anymore but...
Thanks Jynga, I really appreciate your comments. And I've already been giving my 'stance' a little more thought.
I think for me it's coming from my past relationship where I went about things backwards and got hurt because of it. I also lost sight of who i was in the process which i dont want to do again. I know he's not the same guy but still it causes uncertainty.
For me I need to be chosen... Sometimes. I think really that's it and I need to be clear and thus a bit vulnerable with him in explaining all this (where my head is at/ previous issues). It's also not about asking him to change or be anyone other than who he is but rather what's enough for me.
He's coming over for dinner tomorrow night and I'm excited to just have fun with him but also to converse in an honest and open way to see if there is some common ground that works for us both.
From what he's told me we both lose ourselves when we fall for others so I can understand his needs atm too and hopefully my opening up to him about me will start something on a deeper level.
How would his scorpio moon relate to me scorpio sun? Any ideas?
I think for me it's coming from my past relationship where I went about things backwards and got hurt because of it. I also lost sight of who i was in the process which i dont want to do again. I know he's not the same guy but still it causes uncertainty.
For me I need to be chosen... Sometimes. I think really that's it and I need to be clear and thus a bit vulnerable with him in explaining all this (where my head is at/ previous issues). It's also not about asking him to change or be anyone other than who he is but rather what's enough for me.
He's coming over for dinner tomorrow night and I'm excited to just have fun with him but also to converse in an honest and open way to see if there is some common ground that works for us both.
From what he's told me we both lose ourselves when we fall for others so I can understand his needs atm too and hopefully my opening up to him about me will start something on a deeper level.
How would his scorpio moon relate to me scorpio sun? Any ideas?
Posted by seraph
Well there was no doubt at all that it would be a sexually-charged connection. Lol Leo-on-Scorp is a sizzler, I tell ya what.
So true!! It's killing me not to just do it again but in a way makes it worth it too (as I think I will again some day)
Posted by tiki33
But would you have jumped him had he told you day one he was not serious?
Tiki - the answer to that is probably still yes... what can I say - I'm a girl who likes sex and when the chemistry is that out of this world well then... ya. I don't at all regret having sex with him - in fact I do want more of it but I also don't want to settle for less than I deserve and knowing where he's at I would be with him (right now).
Let's also firm up that - 'right now' he does I think want more (he's a relationship type) but he made a promise to himself to be on his own (right now).
Posted by LunarMaiden
So she is using sex to get him to give her more. Now she wants to tell him she wants more, as if it's his responsibility now. Once you slept with him you communicated with him that it's okay to have sex and not be in a relationship.
Harsh crowd here. First some clarification... I had sex with him BECAUSE I WANTED TO - it was an amazing PHYSICAL connection, no more no less. I made that choice - he actually struggled with it because of where he was at but the chemistry was undeniable.
Also, I didn't ask him for anything - that's where I think most people get it backwards - they want to change a person/make them into what they want. I completely accept his decision on not being serious- as I did before I slept with him. I don't want to change him - nor would I even think I could. What I did was make a choice for MYSELF. I decided that what he had to offer wasn't enough for me and because of that he didn't get any of me - the hand holding/ kissing/ and sex had to stop and it has - though we continue to BOTH flirt.
I have no doubt I could sleep with him again if I wanted to and it'd be easy BUT... him and I both know that's not going to happen because I do want more. He can't give it (no ones fault, just how it is) but doesn't mean that connection isn't still there. He knows however that he can't get in my pants and that I'm strong enough to stand up to him but still enchanting (his word) enough to challenge him.
It's interesting...
Our charts are below - would his scorpio moon having anything to do with how we can connect?
Me:
Sun - Scorpio
Moon - Aries
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Sag
Mars - Scorpio
Jupiter - Taurus
Saturn - Leo
Uranus - Scorpio
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Libra
Lilith - Taurus
Him:
Sun - Leo
Moon - Scorpio
Mercury - Leo
Venus - Cancer
Mars - Libra
Jupiter - Scorpio
Saturn - Libra
Uranus - Sag
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Libra
Lilith - Capricorn
I am definitely a challenge to him but I think he likes it. He doesn't want anything serious right now because he wants to find himself outside of being in a relationship. I respect that.
Apparently him and I are very similar in that in relationships we both give a lot of ourselves often putting the other person first which I think might actually work well. Time will tell.
I feel good about it all though, he's still really flirty and does want me. I think the fact that he can't have me actually works in my favor. I'm a challenge in a way that most girls aren't to him.
I'm gonna keep living my life and keep flirting and having fun but he doesn't get my body or heart. If in time he is ready and comes back and I'm also free we can go from there.
We see each other almost every day too... Makes it interesting.
Apparently him and I are very similar in that in relationships we both give a lot of ourselves often putting the other person first which I think might actually work well. Time will tell.
I feel good about it all though, he's still really flirty and does want me. I think the fact that he can't have me actually works in my favor. I'm a challenge in a way that most girls aren't to him.
I'm gonna keep living my life and keep flirting and having fun but he doesn't get my body or heart. If in time he is ready and comes back and I'm also free we can go from there.
We see each other almost every day too... Makes it interesting.
Tiki... He actually was a good guy in it all... He actually didn't let things progress even though it was hard for him to do UNTIL he told me about not wanting serious.
I appreciated his honesty and jumped him anyway, my choice, no regrets. But I don't want to settle and he knows I'm worth it so I'm sure he'll come around. I appreciate that he has things he wants to accomplish before settling down.
Funny though he's been messaging me all day still. Even with me giving him a hard time about not realizing my awesomeness. Thanks guys for the confirmation!!!
I appreciated his honesty and jumped him anyway, my choice, no regrets. But I don't want to settle and he knows I'm worth it so I'm sure he'll come around. I appreciate that he has things he wants to accomplish before settling down.
Funny though he's been messaging me all day still. Even with me giving him a hard time about not realizing my awesomeness. Thanks guys for the confirmation!!!
Bullet points:
Hit it off with leo friend- spent night together no sex
Spent every other day for a week hanging out, completely affectionate - kissing, cuddles, date like...
Slept together (my choice) after he told me he's not ready for anything serious 'right now' (I couldn't deny the chemistry... And it was an intense connection for both of us)
-he took me out again, was easy and fun and affectionate (him reaching for my hand, etc)
-he went elsewhere for the big game on the weekend even though I asked him to join me and common friends. I was annoyed but didn't blame him rather decided that I won't let myself fall for someone who is not ready for me and told him this.
He's still being flirty, calling me babe and cute and alluding to me being 'marriage material' in a good way. Also still teasing about how good the sex was.
I told him I'm worth hanging onto and I think he knows this but for reasons I don't know he's not ready.
Is this typical of a leo? Will standing my ground get me anywhere or will he move on (if he does its his choice, I won't chase, I'll just be open about where I am at as I have been). Can I (or should I) be vulnerable with him in terms of where I am at?
Hit it off with leo friend- spent night together no sex
Spent every other day for a week hanging out, completely affectionate - kissing, cuddles, date like...
Slept together (my choice) after he told me he's not ready for anything serious 'right now' (I couldn't deny the chemistry... And it was an intense connection for both of us)
-he took me out again, was easy and fun and affectionate (him reaching for my hand, etc)
-he went elsewhere for the big game on the weekend even though I asked him to join me and common friends. I was annoyed but didn't blame him rather decided that I won't let myself fall for someone who is not ready for me and told him this.
He's still being flirty, calling me babe and cute and alluding to me being 'marriage material' in a good way. Also still teasing about how good the sex was.
I told him I'm worth hanging onto and I think he knows this but for reasons I don't know he's not ready.
Is this typical of a leo? Will standing my ground get me anywhere or will he move on (if he does its his choice, I won't chase, I'll just be open about where I am at as I have been). Can I (or should I) be vulnerable with him in terms of where I am at?
Anyone offer up compatibility on our charts?
Our charts...
Me:
Sun - Scorpio
Moon - Aries
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Sag
Mars - Scorpio
Jupiter - Taurus
Saturn - Leo
Uranus - Scorpio
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Libra
Lilith - Taurus
Him:
Sun - Leo
Moon - Scorpio
Mercury - Leo
Venus - Cancer
Mars - Libra
Jupiter - Scorpio
Saturn - Libra
Uranus - Sag
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Libra
Lilith - Capricorn
Our charts...
Me:
Sun - Scorpio
Moon - Aries
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Sag
Mars - Scorpio
Jupiter - Taurus
Saturn - Leo
Uranus - Scorpio
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Libra
Lilith - Taurus
Him:
Sun - Leo
Moon - Scorpio
Mercury - Leo
Venus - Cancer
Mars - Libra
Jupiter - Scorpio
Saturn - Libra
Uranus - Sag
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Libra
Lilith - Capricorn
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